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Ok I started this advice site to help out others. My friends say I give good advice but they could just be saying that to be nice lol. Tell me what you think by rating me (1-5, 1 l worst, 5 best). Good or bad, your rate will be appreciated!! Thank you!!
About Me
Basically I'm 13 and i love to draw, swim, play volleyball and soccer, dance, sing, and hang out with friends. i love collecting purses haha, i have this huge purse collection in the back of my closet, most of them i never even use lol. i also like the shop and travel. i make madprofiles and i LOVE movies haha. i pretty much like anything non-academic related lol..god i'm so glad summer's started. anyways that's pretty much all about me!!
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I think you have to be an advicenators member..i'm not really sure, so you have to ask me a question and when you log onto your username, under My Questions, you see my response and you are given the choice to rate it from 1-5. I think that's about it, cyass!
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I am friends with this girl katelyn and i am also very good friends with this boy robby. Robby and katelyn have been dating for about a year now. Tehy were so much in love, until robby started liking another girl names alyssa. This is a horrible situation. Katelyn is beautiful and she thinks its all her fault that robby lost intrest in her. Robby always talks about how he doesnt like katelny anymore. She cries all the time because he is a complete asshole to her. I cant stand that He likes these other girls, and treats her like trash. I tell her that she isnt to blame hes an asshole. So now im scared she will do something that is very stupid (possibly slitting) she thinks its the end of the world. Please Help me! i need some good news to tell her. (link)
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well that robby really is an asshole!! tell katelyn that its so not her fault. robby just fell for another girl, but that doesnt mean he can be a total jerk to her! i can understand how she's really sad and all, but ask her-if robby asked you out again, would you say yes? if she does, you have to get her to realize that if she says yes to him if that happens, there's a big chance he's going to treat her pretty badly and leave her with a badly broken heart once again. katelyn doesn't deserve a guy like him.
has katelyn done anything like suicidal to herself? like does she talk about killing herself? running away from home? has she cut herself? if she has, thats pretty dangerous and you should probably have her see a doctor or sychiatrist or something. but you have to tell katelyn that guys don't control her life, especially robby. good luck!!
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hey i am friends with all the boys in my class and i want to be more than a friend with one of them.. i dont know wht to do i am just considered one of their best friends and i wanna be considered a girlfriend.. how do i get him to ask me out? (link)
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well since you're friends with all the boys in your class, there could be a pretty high chance one of them will ask you out. but not a pretty high chance that the one you like will ask you out. so try hanging out with that one guy a little more than the others. try laughing harder at his jokes than anyone elses. try to make it a bit obvious that you like him, but not too obvious because sometimes that scares guys away. if that guy does like you, he'd be more likely to ask you out now that it seems like you show more interest in him. if he didn't before, he may start to like you because you hang out so much. best friends sometimes start to go out (it's actually pretty popular sometimes!). good luck!!
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theres this boy and i really like him and before i liked him he said i was hot and stuff .. now that he knows i like him he like never talks to me what should i do ? (link)
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wow that's pretty weird. i think that before he was saying you're hot and stuff but didn't TRULY mean it or something. and then when you told him you like him, he got a little freaked out and even embarassed from the things he said before (because he probably thought you knew he was kidding). i don't know if that's the case, there are many other stuff that can be wrong too.
he could have also liked you before but then he lost interest in you over time and when you told him you liked him, he didn't want anything to do with you anymore?
so i think that you should straight-up ask him "ok you seemed like you liked me before but now that you know i like you, why aren't you talking to me anymore?" if you can't do that, try talking to him on AIM or email and if he ignores you, then have a friend or someone ask him what's wrong??? i hope i helped.. good luck!
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ok hey!!! well my best friend only shops at stores like hollister and abercrombie etc.. and i have some stuff from there but my mom says we dont have enough money to buy all my clothes from those stores and if i dont my friend thinks i'm a gay fagg. i mean is it me and my mom withthe money or my friend?
x0ox- expensive (link)
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yeah abercrombie and hollister can be pretty expensive and lots of people like them, but not everyone can afford them. you should tell your friend that you can't afford to buy all your clothe from there!! and none of that makes you a gay fag, even if you didn't shop at those stores at her doesnt mean that! if she still keeps calling you that, i think you should try making some new friends (because that's just mean).
also if you want to try some cheap, cool clothe try target (lol). no seriously they have some awesome clothe there for like really cheap prices. and some of the clothe even imitate abercrombie a bit like the labels and stuff so maybe you could trick your friend into thinking you're wearing abercrombie or hollister=). haha maybe nott.. good luck!!
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hey i know u dont know me but i really need advice!!! Ok well anyways my friend gets jealous of my other friend and she tries to take them away from me and make me like not friends with them so far i just think she's jealous and all my friends agree what should i do?
x0ox- is my good qualties a good thing? (link)
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i think she doesn't like the fact that you're a threesome (or a group..) and she wants to be your BEST friend, not just another regular one. well of course your good qualities are a good thing lol!! but make sure you get it into your friend's head that you like her as a friend and that she couldn't take the place of any of your friends. make sure she understands that she's special to you and that she should never feel threatened by your other friends. but she must really like you then and you should take it as a compliment, sorta. good luck!!
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hi .. i just found out that i am infected with the HIV virus from having unprotected sex..does that mean i am going to die ?!?! help please (link)
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no it doesn't necessarily mean it. but you must have gone to the doctor or else how would you have even known you have the virus. how long have you had the HIV? the sooner you get it treated, the better. HIV goes after your CD4 cells in your immune system, which totally control it pretty much so they can't produce antibodies anymore. HIV actually doesn't kill you, its the opportunity viruses or w/e that do, since your antibodies can't stop it. i'm not a big science person so you should def. ask your doctor about it. you may die but you may not.. but there have been a few cases in Africa where people got HIV but they didn't get infected (they were immune to it) but there's like a 1/1038439593475487597 chance you will have that. but not everyone with HIV dies, but it is one of the leading death cases. i'll pray for you!! =) good luck!
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hey! well, im the giirl thats going out with zach ((the long distance thiing)) well, i met him because my dad is a pastor and so is his dad, and the church that my dad left 3 years ago, is the church that his dad went to. So, i see him about every 2 or 3 weeks....but he doesnt go to my school because he lives an hour away.....we talked about this earlier tonight and both decided that we like each other wnough to make things work out! thanks for your advice :) (link)
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lol, glad it worked out =)!! np =)
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I want to start dressing like I feel, in black, but I hate it when I do and people call me a poser. I don't normally care what people think but I KNOW I'm not a poser. I listen to metal and refuse to use labels. How the hell should I deal with the devil children at school? (link)
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that's totally mean, you should just ignore them and usually that may drive them away since they're basically looking to see what your reaction to their teasing would be, so if you do nothing they're gonna get bored and leave you alone (most likely!). if not, you should def. talk to like a counselor or someone about it. and why do you always dress in black (is there something that's been depressing you lately? you say you dress how you feel). and so what if you listen to metal, nobody can force you what music you should listen to. but if you need more info, IM me!! good luck!
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Hey theres this guy, a year older then me, his name is trey. i see him everyday hes really cute and all and we look at each other but neither of us will say a word! but yah anyways my friend erin's older bro, pat is friends with him and says treys kinda shy but has mentioned me to pat before. so we both know each other. and all but neither will make a move or anything. what should i doo? (link)
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i think you should probably make a move since it seems like you really want to. just start out with a "hey" instead of just looking at each other silently. most likely trey will say hey back and then you can ask "what's up" and he'll reply. then you can start just a casual conversation with him. i know it can be hard, but just get the courage to just say something! it's not going to help at all just waiting, and trey may never do anything! you should get to know each other better =) good luck!
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im 15 years old and female. i was going out with this guy that really liked me but i honestly never liked him that much so i broke up with him yesterday. and one of his friends likes me and i really like him also. and now my ex boyfriend hates me and the guy that likes me wants to go out with me. i dont know what im supposed to do. please help me (link)
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well since your ex really did like you, he's probably still recovering from the breakup (i mean come on, it ws only yesterday!) and when he found out that you and his friend liked each other he just got mega jealous and hurt. if you and his friend want to go out, don't do it right away because it really hurts when you get dumped and then your bf/gf goes out with somebody right away. try waiting a while, make sure he's pretty much recovered by that time. and also you should totally go out with that 2nd guy if you like him, i mean you can't always focus on everyone else's feelings (like your ex's). good luck!!
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if a boy doesnt want to talk to you anymore just because he accusses you of prankin him when you really didnt is that a good reason to stop talkin to him?... then after a month of not talkin anymore he decides to call me out of the randomness..but i didnt answer..should i call him back? or not?...please helpp (link)
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i think that you should call back and maybe talk a bit and then say "so now do you finally believe that if wasn't me that pranked you?" if he still believes it, then forget him-stop talking to him. if he doesn't, then give him another chance =) let him know it wasn't you and that you wouldn't do something like that. good luck!!
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Hey im 16ive been going out with my boyfriend for about two months and he constantley accuses me of cheating on him when A. i never go anywere without letting him know B. Ive never been accuses of cheating before (and have never)
i tried letting him know how cheating affected me by my dad doing it to my mom but he just doesnt listen. what can i do to make him belive me?
-HELP! (link)
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i think he's afraid that you may take interest in other guys and you might fall for them, and he truly cares about you and doesn't want any other guys to have you. he's seems a bit on the overprotective side. make sure you let him know that if you tell him you aren't cheating on anyone, and if he truly loves you, he'd believe you. and that if you guys are going to have a relationship, you have to learn how to trust each other. has he seen you do stuff to other guys that makes it seem like you like them? if not, he shouldn't have anything to worry about. good luck!!
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hey about the anorexic thing, well i founf out that im actually the weight im supposed to be so im fiine (link)
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lol np!! =)
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okay .. ive liked this guy for awhile, and he asked me to go to the christmas dance with him and then before it he asked me out. i said yes and we were happy for the first week, and then we started to get in little arguments all the time because he's like really sensitive and even when i was just kidding and i thought he knew he always thought i was serious. but then he would do the same kind of kidding around with me, and i knew he was kidding and laughed about it and it didnt bother me. but then 2 weeks after the dance he dumped me. the reason was because i was always thought he was making fun of me? .. when really it was him who was always making fun of me. Well i still liked him, but i immediatly started to see other people , and i went to the movies with another guy 2 days later. some of the guys friends are the same as my x and i think he found out. well, it just so happened he called me that night after i got back from the movies telling me he was really sorry and that he wanted me back. well i was going to new york the next day and the last thing i wanted was to pick between old and new love so i told him he had to wait. then when i got home i went back out with him, we got along great, until we got in one little argument, and then he dumped me immediatly and announced he liked another girl, well then he found out that she didnt like him and then i didnt hear from him for a couple days. then we went on a school function and he flirted with me the entire time. now he likes me again. i still like him , but the fact that he dumped me twice bothers me , what should i do? (link)
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dude, i'd def. say that you shouldn't get back with him. he's dumped you 2 times already in like a few weeks, how do you know he won't dump you again? and i doubt he's worth it, if he keeps switching back and forth. you don't deserve to be treated like this by a guy, no matter how much you love him. i somehow get the feeling that when he dumped you, he still sort of liked you but then he got really jealous so he wanted you back again but then he dumped you again and now he likes you again!! that's just so wrong and he doesn't deserve you.!!
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okay, so i`ve known this guy for about 3 years and his name is Zach. We`ve liked each other for a long time and recently started going out. He`s amazing, but the thing is, he lives an hour away....some people say it isnt that bad, but it really is because we`re not old enough to drive and go see each other....should we keep up the long distance thing, or just be friends? (link)
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well, do you go to the same school as him? if you do, you always see him everyday anyway. you can always just call, IM, or email him. if he doesn't go to your same school, where did you meet him? at an extra curricular class? you can always see him there (like once a week) and you can also make weekend plans every once in a while (not too much, since you live so far away and it'll get pretty annoying to always get there). but maybe when he just happens to be in your area ya'll can hang out.
how often do you see each other? if like only once a month or less, i think you should just be friends. but it's really up to you, i mean how much do you love him? good luck!!
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A few months ago, my crush found out i liked him ( which wasz COMPLETLY embarassing by the way ) well anyway...my friends say that he looks at me alot but i don't know if it's cause he likes me cause then whenever i'm in groups with him, it's like i never even existed! I don't know...does he like me? Or am i just dreaming it? ( cause believe me, i have! lol j/k )
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1) he could be looking at you because he likes you. and whenever ya'll are in groups, he's just mega-shy around you.
2) he could just be looking at you because he keeps thinking "that's the girl who has a crush on me. what should i do??!" and wants to see your reaction or w/e.
3) maybe your friends are lying? have you seen him look at you yourself?
4) maybe you are just dreaming it. dreams sometimes get ahead of reality, but dreams can also come true too =).
good luck!!
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hey * well i like these two kids. both are very good friends. i went out with one of them before. i really really like the one i didnt go out with before though ( better then the other one ) , i want to tell BOTH of them how i feel , but i cant ! i wont be able to tell both * and plus the one i really like doesnt like me ;[ & i dont know about the one i did go out with .. what should i do ! sincerely , confused (link)
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the one you went out with should know you like him (or at least used to like him) because you did go out with him after all. if i were you, i'd focus on the guy you didn't go out with but you like him more. well if you can't tell him how you feel, maybe you can somehow find out if he likes you more than a friend or not. but if you're good friends, sometimes best friends become more =). try becoming better friends with that 2nd guy and see how things turn out. good luck!!
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hey some guys are calling me fat and im getting really sad and depressed and i think i might go anorexic... what should i do? (link)
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that's so mean!! are you sure they aren't just joking and purposely making you feel bad? or are you really overweight (if you are it's not the end of the world!!).
first find out if you're overweight (or just a little on the chubby side). how old are you? search online for a site that says the average weight of girls your age. then find out.
and you should def. not go anorexic!! and anorexic is a disease anyway, like no matter how skinny a girl is, she still thinks she's fat! being anorexic is so bad for you, don't do it!! it only hurts you, it doesn't help!!
here are some tips for losing weight: avoid fatty foods and candy. exercise (do 10 pushups every morning and night) and i'm sure you have PE over schooldays. try seeing the doctor, i've heard there's these pills you can take that help you lose some weight. also avoid those boys, they need lives. good luck!!
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hey i just found out that this guy likes me and my friend and he is totally flirting with me. lol =] well i heard he is gonna ask me out. should i say yes or no? some of my friends like him.
you kno the rule...chicks before dix =] (link)
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maybe you should tell your friends before he asks you out so they won't be so surprised or w/e. and i know it's going to be hard for your friends because the guy they like has a gf and all but if they're your true friends, they'd understand.
and you never even said if you liked this guy, do you? if you truly do then you should def. say yes!! you can't let your friends force you to not go out w/ someone, at least not in this case. and if you don't, then idk, say yes if you want or just say no. it's really up to you, your friends don't control the decisions you make. good luck!!
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hey i love the layout!!! =) (link)
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aww thank you :)!! cyas
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