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two faced boyfriend?
Hey. This might get long and complicated, sorry. I've been going out with this guy for about 2 and a half years. We recently broke up because my boyfriend flirts like crazy. I know it doesn't mean anything, but I get jealous. When we broke up it was a mutual thing. We both agreed on it. Then today I was hanging out with him (we decided on "just friends") and he asked me if I though we'd ever go out again. I said, "I hope so, you mean a lot to me." Then later that day my friend came over and while I was upstairs she asked him who he liked. He said some girl named Brianna. Then later, I asked him who he liked and he said me. Then I told him how I heard he likes Brianna and he said, "don't worry baby. it's you and me." He always says things like that. After a while I got pretty sick of hearing the same thing so I made up a fake screen name and I/Med him, (pretending to be my cousin.. lol its bad I know) and I asked him who he liked. And he said Brianna, too. Then I was like, well i heard you like Paige again. (I'm Paige) And he's like, "nope. i like Brianna, my soon to be girlfriend"
So what's this mean? He tells me one thing, then tells other people another. What's the deal here??! It's killing me. I've been the only one he went out with for about 3 years. He's my life. I can't see him go out with another girl. I'll go crazy.
I need help. Please </3
If it helps, we're both 17.
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honestly, it does sound like his likes this Brianna. what was the reason yall decided to break up? was it because of the jealousy? fighting? was there no more spark? really think about what happened. two and a half years is a long time and its possible his feelings faded and Brianna is someone new to him, so he may be interested in her. its not right for him to tell you one thing and other people something different. that right there can cause trust issues between the two of yall, which isnt good. he's most likely just telling you what you want to hear. if he asked you if you'd want to get back together and says he likes you to your face, but then goes behind your back and says he likes someone else, he could end up using you as the rebound if he dates someone else, because he knows you'll always come back to him. and trust me thats not a good thing. if he goes out with brianna or another girl, but then realizes he honestly does want to be with you, then great! but dont let him keep leavin and coming back. so for now, i think its best if yall just go yalls seperate ways. i know it will be hard, but do you really want to be in a relationship with a guy who cant keep to one story? it'll be better for you in the end. good luck girl, hope i helped!
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