14/f
I'm in love with this guy named "billy" and he has a history of bein a player. but i didnt know this until we got serious.
Well i went through his myspace last night when i was bored...
And he deffinately has a history of playen chicks.
Well we've been dating since 9-21-06..
And there was this on message in there from 4-10-07 and he asked his ex... "ill leave u alone bout it if u let us be friends wiff benfits " word from word of what he said to her!
And there is a bunch of other stuff suggesting he has messed around.
should i let it go because it was in april? and he doesnt really see that girl any way.
I asked him about it and he said "B" has his mysapce password and he said how he was going to get "B" for that blah blah blah. Well i asked "B" about trying to get to him before "Billy" could and he said hell no!
Then i asked if he was sure and i sent him the message he said no i didnt,and i really need to talk to "billy" and i cant let him play me like this...
And i dont know who to believe and i cant stop cryin! And me and "billy" have had lots of fights about this kind of stuff. and sometimes he sounds guilty and other times he doesnt.
I'd really like it if some guys answered this because they are guys and they can prolly tell if he is not more easilsy..or whatever.
I'm trying to stay strong and not worry about it but everything i do normally involves "Billy".
Passwords are his name. and his pictures are everywhere!
Please help me!! And thanx in advance!
If you have any questions about it please ask!
Any advice is helpful right now!
Thanx!! **Me**
Additional info, added Friday June 29 2007, 7:45 pm: I have asked other people if they thought he was cheatin and stuff and some said they think he would and others think he wouldn't. And me and him are really close. I mean seriously I just told him the week of 15th I was ready to tell him everything and anything and stuff like that. Because I was afraid to before and then me and him talked an dhe basically convinced me that I can trust him!!
And I was afraid of before was that if I did trust him fully with everything I would get hurt.
And now look!! :'[ Figures!!!!
He is like my freaking world! And im afraid to lose him, and I dont know what to do because "B" has been known to lie and he is also the player type and a major flirt!
And "Billy"'s dad said if he did ever do anything stupid like that he would be in trouble. And I'm very close to his family.
This whole thing scares me because I'm soooo close to "Billy".. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? summer_is_love258963 answered Friday June 29 2007, 5:53 pm: unfortunatly, i have alot of experience in this subject, and ill let you know what when ever a guy gets busted for saying something he shouldnt have online, he'll blame it on his friend. (this has happened to me many, many times) soo im guessing it was him who sent the message, i doubt his friend would do that to him, and if his friend really did send it im sure he would admit it to youu.
even though it was a while ago that he cheated on you, you deff. still have a right to be mad.
my advice to you, dump him. he sounds like a hugee jerk. and if he cheated on you once, he's very likely to do it again..
hollister_lover09 answered Friday June 29 2007, 5:35 pm: "ill leave u alone bout it if u let us be friends wiff benfits "
that to me sounds like he doesnt care about you.. friends with benfits makeout and more. ew no, just dump him. i mean really, hunny your 14, and im sure your beautiful and you dont need him. you'll find someone wayy better and will only think of you!!.. hope i helped<3 [ hollister_lover09's advice column | Ask hollister_lover09 A Question ]
Master_Betty answered Friday June 29 2007, 5:34 pm: If "B"had his password for myspace and he knew about it, then why didn't he change his password?
Sounds to me like he wants to have his cake and eat it. It's ultimatly up to you, but why dont you ask some people who know you both if they suspect him of cheating? [ Master_Betty's advice column | Ask Master_Betty A Question ]
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