i've had sex for the first time with my bf this weekend and went home with an AWFUL uti... we still want to keep having sex but i don't wanna get more uti's. is there anything i can do after sex to avoid uti's?? please help me out guys! thanks!
Make sure you're both nice and clean down there before you have sex. Definately avoid going from anal to vaginal sex to avoid cross contamination. Use sanitary wipes or baby wipes to clean your area after sex. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Ok, it's not like you think well maybe it is we really haven't gone on a date for a really long time and we did a few days ago, still no sex. I devote plenty of time to the relationship, still no sex. He did become abusive again a few months ago but I'm over it and have forgiven him. I guess I should have left then or something. Even when we do have sex which has now dwendled down to less than one time a week, I do not feel sexual if that makes sense. Before I enjoyed it, now it's like I'm going through the motions. Any suggestions?
There could be several things going on with this guy. He could already have another girlfriend/fuck buddy and doesn't need sex from you. He doesn't love or care about you but he's just keeping you around till he finds something else. He may be having some serious mental issues ,ie; family, work or relationship issues he needs to deal with. If you can't see yourself with this guy in the future or you can't imagine that you're that in love with him, it may be time to end the relatioship anyways. Find someone that makes you truly happy without a lot of drama to go along with it. I hope this helps and good luck.
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yes because am scared. but the thing is that yesterday i drank the birth control pill for the first time and today i had discharged in my panties. i don't know why these happened:(
It may just be coincedense, but what kind of birth control are you taking that you drink it? I've only heard of the pill type. I wouldn't worry about the discharge unless you start to bleed heavy or unusual for a few days. Let me know how things go in a few days.
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Okay im 16/f and i started having sex at age 13 ive only had sex with men i enjoy it but i always have fantasys about women and i fine them attractive sexually and emotionally, ive never done anything with a girl only a kiss. Im with a man right now but i feel like something wrong i wish i could figure myself out please help me
I was very confused at your age too and mostly dated boys but was really turned on by girls. I had my fist sexual experience was when I was 18 and thought it was wonderful. I was still interested in boys but I really loved the way I felt when I was with the girls. I finally realized that I was just a horny girl and loved having sex. It wasn't until my late 20's that I figured out that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with a man. I still get the urge to be with a woman but it can't replace the stability I feel with a man. Don't be afraid to explore both sides of your sexuality and don't get discouraged if you hit on a girl and she turns you down, because you'll find one eventually. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Thank you so much.. i have another question. am so sorry :( today i eat a banana and then 5 minutes after a i drank my birth control pill with some milk. is this bad.>????
No it won't hurt at all. Glad to see you're eating right and taking your birth control :)
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my 16 yr old bf and i had sex last night for the first time and my cherry was popped so i started bleeding on him. it is now almost 24 hours later and im still bleeding down there with pains in the ovary area. how long does the bleeding last after a cherry has been popped?
More than likely he may have jump started your period. My husband has started mine up to a week early from some rough and fun sex. There is typically a small amount of blood from your cherry but nothing that should last past the sex. If you keep bleeding, tell your parents you need to see a doctor. You don't need to tell them about the sex, but you will need to tell the dr. and he will keep it a secret. I hope this helps and good luck.
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thank so much. i already know about those websites. do you know others???? can you please give them. & last night i had sex with my boyfriend and it felt good. i don't know am just confused about this. :(
Well here's a main hub for a lot of porn. I haven't checked them all out but there's a few I like. Have fun going through them. :)
http://www.skycrestauto.com/a/Pages/MOVIE_LINKS.htm
Glad to hear it felt good but what are you still confused about?
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hey, sorry if its in the wrong column and long
hi, im 16/f
well, my bf and i have been dating for 4 almost 5 yrs now and our parents and siblings get along great. we both really love each other and we'r even taking it to the next level (after kissing) ;). i know that i may be too young, but im almost 17 now and it will be the 1st time for both of us, and we WILL be using a condom. i would love to take the next step in our relationship but there's 1 problem. i dont know how to put this but i have a jungle down there if you know what i mean. and i dont know how he will take that cause i read online that one of the top 10 ways to end a r-ship are poor grooming down there. plus im not exaggerating this but HIS PENIS might get stuck in that bush while trying to get in MY VAGINA. so what im trying to ask is is there any way i can make my "jungle" disappear. i need an answer asap caus we're gonna have sex next friday night, as a valentines day gift seeing how we have school on mon we'll be celebrating on fri. first a day out together doing what we want to do and then dinner and back to his place for the night. his parents will be gone for the weekend and his brother is staying at his friends house. but my parents are ok with me staying the night at his place cause he will be home alone and its better to have someone with you and not throw a prty while your parents are gone. but thy do not know of the sex part. so should i tell them that ornot cause they wont let me stay with him then and i dont know what to do. so please help me with those 2 questions. thanks very much :)
If you have a really close relationship with your mom, then you can tell her after the fact but you can leave out the details beforehand. Now for the jungle, try to find some barbers clippers to start. Use them without a hair guard and cut away the heavy hair near your vagina up to the top of your clit. You may want to keep some hair on top but trim it down until you see what you like. After that, get a nice new razor, get in the shower, soap the area well, apply shaving cream and carefully shave your area. You may want to find a small mirror to help out. If it fogs up, use some shaving cream on it to keep it clear. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. I hope this helps and good luck.
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17 years old/female/110 pounds
story short: after one beer I get nauseous and feel like i need to throw up. This happened about 3 or 4 times and I don't know why. I started drinking in the 9th grade and everything was fine. I'm not a party girl at all but I do go one at least once a month and I've never lost control. I drink to socialize, not to pass out. so..Is this normal? Is my tolerance just really low? What should I do?
You are probably allergic to an ingredient in the beer. Just tell your friends your allergic and switch to wine coolers instead. That way you can feel like your part of the crowd and not get nauseous. I hope you stay true to your word and not turn into a party girl, as it is very easy to fall prey to social influence. I hope this helps and good luck.
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I have a laptop its an hp runs on windows 7, i do look at porn and i have been for a while but ive always had antivirus because i tried every free trial out there now i'm out of free trails and i still look at porn but i always delete my history but ever since the antivirus was gone my computer always lags i cant watch a video ANY video from youtube ect longer that 5 mintues because my computer starts sounding like a broken record and the video keeps pausing and slowing down and i cant listen to music for a long time either of my computer starts acting up the music starts sounding slow and stuff and i have a free malware(not antivirus) thingy that is called spybot and it scans everything and sometimes i look at the details of whats its scanning and its
"running bot check 2224/1297978-internet"
for example im guessing that means it scanning the internet well the whole point of this explanation is that sometimes it says
"running bot check 1399/1297978-pornhb"
or "running bot check 1398/1297978-PORNxx"
i always delete my history and cookies cache whatever but obviously porn is still somewhere in my computer but the problem is i dont know where because thats all the scan specifies it doesnt say where it is.I am planning to stop looking at porn on my computer because i know its what is making it slow and sometimes it even makes my internet mess up whenever im not even looking at it and says i have no internet and i have to restore the computer at least twice a day and it goes back to normal, so how can i remove this from my computer or where would it be or is an antivirus my only option the only reason i don't go ahead and install one is because im broke right now...Any thing will help guys sorry for the long message just wanting to put as much detail as possible for better understanding hopefully.
You can try ccleaner, it seems to work well for me. I hope this helps and good luck.
Ccleaner is a free download on filehippo.com
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I've been joking with a guy mate of mine about my birthday suit (ok flirting) and he said 'oh btw don't be a fridge magnet all your life'... Anyone know what he just called me!??? He won't tell me. Urban dictionary was no help either, I've already been there. Thankyou!!
16/f
I can only think of two possible meanings. One is your flat as a fridge. The other is when a guy refers to woman like a fridge, he usually means she's a cold hearted bitch. I hope this helps and good luck.
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well , i haven't tried none of that! am just 18 years old. and when i have sex with my boyfriend i don't feel nothing. i don't know why :( :( am so disappointed with my self.
You could be mentally unhappy which may be causing your body to not be happy. If you're stressed out or have a lot of family, school or boyfriend problems, your mind won't let your body be happy till it's happy. You need to start making yourself happy and a good way is to have some alone time and use that to have some good orgasms. Explore your body and find out what feels good. Many women don't orgasm just from vaginal sex, so you will more than likely have to stimulate your clit to achieve the big O. Make sure you're relaxed and stress free when your masturbating or you will be frustrated. Watch a little porn on the internet. I love redtube.com and xhamster.com for starters. Try some of these things and let me know how you're doing.
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I want to get a hair cut and I want to get it like selena gomez. I really like her hair in falling down video, she has alot of layers and her hair is the perfect length. What can I tell the barber? Or should I print out a picture of selena gomez's hair and show her how i want my hair?
Ps. What is her haircut called?
thnks (:
I'm not sure if it has a name but hairstylist can definitely go off any picture you bring in. Make sure the picture is clear and it's the one you want. I hope this helps and good luck.
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my boyfriend wants me to squirt during an orgasm how do i do that.
If you haven't squirted before this you probably won't. I have gushed quite a few times but nothing has actually squirted out. So, you'll have to let him know that it has nothing to do with him and tell him to quit watching so many porn movies because that's probably where he got the fascination from. I hope this helps and good luck.
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So, my girlfriend is extremely hot. Im not kidding. Recently she's really been pissing me off and i have considered on several occasions to just break up with her. But that means no more sex with this babe. I dont know what the hell to do.
I've found out through the years but some of the hottest girls can be the biggest bitches. And do you know why they are? Because men let them. If you don't love her or see yourself with her in the next few years, things will probably fizzle out before then anyways. So, you will either have to stand up to her and let her know how you feel or leave her and let her be the next guy's problem. I hope this helps and good luck.
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ok , when i have sex i don't feel nothing. am going to start drinking birth control pills. my nurse told me the birth control pills will give me pleasure while having sex. do you think this is true..???
Birth control can make your vagina a little more sensitive but not to the extent you're probably hoping for. Are you able to orgasm on your own? Does it feel good when you masturbate? Have you tried anything else inside your vagina and doesn't feel good either? I had a friend with a similar problem and she used some natural remedies. Try some Yohimbe, Ginko, Damiana or L-Arginine. Eating more banana's and avocado's are also known for increased sexual pleasure. If you have any other questions, please feel to ask me.
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This is gonna sound super weird, but is there any DVDs of the 2003 Japanese movie called Moon Child, I believe it was written by Kamui Gakuto? I'm just super curious because I read the plot and it sounded good... I need English (or Spanish) subtitles, though.
I think this may be the movie you're looking for.
http://www.moviesunlimited.com/musite/product.asp?sku=D65297
I hope this helps and good luck.
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I am a women in a relationship and I feel like I want sex more than my boyfriend does and I feel like I'm always begging for it shouldn't it be the other way around? I hate being the only one wanting it. I mean when we do have sex it's amazing but it only last about 10 mins and he talks about when he was younger he could go so much longer but he's only 19! So I've searched the internet and I've got him on vitamins and they worked for a little bit but not so much anymore and he says it's not me he think I'm attractive so idk what to think or if it's even worth it anymore?
I'm sorry to tell you but he seems to be a little lazy. I don't know how you could say 10 minutes of sex is amazing but I sure wouldn't. I'm sure he could hold out if he wanted but he obviously just wants to get things over with and move on. I understand the occasional quickie but not for the long haul. I think he's not very happy in this relationship and there may be something going on in his head that you may need to sit down and talk to him about. It may not have anything to do with you at all but whatever it is, it needs to be brought out in the open. I hope you can work things out and good luck.
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well im 18, and ive always been attracted to girls in a physical way but never had a crush on them or anything. ive been hooking up with girls since i was 15 but ive only dated guys and been in love with guys. lately theres this girl that ive been hooking up with just when we get drunk and want some fun, but im starting to get feelings for her. Shes one of my best friends so i love and care about her a lot and weve always hooked up and done pretty much everything there is to do. Shes fingered me, ate me out, all that stuff. We usually only hooked up when we were drunk but the other night we were completely sober and did it. i really like her, and i get jealous when she talks to other guys. I know shes hooked up with other girls before but she claims not to have feelings for girls like that. She calls me her girlfriend to everyone and we hookup all the time, yet she still keeps talking to other guys and even was dating one while we were hooking up and stuff. My question is, do you think she likes me like that? enough to be in a relationship with me? since she said she didnt like girls like that, ive been telling her the same thing, so now im too afraid to tell her how i really feel about her. truth is, i love this girl and i wanna be with her. i just dont know if she feels the same and i dont wanna tell her because shes my best friend and i dont wanna ruin that if she doesnt feel the same way about me.
I was actually in the same situation with two different girls. I was having fun with them and thought things were cool just being booty calls and I was still having sex with men but after a short time, they approached me about being exclusive. One wanted me to move in with her and not see anyone else and the other wanted the same without the moving in part. I was very flattered that they felt so strongly about me but I wasn't in a good place in my life at the time and let them down gently. I explained that I loved being with them, hanging out, drinking and the sex was great but I couldn't make the commitment to be faithful. So, sorry to drone on about me and back to your problem. If you don't want to lose her as a friend I would suggest try going out on some mini dates with her. Start with lunches, then the movies, a spa day and then maybe dinner or a night club. You'll find out a lot about how she feels about you when she's in public with you. How close she sits to you, how she touches you and does she want to make plans right away after you've just been out. These are all signs that can lead you to her feelings. If you're still confused after a month, just sit down with her and tell her how much you enjoy being with her and you'd like to be her girlfriend. She may turn you down and you'll have to respect her wishes and you'll need to move on or keep on being her friend and let things be the same. If you need any other help, please feel free to ask me. I hope this helps and good luck.
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my gf believes shes found her soulmate. its not me. you know how much that hurts? i have never felt this bad in my life. and ive had a pretty horrible life. and ive felt pretty horrible in my life. please help me. i cant take much more of life
There are some women that are just bitches and don't care who they hurt. Unfortunately you were in a relationship with one of them. Not all of us are that way. Sometimes it just takes a little patients and weeding through the bad ones to find the good one. I'm sure you had strong feelings for her and it will take some time to get over her but you don't want to be in a relationship with someone that hurts you. Who's to say she'll be with the next guy and tell him the same thing? Let her be his problem and find someone that deserves your love and attention. I hope this helps and good luck.
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