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I'm Samantha, 17, and I love to help others. If I'm not sure about something, I will tell you, but I will tell you all that I do know. =D

advice

I'm going back to school in about two months, so the summer vaca just began. When I go back to school I want to be different. I'm a nice person and everything and I talk enough, but I want to be more outgoing and more talkative and different. What should I do to change ?

i agree with the person below me, BUT changing that fast will make people think your fake. three girls at my school always smile, but i know everyone knows their fake. they told their ex bff that they only smile to make others like them.. wow, i wont say everything. but just SLOWLY when school starts, or now, start talking to other people, but all at once. just slowly do it. hope i helped

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I'm 14 and I was wondering what piercing I should get. I have my first holes, my top hole on my cartilage, and one a little below that in the middle. I want another piercing, but where. If on my ear, where and what type of earring ?

i say belly. they are so awesome and cute! i have two!.. haha.. they are great, but take goooood care of it!! hope i helped

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I am seventeen years old. I am funny. I think im attractive. and ive only had one real relationship and it 6th grade to 9th grade. My longest relationship now is probably a little over a month. I dont know what i do. I start talking to a guy and a week or two later they are sick of me. In this month, i have had my heart broken 3 times. it wasnt anything bad but it still hurt bcuz everytime i think i do something wrong.. what is something that i can do to make guys want to stay with me and love me? I want a long relationship and i want love. how can i get it?

are you talking to guys that you known since middle school?.. that might be the problem. i know i hate talking/dating guys iv known for that long. i met my boyfriend in 10th grade(last year) and we're still together. maybe go for an older guy?.. someone you never really talked to before. like you know them, but not friends. try that?.. hope i helped

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im 17 years old almost 18.
i have an amazing boyfriend who is everything i could possibly ask for.
today was our first time trying anything sexual.
we didnt have sex but we messed around.
im horrible at saying what i want to happen or not to happen.
its too late to sit down and set boundaries now.
i loved messing around with him and im comfortalbe with it but im worried that we havent waited long enough and that ill end up having sex with him. (which is something im not emotionally ready for)
i can talk to him easily and hes understanding but what do i do if i want to mess around and am comfortable with it but im not sure if its whats best for our relationship right now???

okay, so your saying you like to mess around, but dont think its that time yet. okay. well just tell him that. say you want to wait a little bit longer. but if you do mess around, tell him now that you dont not want to have sex yet. and if he starts to move to sex when messing around, say no.. hope i helped

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Hey everyone ,

I would love if you answered this question.
But will a relationship last if you and your parnter go to two different highschools and youve been dating for 9 months now. Do you think it will last?

Thank you so much!
Betty.

oh hunny for sure!.. iv been with my boyfriend over 9 months and hes going to college, we love each other, no question, as long as you both trust each other and know you yourself wont do anything to hurt the relationship, it'll be fine!!.. hope everything works out

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All this summer, i had ok fun, but I want excitment! Adventure, not help the old lady cross the street adventrue, but amazing adventure. I've tried to stur things up a bit in my town, which is known to hold most of Van Buren, MI's drug dealers, malesters, and murderers. I mean come on! All I"m asking for is a little danger, adventure and maybe something to make me known for something GOOD in my town cuz all I'm known for is the-girl-who-writes-books-too-much. I love to write, but more adventure will help with this! Any advice to bring up the volume in my town will seriously help! :D

have a town party?.. make signs and put them up everywhere. if you have the money to rent out the street for a night, then do that, get a DJ and just have a good ol time. get food and everything, hope i helped

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m/13 hi i order abercrombie kids of the internet because i dont live in america but im going there for my holidays this year. Im size large in kids and i was wondering if thats small in the adults???? also what ages is abercrombie and fitch for and will i get strange looks if i walk in there alone or hollister. is abercrombie kids shop like the ANF shop, dark lights loud music etc......also is there more clothes in the shop than on the website???? thanks

im not sure about the large in kids small in adults. try on what you like. but abercrombie is mainly for teens. 13-20something. and yeah it does have dark lights and loud music. and no you wont get weird looks!.. haha, unless your like ten, but if your a teen im sure youll be fine!.. and yes abercrombie has tons of cloths!. make sure you take a look at the sales table!. hollister is the same, mainly teens. they have a lot of good things on the sales table!.. hope i helped some!

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alright so i'm 13/f and ive been begging my dad to buy me a cell phone and he might. the thing is that i need one that comes with minutes, like if i buy a cell it comes with 100 minutes or whatever. i really want a razr phone and it HAS to be AT&T (Cingular) is there such thing as getting one like this?

im not sure about a razr, but i got a pay as you go phone, mine is really small and black its so cute!.. but i dont have minutes i have a plan. but buy a pay as you go phone, there are cingular ones, i have cingular..

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okay so my mom blcked myspace adn xanga from my labtop :[ does anyone know how to unblock them ? and also i use to go t oxangas adn fine cute quotes. and now i cant .does anyone know soepace instead that have quotes it ? thank you sososososoososos very much!

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On the ProActiv package, I always see pictures of girls with horrible acne and groggy scars....and the picture of them AFTER using ProActiv shows them with totally perfect skin, no scars.


Does ProActiv help fade scars?

i have it, and it doesnt help me, not really. i used it for a month straight, without missing a night, and it helped SOME, but not like the pictures. i dont have any scars from acne, but others from chicken pocks and they didnt go away, so maybe its the same?.. but anyways, it just might be the skin of mine, i know it didnt help my friend either and she has scars. im thinking the people on tv use speical make up, but i think it really depends on your skin. sorry i didnt help much, but i just wanted to tell you it doesnt work for some people.

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Help me! My mom is too overprotective! She told me that I can't get a boyfriend until I'm OUT OF COLLEGE! How do I tell her that I would be WAY TOO OLD by the time I'm out of college to get a bf?

so i dont know about you, but when i enter college ill just turn 18, and when your 18 you pretty much make up your own rules. what your mother doesnt know wont hurt her. have a boyfriend, but dont tell your parents. even know.. hope i helped

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15 f
I've been looking somewhere for birth control pills, I've done a lot of research and all I can find is planned parenthood, but there isn't one where I live, is there any other place where i can get birth control without my parents?
(I don't get along with either of my parents. it's a long story, but PLEASE don't judge me or call me a whore. I know what I'm doing)

thank you

go to the guyintolagest(spelling haha) but a female needs doctor, and ask for them. tell your mom that you would like to go there bc your thing is hurting.. that might work?.. lol.. make up something with girl probelms. tell the doctor not to say anything to your paretns. and they wont. their not allowed in the U.S. if you dont want to come right out and say i want birth pills then if you have acne say you want them for your face. or that you want your periods to come when their suppose.. hope i helped

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Hi there,

My cousins girlfriend is sniffing around my man, I don't think she's attractive at all, but she seems to think she is.

I'll try and add a picture in a bit

Also, what would be a good way to really humiliate her - just so she learns her lesson?

beay her ass.. haha no, im joking. but maybe like hang out with her and your cousin one day and make her trip when walking(like make her fall down) or get her to spill something on herself, not like water or pop, but colored pop(red) and hopefully shes wearing a white shirt.. so it will stain. but YOU cant spill it you know?.. like act like your walking towards her, make sure shes holding the drink, and look away when walking and run into her and maybe help the drink pour a little.. hahaha.. or just to be mean and not really care, go up and dump a drink on her.. thats always really funny, i did it before, its great..

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14/f
I'm in love with this guy named "billy" and he has a history of bein a player. but i didnt know this until we got serious.
Well i went through his myspace last night when i was bored...
And he deffinately has a history of playen chicks.

Well we've been dating since 9-21-06..
And there was this on message in there from 4-10-07 and he asked his ex... "ill leave u alone bout it if u let us be friends wiff benfits " word from word of what he said to her!

And there is a bunch of other stuff suggesting he has messed around.

should i let it go because it was in april? and he doesnt really see that girl any way.

I asked him about it and he said "B" has his mysapce password and he said how he was going to get "B" for that blah blah blah. Well i asked "B" about trying to get to him before "Billy" could and he said hell no!

Then i asked if he was sure and i sent him the message he said no i didnt,and i really need to talk to "billy" and i cant let him play me like this...

And i dont know who to believe and i cant stop cryin! And me and "billy" have had lots of fights about this kind of stuff. and sometimes he sounds guilty and other times he doesnt.

I'd really like it if some guys answered this because they are guys and they can prolly tell if he is not more easilsy..or whatever.

I'm trying to stay strong and not worry about it but everything i do normally involves "Billy".
Passwords are his name. and his pictures are everywhere!

Please help me!! And thanx in advance!
If you have any questions about it please ask!
Any advice is helpful right now!
Thanx!! **Me**

"ill leave u alone bout it if u let us be friends wiff benfits "
that to me sounds like he doesnt care about you.. friends with benfits makeout and more. ew no, just dump him. i mean really, hunny your 14, and im sure your beautiful and you dont need him. you'll find someone wayy better and will only think of you!!.. hope i helped

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im already thin, but have no muscle on me. if i do 100 crunches a night, about how soon will i see results?

a month?.. make sure you eat the right foods, if your eating all fatty foods, the crunches most likely wont help.. hope i helped

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I have wanted mine done for ever but my dad says it's skanky... he finally told me I could get it done but then i told him no cuz i remembered that i pierced myself and i have like a ball type thing under my skin like a scar or something. None the less i didnt want him to find out so I didn't get it done. I just found out I can still get it pierced even if it has that scar. The only problem now is trying to get him to let me get it done. It was a big pain in the ass to convince him the first time so what can I do to help the process and hopefully get him to say yes!?

tell him you were scared when he said you could, but now you want it. and the scar thing, it will hurt more then usual, bc the skin is harder, but you can just get the bottom done too, it doesnt hurt.. hope i helped

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Me and this guy dated for about 5 years. then we broke up and he started dating my best friend. I know shady and betrayl but I just let it be. Now they are still together, but he is messing around with one of my cousins. He told my cousin that he didn't like casey as much as he liked my cousin (Sam). So sam told me and she said that he had asked her if he could kiss her. Sam said no but that is still cheating in some sense on casey. I'm not sure what to do because i know this and even though casey and me are touchy on her and her bf i still love her. she has been my best friend since before we could walk. should i tell her? what should i say? or should i stay out of it? it's not really my business anyway but she is my best friend and i know how bad he can hurt girls like that. what do i do???

your friend will most likely not believe you. then if she doesnt, have your cousin and the boy sit down with casey and then he cant really lie. he might, but that is the best way to do it. i hope she believes you, and everything goes well.

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I'm a bit "out there" and wacky, and I like doing weird stuff to my hair.
Its about halfway down my boobs, brown, and straight to sometimes wavy.
I want to do more things to it...
can you give me ideas?
I already do spiky side buns, Princess Leia buns, pigtails, side braids, hair up with chopsticks and of course just parting it differently.
Any other ideas?

differnt wild highlighted colors.. a crazy hair cut?.. black/red tips.. hope i helped..

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Okay i swim most of the summer and i have a really big problem. Like a lot of kids from my class just hang out all at the pool all summer too. So i really want to look OKAY but i have wavy frizzy hair. Like really bad. When i put products on it it looks fine, but when i swim they wash out and when we are getting snacks or taking a break and my hair starts to dry it is reallly embarrasing. Is there anything i can do besides put it up? Because i hate swimming with my hair up.
Also, I saw in Seventeen magazine this stuff that you put over your makeup to make it all waterproof. But it was kind of expensive ($30) and i was wondering if there was a cheaper version of this stuff? And does it work?

take your hair stuff w/you.. im not sure about the make-up.. but just it with you and reapply it..hope i hoped

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so i want my belly button pierced, but dont want my belly button ruined. like i dont want a scar there after i decide to take it out. do you have one? and like how likely is it? oh n pictures please? also, did you ever change it before the 6 months that yur supposed to?

the scar wont be big unless it gets ripped out. i have mine done twice. i changed them both before the 6 months. the first one about 2 months after and the second one about 2 weeks after. dont do what i did with the second one.. lol.. hmm.. dont touch it a lot when you get it done. about 5 times a day. clean it twice and twist it 3 other times. dont swim in a lake or river. and if it gets infected dont use rubbing alcohle. it eats the skin. swimming in a pool cleans it, but clean water, dont dirty nasty water. any more questions ask me..

for the picture, if you want to see mine, message me and i'll send you my myspace link and add you as a friend so you can go see mine. im not sure how to send it on here, and thats the only way i can think of lol..
aim= xo sam e kay 09
if im away then just leave a message and i promise to get back to you..

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