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i'm Ange, a 19 year old female aussie and i love helping people! I am willing to help with almost any issues you may have... so feel free to ask me. i wont judge you on what you ask so dont feel embarrased. :) but beware! if you ask a stupid question with a logical answer, i will be very blunt... and remember...
*~respect yourself~*

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I'm in a relationship at the moment, and im really happy. Yet at the same time i kinda wish i wasnt. It's not like i dont like him or anything it's just I'm only 14 and i dont really feel like i need a bf. I was just wondering what do YOU think is the rite time to start dateing, and why. ane Please help me decided what to do. Thanks.

well i had my first boyfriend at 12. i felt i was ready for a relationship so i went for it. but if you are second guessing yourself then you mostlikely you shouldn't be in a relationship. just remember. that relationships are fine but they should be fun! if its not fun then its not working.

~ANGE
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my school is not fair to me. all the kids that go to junior high work 7 hours and only get a 15 minute break! to me that is completely outragous! and the high school students either dont get lunch or get lunch 1 time a week! and they work longer. i cant stand my school. how can i change how my illegal school is treating kids that they think have no responcibility even to have enough time to relax at lunch. my friend's school has freakin 50 minutes! i hate school. im so stressed and i feel like killing myself because i dont have any break time. please help

go to the council and make a formal complaint. complain to your principal. that is not right.

~ANGE
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I was at my friend's house the other day and we decided to make him pass out. Then i wanted to try it just to see how it felt. So i hyper-venalated myself, held my breath, and let him pick me up with my arms crossed at my chest. Before i knew it i woke up and was on the floor. Everyone was staring at me and i didn't remember anything but it was really cool. I did it about 12 more times. Is there a health risk when you do this? Can it cause serious damage to your brain or anything??

PLEASE STOP! this is NOT healthy. you can really hurt yourself. the human body is not meant to withstand passing out every 2 seconds

~ANGE
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well hi im CYnthia im 9 and ive been doing crazy stuff can u give me ashlee simpsons aim adress or phone number i need it because i told this guy she could go to his concert im sorry i really screwed up.

sorry mate, cant help you there, ey.

~ANGE
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hey im a good writer and all but im havin trouble writing a poem to my friend. I wrote it out in a paragraph saying

"I've been doing some thinking. This may sound a little akward but I'm sorry I know your right. I guess I haven't been using my head so greatly these past few weeks. I'm happy to finally know I actually have someone who will give me helpful advice and a shoulder to cry on. When I need it. I guess we can thank those summer night chats with out those I guess we really wouldn't have all those memories and inside jokes made.
Thanks for being there for me"

I know if I work for hours I can get it but I can't seem to get it out. Can someone write a poem for me? or should I just leave it as it is and explain that in a paragraph form and not make any changes. I'm not sure what to do... thanks for helping if you do.

(P.S. he writes as well)

well... i write poetry and i just did a little thing for you. you must be a great person. :)

You are the greatest friend I could need
Without you around I’d be lost indeed
Thanks for the chats on those warm summer nights
And thanks for never starting massive fights
You’ve been there for me when I’m happy or sad
You keep persisting to make sure I’m fine-even when I get mad
When I need advice your there for me
And I never want to lose you, you see
I know now that I never will find
A friend as good as you are
And I know you are never too far
All those inside jokes keep us together
I know we can handle any kind of weather
You are my best friend and this is true
I want you to know that I love you!

~ANGE
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hey! glad i could help. you ever need anything, just ask!

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Happy Valentines Everyone!!
OK...well here is my question...i like this boy ok...and he is my ex but i fell for him again and all of my friends say that he flirts with me every day. I dont know what to think and what does a guy do if he likes someone? thanks a bunch...I RATE HIGH!!
__ME__

okay. one question... why is he your ex?

~ANGE
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Hey yall i jus got bangs and boy i hate them they arnet like the ones that go all the way across your forehead. they are the ones where u have a part down themiddle and there are two on each side i then they look bad and i cant wait for them to grow out but until then i need cute lil hair styleing tips or ways to hide them! any advice

hold them back with headbands. or you can invest in some cute little clips and clip them back. good luck!!!

~ANGE
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ok well everytime i shave my lower part afterwards it always itches and gets red. is this normal and what do i do so it doesn't do that anymore???

yeah it's normal. you shouldn't have shaved in the first place. now if you ever want to grow it again it'll itch like crazy! but yeah, use lots of mosturiser and dont shave against the grain. that makes the hairs ingrown. they arent like leg hairs, they a thicker and stronger and hurt like hell when they're ingrown. so yeah, good luck hun

~ANGE
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this probably happens alot.. me and my best friend came to a public school for the first time.. and she met a guy who shes supposedly in love with.. it bothers me alot because they are constantly together and she totally ignores me.. but when hes not there she acts normal around me. i told her about it before and she apologizes.. but she does it over and over again. they are always showing pda and they always have to be alone. im not jealous.. i just want my friend back

she isn't a really good friend if you ask me but heres something you could do... tell her that b/f's leave but friends are always there. tell her that you want her back as a friend and if she still doesn't change then ignore her. hang out with others. when she comes crawling back coz her boy dumps her DONT take her back. she needs to learn a lesson.


~ANGE
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Theres this guy i like ( im not going out wtih ) and were pretty good friends. He said he liked me last week but he doesnt talk to me anymore that much. I dont talk to him a lot at school cuz hes not in any of my classes but i see him between classes. I really want to hang out with him and stuff like that but i dont know what to do. What can i do to get him to notice me more??

when he told you he liked you what did you do/say??? you may have shut him down by accident. ask him to go to the movies sometime. see him out of school. goodluck!


~ANGE
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Can anyone tell me any good websites for a 13/f to look at that don't need sound? I'm insanely bored a lot of the time, and I'd like to find some new intresting websites to look at. Thanks!

try these!

www.bored.com
i-am-bored.com
bored.overnow.com
boredshitless.com
www.urban75.org/useless/bored.html

have fun!

~ANGE
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ok, see i'm new at my school. I came here about a month ago. I'm a freshman in high school and about 3 weeks after i moved here, i met a junior at a party. He kissed me that night but i was really wasted. I didn't think much about it until he called me the next weekend wanting to hang out again. we just went over to his friends house and he ended up kissing me again. I have been having my doubts about him like if he's using me or whatever but when he kissed me, he asked me first and he didn't try anything else. Plus, i'm not a virgin and he is and he wants to wait... but then again he's a really popular guy and all and he could even get a senior if he wanted. that's why im so confused... i mean why would he want me?! well, we ended up not talking much after that and i heard from someone that he didn't like me. So i just figured i got used and didn't talk to the guy anymore. But he stopped me today in the hallway and told me he tried calling me this weekend but i was babysitting and that he really wanted to do something with me.... i just dont know what to do? i dont know if he likes me or what? i mean i really like him and all so i just dont know what to do? Please help me!! sorry so long but i rate! :)

well the only way to find out for true is to ask him. when he says he wants to do something with you just ask casually 'what, as a date?' and you'll have your answer. if he says no just as friends say something like oh good. and if he says yeah as a date then you can be all like sure!!! lol. good luck, tell me how it goes will ya?

~ANGE
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ok... my boyfriend and i really really like eachother... but online i don't no what to say to him... i want to make him laugh and he already knows my hobbies and i already no his... what are some FUNNY topics that will make him laugh... i'll rate 5's for everyone who answers i swear!

go to www.bored.com and read all the funny stuff on there. then tell him to go on there and you can both discuss all the funny things!

~ANGE
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Ok i am really attcracted to this one girl it's just plane crazy. But she already has a bf on her hockey team that goes to a different school. Wat should i do???? i rate 5

no matter how much you like her, if she doesn't like you then there isn't going to be a relationship. if you know that she likes you and would be willing to leave her b/f for you then go for it. if not, wait around. dont do anything to make her no longer want to be friends.

~ANGE
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ive been dating my boyfriend for 6 months.. considering valentines day is today, i got my boyfriend the video game that he wanted. he came over to my house after school and all he did was sit and talk about his game. and he left me on valentine's day to play his game.. would he be considered a shitty b/f?

i must say that he is a VERY shitty b/f. i got a beautiful rose and that was from my ex. so a b/f should do better than that.

~ANGE
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Can you skip your period and not be pregnant? In other words, if you miss a period, is the only explanation pregnancy?

its aight, you dont have to be pregnant. but if you've had sexual intercourse then you should do a pregnancy test just to be sure. but you can skip a period by being ill or even for no reason. i skipped two in a row and i knew it was impossible for me to be pregnant (i'm a virgin) i went to a docter and she wasn't sure why it happened. so sometimes you just miss it for no reason.

~ANGE
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Well i'm a 16 year old girl, whose pretty,fun,and popular and I have alot of friends.But there is a problem that most people don't really see as a problem;i'm italian.Not everyone at my school, but a group of people constantly make jokes to me about my heritage.It all started on the first week on school when we had to write a paper about ourselfs (favorites,ethnic background,religion,ect.) so people could get to know us.well i put in there I was italian,and right after the class these girls came up to me and asked if my dad was in the mafia!what the hell is that about?no body has any respect now adays,and i guess it has to do with shows like the gottis and the sopranos(even tho i love them!) who give people the impression ALL italian-americans are like that,and that all italian-americans have dads like tony soprano.what should I do to get rid of this stigma and situation?thanks alot and I'll rate u a 5 if u don't act all bitchy about it!=)

I totally agree with you. i'm not italian but i have friends that are of all different races and they are all great.i hate it when people stereotype different races. but thats how people are nowadays and there isn't much you can do about it. kids can b cruel but dont let them get you down. :)

~ANGE
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Are there any ways that your hymen (sp?) can be broken besides sex? Like using tampons, fingering, etc? And can a doctor tell if its broken or not just by looking@ u down there? (like check ups andstuff)

Horseriders can actually break theirs.. and gymnasts. depending on if you put strain on yur muscles.
~ANGE

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Are you still a virgin if you kind of had sex? meaning... If you were making out and everything and the guy and u start to have sex and stuff and he's like half way in and then you guys stop... is that still considered being a virgin or not?
Thanks!
(Unsure)

unless he actually penetrates you then yeah. if it hurt like hell then most likely you are no longer a virgin.

~ANGE

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i have a small problem. i like sex. i like it alot. i almost feel i need it like air. i know its kinda like a drug, it can be addictive, but i dont care. im a male slut, bigtime. is there a sexaholics annonmous? i mean, i know love making is best...you know, when your dating or in love with someone, but it's like i wanna screw everything in sight! help!!

you need to have sex.... that is bad! Like bad sex. so then whenever u think of sex you think of that bad time and wont wanna do it as much. you'll think of that gross person and it will turn you off. but ths may be permanent!!

~ANGE

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