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"Be soft. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let the pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness. Take pride that even though the rest of the world may disagree, you still believe it to be a beautiful place."
I'm an optimist. I can find the beauty in anything. I'm creative. I love spontaneity, peace, & parties. I'm the farthest thing from shy. There's not one person on this earth that I don't care about. I like deep conversations, change, & random acts of kindness. Every emotion I feel is ten times as strong as yours. I have alot of empathy for other people. I'm real open minded & liberal. All I want to do is make at least one person's life a little easier. :D
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ugh I am really frusterated, worried right now because after school yoday my boyfriend got a phone call from his mom she was pissed because she found out from someone that like 1 month and a half ago he came over the apt i was babysitting at (with my mom,her friend(owner of apt) permission. She was screaming, and she loves me and everything and all that stuff. And I do not know what she is gonna punish him with and say to him tonight but I just know she is gonna blow it way out of propotion. By the way the following information helps this: we are both 17, our moms are best friends, and weve been dating a 1 and a half. what the hell...i am worried about what she is gonna do..and she is SO over reacting.
if you're thinking she's gonna make him break up with you, don't worry about it. he's not gonna listen to her because he likes you..alot. sure, he might TELL her that he's going to, but will he actually do it? nah, he just wants her to shut the hell up. =]
she is over reacting though. if you guys break up, she's an ass.
anyways, get your mom to talk to her. or tell your boyfriend to tell her that you guys broke up. if you get him to do that, tell your mom not to say anything to her.
if you don't want to do that....oh, wait. damn it. i'm a moron. i thought you meant that she doesn't like you guys hanging out alone no matter when. lol, sorry for my slowness. :[
but still, get your mom to talk to her or something.
i just why do teen love franchkissing?
it's french.
like with an e. not an a.
lol, sorry. i had to fix that.
anyways, the same reason they're all obsessed with having sex, i guess.
So yeah, Like a month or few ago (not more than 2 months) this kid that i knew *because hes at my bus stop* all of a sudden made out with me...like we were totally flirty but he always had a gf and i thought that he was just like that to everyone but him and his gf broke up over turkey break *they were like "in love"* then he asked me out like 2 weeks later and we went out for 2 days and i heard that he was "talking" to someone so i confronted him about it and asked him flat out if it was true and he said no that "i was the one who changed his mind" *hah* so a day later he breaks up wiht me and says its because hes not over his ex (the one he broke up with over turkey break) and a week later he has a new girlfriend.*liar* for a while i thought it was me because i was like really standoffish cuz i havent dated in a while and i was worried about that one girl he left me for so i didnt wanna get attached, plus it was 2 days for gods sakes and at that was like the worst week of the year hah so yeah
the point is i still like him and he has a girlfriend...what should i do and was it me that pushed him away.
i know a kid like that. he lives in my neighborhood. he did something like that, except without the making out part, to my best friend and this other girl who's sort of my friend.
anways, can you say the word "player?"
sorry, but it sounds like he's just a player like the guy who i was talking about above this. he just made some shit up as an excuse to break up with you.
forget about him; he's a jerk. if you're sad, go do something with your friends. like go see a comedy or go shopping. =]
I'm thinking about getting hair extensions
but I have a couple questions first.
how long do they last?
do the hurt?
how much do they cost?
first question -- only about a few months .. not a long time.
second question -- it depends. if you're tender headed, then yes.
third question -- they're normally pretty expensive. i think if you go to a professional hair place they are about eight hundred dollars, though.
i dont know what to do!!!please help me i am sooooo depressed!!! my friend nicole is sooooooooo mean to me!!!!!! she is soooooo nice sometimes.. but sooooo mean .. what do i do!!!!she is like my best feind... but she can be sooo mean.. ill give you an example... well
1. she never listens to me
2. and she NEVER STOPS SAYING MARR HARR!!!
you dont get it!!
i ask her to stop and she just keeps talking!!grr marr harr marr harr marr harr marr harr!!!
lol... not
if all she does is go, "MARR HARR MARR HARR!" all day long. god, that would get on my last nerve and i'd probably slap her. buuuuut, that's just me.
if i were you though, i'd just get rid of her and make some new normal friends who aren't mean and don't have an obsession with annoying the hell out of you by going, "MARR HARR! MARR HARR! MAAAAARRRRRR HAAAAAAARRR!" all day long.
be nice, be friendly, be outgoing, smile.
all you need to make friends. =]
My best friend is very selfish and always takes advantage of me and i dont like it, and i have like no other friends anymore because i was always trying to please her (shes kinda high maintenence) and shes hard to talk to about this stuff because shell get all mad and defensive and wind up manipulating me to make me think that im the bad person, but really everyone tells me how shes bad and now she wants me to do drugs and get tattoos and other stuff that i dont think i wanna do... but i have no other friends..so what do i do.
a tattoo & drugs?
wow, nice. what a productive life.
not to be offensive or anything.
tell her to back off in a nice way & slowly stop hanging out with her.
make new friends. just try and be more outgoing & be nice to everyone. don't give them a reason to hate you.
good luck! =]
What are your views on change?
Do you think change is neccessary?
yep -- at my school, we're writing some paper and we have to include something about change.
ask you grandparents if you don't get a good answer on here; they're great to ask.
my view on change personally though is that in some cases, it is neccessary. it can either be great or terrible.
"people don't resist change -- they resist being changed."
ok, first of all, why the heck would anyone want to shave "downstairs"?!? are you suppost to? do guy's like it that way or something?
i'm just unsure, you see a lot of questions on here about shaving down there! any advice would be apreaciated,
p.s. i'm 15/f
thanks
they're queers. that the only way to put it. they are mentally challenged queers.
according to the weird people who answer their questions, guys like it.
but any normal human being at the ages of 1-17 shouldn't be worrying about that because a guy shouldn't see it anyways.
sadly, people seem to think nowdays that they're a loser if they haven't kissed/made-out with someone. who cares rather you have or haven't?!
thank God that we still have some normal people like you left on earth ..
Does it work? The Acnefree 3 system thing?
Is it really better than Proactive?
[I've used it before, had to stop because of money issues]
When will I see some results?
for me, it worked.
i began seeing results almost four days after taking it. if you use it the right way, it will work amazingly for you.
my brother used to have pretty bad acne & he noticed my complexion looking better & asked me what i was using. i told him acnefree, he went out & bought it, & now he's using it. i have never seen his complexion look as good as it does now. his skin looks amazing. if i were you, i'd use it.
things don't always have to be expensive in order for them to work well .. sadly, some of my friends thing that. losers.
i might be hanging out with the boy i like this weekend sometime i asked him if he wanted to today and he said definatly but i dont know what we should do. what are some good ideas? keep in mind that i like him and im not sure how he really feels. and what things should i do that day to hint to him how i feel? thanks for the help, you guys are great!
gangstaaxxliciouss had a good idea about the mirror; that's cute.
don't move to fast & cuddle or whatever like the person below me said. it could scare him off. it really depends on the guy, though.
are you guys really good friends? like best friends?
try & simply go to the movies & see a comedy or just hang out around the house at your house or his house. maybe call some people & hang out with them too, unless you just want to be alone with him. personally though, it makes it easier for me to have other people around to talk to.
maybe you'll know by the end of the night if he likes you or not. =]
before he goes home, walk with him alone in case he needs to tell you something. (for example, that he likes you. ahem. haha.)
i am a 13 year old boy. i met this girl and we started to talk alot but then when i asked her out she just walked away. about aweek later i started talking to her but she will just run away and i dont know what to do. please help.
oh lord. the people below me are weird. no offense; i'm just talking about they're response.
i'm sorry to be the bringer of bad news but .. it doesn't sound like she likes you. =[
this is the second question i've answered like this & i'm sorry, but that's what it sounds like.
i think she just doesn't want to deny you because she likes you as a friend & doesn't want to say no to upset you or anything & want to keep the friendship.
in a few months though, she'll probably end up liking you or something like alot of girls do. you never know ..
14/f
I hang with one of my friends alot and me and her think that these 2 boys are following us around school we think that 1 of them likes me or her or they both like both of us or something they stare at us they wont talk to us .. online if we instant message them they usually sign off really quick or they say dont talk to me i asked one of my other friends to instant message one of them
to see if he liked me he says no i told him i also imed him saying that people were telling me
that he liked me but i'm not sure and i asked one of them who they liked and they said they have a girlfriend but i still think that he likes me i told one of them that i liked him and his friend
at lunch time one of them stands up and looks over at my table and if i move he moves so he can see me but he still denys that he likes me.
not trying to crush your spirits or anything, but i honestly don't think that he likes you.
if they're signing off really fast, that probably means they don't want to talk to you. no one's shy on IM; they'd talk to you if they liked you no matter how shy they were. they'd at least say hey because no one can think you're stupid for that.
plus, if he says he doesn't like you .. then i think he's telling the truth. maybe he just thinks you like him or something & is being weird.
who knows, but i'm sorry. =/
i might be wrong though. some guys are just weird like that ..
There's this boy. He's half a year younger than me. He's a BITCH. How do I get over him(: I WAS over him, I really was. But now i'm going back and I really don't want to. I'm pretty sure he likes this other girl but sometimes when he talks to me when he says goodbye he says "I love you." But also other times he just doesn't talk to me and when we are talking doesn't even say goodbye, and just leaves. Help me? (o:
gahh, i knew a guy like that except we didn't go out. well .. i don't know if you & the loser went out that you're talking about, but oh well.
he's just .. you know what? i don't know what he is. lol, that's what the guy did to me. he has a girlfriend & i hate him. not cause he has a girlfriend .. i don't care about that. yeahh, anyways, just find some other kid (who's on the good looking side. haha, that sounded stupid.) & tell yourself all the good things about him & maybe you'll end up liking him & forget about the jerkface. sometimes guys just say i love you because you guys are good friends. there was ANOTHER guy that i knew last year who always was telling me i was his best friend & everyone said he liked me. i didn't like him, though. guess where he is now? he's effing homeschooled. did he bother to tell me? NO. so, my point is, guys may act one way & then suddenly turn their back on you. it all depends on the guy. hey, even guys can be two-faced. the other times you guys are talking .. are his friends around or the girl he likes? maybe he doesn't want them to hear him talking to you. & if he doesn't say goodbye, maybe he just has other things on his mind & forgets. i do that all the time. don't stress over it. pull him off to the side or call him & just let him have it. tell him how much he's hurt you & much of an ass he's been. if he apologizes, i'd go back to him. if he doesn't give a crap, i'd slap him in the face next time you see him & hang out with your friends alot to help you forget about the loser. but, like i said, even guys can be two-faced sometimes.
yeahh, sorry that it was so long. just i can relate to you sort of.
well, goodluckkkk.
So I asked this guy out and we had our first date on sunday. It was seeing a movie- and I thought it went really well for a first date. I couldn't reach his lips at the end because he's so much taller so i kissed his neck. He was smiling the whole time I was leaning in though- and he had his arm around my waist.
I admit I'm pretty new to the world of dating (first bf at 13 1/2 and now im 14)... And I love this guy a lot (i actually LOVE him- not just LIKE him.) and I'm going to die if he doesn't call me.
I'm seeing him tonight at my acting class- is there anything I should say to him that would make him more likely to call and ask me out for this weekend?
ANY ADVICE WOULD HELP
thank you.
freak out.
ha, no. don't do that.
give him time.
if he doesn't call you back, then he's an ass. :]
Okay well the last time my boyfriend was over he fingered me but my pants were still on and it felt really good so i cant wait to hang out again and yea i guess were suppose to hang out again in a couple days and on the phone he asked if i liked it and if i wanted him to do it again and i said ya but ill be on my period when we hang out soo i know he'll feel the pad..what do i do??
Say, "Wait, I'm on my period."
okay, i am a psychic but i can only pridict other peoples'm lifes and sometimes mine A LITTLE.anyway, i need an expiremen t for my science project. does anyone know a site or have any ideas.email me at bekoe1994@tyahoo.com
Yep, google. =]
16/f. Eh, I feel like such a goody-two-shoes all the time. The other day, my friend asked me, "what's the craziest thing you've ever done?" and I couldn't answer! The only thing I could think of was, like, driving in my friend's car when she couldn't legally drive people yet. Gosh, what a rebel I am, right? Haha. Idk, I just feel like I never do anything daring or extreme and it seems like all of my friends have. The farthest I've ever gone with a boy is like, hold hands and most of my friends have gone way farther and have had like a lot more boyfriends than I've had. Ugh. I mean I'm alwaysss studying and taking school way too seriously and yes, I make the honor roll and get good grades, but seriosuly, I'm afriad I'm gonna wake up one day when I'm 30 and think to myself that I wasted all of my teenage years and never took a chance doing anything fun. My sister, for example, is always out all the time doing sometimes crazy things, but she always has fun and spends her time doing exciting things with her friends; I go out sometimes but I'm always home at like 9:00 and sometimes I'm just sitting home bored on a Friday or Saturday night with no plans and my sister is ALWAYS out at an awesome party( I honestly can't remember the last time she didn't have any plans; maybe like 4 years ago?). I love my friends and all, but the most exciting thing we do is go to the mall or out to eat. What I'm asking is; what can I do to have more fun and do something crazy so I can look back on my teenage years and know I had a good time? Sorry this is practically as long as an essay, lol.
The people below me are losers.
"DON'T TRY IN FIT IN! AHHH! YOU'RE GONNA DIE!"
Don't listen to them, please?
Are there any houses with for sale signs in front of them? Ha, this is my original idea.
Grab it and put it in front of a different house somewhere and run away. The person who's trying to sell their house will be so pissed. Hahah, that's what I love doing.
Play ding dong ditch on like every other five houses in your neighborhood and toilet paper the ones in between. Oh my God. HAHAHAH! I can just picture that. Like 50 people coming outside at midnight all pissed off.
Oh, yeah, anyways, you can just start with things like that. Now as for the school crap, who cares? When I make a B, I jump for joy. Haha, just relax and live your life according to how you want to. Not how your parents want you to.
You know in the movie "Mean Girls" the character Regina George? One of my very best friends Katherine has a lot in common with her. First off, everyone wants her to like them. If she walks to the left, so will everyone else. If she's sad, everyone wants to be the one to solve her problem so that she will like them best. Even I find myself falling into this trap. She's mostly like this when she is with her other friend, Emma. Emma and Katherine can both be very nice people, but not when they are together. I love hanging out with Katherine, but when Emma walks in the door, I disapear. Its not fair! How do I make her stop doing this to me?
just talk to her about it.
or stop being her friend..
whats a hooka??
www.dictionary.com
orrrrrrrr ..
1.whats a good brand for heat protectant spray?
2.i know that every time you you dye your hair, it damages it but whats a good brand for hair coloring that wont damage hair MUCH?
3. whats a good eye color [contacts] for BRUNETTES? and medium skin
1. Get Chi Shine Infusion or Biosilk.
2. One that doesn't have the ammonium or whatever that stuff is in it. I go to a salon called Kelli-Paul & I'm pretty sure I saw something that said RedKen on it when they were doing my hair.
3. Brown or green.