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♥ My name is Kelly. I`m 17 years old. I live in a small town in Arizona. I`m a born and raised Christian. I love God, my family, and my friends. I have been through alot throughout my teenage years like from boyfriends, girl drama, loosing mediate family members, moving all the way across the country, starting new schools - making new friends! You can ask me ANYTHING and I will try my hardest to answer your questions. Please, don`t ask stupid questions because i will give you a stupid answer back. You can also email me at xstarbrightbabix@yahoo.com, IM me at xostarbrightbaby, Or my quote site. link is on the right module. =]

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Okay, well i need something to do around my house so i can get money. I really want a new iPod, because i dont like the one i have now. Any ideas, for around my house work?!

Do simple chores everyday like laundry and dishes. Then like once a week, clean the bathroom(s), clean your room, vaccum the WHOLE house, and dust. Also, making your parents bed works too. Ask your parents if they need any little things done. It should work. ♥ :)

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ok so my parents got a devoice 7 years ago. and last year my dad got married. my step mom WAS cool but now shes annoying. i get in trouble for the *dumbest* things when she asks me a question and i dont give her every single detail then she yells and cuses. and she spys on me and my step sister to see what where saying. and we cant shut our door they said they where gonna take it down.i dont get any privecy. HELP

I think that is so gay and rude. Seriously I hate when parents "lovers" try to take over. You should have your OWN privacy. Tell your dad how you feel. If your stepmom yells at you, then say something to her. You can also piss them off, if you get in trouble and your not allowed to go in you room with the door shut, go in the bathroom for awhile. Or go out to friends houses more. If you try talking to your dad first then hopefully you can get your stepmom convinced. ♥

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my name is jackie, and i just started adviceanoators. i was just wondering about how so many people actually come to your site. people you know? or were you found? i hope im not asking too much about this site. i just have lots of help to give, but im not sure if anyone will be able to see or want it ... would putting it on AiM help ? or would it just cause others to try and sign up.?

We`ll I usually just go to give advice on the left module and answer questions. Then people usually notice my name or like my answer and ask for some. Putting it on aim will help, but some people will want to join. If you an xanga or myspace try promoting it on there. Also adding a colmnist on your favorites will help and they will most likely add you back. That way other viewers from your favorite's sites can see your link and go to it, if that makes since lol. We`ll if you still need more help, just leave me another message in my inbox. =] ♥

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Okay i'm 12/f about to turn 13 in 2 weeks =] ! I really like this boy and yesterday i went to his house to hang out and i d k if this is slutty or what ? Well we was over there watching the Grudge and i was just laying by him, then we like moved to the floor and all the sudden he leaned over and we started making out. I like got on top of him and we like started having dry sex with are clothes on. Well he knew my turn on spot is my neck so he was kissing my neck and i just got really in the mood so he rolled over on top of me and we kept on doin it. Well then we stopped cause we heared someone upstairs so we were just laying there. And i let him finger me. And i was giving him a hand job all night !! Like every minute. Then hes like how bout you suck it for meee ? and i was like omg i never sucked one before soo yeah.. but we went downstairs but then we came back up after we did some more stuff.. okay now heres where it gets bad. We were laying on the couch and i like sucked his dick about 3 times and he wanted moreee. but we didn't have a condom . Well he fingered me again and left a huuuge hickey on my neck. Wow thats alot of stuf. Do you think thats slutty and just give me some advice on what i just told you . I feel slutty and guilty and i feel like hes useing me.

yes.

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I was logging on to my computer and my dad's screenname was on and i found some porn on his recent go-to sites. It made me really really mad. *&& said something about an escort [[yeah I know what that means]] it really hurts me. I want to confront him *&& my mom about it, but I know i'll get yelled at for my parents thinking i just went on his screenname at this time they wont believe me, because they recently grounded me from myspace. Please help me ! thank you

If you and your mom are alone, try to hint to her to go on the computer. Or tell her you want to show her something. Let her see it and then confront your dad and have her tell him she was browsing and found it.
For your dad you can tell him you accidently got logged on his screename and saw weird things. If you weren`t snooping around, then you shouldn`t get in that much trouble. But your mom should know about it because it`s really bad what your dad is doing.
I hope things work out. ♥

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Lemon Juice on hair and then going into the sun! What happens?

It`s suposse to lighten your hair. =]

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My brother and I threw this big 4th of July party at our beach house so of course there were some random people there that we didn't know. Well my brother overheard this one girl talking smack about me (I don't get why she'd come to my party if she has a problem with me but whatever) so he went up to her and told her to leave. They started arguing, he called her a bitch for what she was saying and how she was acting so she punched him right in the jaw and it busted his lip. I saw his fist clinch after she hit him but he held back and told her to get the fuck out or he'd make her leave. She left.


I was about to punch her back for punching him but he told me to not get involved. Actually, I kind of wanted him to punch her lol. I mean, I'm all about guys not hitting girls but it really ticks me off when girls hit guys just because they know the guy won't hit him back.


So I was just wondering what you guys would have done in this situation.

Your brother was really nice for sticking up for you. If I was in that situation, and I was your brother I would have gotten you right away and had you deal with it. She shouldn`t have hit him. But if I were you, I would try to talk to her in person and see what she has to say. Too bad she didn`t say that crap to your face. Hope your brother feels better. ♥

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ok im 13f i used to be really emo i wouldnt whair (sp) black all the time but i cut and like evryone could tell and would joke makefun of me 4 it and than afta school i started being normal but now im always in a bad mood and i cry for no reason and i just hate it what will help me not feel so depresed ps im still emo

If you are cutting still see someone, like your parents or an adult. People can be rude and don`t care if they hurt peoples feelings. Your friends can also help you out. Hang out with them more. Try to do things that make you happy. Don`t care what other people think or say about you. There are people out there that care about you, and love you. ♥

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Me & my boyfriend have been going through a really rough time the past few weeks, and we've finally got things back on track. I think most of the reason we got into so many arguments is because of me. I always throw things WAY out of porportion. I want to show him that I do love him with all of my heart & I never want to lose him.

On Saturday he'll be coming over to my house, and we'll be spending the night all alone. I want to do something REALLY special to show him I love him & apologize for everything that's happened the past few weeks! I want it to be HUGE! Something he'll never forget, just for me & him. No price limits or anything, [hehe, i'm getting paid this friday! soo, it doesn't really matter how much it is.]

We're both abstinent, soo nothing like sexual pleasee!! :]

Thanks soo much!

Buy him a gift, maybe something for one of hobbies or such.
Make a nice dinner for him. Something romantic like spaghetti or pasta. Set up the table with cute little candles.
Maybe rent some movies, a romantic one and a funny one is good.
If you have a pool, go swimming.
Take a walk at night.
Find a place to look at the stars.
Hope this helps. :) Have fun. ♥

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I asked this guy out on the last day of school. He said he would think about it and to call him in the morning. I call him his phones off so i just leave a message saying call me back. He never called me back so i asked him about it and he said im still not sure. So i asked my sister to ask him and he told her he likes me alot but hes starting his freshman year and he wants to be "free" plus he feels bad cus he turned down alot of girls on the last day of school. He wont call me now and he keeps tellin my friends hes not gonna answer me now cus hes made me wait to long. and Ya I relize he doesnt like me (i think) but now its awkward for us to hangout even just as friends. PLus my friends wont stop bugging him no matter what I say. Help!!

Don`t chase after him make him want you. If you date for abit he`ll realize your not playing with his little games anymore. If your friends keep annoying him then he will think it`s all because your begging them too. He will stop being your friend if they keep doing that. Take things slow, if he still doesn`t feel anything then maybe it`s better if your friends. You never know what the future holds. ♥

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My boyfriend and I have been going out for 9 months now and he said he loves me..How long do you have to be going out to know if you love someone. Or is it not time constrained??

No it`s not time constrained. You guys know eachother really good now, and love eachother. :D ♥

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Alright i am trying to download a new font to my computer. And when i do i save it and go to control panal and go to fonts and then click file and hit add new fonts but i look for it and i cannot find it!

Itss driving me absolutely crazy! Please help?

Try saving the font you want again, then before you save it select a folder your familiar with or select desktop then hit save. That way it will be easier to find. ♥

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When I got to log in myspace it saves my email like I'm not talking about the remember me box where you can check it, its like when the box is clear you put in the letter and your email pops up and its already there, how can i stop that and delete the others?

First, click on the area where you type your email and a list should come down. Quickly highlight the one you want to delete, and press delete on your keyboard. If it doesn`t work try selecting the list again and use the little up & down buttons on your keyboard and selecting the one you want to delete and hit the delete button on your keyboard. Sorry, It`s confusing but if you still need help, leave a message in my inbox and i`ll try to help. =] ♥

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i am going to a concert this saturday. its kind of pop-punk i guess. i really want to stand out in the crowd. what are some cute things i could wear. and are there any cool make-up or hairstyles i should do?

You can make your own shirt. Put the bands name on it. Make cute little designs. And for your make up wear dark eyeliner and wear lots of glitter lol. You can throw your hair up in a really messy bun if it`s long, or put glitter in your hair? Have fun. =] ♥

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I have had unprotected sex a lot and my boyfreind had accidentaly ejaculated inside me before quite a few times and while im on my period he always does because i've never gotten pregnant.. does this mean that i'll never get pregnant? is something wrong with me?

please help

You should really go to the gyno. It`s weird how you`re not getting pregnant since it`s around the time you have your period. Hope things are ok. ♥

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hi i am 21 female i usually masterbate using my fingure and get discharge. since last week i m not getting dischagre. is it normal? or any thing wrong with my sexual health

Not really sure, you can go to gyno and see. ♥

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Hi yeah i have a little problem my sister is 20 and i am 15 and her boyfriend lets call him tim while they have a 1 year old together but i got the massive hotts for him what should i do ? like they are soul mates but hes danm sexxxie and i dont knoe what to do ?

Your sister and her boyfriend are happy and love eachother. Don`t get involved. You can ruin their relationship. =/ Maybe try to talk to your sister about it? ♥

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hey , this is weird for me because im new but ive discovered thta i have pinworms and i would like to no if there is a way to treat them without going to a doctor or even tellin my parents because im kinda scared to how they will react so if there id a way could u please tell me ??

Wow, you should really go to the doctors as soon as you can. And no you can`t treat this without a doctor. I googled it and found out alot of information. Tell your parents because they can get it. =/ here`s the site:
http://familydoctor.org/139.xml

The doctor can also prescribe medicine so it will go away.
♥

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i get alll shy and stuff when around a guy i like and i can talk over msn and the ohone fine but when face to face i get all shy and i just want to runn away from them help ! how can i solve this problem does this mean im insacure about my body immage im 16 f

Alot of people are like that. It doesn`t always mean your insecure, if your always worried about what they think, if your not pretty enough, and stuff like that then you are. If you always feel shy in person, just slowly talk to them on msn or the phone till your are abit comfortable, then hang out with him with friends. After awhile you will start to feel comfortable. Hope this helps. ♥

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Okay, so im a 16/f and my ex boyfriend and I had sex a few times and we ended up breaking up, well i have this new boyfriend now, and i get (sounds so wrong) but i get wet really easily, like just from making out with him. Does sex from before cause this, or is it just something new?

Since you`ve had sex before-probally. Your probally just craving sex and stuff because you have someone new and haven`t done anything for a long time. ♥

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