My brother and I threw this big 4th of July party at our beach house so of course there were some random people there that we didn't know. Well my brother overheard this one girl talking smack about me (I don't get why she'd come to my party if she has a problem with me but whatever) so he went up to her and told her to leave. They started arguing, he called her a bitch for what she was saying and how she was acting so she punched him right in the jaw and it busted his lip. I saw his fist clinch after she hit him but he held back and told her to get the fuck out or he'd make her leave. She left.
I was about to punch her back for punching him but he told me to not get involved. Actually, I kind of wanted him to punch her lol. I mean, I'm all about guys not hitting girls but it really ticks me off when girls hit guys just because they know the guy won't hit him back.
So I was just wondering what you guys would have done in this situation.
He was right that you should not get involved in physical fighting, but I think you need to know what she was saying about you. In your position I would want to ask her to tell me what she said. That way you can deal with any rumours she may be spreading about you. It might be possible that she had been drinking a little too much and didn't know what she was talking about.
At the end of the day, all your true friends know what you are like so you should just hold your head up high and take no notice of her. Good luck. [ Elcee's advice column | Ask Elcee A Question ]
xostarbrightbaby answered Thursday July 6 2006, 3:39 am: Your brother was really nice for sticking up for you. If I was in that situation, and I was your brother I would have gotten you right away and had you deal with it. She shouldn`t have hit him. But if I were you, I would try to talk to her in person and see what she has to say. Too bad she didn`t say that crap to your face. Hope your brother feels better. ♥ [ xostarbrightbaby's advice column | Ask xostarbrightbaby A Question ]
samthebear answered Thursday July 6 2006, 3:37 am: you should just leave it as is. your brother was right not to involve you. you may be angry that she hit him but it was the right thing for your brother not to involve you. [ samthebear's advice column | Ask samthebear A Question ]
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