when im w. my boyfriend i am like on top of the world and i luv him alot..but then when i go home at night i have second thoughts and i get really confused on if i really do love him and if we should break up or not...what should i do because i dont wanna break up w. him when im w. him ...but i get so confused when were apart!
remember all the good times when you're apart. make a list of why you love him. you guys could make lists together, and that way you'd be able to remind yourself later why you love him. or y'all could make copies for each other, and that way you'd know why he adores you too....
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Don't take this the wrong way. I'm 13/f and I'm ok with the regualr sex (WHEN I'M MARRIED) But even though I'm too your to think about it, 69 and oral sex I'm scared of. I just really dont feel comfortable with the idea. I wouldn't wanna lick the boy's thing, and I wouldn't want his tounge "up there" please help me becuase I really am scared.
um, what's the question?
it's just a matter of personal choice whether or not to do oral, there's nothing wrong with you, so don't worry so much. and definitely don't be scared. it's not something you need to worry about, like you said. you may decide one day that you'd like to try, but don't ever do anything you don't want to do.
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Hey well one of my friends has really bad stretch marks on her legs and she doesnt know how to get themm away or w/e i told her to tell her mom and she said thta she is too embarreseed too..and i am the only one that knows so how can she get rid of them?
go to the local drugstore, look in the health and beauty section; i hear cocoa butter works. best of luck to her!
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im a 14 year old guy and i weigh like 150 pounds..im 5'6 or 7 and over the summer i lost like 20 pounds, but instead of it being gone, it turned to more muscle even though i naturally have a lot of muscle (it runs in my family) even though everyone tells me i dont look fat or anything, and actually some say i look so muscular and everything i dont think its true..i think im fat and i dont like it and im afraid to take my shirt of in front of my friends..although i know that my weight turned into muscle, i still look almost the same in the mirror. people tell me i look like superman because i have big calf muscles and shit like that (i have big calf muscles because i skateboard) why do i still think im fat and see myself as fat although everyone tells me im not?
hon, stop worrying. you may see yourself as fat because that's what you thought you were. and so that impression prolly stayed with you. really listen to people when they tell you that you aren't fat. they're speaking the truth that you for some reason don't want to believe.
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Ok... I am 14/f and I weigh 100 lbs. My friends think I am anarexic and last year my teacher turned me in for anarexia. I eat, alot, do you think I should she a doctor about my weight.
you could just have a fast metabolism, do your friends ever see you eat? do you eat at school? maybe what you consider eating a lot isn't a lot by their standards. either way, you can always bring it up with your doctor next time you see him/her..
best of luck
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is it alright to date a guy that is 3 to 4 year younger than you?
yikes, i'd stick within a max of two years, any more, and things tend to go awry, at least until everyone's a bit older. like their late twenties. it's just that 3-4 years as a teen is sometimes a quarter of their life... or possibly a bit less, either way, i don't think i'd recommend it.
best of luck
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Hey I've got this faker stealing my pictures and pretending to be me, and its really getting on my nerves. How do I go about telling her about it without lashing out too much?
by telling her she's an individual, that's what she was made for, and that she should be herself because that's what she can be best.
or just smack her upside the head and tell her to get her own life....
whichever. best of luck
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Ok.. this guy... i like him so much, hes the reason i wanna get up for school everyday. I want to show him i like him, but im not sure he likes me. He did at the begining of the year but then he said he stopped. I dont wanna ruin our friendship over this, but i dont know if it could turn into something better by somehow showing him i like him a bunch. He always looks at me in class and smiles FORever and we flirt alot but what guy dosnt do that? what do you think?
well, it sounds like you really really like this guy. i've been in that position too. i think he may just be afraid to like you because last time he did it didn't really produce anything. i think he actually does like you, but is afraid to let you know. and also, what you said, was so sweet. try just telling him that. that he's the reason you get up and go to school in the morning. since y'all are good friends, i don't think it'd ruin the friendship.
apparently, however, people feel more and more fond for a person the more they see them (scientific study and everything) so try hanging with him outside of school so you guys can get to know eachother better.
best of luck
p.s. don't push anything too hard, if it's meant to be, it'll happen
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I have to do a project with this kid... and ever since... i think i like him... its weird because hes like that cool, funny guy but hes not my type?
Sincerely,
what should i do?!
I'm 13 and a female
avoid having a type when you're 13, you prolly don't know what's best for you yet! (sorry if that came out more harsh than intended) if you like him, just go for it, you're 13, you have your whole life ahead of you to find a soulmate, just have fun now and all that. besides, you never know what it's gonna be like to date someone who's not your "type" unless you try it....
best of luck
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ok i just got in 7th grade and everything seemed to change between me and my best friend we are gettin in all these fights and she is ALWAYS choosing her boyfriend over me and i tend to get mad at that cause she seems to choose me over me EVERYDAY like one day she spent the night with me and she goes ill be right back and she went upstairs and snuck on the computer to talk to him!! i know in jr. high things change!! how could i keep things from changing as much between me and my best friend!!
try talkin' with her about it, tell her how you feel and ask for one day a month or every few months just for the two of you. pedicures, magazines, gossip, and ice cream. it's gonna be ok!
best of luck, from someone who's been there
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People say I'm skinny, but I think I could lose weight. I'm 13/f, and weight 108 pounds. Is this a little overweight?
good lord no. eat something. please?
honey, you're teeny tiny! you're not overweight and you don't need to lose even a single pound. if you still feel like it, please talk to a counselor, keep yourself from becoming a statistic and stop an eating disorder before it has the chance to start.
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I know there are always all sorts of questions about this kind of thing on here, but I figured I may as well ask and see what you think.
Our one-year anniversary is this sunday. I want to get my guy something interesting...something special. I'd get him jewelry or something, but he never wears jewelry, except one necklace he like...never takes off. I thought about getting him a Kama Sutra book (lol don't ask...my friend thought that up as a joke), but I dunno if I should. What can I get him or make him by sunday? Money's not much of a problem (for once, YES!! I HAVE a job!) so...I just need gift ideas. I appreciate any ideas. Thanks!
find a bunch of your memories with him from the last year and put it all together on a table or in a scrap book. find an old table at a thrift store and decopauge the stuff on. like pictures, concert tickets, drawings, notes, anything that you've shared with him and saved. i just think that'd be a really cool gift!
as for what you can buy, what kinds of stuff does he like? that should help prolly with what to buy him.
write back if you have any more questions, and congrats on a year!
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How do I get guys to like me? Im a 14/f and i weigh 115 lbs. My friends say i am really pretty but i cant seem to get guys to notice me. Any suggestions?
get involved with the stuff around you. help out at school sponsored events, asb, sports, whatever, just get active and you'll meet tons of new, cute guys, and they get to notice you too! best of luck chica
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does any1 know how bad it hurts your hair to permantly straighten it? and what the process is??
if you get it done... ask for a deep conditioning too... just to make sure no horrible damage is done
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I've been doing sit-ups for about a month and a half now basically everyday ( i do 3- sets of 35). My stomach isn't getting any tighter and i still can't see any abs at all, its just kinda pudgy. Any advice on differant ways to get an amazing set of abs? thanks for your time.
well, there's amazing abs under a slight layer of pudge, ya gotta do one of those all around diet/exercise programs to lose the layer of fat cells. best of luck
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I want to get rid of the hair on my upper lip. I don't want to get it professionally done, I want to do it myself. What should I try to remove it (I don't want to use a razor).
wax strips, tweezing... bleaching... that's all i know of
hope it helped
best of luck
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You've probably heard this before, but here goes anyway.
I've been dating this guy for almost 2 months now. I am really in love with him (im serious!) but sometimes he can be a jerk. We live like half an hour from each other, and neither of us can drive, so we barely see each other. We used to say "I love you" everytime we talked, like before we hung up the phone, but now, he won't say it to me, unless its to make me feel better, or if he's done something I dont like and hes tryin to get me not mad.
So.. does he still love me? Or do you think hes losing interest in me and we should just break up?
I've tried talkin to him about it... and he tells me its my choice what I want to do. And that just makes it harder on me. Please help me come to a decision!
go for it, you guys can always get back together. that way he knows what he's missing and all.
best of luck.
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Ok, i'm a huge flirt. even tho i've never had a bf. But i tend to flirt with guys that my friends like. And sumtimes they start to like me. (omg that sounded so cocky) Anyways... This happens a lot. And i'm sick of my friends calling me a man stealer, and i'm not! I want to stay loyal to my friends, but i can't help flirting. And i want guys to like me. What should i do?
aim it towards the ones you like more... and if you get the urge to flirt around the guys you know your friends like, i dunno, hit on his friend, lol. best i could think of. or make sure they know you're just playing... best of luck
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Ok, i am just so lonely. All of my friends have boyfriends and i've never had one. I could prolly ask someone out but i'm shy. I'm waiting for a guy to ask ME. I kno some guys like me, but they dont ask me. But all my friends go out on double dates and all that junk and i'm left out of everything. They'll walk down the halls of school laughing at things that i dont get because i wasn't on the date. There must be SOMETHING wrong with me. BUt what is it? People tell me i'm a great friend, and i'm not too ugly or anything like that. And when it cums to guys, i'm like a sporty/romantic/ fun type. And idk, i just REALLY want a bf and i do like sum guys that might like me but i guess not b/c no one has ever asked me out or anything. I have a lot of friends that are guys, but i might never have a boyfriend. I'm prolly gonna grow up, buy maybe 3 cats and my life will be soap operas and game shows. I dont want to be alone!!! But i dont wanna be the girl who's so desparate that she'll say yes to just any guy who asks her out. PLZ someone tell me what's going wrong!
hon... wait for the right guy, until then, enjoy life! you're not being dragged down by a guy who's stopping you from doing anything. you can flirt with whoever you want! it's complete freedom... sure, a boyfriend would be nice, but ya might as well wait until you find the one who's not stupid enough to let the opportunity of dating you pass him by!
until then, try and be a little more secure about not dating, be confident in yourself and it does wonders, best of luck!
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Well I have this friend, and me and her both like the same kid..=/ it's confussing because I was going out with hmm May 25th 2004 and then he dumped me on June 25th.. =/ and then me and her stopped being friends for a while.. and they have went out on and off and the off part we went out? we each went out with him 7 times in the past 6-7 months .. it's weird? but he dummped her just yesterday and says he likes me again, and I hate this because me and her are friends now and I had to do the dumping! =( I still love this kid but I am scared I don't wanna loose a friendship =o'( But I love him? What should I do
he's playing the both of you... let him go, he's not worth your time. tell him that you may one day reconsider going out with him providing he grows up and learns that girls aren't toys.
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