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Rarely Have Sex Anymore
Ok, it's not like you think well maybe it is we really haven't gone on a date for a really long time and we did a few days ago, still no sex. I devote plenty of time to the relationship, still no sex. He did become abusive again a few months ago but I'm over it and have forgiven him. I guess I should have left then or something. Even when we do have sex which has now dwendled down to less than one time a week, I do not feel sexual if that makes sense. Before I enjoyed it, now it's like I'm going through the motions. Any suggestions?
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There could be several things going on with this guy. He could already have another girlfriend/fuck buddy and doesn't need sex from you. He doesn't love or care about you but he's just keeping you around till he finds something else. He may be having some serious mental issues ,ie; family, work or relationship issues he needs to deal with. If you can't see yourself with this guy in the future or you can't imagine that you're that in love with him, it may be time to end the relatioship anyways. Find someone that makes you truly happy without a lot of drama to go along with it. I hope this helps and good luck.
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It doesn't happen all the time, the time before that was a few years ago.
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"He did become abusive again a few months ago but I'm over it and have forgiven him. I guess I should have left then or something."
I'd be less concerned with my non-existent sex life with this guy, and more concerned about my well-being, which he couldn't care less about.
Abusive behavior isn't healthy, isn't acceptable, and unless he's seeking around-the-clock help, you're diving head first into a doomed situation.
There are more things in a relationship than intimacy, and most certainly, it takes TWO people to make a relationship work.
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