what do u do when ur best/f wants to kill herself and u cant do anything about it bc u dont live any where near her any more?
Talk to her tell her all the horrible things that will happen! I went through the same thing! My friends mom hated her and she did everything wrong that she just wnated to kill herself! I told her I would tell her rents I told her how I would be so mad at her and never forgive her and I would tell the police so she could go to a mental home!!!! Going home on a Friday is way scary when a friend wants to kill themselves and you dont got there number or adress! But I got to her and she came to school monday!
Hpe I helped!
Bianca
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I'm sure none of you can help me, but I felt it rarely hurts to ask. I am an art major, and becoming an art teacher is my last resort. Becoming a teacher would be moderate money-wise, but it won't make it easy for me to pay my mother's 25,000 dollar debt, and I know I will have to eventually, she's been unemployed for several months now (Since November) and has no intentions on find a job. I think the best answer for me would be working under a small comic book company, comic strips, or other things along these lines. I'm full of ideas, and I've got no way of using them. What should I do? Do any of you know of a location I can submit ideas to. And even if I did submit something, what would I include in my submission? Does anyone have any ideas as to how on earth I can make a living on art to the point where I can pay off my mom's debt?
well if you wnat quick money paint something and sell it!!
Bianca
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i was with this guy and he broke up with me and i still have feelings for him and im in summer school so is he in class he is always starring at me and talk to me a whole lot more than he did when we were together how do i find out if he still has fellings for me if im to shy to ask. i am 15and a half
Totally ask if the spark is still burning!
Bianca
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Everytime
Everytime you ignore me , my heart shatters
Everytime I see you with Her , I break inside
Everytime you treat me just like a little girl , I feel disappointed in you
You treat me like a game
I’ve sacrificed so much just to be seen worthy in your eyes
Why can’t you do the same ?
I can’t take it anymore ,
I try to break away ,
But I stay firmly bonded to you ,
You’re torturing me more and more each day
Everytime I smile you you ,
You just turn away ,
If you never loved me ,
Why did you have to play ?
Did you ever consider what I thought
Can’t you tell you just threw my heart away
What do you have to say for yourself
Because it’s your fault
I can’t take it anymore ,
I try to break away ,
But I stay firmly bonded to you ,
You’re torturing me more and more each day
Wow intence! Totally came from the heart! good job
Bianca
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There's this guy i have a huge crush on ,
and reccently , he has been sending me vibes that he isn't interested in me , which is the opposite of what he was sending me a week ago . He basically ignored me !
To tell the truth , i feel hurt . I suppose i was exaggerating a little , but i have written this poem which is in the topic "Education-Writing" Called Everytime . Read it and i guess you will understand how i feel now .
What should i do ?
Please help .
All guys do this he may have a change of heart for a long time! just go with the flow and move on
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I want to tell this guy I like him but he has a girlfriend!The first time I met him he told me he liked me!I have a feeling I have waited too long and that he doesnt want me anymore!But I think about him all the time and I am in love w/ him!Signed,bummed love
I am 13 and a female!
Well tell him how you still feel!!! He might be bumming w/ that grl bc/ he wants you!!!
Bianca
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I'm 24 and I've been with my boyfriend, Rob, for 2 years. He's got everything I look for in a guy. He is tall, dark and handsome with a wonderful personality.
But every 6 months I visit my parents who are living in Canada and 2 years ago (just after I'd started seeing my boyfriend) I went to see them as usual. And there I met Jason. His parents are friends with my parents and the first time I saw Jason, he just blew me away. We had this incredible connection and chemistry and it was something I'd never ever felt before. The instant attraction between us was unbearable. But obviously there was Rob to think of and I was there for only 2 weeks, so nothing happened. When I got back and saw Rob, I'd kicked myself for even thinking there may be something with Jason, because Rob was just perfect. But 6 months later, I went to Canada once again to see my parents and just like before, Jason managed to take my breath away. It was as if we'd never been apart. There was still that amazing chemistry but this time stronger. But again, nothing happened. It was exactly the same last year when I saw my parents twice. So this has been going on for 2 years and even though I'm still with Rob and he's wonderful, I just can't forget Jason (he's still single). He's always somewhere in my mind. I can't imagine my life without Rob but I find myself wondering what Jason is doing and excited about seeing him again. Is this fate trying to tell me something? I feel lost and confused. Please give me your thoughts.
Well all I can say is follow your heart. This is beyond all of my advice! Make the right choice!!
Bianca
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i babysit this child whom is eleven. She is a very impresionable child, she goes on to the internet to meet boyfriends and cuts herself.what should i do?
Ok totally tell her parents bc the cuts will get wrse! Plus if you dont this shadow of guilt will follow you if she gets hurt! Talk to her while her parents. Its probably best though if you let the rents take care of it! The excuse of 'well they pay the best and wont hirew me again' will come to mind but if you say something they will trust you even more! and will tell people and will trust you so much more! So no matter how bad the girl gets tell bc its worth saving a life!
Bianca
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i want to rock my girlfriend's world...i'm talking something she'll never forget. i know all about how most guys know nothing about what to do, blah blah, but i'd like to be the exception. i'd like to know the best way to finger, eat out, and i guess have sex.
Well if its her first be very gentle. Dont force her into doing anything! Just make sure you are totally protected and BOTH of you have nothin like aids or something! Just dont push your luck! or too hard be safe!:)
Bianca
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i am going out with this lad, but i am in love with his best mate. what shalli do?
Well tell the lad how you feel. Then tell his best mate how you feel.
Bianca
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umm well im going to the beach, and my bathing suit is making me look fat? should i get another one? or look extra fat
signed: Big J-Fizz
Well you shouldnt care what size you are! You should like yourself the way you are! dont try to impreess ne 1 but you! Hope I helped!
Bianca
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ive been goin out /w this guy 2 weeks exactly. were kissed b 4, and weve held hands god nows how many times, and we went 2 the movies yesterday and he had his hand around me and i have my head on his shoulder. that basically shows you how close we are. i just got out of school for 3 months. i gave him my phone # in his yearbook. i still feel strange about calling him though. and i dont now why. do i call him or wait for him to call me?
~*A*~
Well you guys sound serious........ but I would feel funny too if he hasnt called too. Mabye you didnt give him youer number.....................................
or he lost it. Shure call him see whats going on! Well I hoped I helped!
Bianca
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im nearly 16 and been seeing my gf for about 6 months my penis is 5-6 inches long is that average? im a bit worried what she'll think.
Ok I have friends who say there penis is 6 inches and that is really big! So I would totally be pleased! Man If went out with you id say yes!
hope I helped!
Bianca
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Ok, there is this guy and we are really good friends. We are such good friends that it almost out does any of my other friends that are girls. We talk about everything and you can never split us apart. But he has a girlfriend and i am not jelous or anything its just that he spends more time with me than he does with her. I want them to be together and ever since they started going out he has kinda ignored me until now! Once summer break hit so did he. We have done somethin every single night this week and i really like the attention but i dont want his girlfriend to be mad. Now we are going to Grand Rapids together to watch his girlfriend perform. What do you think i should do just keep goin along with it or ask him why he never spends more time with is girl friend. Help me
Signed confused
You have a pure heart of gold! Mabye you should talk to him and tell him how you are feeling! Or you can set them up! Tell them you wannaa go see a movie with both of them and leave them there its totally romantic. You might think its corny though! Well I hope I helped you!
Bianca
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hey-
i like this guy...lets call him, um, Jack(not his real name). So I think Jack likes me. Last year his friend told me he did, but I don't know how true that was. This year we're in two classes together and we talk sometimes. Once he threw a hacky-sack at me because he's a Red Sox fan and I'm a Yankees fan. He says that 'he's out to get all the Yankees fans'. So we throw little paper balls and pens and stuff at each other...sort of flirting. I really like him, but just because he throws stuff at me (lol) doesn't mean he likes me. He could be just flirting and not have it mean anything-what I mean is he could just be playin' as my friend or whatever. That's what I don't know. Help! If you need more info, ask or email me at epic2004@charter.net. PLEEZ HELP!
signed:
~usherluva07~
well in this situation its hard to tell. But ask a friends to talk to him! Thats the advice I can give you!
Bianca
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My boyfriend and i have been together i miswell say a year and 5 months and we are some what getting tired of each other and we fight and argue and at some points its so hard to hang on to the relationship. he was my first love but after so long everything gets so old and you want new things, new people - we are in high school we shouldnt settle down.. ya know? so whats ur advice... itd b very hard getting used to ont having *him* call constantly and stuff.. it'd be a dramatic change =( =)
Ok first loves are alaways a pain (I hear) But there is no use to keep fighting! Try to work it out. If not its probly best you wernt together anymore! Everyone wants the first love to work out and people do anything for that! well dont be a fool!
Hope I helped!
Bianca
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I'm a female, sexually active in about 2 days.
Ok, are you like supposed to shave it ALL off down there? Or leave a tiny bit?
I'm a bit too squeamish for a brazilian wax, so any help?
Well its up to you 100% some people shave all of it others have shaved none of it! Or you can leave alittle or as muchh as you want see its totally up to you!
Bianca
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my mom is way overprotective of me. i mean, i am her first born, only daughter (i have 1 sibling, a brother 4 years younger), and getting ready to graduate next year. i know hse is just scared for me, but she wont let me do alot of stuff. i mean, i dyed my hair from blonde to black a few months ago and she wont let me touch up my blonde roots (i look silly) and she wont even let me do silly little things...like i want to go and see the fireworks this year with my friends, instead of my family like it is every year. is there any easy way i can make my mom realize that im NOT a little girl anymore, i am 17 and ready to do stuff for myself and make my own desiciions?
Well I have thew same problem but Im 13. My parents dont trust the people out there they say. I cant even cross the street without a walky talkie or them! All the advice I can give you right notw is just go with the flow. When your 18 you can do whatever you want by law ecept drink! Unless you stilll are living with them. I just take it step by step start with little thing like going to a mov ioe and work your way. Remember there are doing for the sake of your life and theres! Well I really hope I heped you with this! Also one more thing Dont try to do things behinde their back they alaways find out and you would lose all you worked for!
Bianca
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well this guy i hook up with now we're finally dating.. but ..i met these two guys one that plays soccer ad is really sweet and in my grade dif school thouhg. and one that is gonna come to my school and is gonna be a senior. they both seem sweet andi'm meeting them soon. i dont think nething will happen witthem but what about if it does? and it ends up my my dating buddy was pretyt good friends with the senior..
Well your are the player arnt you? Well its no biggie. Gutys do the same thing so why cant we? Now if a guy answers this question thenIm sure youll get a diffrent answer! lol
Bianca
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Ok, my boyfriend and i just broke up .. and the thing is, I still love him to death but i have this "thing" for this other guy that i've been talking to.. I'm a freshman and the other guy is a senior .. He likes me or so he says and he's not that type of guy that wants "action" .. he's stilla virgin.. but .. what should I do? I can I handle this?
Well there must be a reason you broke up with your b/f........Just think closly about that reason and that depepends if he still likes you ask him out again. But if the reason was a good one than just move on. Buty if you dont trust this guy just talk and get to know him more befor you guys go out! Hope I helped you
Bianca
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