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Q: Lately i have been "wet" down there more often and its even when im not horny or anything. why is this?? im 13/f

It's either a discharge (period time: which is slimy) or a bladder control problem. Iff it's not discharge try to go to a doctor to get some medicine for the bladder problem b4 it gets totally worst!!

Q: I have diabetes so i dont drink regular sugared soda. I mean i can but i dunno i just dont really even like it. But anyways ever since i got it i have been drinking diet coke. I know its not as good as drinking water but is diet soda bad for you???

Diet coke is far safer than regular coke. You should have more than 1 or 2 8 oz glasses a day though.

But there are some mixes (eg crystal light) you can add to water to make it look and taste better.

Q: Since I have moved into my house I have painted my room Blue, mint green, and purple. It is not mint green and I am sick of it. I have a pretty big room and it has 2 windows. The curtains are blue. I have a computer desk with a computer, and shelves. I have a dresser with shelves, a queen size bed, a closet (not a walk-in) an amwa (SP?) a mirror, lots of stuffed animals, and a small table with a sewing machine on it. My room is basically always messy. How can I keep it clean? Also, I am sick of the color but my Mom won't let me repaint it. How can I convince her? Sorry it's so long!

♥ Kendall

Lol first off your room sounds pretty clustered *just like mine* lol.

No offfence but y not instead of a basic color u get someone to paint animals or objects on the solid color. Well I don't do much decoratin or paintin myself so I don't know

Q: I rate and leave comments.

Often when I'm on the phone with my friends the conversation gets boring. So I thought that telephone games may be what I need to spice the conversation up a bit. We already play this game called scenarios; where you give each person a scenario and they have to say what they would do. Any other fun telephone games (that AREN'T TO EDUCATIONAL) would be really helpful.

Haha...when I was like 9 or 8...my friend and I used to play this game. Like get a directory and just look for random numbers. IT's kinda fun especially if the person has a weird name...gets a good laugh out of you

Q: Could anyone tell me how you make the little hearts that you type in?? I have no idea how to do it! Plz help!!

I think the type of hearts the previous ppl have dun...are not the ones you want...am I rite?

Ok you go the character map...
you'll find it.

You have to go to start,
all programs,
acessories,
system tools and character map...

Q: Hi..I have Limewire and i want to burn CDs on it but my problem is I dont know how to burn CDs.So you please tell me how to burn CDs on Limewire(If it helps i have Windows XP).

*Thank you*

First of you can't burn songs from/on limewire. You have to have a program that burns them and make sure you PC is enabled to burn them. Ask your comp dealer or comnp tech if it is.

If it is ask them to put a cd burning software on your comp (roxio or sonic, etc) and you can burn them.

However if you comp is enabled to burn cd's you can use windows media and go to burn cds...n u can burn them

Q: I've got a simple question. Are most people with eating disorders already skinny? it seems only sticks become anerxic or belumic.

just curious

Lol yeah mostly them because they feel the pressure to stay that way

Q: What do i do if my bf and i fight all the time and im talking to other this other guy behind his bak that he faught and this other guy likes me? what do i do? they both like me alot. im so confused which one i should go 4 stay with mi bf or go 2 da other kid

Wel it's not to who likes u...who do u like?

Q: ok for my 8th grade graduation i need a dress...i want one thats not too dressy yet not too casual and isnt longer than my graduation gown so a little past knee length...can anyone give me suggestions of where to ifnd some for preferably under $100? some links would be helpful...tyvm

Why don't u make one?
I mean it'll fit you perfectly and luk jus how u want it. But I guess it's acordin to u

Q: Has anyone ever used the pillS called Vilantae and accutane, its supposed to help with face acne and stuff. If you have, has it worked? And, if you have used any other type of face products to rid of acne other then pro active please let me know as soon as possible. Thanks.

first off about the pills I have no idea. But the best way to get rid of acne is probably any 3 step program that contains a fair share of salicic acid. I don't use proactive I use Loreal Pur Zone. It relly helps and it's cheap. And um...with loreal pure zone if you think the wash isn't strong or the beads aren't good enuff change to neutrogena invigoratin scrub...it does work!!

Q: I really need to lose atleast ten pounds or more in a short amount of time. Does anyone have any advice as to some ways i could go about doing that? Please write back!

the point is you can't lose more that about 4 lbs a week. Well 1 lb or 2 a day is not that good. Figure out if it's relly weight u wana lose...or tone up ur body.

Eat healthy n exercise. Don't eat too much jus eat healthy. Drink water not coke n eat less snacks....u'll lose it

Q: okay so in school i sometimes need to fart.. its really weird because i dont eat anything before school ..so why do i fart? or need to?

Listen to watcha sayin..."i don't eat anything before school"...wen u do eat u'll ffind yourself wanting to fart cause off the air in ur stomach...so jus eat some breakfast

Q: Ok, this is a random question, but; is there a way to buy movies that havn't been released in American but in other countries for an extremely low price?

It's piracy n totally illegal....but I'm guessin if it's like in britain and it is goin to come out in us like 2 mnths n the dvd comes out u culd get one

Q: My friends and i were at my house last night. this morning her, lets call her 'Scout', scouts mom called and said, "apparently your a slut & ho" and scout was just like what? what are you talking about?, mom, "on your car in white nail polish it says Slut and Ho alll over the place!!!"

Her mom tried taking it off but it was taking off the car's paint as well. She has a brand new black PT Cruiser.

We're like 99% sure we know who did this. the thing is how do we press charges? and how would things go about? what would you do?

please help. im sorry its confusing but i'll rate good for good answers!

I'd tell the police...buh u hve to hve relllly good evidence

Q: I am in so much pain!!! This is my first period and I have been crying since about 8 this morning. I tried tylnol motron a heating pad a warm shower nothing works!! pleasew please please send advice i am in so much pain!

try midol and watever u do try to move places. Yeah I had mine 3 years and last month for the first time I had cramps n had to tke medicine 4 it. Try movin about a bit...i know it hurts and try takin midol. Don't worry u'll get used to it...

Q: ok, my period now has lasted 10 days, its medium but i wanna know what i should do? should i be worried?

Depends on ur age. My mommy had her for like 14 days or 16 Im not sure. Anyway hers started relly heavy and got her weak. I think you should go to a doctor cause she went on the 4th day and got some pill that either slowed it down or (i think this is what it does) stopped it

Q: I think i might have ocd...cuz like weird things happen to me like i was sitting in my room and i coodnt concentrate on anything but washing me hands...i started shaking and i got dizzy until i washed them and this morning i was getting my deoderant out and something in my cupboard fell over and i closed the door.....i walked away but all i cood think of was fixing it and it started to drive me crazy and i had 2 fix it and like it happens all the time

This is like a regular thing with people. It happens to me often...esp wen I jus didn't put it bac and I don't like how it looks. Anyway you probably have a attention span problem but not OCD. I kinda had OCD wen I was small and well I got over it. It's like wen u count stuff and wen u do things repeatedly..like touch somethign and count the times you do it.

Q: Hi. I am 14. My mom is VERY hard to work with. I have talked about shaving before, and she says "Why honey? Who do you need to impress?" I dont want to impress anyone I just want to shave. Well, if you can help me try and talk her into it or something. THANKS~

I started like last year april...n trust me my mom had no idea. I asked my grandma and she was like "no it's a tiring job. you got to keep doin it and you're not ready blah blah blah. So I jus did it cause I was 13...I was in a higher class than I was supposed to be in and everyone there was 14-15 and they did it. My mom saw it first and she jus said...oh u shaved your legs and she told my grandma. Wen grandma asked me I said no and she never asked again....but you know the moral of this story is: "you have to understand and let her know what and why you are doin this"

Q: I bloat a lot to where my stomach sticks out so far! It is embarassing. What are some ways to prevent bloating? Thank you.

Try midol. yah it's the period pill but it calms bloating n if it'w water that bloats you use a water pill. Anywhooo I think you should cut down on the food that makes you that way

Q: hii well im in this fashon show but im afraid because i have to go down the runway with my friend modeling dresses but im afraid because she is shorter and skinier than i am and she has a cute short dress but i have to wear a long gown. I dont want to feel compared to her and im afraid ill look stupid. i feel like a perfectionist and dont want to look worse than her. like i said, shes shorter and skinnier maybe even prettier and i know this sounds bad but if one of us looks worse than the other i want it to be her. im so messed up right now i just need help and il rate 5s easy! please help thanks !xoxo

Well the first thing is everyone is beautiful in their own way!! It doesn't matter if she's thinnner or shorter and it doesn't matter what type of dress yah got. The point is they gave u that dress because it compliments your body and they think you look great in it. Have confidence and portray yourself in a way that looks stunning. If someone says it looked bad that's their opinion and try to stay calm. of course you'll want her to screw up but you have to be the big one stay calm and elegant.