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ok if i masturbate does that mean sex before marriage....does that mean im sinning every time i masturbate??? (link)
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no dont even worry about it everybody masturbates its all natural and many people also have sex before marriage everybody sins and when ur masturbating your not doing anything wrong acutally doctors tell you to masturbate cause its natural
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hi im 14 f and my bf is pressuring me into having sex but again not married ad it totally against my beliefs and i cant let him get to me wat shud i do? (link)
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hello hes pressing you so maybe its time to say goodbye to him and find some one who will respeact you and if your not ready than fuck him
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me and my boyfriend have sex not alot but enough well its the 12th and he was fingering me and i started bleeding bad but i just thought it was my period bc im due the 17th but then later on it stopped. i can feel cramps but theres nothing rly there what could this be? (link)
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maybe he fingered you two hard if you started bleeding it could be nothing serious
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ok ill first start out with im 14/f and pretty much all of the guys in my school only care about s' looks and they usually go out with them for like a week then break up. its really getting on my nerves because all the guys go for the really pretty and she's so stupid!! like seriously not meaning to be a bitch or anything but shes really snobby and DUMB its like she has bricks in her head. and im not the prettiest in school but im not ugly and alot of people say im pretty (not meaning to be conceited cause i don't think i am) is there anything to do to make some of the guys realize that looks arent everything?? (link)
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if the guys think that looks are everything than there obvioulsy not mature to see past the dumb annoying gurls who by the way act like that to get the guys attention and beleive ive seen my sharre and your 100% right it annoys the shit out of me but in my opion a boy who only cares about looks is that just a boy not a man you know and there shallow so theres nothing that you really can do except hope that theres at least one man out there you know whos acually mature enough to see past the looks to some thing thats more important hope i helped
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Ok, my friend and I, lets call him Gary, well gary and I have been friends since last year and well.. I didnt like him anymore than friends last year.. but this year I dont know if I like him or not, like I'm not 100% attracted to him physically, but emotionally I feel like I am.. but I'm not sure.. its so confusing.. like me and him are best friends and im like 55% attracted to him physically... how do I know If i like him or not.. like when I see him, I feel like I should show off.. but I DONT KNOW! please help me straighten out my confusion!! (link)
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it sounds to me that your beging to like him alot and you dont have to be physically attracted to someone to like them but if you want to be more than just freinds than it might be a good idea to be than emotionally attracted to him and if your really not sure how you feel about him i would try to make up my mind soon and one other thing you may like him in more than just a friend way but does he like you to you dont want to ruin a friendship you know good luck i hope i helped
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I'm dating this guy in college who seems to always be busy which I understand of course... we've been dating for over a month now and we usually go out once every week since well he's in college and i'm not. I feel like he's emotionally callous when it comes to online conversations or better yet conversations in person. He just doesn't seem to understand how I feel... for instance today was the last day that we were going to hang out before christmas break since he's going back to his home town... I texted him to ask him to come over and he gave me these excuses of him having a headache and feeling like shit and that he had to do this scholarship thing... I was very angry and sad and I just texted him saying, "it's okay i'll understand if you can't come over just as long as you get better." He said, "sorry" but I mean he really gets me angry a lot... it's like he doesn't understand me and seems to be more disattached to this thing that we have. We're not official but even so we have been dating for this long and he should at least know how to be a good guy... So anyway, here I am really sad and angry and he's online giving me all these political articles like him not coming over is not a big deal at all... it's really getting me worked up and wondering whether or not I should even waste my time on someone like him... I know he's not cheating on me just cause he's honest and is not like that... but I mean come on we planned today's date 2 weeks ago and talked about it yesterday... I just don't know what I should do... (link)
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im sure you know the saying long distance relationships never work and it seems that hes really not into the whole thing maybe hes trying to drift away so itll be easier to break up you know i think that its about time to have a long talk and if things dont change you need to step up and find someone who meet your needs you know because the way hes treating you is unfair and i know that he can be busy but hello u make time for him right think about you can find better good luck i hope i helped
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ok, so like a month ago this guy tht i rlllllllllllllllllllly liked said he liked me too, and then we were talkin n one thing led to another (this was on aim and then the phone) n he wanted me to meet him at the park, so i did nd then we ended up makin out n he told me he liked me again and then after tht we started talking less and less and then not too long ago i found out tht he had a girlfreind who happened to cheat on him so he was jus usin me to get back at her and then one of my freinds talked to him bout it n he said he "has strong feelings for me" and i see him lookin at me n idk wut to do im jus confused bout wut hes thinkin (link)
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well do you like him and if you do than i think that you need to get to the bottom of this whole thing and remeber if he really liked you why would he still be going out with his gurlfriend exspeically when he knew you had to of liked him so i would find out the whole story and see if he really does like you or see if hes doing what most guys do and play mind games hope i helped good luck
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i really like my ex which i just broke u with... but the thing is.. i do not think i am ready to commite, i want to hang out with other guys, be able to call them and talk and say there hot.. but the thought of my ex moving on makes me sad... what should i do? (link)
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i think that you need to do some soulsearching and make up your mind if your not ready to committ and you still like your ex what does that tell you you have a choice to make you can either be free and not have a boyfriend or you can get the guy you like and make a relationship and just because your in a relationship doesnt mean you cant have guy friends and joke around its just remeber if you do decide to committ remeber your in relationship hope i helped be fair you and him
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I was the first and only girl this guy did sexual stuff with.
He was the first and only for me tooo
I think about it all the time
Im dying to know if he thinks about it too?
no... im not asking him
That wuld be sumthin im not doing.
Do you think he does?
or what is ur opionion
thanks
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well are you guys in a relationship and have you done it more than once and if you have done it more than once than its obvious that he thinks about it and also if you guys were eachothers first im pretty sure you wouldve made an lasting impression you know and if you guys arent going out i would consider doing so but i hope i helped good luck
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k well. me and my boyfriend recently broke up. i felt no physical attraction to him and he really didnt have a romantic side? how do i set those aside to be with him and how can i change those so he does? (link)
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k well first of all you said that you really werent physically attracted to him than maybe you really dont see him as boyfriend material and you only see him as a friend you know so maybe he dont need to change hes just not your type good luck hope i helped
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ok so im going to have sex with my boyfriend. we tried last Saturday but it hurt bad and well, it just didnt fully happen (like everything is still in tact). im just wondering when i do do it, and if i bleed alot, how do i take care of that? i mean, i dont want to do it on my bed if im bleeding 'cause everyone knows thats a pain to wash out and i dont want to do it on the floor like we were doing so what do i do after? does it stop bleeding after a while? how long after? help people, asap (link)
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ok well first make sure that your ready and if you really want to do than just change your sheets you know get ride of the evidence and you dont always bleed there are some people that i know who lost there virginty and didnt bleed cause you dont always break your hymen during sex
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How can you tell if you like someone.. (link)
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well first your always thinking about them and you always find yourself looking at them and wondering if they like you and you can picture you and him being together and you can also tell that you like him if you find yourself tryin to convince yourself that you dont like him and if your trying to convince yourself that you dont like him think to yourself why would you have to convince yourself if you dont like him goodluck oh and in case your wondering its me careen love you
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I love a boy, not naming names.
I think about him so much and I cant take it.
I think about him from the minute i wake up
and to the minute i go to sleep and sometimes I cant sleep becuz I am thinking about him.
Yes, he knows who I am and we used to be really really good friends
He has a girlfriend ..yet he stares at me.
Several times we did sex type things .
He doesnt talk to me anymore,barely.
Theres the occasional small talk but nothing more like it used to be.
No, i cant talk to him or call him or email him or any of that becuz knowing him he wont take it seriously or ignore what im saying.
What does this all mean
and what should I do about it?
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ok well its obvious that hes an asshole and well was only using you to get one thing and hes the asshole who decided to play mind games and than stop talking to you and compeletly ingore you huh typical guy of course my guess is that he doesnt like you and hes only playing mind games and i wouldnt talk to him and tell myself that he used you and he knew it there are plenty of other fishes in the sea
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please read!!! even though its alittle long.
Okay so i've likes this guy named JC for a long time, about a year. We flirt im pretty sure he likes me because he'll tell me some people he likes but he never tells me one because he says he cant and hes always asking me who i like. Well since recently about two monthes ago hes like my best friend AB. My friends known i've likes him for a year and she kinda liked him too. Well she went out with him and i was kinda mad but i got over it, well 5 days after she started to go out with him she didnt like him anymore, so she was going to blame the break up on me and tell him that "her friend likes him and has for a long time and it just isnt right and thats how girls are" so that he wouldnt be mad at her, then she was going to have me break up with him for her but i didnt want to so the next day she goes out with DM for two hours during a dance. thw whole time she was saying i miss JC and i want to go back out with him, like dangaling it in my face. then she gets home and goes back out with him(JC). and shes telling everyone that we've talked about it and that i was screaming at her when she hasnt even bothered to ask me if i was okay with it, shes telling people i need to get over it and to other people shes saying im fine with it. i understand you cant help who people like buti like im way more and longer than she has or will. AM I WRONG? Their totally different hes a smart jock and shes a dumb slacker. all the guys like her because she flaunts her self without a problem, because she has kinda big boobs. i hate it. what can i do. (link)
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well if your friend knows it bothers you than shes wrong because she should have consolted you and you know what i would play at her own game seriously you and jc are still friends so ask him straight out do you like me and if he says why just tell him that you want to know and if he says no lie and say oh cause i heard from somebody and i wanted to see if it was true and if he says yes ask in more than a friend way and if he likes you the way you like him let him know and if your friend has a problem with it well oh well like you said she flaunts herself so she should have no problem finding someome else and say what she said to you well get over it you know it might sound mean but she didnt care doing it to you good luck and remeber if you dont want to do what i wrote dont and guys are just guys and there are plenty hope i helped
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Kay, so I know this will sound dumb
but I know guys mature way later than
girls but how much later? Also what are some
signs? And they cant get boners untilll they mature right? (link)
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well sometimes i think guys never mature lol you know and know guys can get boners whenever weather they went through puberty although it is a sign of pubery
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what's roleplay? (link)
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roleplay is playing sex games you know being someone your not or playing some one else it makes y0u feel erotic like example hes the doctor and your the pacient or your the naught student and hes the teacher you know and much much more
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ive heard some people say that you may not even relize that your hymen has been popped, is that true? or .. yeah idk and another question, does it always hurt when it gets popped by tampon,sex etc.?
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yes its true your hymen doesnt always break from sex it could break from horseback writting or bike riding you know and no it doesnt always hurt when you cherry pops from without sexually intercourse
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what is dry sex? (link)
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as far as i know its dry humping you have sex with a clothes barrier or whatever barrier
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EVERYTIME i like a guy, flirt with a guy, a guy flirts with me, i get a chance with someone......
MY bestfriend goes after him. EVERYTIME!
she's a lot more "easy" & "pushy" with guys than i am and she'll do things like hook up with the guy i have a crush on at a party when i'm not there.
I HAVE confronted her about it and we fought for about a month....i found new friends.....BUT she's my favorite person to be around! i ALWAYS have a blast with her and we both laugh at everything. The problem is she's NOT loyal. i told her that. and she apologized...i gave her a second chance....We made up and she promised she would work on it. A year has gone by and NOTHING has gone wrong!
except for now....for about a month we have liked the same guy. the ONE weekend i go out of town....she hooks up with him!
she calls me and tells me omg he's so cute. we're so cute together.....but the thing is....................i "can't" get mad because......no one had a "label" on him! for the past week they've been texting and hanging out and AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH it makes me SO ANGRY!
if they ever break up.....i can't "go after him" because it's my bestfriends ex!
SHE RUINED IT FOR ME......
i keep saying.....whocares just find another guy....but it's HARD when you've been liking one and flirting with one for a month to just to move on while you watch your FRIEND WITH HIM!
I LIKE HIM AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!
and when i want to go out to lunch...i always call her and we go and laugh and have a blast......BUT I CAN'T BECAUSE
1)I'M SO PISSED AT HER
2)SHE'S ALWAYS WITH HIM NOW
so i go hangout with other friends....but they aren't the same
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she might be your favorite person but she isnt much of a freind so what i would is drift away very slowly you know i would normally say talk to her but you been there done that you know she is no friend because no friend true friend chooses guys over them and well you already know that shes not a friend you can trust and without trust than you really dont have a freind or a friendship so just try to drift away real slow good luck hope i helped
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Okay so theres this boy and he is real nice and all and I've been crushing on him forever and my friend was planning to tell him and if he finds out he will like me thats what always happens so I'm not sure if I should go through with this because he would give me is sweater and buy me candy and sit by me but the problem is that I'm shy I mean real shy and I know if we were together I shouldn't be so shy but I don't think thats me. What do I do? (link)
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tell him that your really shy and try not to be so shy you know try starting small talk you know or hint to him that he should start the convo or what ever you know take small steps hope i helped
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