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hey guys! my name is cait♥ and i adore giving people advice. my obsession is 8th&ocean. i even have the theme song as my ringtone ; ] hehe. anyways im a cheerleader and i love every minute of it. well dont be afraid to ask me certain questions because im always here for you = ]. thanks for coming here and reading this. so you like my advice? add me!! = ]]. cait♥

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I'm thinking of like starting my own business. I mean I've in 4-H for about 4 years now and I'm 15. I trained both my dogs through it. I'm thinking of maybe putting an ad in my local paper for it. I'm actually pretty good at it to. Last year I got first place in agility and obedience. If I decide to go for this, how much should I charge? I still want to keep it cheap because people could train their own dog or go into puppy classes and actually be taught by an expert. But I still want to make a profit of it but still keep it cheap. How much should i charge weekly

hey, i think thats a great idea! put signs up and put an add in the newspaper. i think you should charge depending on the dog. if it has had ANY experience with being trained or not. also how many hours and days a week that you would be training that dog. cait♥

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Is there any way that you can hear a song on the radio, record it onto a tape (you know, the old casette tapes), and record THAT onto a CD?

If there is, please tell me! A song I LOVE isn't out on a CD yet and I need to put it on my iPod.

Many thanks.

hey, thats not possible! but what you could do is download i-tunes and buy it there for 99 cents. cait♥

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I am torn. Prom is in a few months and i still don't have a date, heres my situation:

1.) theres a guy at school that all of a sudden started showing more intrest in me- compliments me, talks to me more, acts weird. My friend keeps telling him that he should ask me b4 im taken and i told her stop, he just kinda gets awkward and quiet, and still has not asked me (yet he tells me were destined to go together)

2.) theres another guy at work (younger) that i like hes really nice and i think he likes me. I just don't know how to ask him and what he'll say since i haven't hung out with him out of school much.

What would you do and who would you go for? They both kinda show the same signals of liking me so i don't know wat to do. Thanks in advance

hey, i think the first guy really likes you, but is too shy to ask you himself! he is trying to make you ask him and is hinting you on. so ask him. the second guy i dont think you know as well. so i wouldnt go for him. go for the first guy. cait♥

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hey you answered my questions about those excersizes to make your boobs bigger, and could you explain them a bit better please, and about how long each day they should be done? thanks sooo much ♥♥

hey, um i dont think that i could explain them better. i pretty much did it to the best of my ability. but you should do it three times a day. once in the morning. once in the middle of the day. once at night. any wqhere between 3-5 minutes a day. start off with 3 and as you do it more often go to 4 then go to 5. also do this excerise to your favorite song. it motivates you. any further questions about this or anything dont hesitate to send me something in my inbox. cait♥

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Tomorrow is this dance. I will see my crush there. I don't call it a cruch though cause we both like e/o. Well, today my best freind told me she can't go anymore cause she is grounded. There is like a 5% chance she may be able to go. My crush is getting my ticket. I know it wil hurt him if I don't go. I really really don't want to though, I won't know anyone, just like 5 poeple. Should I just suck it up and go? Or do what I want to do?

hey, i think you should just go wheter your friend goes or not. if you really realyl ahte it have your mom pick you up. an excuse to tell your crush if you dont want to go is that your sick. cait♥

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Can you get an infection or disese or anything if you leave your pad in too long?

hey, you cant get anything from ealving a pad in. you could get toxic shcok syndrome from leaving a tampon in tho. cait♥

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i REALLY want to die my hair dark brown. Right now its a dirty blondish . The only problem is my mom wont let me . I have tried convincing her but she says im 14 and i dont need to at my age.But I really want to . Is there anyone who ran into this problem when they were about my age and whatd they do to convince there parents to let them die it . Or does anyone have any ideas of what i could say to convince her . Thanks && ill rate high for anything that will help. !

hey, dying your hair is terrible for your hair and you have to get it constantly done. its annoying. but if you must. use a temporary dye. tell her that you will pay to get it done verytime. cait♥

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I am possibly thinking about going on an airplane in the near future and would like your advice/opinions about Airplanes. I would like to know who has been on one, How do you like flying, What do you love about Flying, what do you hate about flying and what advice you would give to me if I were to fly. Feel free to answer my question and really good advice in great detail will get a 5.

hey, flying is very fun. there is tubulance which means the plane is very bumpy. dont get scared when that happens tho, its perfectly normal. the thing i love about flying is that is relaxes me. the thing i hate is the take-off. its rather fast and annoying. cait♥

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hi, when ever i try to watch a video, from a website , it doesn't work. i click the link, and a window comes up as usual, but it doesdnt play, on wwe.com it sayd ready, so i press play, and it connects, and says ready again. on another website, it says that theeres no media in the playlist. it happens everytime. what is wrong???

thank you :)

hey, i have no clue. see if any of those sites has like an emial adress to email the "manager" type person of the site. cait♥

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During the summer I work at a sleepover camp from Sunday afternoon to Friday evening. Thus, I'm not going to have any time to be online. I'll be gone completely for 3 and a half months give or take. I don't want people asking me questions and expecting answers. I don't want to get suspended, lose moderator status, or, put simply, have anything negative happen.

Is there a way I can go "on leave", set my account to inactive, or something of that nature? If so, how do I do it? If there isn't anything like that, what are the consequences (good, bad, and indifferent) to being gone for that amount of time?

I'll deal with any consequences of course, I'd just like to be prepared for what I see when I sign back on in September. Even if nothing will happen to my account during my absense I'd still like to do this as a sort of courtesy to other users.

I'm sure somebody on here has been gone for long periods of time. What happens? Any suggestions? Detailed, easy to understand answers will be appreciated. I have a tendency get confused easily.

Thanks,
sizzlinmandolin


P.S. I'll miss everyone. :)

hey, i dont see a reason to why you would get suspended. simply post a note saying im gone on vacation and wont be back until september in all capital letters in your advice column. cait♥

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i m 25 years old. when ever i think or watch about any thing related to sex there some liquid start to flow from my vegina. i mostly feels wetness through the wholeday. i just wanna ask that i m sinle not a married one, does it can be harmfull form me or not......otherwise please give me some advise to avoid these situations.......please please im really worried. u must tell me

hey, im not sure about that. ask a doctor or a gyno. cait♥

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Ok so I knoow about cinco de mayo and stuff but what the hell is 4 20???????? I am so confused.. I know it's the 20th of april but is there some reason it's celebrated or something...and what exactly is it?

hey, 4-20 is pot day! lol. cait♥

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how much do nose jobs cost, and what is the youngest age you can get them? say 14?

hey, teh age doesnt matter as long as you get a parent/guardian to sign. if you dont the age is 18. the cost depends on what your getting done to your nose. cait♥

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What is the best way not to let your period from leaking during ball? I don't wear tampons.. I useally wear the underarmor shorts underneath my shorts to prevent it but it makes me run like a chicken..lol.. what should i do? we wear a light color shorts btw

hey, buy the extra thick pads. bring extras to the gaes/practices also. cait♥

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i know there are like excerisizes to make a guys penis bigger, but are there any to make your breasts bigger?

hey, there is an excerise to make your boobs bigger. make a fist on both your right and left side. line your fists up so there touching each other. pull your fists apart so that you are still in a fist but your fists are now facing forward. keep pulling in and otu like that and that show increase your boobs. you will not see an effect right away so dont expect one. youll see it in about a month. cait♥ EDITS: SORRY I DONT REALLY KNOW HOW TO EXPLAIN IT BETTER. THAT WAS KINDA IN FULL DETAIL. JUST DO IT THE EBST YOU CAN.

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When i was 6 i was put up for adaption..and i lost touch with all of my brothers and sisters. Well one of my 5 siblings was also put up for adaption after me. I recently found her on myspace and i sent her a message..and im nervous like she was on today and i sent her a message but she dosent answer its like she dosent even care..what should i do??

much lovee
lila

hey, she may not know what to do because she was so startled. this is a big thing to have your long lost sister to just send you a message. give her some time to think about whether she wants to reply or not. she may or may not reply. best of luck! cait♥

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OMG i need to know like right now! im going to the fall out boy concert TONIGHT and i have no idea what i should wear.. its at the palace and i think im in seats not standing.. so any help would be great!!! thanks!!!!

hey, omg sounds so fun! well usually at rock concerts like that you may start out seated but you will end up standing. anyways places like that tend to get very HOT. so i would wear classic jeans with a cute cami. for the shoes wear flipfops. antoher good diea would be jeans short sleeved shirt and sneakers or flipflops. also bring a sweatshirt just incase. have fun! cait♥

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I lovee my current girlfriend soo much! SHe has been gone for 10 days on vacation with her parents to Canada. Last night I had two friends over. One is an ex who I am still good friends with. The history on us? It was a short 1 month thing. The classic friends giving the 'somethin more than friends' thing a try that didnt go well.
Well me and her were laying on my bed and my friend was next to us. Her body was not close to mine..but i was resting my head close to her and my hand was on her shoulder. I was extremely tired about to fall asleep. Is this cheating in some way to you? I mean i have other friends that are girls who will rest their head on my stomach while playing video games..and it is absolultey nothin romantic about it because we are strictly friends and both have different love interests and 'types.'
My ex thinks it was nothin..but should i tell my gf about this? If she ever found out she would flip out because she is extremely sensitive on the topic of me and my ex. She finds it odd we hang out because we are exes. *keep in mind its not like i hang out alonnne with this girl* I have a big group of friends kind of and we hang out together kind of thing.

well..do i have anything to feel guilty about?

hey, thats not cheating. dont feel guilty cause theres nothing to feel guilty about. i would tell her that you hung out with that girl and other friends at the same time. i wouldnt mention that you layed her head near her or w/e you did. because its not important. if she finds out explain it to her. cait♥

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I like this guy named Sam. We are pretty good friends. We talk a lot and we get along great. I asked him if he liked anyone yesterday and he doesnt know. So I figured out he only liked me as a friend. He makes me smile soo much. And i want to tell him I like him but hes totally out of my league. Hes like gorgeous and im well kinda pretty i guess.. i mean i've been told i was pretty but it just doesnt seem like he would like me. And another reason that doesnt want me to tell his is that we talk and were such good friends and i dont want to ruin that. I just need help, like what to say to him or somethingg!!! pleasee!

hey, he said that he doesnt know! which means that he could be unsure if he lieks you or not. theres a chance that your the one that hes crushing on! well you should just ask him whos he unsure about. that way you dotn get your hopes up. also tell him how you feel. it wont ruin your friendship if you tell him. because if you cant tell him everything then that would runin it more. cait♥

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Does anyone know any sites that are similar to Greatest Journal or Myspace?

hey, yes i do! www.xanga.com is great. another website is www.livejournal.com which is also good. cait♥

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