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im Kristin. 20 years old. Criminal justice major/psychology minor at Georgia Southern University - let the good times roll =]. i'm really laid back, love talking to people, and having a good time. i get on here when i'm bored so if you have a question, inbox me!

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Hey. This might get long and complicated, sorry. I've been going out with this guy for about 2 and a half years. We recently broke up because my boyfriend flirts like crazy. I know it doesn't mean anything, but I get jealous. When we broke up it was a mutual thing. We both agreed on it. Then today I was hanging out with him (we decided on "just friends") and he asked me if I though we'd ever go out again. I said, "I hope so, you mean a lot to me." Then later that day my friend came over and while I was upstairs she asked him who he liked. He said some girl named Brianna. Then later, I asked him who he liked and he said me. Then I told him how I heard he likes Brianna and he said, "don't worry baby. it's you and me." He always says things like that. After a while I got pretty sick of hearing the same thing so I made up a fake screen name and I/Med him, (pretending to be my cousin.. lol its bad I know) and I asked him who he liked. And he said Brianna, too. Then I was like, well i heard you like Paige again. (I'm Paige) And he's like, "nope. i like Brianna, my soon to be girlfriend"

So what's this mean? He tells me one thing, then tells other people another. What's the deal here??! It's killing me. I've been the only one he went out with for about 3 years. He's my life. I can't see him go out with another girl. I'll go crazy.

I need help. Please

honestly, it does sound like his likes this Brianna. what was the reason yall decided to break up? was it because of the jealousy? fighting? was there no more spark? really think about what happened. two and a half years is a long time and its possible his feelings faded and Brianna is someone new to him, so he may be interested in her. its not right for him to tell you one thing and other people something different. that right there can cause trust issues between the two of yall, which isnt good. he's most likely just telling you what you want to hear. if he asked you if you'd want to get back together and says he likes you to your face, but then goes behind your back and says he likes someone else, he could end up using you as the rebound if he dates someone else, because he knows you'll always come back to him. and trust me thats not a good thing. if he goes out with brianna or another girl, but then realizes he honestly does want to be with you, then great! but dont let him keep leavin and coming back. so for now, i think its best if yall just go yalls seperate ways. i know it will be hard, but do you really want to be in a relationship with a guy who cant keep to one story? it'll be better for you in the end. good luck girl, hope i helped!

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My entire AP Environmental Science class is filled with slackers [it is known to be a slack class] but we all found out that it isn't. Everyone has an 80 or lower, and only about 3 people have an 80. So basically most of the class doesn't even have a B. We took a test today, and like every other test, everyone failed it.

The final is going to have old test questions on it, which will be really hard because our teacher doesn't make the tests. She uses the college textbook for the questions.

My question is, how likely is it that she would let us all pass with an A or B? It seems like she would curve the grades so we would get A's and B's, but she hasn't curved any test/quiz grades all semester.

um no. first of all, its an AP class, which is for the most part for students who are serious and will be dedicated to the work, even though you said its the slacker class. however, that is obvioulsy affecting the grades. its not up to her to curve grades to help students pass just because they were too lazy to do the work and actually make an attempt at passing.

not only that, but she could get fired for curving grades and get in serious trouble with the school board.

the only way grades are 'curved' is if you have like a 79.5 or something the .5 rounds up.

good luck!

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Is it possible to get pregnant when giving someone a blow job. i know you can get stds, but about pregnancy?

I'm not saying that I give them to people. I'm just curious.

simply put, no.
intercourse is required for a possible pregnancy.

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So i have a paper due tomarrow on Tears of a Tiger Analaysis and I wanted to know what are ways to right less but still in size 12 font? are there any bigger fonts or anything? I also need help finding slants in the book. Thanks ALOT

Courier or Courier New is bigger. i typed a 5 page paper in Times New Roman that turned out to be 7-8 when it was in Courier.

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You know that song "Calling All Cars" by Senses Fail? Well, does anyone know what they're singing about...I looked up their lyrics and I think I kind of get it, but Im not sure? thanks


www.songmeanings.net

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do girls like classical or rock musicians?

and i'm confused,cause i hear girls say that they love musicians,but

1)is it based on skill.exp:the better the guitaring is.the more the girl likes the guy?
does skill affect?or do girls just don't care if he is a sucky guitarist or a pro,they will still like the guitarist as long as he plays guitar??

2)is it also based on looks,?or do girls love great drummers and vocals even through they don't look good? so which one would a girl choose? a kickass drummer with average looks or a sucky drummer with model looks?

thanks for answering,anyways,if you girls like any other type of guys besides musicians....like bikers,car racers or skaters...just feel free to say what talent you would love in a guy.although i hear that most girls are not really into guys that race,but more to guys that are musically or sports inclined,it that true???

haha i love rockers =]

1- yes skill is important. if you cant play yet try to be all hard about it you'll just seem stupid and girls like to be impressed :]. but obviously if you really are trying to improve then that earns some brownie points as well...

2- it could be based on looks for some girls. personally id rather have the average looking guy with skill and a good personality.

as far as the rest, sporty guys are ok, but i also love punkish guys or like bikers/motocrossers.. basically the "bad boy" type i guess, haha.

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which do you prefer on guys?

tattoos or piercings?

and if either or both...which part of the body?

thanks for reading

personally i love earrings on guys (just one or two though) and maybe an eyebrow ring or something but not alot.. tattoos are good if its only like one or two as well.

my boyfriend has an earring and a tattoo on his arm and i love it.

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where can i gat love my eyes eyeliner??

Target, any drugstore... yeah pretty much anywhere.

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I was watching MTV this morning, and I saw a music video and I fell in love with the song.

Its name is : Monster[s]..
I dont remeber who sung it, and thats what I need. Its by a female artist, and the music video has flashing hearts..

hope that was enough to help. Thanks :o]

hmm, The Meg and Dia Band maybe ?

Monster:
His little whispers.
"Love me, love me." That's all I ask for.
"Love me, love me."
He battered his tiny fists to feel something. Wondered what it's like to touch to feel something.
Monster. How should I feel?
Creatures lie here. Looking through the windows.
That night he caged her.
Bruised and broke her.
He struggled closer. Then he stole her.
Violette wrists and then her ankles.
Silent Pain.
Then he slowly saw their nightmares were his dreams.
Monster. How should I feel?
Creatures lie here. Looking through the windows.
I will. Hear their voices.
I'm a glass child. I am Hannah's Regrets.
Monster. How should I feel?
Turn the sheets down.
Murder ears with pillow lace.
There's bath tubs.
Full of glow flies.
Bathe in Kerosene.
Their words tattooed in his veins

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I'm looking into getting a clear nose retainer. So I'll be able to hide my nose piercing. Does anyone know where I'd be able to find them? Please give specific store names. & Don't say Wal-mart or Target, because you CAN'T get them there. :]

Thanks.

Hot Topic.. and possibly Claire's.

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my school's winter formal is some time in january, but i want to get a really cute dress because last time i got mine at the last minute. where are some stores or websites i could look for a fancy-ish but not too fancy (it's not like prom) dress. i like short dresses - knee-length or a little shorter or longer. anything CUTE.. thanks!

also, how should i wear my hair? i have curly hair and i dont want to straighten it. should i get it done?

dresses at JCPenny are always great =] or else Dillards, Macy's, Belk, that kinda thing... good luck and have fun!

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okay well i have wanted a cartilage peircing for a verrry long time. i've peirced my ears 4 times without infections and stuff, but only on the lobe. i've HEARD that it's very dangerious to peirce my cartilage MYSELF. but i really want to do it.

while i will most likely do this nomatter what advice i get here, i really would like your input on how dangerous this is. i've heard crazy stories about peoples ears getting amputated and things like that. i dont know, i just need somebody who knows what they're talking about from experience.

oh and btw i was also thinking about my nose. i would also like advice on that.

thanks!! =)

any piercing has a risk of infection regardless of who does it. of course that doesnt mean to go pierce just yourself anywhere but ears arent that bad i dont think. i pierced my cartilage myself this summer and i havent had any problems with it. i just used like a sewing needle that i soaked in alchohol. just make sure you use a sterile needle, clean your ear with alcohol, and keep it clean after its done and it should be fine. however if you use a needle it could end up being a little smaller than the earring, thats how mine was so you still will have to shove the earring through some.

as for the nose, well i have no idea...

good luck!

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13/f
I have used Secret, Dove, Suave, Mitchum, and some men's deoderent but nothing works!! I sweat all over my clothes, but only on the underarm part, and it is embarrasing. I don't use deodarent at nite because I don't know what to use. Any advice would be SO greatly appreciated.

yeah, definitely Certain-Dri. its amazing.

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15/f. every year for Christmas my family goes crazy trying to think of good christmas presents for my grandparents. they are really hard to buy for, because if you ask them what they want they say that they don't need anything, but we have to get them something. and when we do come up with really good ideas they never even use the presents. so this year i was thinking of making them homemade presents so that they would mean more. but i have no clue what to make. any suggestions would really help! thanks

a photo album would be really sweet. or if they have a DVD player and you have the stuff to do it, like windows movie maker, you could burn them a photo/slide show dvd. my boyfriend did that for his aunt and it turned out great. you could ask your parents or aunts/uncles for pictures of them from their childhood, or pics of their kids and grandkids and put them in a chronological kind of order. grandparents love that kind of stuff =]

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i heard that if you shave your underarms and use deodorant, you have a better chance of getting breast cancer. i was concerned about this & studys that have been done said that this might be true. how would you even get around either of those?? if you're a girl, you need to shave there and obviously use deodorant. any ideas??

thanks!!

the shaving thing isnt true. however, i did hear that deoderant with aluminum can cause cancer. whether its true i dont know. so just buy deoderant without aluminum in it. they have it anywhere, just look at the ingredients.

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Ok so im 16 and the boy i dated was half a year younger than me and we dated for almost a year but we never did anything like hang out or anything so it really didnt seem like we were dating so i called it off. But i dont know if i still like him or not. I could talk to him about a lot of stuff like i told him i wasnt gonna have sex with him until i was ready and stuff because we were both still virgins and all. and he was ok with that but no matter how much we talked i kept thinking he was like every other guy. and i dont know if it scares me to be in a relationship or something but i need to know what to do. because even though its been like 4 months i still think about him a lot but dont know if i sitll like him. some days im atracted to him and other days im not and some days i think i like him still and other days i dont. so im really confused. But i flirt a lot with this other guy and i dont know i just keep thinking about the boy i dated. so will you please tell me what to do. ive tried to move on by flirting with that other guy and ive tried to not think about being in a relationship. but i dont know what to do.

it does sound like you're still into him. if he feels the same way, then yall could try giving it another chance if you wanted. yall didnt break up because of anything bad like fighting or cheating or anything like that, so it sounds like yall are still on good terms. relationships take effort. if yall didnt hang out that much, then it pretty much just got boring for you and thats why you called it off. so if yall do get back together, or even if you dont and go out with someone else, yall have to make an effort to be able to see each other. itll make it feel like a relationship, and when yall arent together youll be able to miss him which will bring yall closer. as far as the sex thing, you probably feel like that because maybe youve been with guys who have that one track mind before, and youre comparing him with them. if he respects your decision to wait, then youve got yourself a good guy. i can understand you still feeling like that though, im the same way with my boyfriend and were both virgins and have both agreed to wait. so its a normal concern. guys will be guys, of course, but just remember he is respecting your decision and you have to try not to judge him. you flirting with the other guy is good if you want to get over him, but if youd rather get back with him - talk to him about it and see what happens. if youd really rather get over him though, just keep doing what youre doing. its gonna take some time gettin over him, thats natural. so just flirt around and have some fun! go out with your friends and go dancing or bowling or somewhere where yall can meet or invite some guys and youll have windows of oppurtunties open. and before you know it youll be over your ex. hope that helps, if you have any more questions message me. good luck girl! =]

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im 13/f and i sweat a lot! on my feet, hands and underarms. i sweat on my underarms the most. iv tryed certain dry, dry-sol and both of them dont work, so basically no percription medicine work. i was thinking of getting the botox injections. iv been sweating my whole middle school years and its been bothering me a lot. i cant wear a lot of things i like because id get embarissed if someone sees the wet marks. I'm not sure what to do. Should i get the botox injections? sorry if this was long i really need help!

thanks

ive heard great things about Botox. however, its pretty pricey. about $600-$700. if you go to a dermatologist they can prescribe Glycopyrrolate. its a pill you take 1-3 times daily and it works really well. you should be able to get it as long as you dont have any allergies to medicine. good luck girl =].

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If your very active in sports by using certain dri will it effect you in any harmful way because it blocks your pores and u sweat during sports? Like will it make u faint or anything?

nope.

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ok well my girlfreinds birthday is coming up and she told me to buy her perfume that i really liked, beacuse she's sweet like that. any ways. i really dont know much about perfumes, but i really want to get her prefume and use this chance because a good smelling perfume is a HUGE turn on for me.
so my question is this..what are some decently priced perfumes that smell really good, i just dont know where to start. there is this one kind of perfume that i smelled once, but i dont remember any thing about it, except that it smelled amazing.

so got any ideas?

wellll i love::

Curve or Curve Crush by Liz Claiborne [$40ish for the big bottle]
Princess by Vera Wang [$40-50]
Miami Glo by J-lo
Ralph Lauren Hott
Tommy Girl by Tommy Hillfiger
Provocative by Elizabeth Arden [my bf got me that one and i love it]
8 by Abercrombie

im not sure about the prices on the rest of them, but they're not over $50 i think. good luck!

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hi everyone,

does anyone know a site where you can download music videos and tv shows ABSOLUTLEY FREE. i know you can with limewire but i want to put the Music Videos and TV Shows on my iPod. please help!

thank you!

--oakley

www.bearshare.com

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