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is it normal for a guy to be exhausted after having sex for the first time?

absolutely not. its sounds like you may have this rare disease called exhaustus phrum seximus. the outlook isnt so good my friend.

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Alright so i have been going through alot lately..and I was a lil upset so i felt like sneeking out and going for a walk.. well my friend said he would go with me.. so at 1 we snuck out.. I thought I might ad in that I have always liked my friend but i know we will probly only ever be friends. well when we was walken.. and just talken.. my mom pulls up.. and gets really mad.. and emberisses me infront of him. so Yeah i was caught.. Well I told my mom not to talk to me.. cause I was really upset. So today if I want to do anything im probly going to have to talk to her about it. What do I say?

that was by far, the dumbest thing ive ever heard.
"sneeking" sneaking
"ad" add
"probly" probably
"talken" talkin' ; talking
"emberisses" embarrasses
"aquward" awkward
"catchen" catchin' ; catching
"sneeken" sneakin' ; sneaking
"wana" want to
"when we was walken" when we were walking*
PLUS: if you werent such a little asshole, and you didnt sneak out of the house your mom wouldnt have to yell at you. so its your own fault that you got into trouble, and your the one who told her not to talk to you. so now all of a sudden you want to know what to do to be able to go places because your an asshole to the only person who has any say over what you can do. might i add, that shes the very person who cares so much about you and takes care of you and puts a roof over your head. she does the best she can. why dont you treat her with a little more respect. try sitting down and discussing with her whats going on in your head. things like this will continue to happen if you dont have an understanding of eachother.

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I'm 5'4" and i weigh 160lbs. the thing is I don't look fat and I don't look like i weigh that much, but it bothers me. All my friends say i'm lucky because I'm average {look it anyone}. All my friends have this idea that i weigh like 115lbs. It's weird 4 me 2 hear them say that cause I know the truth. Any way i'm just happy i don't look like i weigh that much. But does anyone have a work out plan where u can lose weight quickley? If so please write me back and tell me. I'm hoping to lose between 15-20 pounds before I go 2 the beach. ~Thanx~

dang. how can you not look fat? im 5'4" and i weigh 100 on my best day. and depending on what i wear i sometimes look a little chunky. i dunno, but on a less rude note..this is something you might want to search online for. that way you can pick out something that youll do, but that works too. otherwise you could jog, thats what i do. or if you have a pool then swim. when you swim, it works out like a hundred different muscles in your body. but i think you should go to your search engine and look it up that way, itll help a lot more.

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your not supposed to shave your pubic hair right
because it gets all stubbly and during the day it itches REALLY BAD soo...you not supposed to...right?

uh. that shouldnt happen. if that happens either your shaving with a dull razor, or maybe your shaving against the hair. dont do that, dont dry shave either. and when you get out of your shower or bath (wich is when you should be doing this) then put lotion on your entire body so your skin isnt dry. when its dry thats why it itches and water dries out your skin. maybe you should try waxing, the hair doesnt grow back for days if you do that.

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if you shave "down there" and you go to the doctors for a checkup or somethin then what will they say to you? can you get in trouble?

i kind of cant believe you asked that question. why would you get introuble for it? its your hair..your body. if you want to shave it off then do it. its discusting to be there. people do it all the time so im sure your doctor wont even think twice about it.

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well i just recently straightened my hair for the first time and now i have no idea what to do with it. So what kinda styles do you like for straight hair on guys?

your a guy? and you just straightened your hair for the first time. what was wrong with it before? maybe you should just cut it. im not so sure i like long straight hair on guys, it actually grosses me out a little.

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ok well i have 2 F's on my final report card. One in facs class wich doesnt even matter. But then i got one in science wich isnt so good. My question is this, can i still go on to the next grade if i didnt pass science? or will i have to retake the 8th grade? the rest of my grades arnt that great either but those are my only F's, my others go as followed, A A A D D D F F. Thanks.

oh jeeze! not only are they going to hold you back, but theyre going to put you into..THE SEVENTH GRADE!
good luck with that

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yeah i went to our softball/baseball fields for the WHOLE day today and i have the worst fricken sunburn on my most sensitive shoulder right now and I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO! it hurts WICKED bad! is there anything else to put on it besides aloe or burn cream because that isnt doin much right now! ANSWER ASAP! thx!

one of your shoulders is more sensitive than the other?

thats odd

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ok well i missed up my toe nail(the big one) about 3 months ago and about 3 weeks ago the nail fell of and now it has grown half way. is there a way i can make it grow out more before graduation. i am going to get it a pedicare but i dont know if i can put a fake nail on it or not. can u plz me???

hahahahah! im sorry, that just reminded me of the time my bestfriend got her entire big toenail ripped off by a football cleet. i dont really think theres anything you can do to make it grow faster. but i think that if you were to put a fake nail on it, you could. but you could only put the glue part on the actual toenail. unless your talking about the fake nails you go and get done. then i think you might want to call ahead and ask what they do for that. sorry i couldnt be more help.

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Ok heres the deal, Yesterday I got really drunk and I didn't know what I was doing and I got on a bus and I saw some people I knew, Well there was this one boy that my friend knew and she told me about..and I sorta told him that I thought he was cute..and He was like who are you and I was like uh *my name* and I was like yeah well i know ur name and he was like how the hell do you know my name and now he prolly thinks im a big stalker! What if he says something on monday about it! ill be so embarrassed I just don't wanna go to school its gonna be horrible! so my question is how can I avoid the terrifying situation? or how can I face him ugghh

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HELP

you could just tell him that you were drunk. then he'll understand. probably still think your a dumbass, but he'll understand.

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how exactly do you wash your face like i have this soap kind... n i use pads n water of course to put it on my face but are u supposed to put water on to wash the soap off after or keep the soap on?

yes you keep the soap on your face. but once you start washing your face and you get the soap on there. you cant take it off otherwise your face will shrivle and get rinkles. hope i helped!

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well im a cutter nd i really wanna stop ! help me im beggin plz !!! ♥ i just wannna be normal

define normal. exactly. normal is how you see normal, you are normal. everyone is normal, so why dont you do whatever the hell you want to do and stop trying to live up to what everyone else thinks is normal.

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ok so this may be a dumb question anyways...i broke up with my boyfriend a while ago n my friend asked him if he still likes me n he goes dont ask me that...could this mean he may still like me..what do u guys think? i told u it was dumb

it means he wants yall to leave him alone. unless hes too hurt to talk abuot it because he likes you so much.
you shouldnt be such a selfish bitch.

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I just bought a sage plant for cooking. The problem is I know nothing about gardening. How do I pot my new sage plant? I have searched online and had little luck.

Also does anyone have any tips, or know of some good sites? If I can keep my plant alive, I would like to buy other herbs. Any tips on herb gardens?

* http://oldfashionedliving.com/sage.html

* http://www.flower-and-garden-tips.com/growingsage.html

* http://www.vitaminsdiary.com/growing-sage.htm

those were just for sage. this is for herb gardens and the web site directly above has a column on the left side that has the herbs mentiond in the website below. so all you have to do is click on the herb and it will tell you all about growing it and using it.

* http://www.gardenandhearth.com/2-Growing_Herbs/Spicy_Mexican_Fiesta.htm

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My name is stephanie, and I bhave beeen dating my boyfriend for a month now.But here's the twist! My BF(Chris)asked me to hsve sex with him after a band dance. I told him no, b/c I'm not ready to sexualy active just yet! Unexpectingly he said ok I'll respect that b/c I love. I figured that excuse would by me time, and it did! But now he wants more reasons as to why I can't have sex with him. But see what gets me is is that he's telling me he wants to have sex, but when I say no he's ok with what I decide, but he asks repeating , but never makes any kind of action leading to sex. I'm confused! WHY IS HE GIVING ME MIXED SIGNALS?

hes not. he doesnt want to force you into it, hes just hoping that by the next time he asks you'll have changed your mind.

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Lately, I have to pee all the time. I used to only have to go once a day. Now I have to go once every hour. Anyone know why this sudden change has occurred? Should I be worried? I'm 18 female if that helps.

maybe youve started drinking more? or eating food consisting more of water, like fruits and what-not. or maybe you drink too much beer. beer does that to a person.

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My boyfriend just broke up with me 2 hours ago IN SCHOOL! he just wants a break so how can i make him want me??!!!

PLease answer!!

maybe you should just give him the space he wants. havent you ever heard of "distance makes the heart grow stronger" ? or something like that. the more hes away from you, he'll start realizing how much he misses you. of corse it could always work backwards and he could realize how much sooner he should have done it. but good luck with that.

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Well people say when your horny and things you get wet and you juice? Well when I'm horny I dont think I juice because i dont feel wet or anything but I do feel tingerly down below is this juicing or what? Or is it a orgasim and actually.. how do you know if you have a orgasim?

hahaha how do you know when you have an orgasm?
hahahahahahahaha!

..you'll know

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okay me and my boyfriend usually use a condom but about three weeks ago we just used the withdrawal method i wasnt ovulating(i know this becasue ive always had a perfect 28 day cycle) i took a pregnancy test two weeks after which came back negative. i havent missed my period nor do i have any of the symptoms but i am a worry wart i dont think im pregnant but i need a second opion????what do you think?

i think you should always use a rubber so you dont stress yourself out. it is possible to get pregnant even with the "withdrawl" method. but if everything seems alright and you even took a test i think your going to be perfectly fine. it wouldnt hurt to maybe wait a couple more weeks though and take another test. but if youve gotten your period since then, than your alright.

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can some one give me step - by - step how to do those cute little hearts i know its &hearts but it never works

step 1. copy
step 2. paste

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