I'm a fourteen year old girl looking to help you people out. Leave me questions and i can try my best to answer them.
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Ok, i'm not into that whole bf/gf thing, so unless you really like me or something weird like that, don't ask me those stupid does he like me questions. i can almost garentee you're not going to like your answer.
i'm a little crazy, but for the most part, i'm not going to screw with you guys like with jokes when it comes to advice.
Gender: Female
Location: Boston Ma.
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Age: 14
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What do women really want from a guy? What will make a girl want you so badly it hurts? (link)
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treat her like she's the only person in the whole world. women love that. i love that. if a guy acted like i meant everything to him, i'd probably up and marry him jk jk, but really, thats what we want. or its what i want atleast. :-)
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all my friends have got got boyfriends and i havent (im 14 and female), i havent even been with someone, n im scared that they will call me frigid, my mates boyfriend keeps saying 2 me that his mate will go out with me but ive neva met him n i dont wanna go out wit him either.
has any1 got any advice for me??? (link)
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well, just tell people that maybe you are happy just being single. *gasp!* but why not? Why can't a girl be happy just being single? don't date him if you're happy just as things are and you don't really don't want to.
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I think I might be bipolar. How can I tell? And can I get tested w/o my parents knowing bout it? (link)
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yes, go to a phyciatrist. patient confidenciality.
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whats bipolar mean? (link)
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having unbelievable moodswings from really really happy to like suicidal depression
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ive noticed that alotta people have questions on people they believe they are in love with and so on but sum of the people are realli young and i dont think that they notice that being in love and loving sum1 are 2 totally different things....well thats what i think i was just wonderin other opions on bein in love and just lovin sum1 (link)
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being in love is like romantic crap
loving some one is like loving your best friend.
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I have an oppsetion i have to mow the lawn everyday my parents are really worryed about my problem what should i do????? (link)
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OCD, you otta talk to a phyciatrist.
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Hey. I'm friend with a lot of guys in skool. they hate ehrn im not around. all they do is talk to me and stuff. i dont like any of them but, im a girl. should i hang out wit otha girl or stay friends wit the boyz? (link)
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boyz rock, hang out with the guys if they make you happy. girls are catty and cruel and mean (i know i am one). hang with both!
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Im havin diffcult evr since my 23 year old cuzin died what shuld i do? i rele miss her! help me asap (link)
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keep your head up high and stay close to your family. remember the good times (as corny as that sounds) because the worst thing in the world is to not remember things about her. i know. i lost someone close to me recently, and its scares me that i can't hear him laugh.
try and keep her close to you despite the fact that she's gone. she'll always be with you.
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At my school, I'm like the only one who doesn't know anyone in my class. I don't want to be left out. I want people to notice me. How can I get some people to look at me and say she looks like a nice girl or something. I want to get to know some people. I'm trying to take advantage of this! Thanks! -Charlee (link)
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be out going. flirt and act cute. it doesn't matter what you look like, just act like your the queen of the world. be confident, and talk to random people.
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my friend is cuttin her wrist and stuff wat should i do to help her? (link)
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as bad as it sounds, you have to tell her parents. they will know how to help her. If not, get her professional help. i don't know her parents and i don't know her, but maybe if her parents aren't a good choice, go to a trusted adult, like a school conseuler or maybe a teacher both of you like. just get her to stop. don't say stop for me, because that will make her feel more guilty and bad and stuff.
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hey im a child star, which means that i do tv shows and commercials and stuff, and my agent called me and wants me to be in this movie...and this movie will take up 2 months of the school year..i cant miss school, but i cant miss this movie oppritunity. wht do i do? help!!! (link)
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take the movie opertunety and get a tutor for those two months. if you work hard with your tutor, i'm sure you can do it.
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i love all my friends dont get me wrong but i really like one of my friends and he knows i like him but he has a girl freind and i think he likes me but i really dont know what to do?? (link)
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if he has a gf, then he probably doesn't like you. but if its going to make you crazy ask him
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Ok. Im fat is there neway i can get skinner by tha time skool starts on Sep.7 and i need to work on my stomach area. (link)
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sit ups. if you want to be drastic, i suppose you could pick up an eating disorter, but those are just kinda well, weird and i wouldn't recomend it. run and eat healthy food. be athletic. burn more calories than your eating.
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is it normal for me to be crying over little things when i get my period??
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yes. very. i did yesterday.
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ok...i live in st.louis and my b-day is this november...well i want to have a hole bunch of friends over but i have no clu what to do at my party! like i dont want to get in truble for beaing to loud or anything.....but wuld be some good stuff to do and i cant do a pool party cuz i dunt have a pool :/ i need good ideas! plz help (link)
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get ur parents a hotel room far far away . . . .
jk jk, ok tell the folks you want to hold a bash! then say like with loud music and stuff, so they'll be perpared. then at the party just have fun. you know, get people dancing, and play games and PARTY it up!
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for skin-i have pimples on my cheeks and chin and i want clear skin be4 school...any ideas anyone?
for hair-i have blonde hair, down just a little bit past my shoulders, blue eyes, im 5'3'' and skinny, what type of cut should i get (no bangs).?? (link)
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skin: clearasil and oxy pads work WICKED WICKED WICKED GOOD!
hair: if its not curly, layer it, if it is, get a straight cut but not too short
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Kevin1986 here again. I've been hearing a lot about guys only look at looks and everything like that. Lemme set the record straight here. If a girl is hott,she's a lot more likely to get asked out,true enough. But very few guys will tolerate a hot bitch. We're much more likely to go for the average looking girl with a great personality. I get pissed when we're made to look the bad guy and not every guy is as shallow as you describe. And besides,who are you more likely to ask out,Brad Pitt or the nice fat guy down the street? Stop being so hypocritical. (link)
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well, ask the fat guy down the street out and then talk! guys turn girls down because their not hot enough, or w/e. i dunno if you've been reading all these questions and all, but there are a lot of guys out there that only care about looks. granted there are a lot of girls out there the same way, they just don't make it as obvious!
but good for you for defending your people!
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My boyfriend hangs around more with his "girl" friends then me. At the end of the day when we are waiting on the bus, he'll go and talk with his friends (girls) and not me. It makes me sooo mad! One of the girls is his ex girlfriend! and the other ones really like him. He's being a jerk! What's his problem and what should I do about it? Thanks so much! I RATE HIGH! (link)
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tell him you are so crazy in love with him, that it bugs you when he is hanging around with his ex.
Keep in mind that your girl friends come before your boyfriend (well, at my school it is anyway) and that his friends would be pissed if he just kinda ditched them for you.
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me and my boyfriend have been going on out for 9 months now, and we recently broke it off for about 2 weeks and i had the time of my life..but we got back together because i know i love him and dont want to be without him..but the fun i was having was gone..now hes been gone for 2 weeks and once again ive been back to having tons of fun..idk what does this mean? what should i do.. (link)
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break up with him and have fun! party it up.
Eh, if you want to, stick through it, and see if he can have fun to. lemme just say, its always fun to be single. (thats why i never intend on getting married or having a boyfriend.)
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I might be suicidal. i dont know but i do think about killling myself a lot
so i guess i am... so someone help... and actually help! (link)
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talk to a conseullor, like a school conseullor or your parents or something like that. Ending your life is the most awful thing in the world. There is always something worth living for, for me it was the man i fell in love with, despite the fact that i'll never have him. Find something you love. If its your parents, your dog, your cat, FOOD ANYTHING! just find something to hang onto. there are things in life worth living for, you just need to find it. There is no way to make up for a mistake/choice like suicide. Life is to percious to just end. keep that in mind. Find something to love, and live for it no matter how small or insognificant you think, or others think it might be. just don't end it like that.
I think everyone at least thinks about suicide once in awhile, but actually doing it and trying is when you really need help. when you find yourself actually planning it, you need to talk to someone you love and trust.
i really hope i helped, and please feel free to leave something in my inbox. let me know if you feel better and stuff. i don't know you, and that might make it easier to talk to me. i'm here for you, despite the fact that we never met.
hang through it.
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