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Ok so im 16 and the boy i dated was half a year younger than me and we dated for almost a year but we never did anything like hang out or anything so it really didnt seem like we were dating so i called it off. But i dont know if i still like him or not. I could talk to him about a lot of stuff like i told him i wasnt gonna have sex with him until i was ready and stuff because we were both still virgins and all. and he was ok with that but no matter how much we talked i kept thinking he was like every other guy. and i dont know if it scares me to be in a relationship or something but i need to know what to do. because even though its been like 4 months i still think about him a lot but dont know if i sitll like him. some days im atracted to him and other days im not and some days i think i like him still and other days i dont. so im really confused. But i flirt a lot with this other guy and i dont know i just keep thinking about the boy i dated. so will you please tell me what to do. ive tried to move on by flirting with that other guy and ive tried to not think about being in a relationship. but i dont know what to do.
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it does sound like you're still into him. if he feels the same way, then yall could try giving it another chance if you wanted. yall didnt break up because of anything bad like fighting or cheating or anything like that, so it sounds like yall are still on good terms. relationships take effort. if yall didnt hang out that much, then it pretty much just got boring for you and thats why you called it off. so if yall do get back together, or even if you dont and go out with someone else, yall have to make an effort to be able to see each other. itll make it feel like a relationship, and when yall arent together youll be able to miss him which will bring yall closer. as far as the sex thing, you probably feel like that because maybe youve been with guys who have that one track mind before, and youre comparing him with them. if he respects your decision to wait, then youve got yourself a good guy. i can understand you still feeling like that though, im the same way with my boyfriend and were both virgins and have both agreed to wait. so its a normal concern. guys will be guys, of course, but just remember he is respecting your decision and you have to try not to judge him. you flirting with the other guy is good if you want to get over him, but if youd rather get back with him - talk to him about it and see what happens. if youd really rather get over him though, just keep doing what youre doing. its gonna take some time gettin over him, thats natural. so just flirt around and have some fun! go out with your friends and go dancing or bowling or somewhere where yall can meet or invite some guys and youll have windows of oppurtunties open. and before you know it youll be over your ex. hope that helps, if you have any more questions message me. good luck girl! =]
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