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i really like my best friend hes really nice oh yea im a 13-f and he is 13-m hes like 4months younger than me but the thing is i like him so much and when we are alone we snuggle and stuff but i have a bf and when my bf found out from someone that we are doing this then my bf punched him! i slapped my bf across the face and i went to my best friend i told him how i felt but he just looked at me like i was a freak! but now when i talk to him and we snuggle we are a little more closer!! im sorta happy but i got really mad bc my EXbf now punched him and whenever i walk by my ex he either says sorry and he wants me back and he would be all touchy feely but i dont know if i should ask my best friend out? bc i dont think he really wants to have a gf but we were talking about this and he said he didnt exactly feel the same way i do but he told one of my close guy friends that he didnt know about that he likes me alot but wants to ask me out but dosnt know if i still like him
how can i show him that i still like him alot?!?!?
signed,
CONFUSED
dump them BOTH.
In 1999 I signed a car loan for my daughter then 18. 2yrs later I added her onto the title. I just found out she no longer is making payments and wants to hold me liable for the car she dumped on the street to be stolen.I am overseas, and have been since 99. Am I protected anywhere under any laws? Is she liable for payments at this point?
o0o0o interesting, but i wouldnt kno.
I pull out pieces of my hair when i get stressed out angry or bored...i dont know why i do this i guess because i need some way to show my feelings...and i couldn't ever cut myself... i dont know what to do or why i do this... can someone help me!?
wow, ur weird.
So my boyfriend and I, both almost 18, were together for nearly 11 months, virtually every single day. We were inseparable. We'll both be going to college next year, and we were planning on moving somewhere away and finding an apartment together. There was even tentative talk of marriage. I felt like I could really see where my future was headed. I was so completely in love.
But then he tells me, one month ago tomorrow, that it's just not working out. He says he doesn't feel the same anymore, and that he can't give his whole life to me. I was completely devastated and cried for days straight.
He's the most wonderful person I've ever met. We share our group of friends, so we agreed that we would both try our best to stay friends and avoid awkwardness, and forcing people to choose sides.
So I'm still around him all the time, and every time I see him or talk to him, I'm just reminded of all the reasons I fell in love with him and everything that I've lost. It just sends me spiralling into sadness all over again.
But he's helped me so much with so many things. He brightens my day, and he's a genuinely good person. I don't blame him at all for what happened. I can't bear to lose him completely, but how else can I get these thoughts and feelings out of my head?!
make a dart thing with his face on it with his current gf, then throw darts at it.
two of my best friends go to the same school... i dont...... they always hang out and never call me anymore!!!!They used to call me every weekend.... They dont call me anymore!!!Why??? And if my parents go out with their parents and i see them then they act like they never saw eachother that day but they did.bc they didnt invite me........Help does anyone noe why??????
yu were left out on the curb. sorry babes.
ok, I was 12 whenever I first had sex...( I know Kinda young but...I was turning 13 soon) Well...it hurt SUPERSUPER bad but they say that after it hurts it's supposed to feel godd...but it didn't...it never once felt good...then the second time (i've only done it 2 times) it still didn't feel good..it kind hurt..adn once again NEVER once felt good?!?! whats wrong with me?!?!
the thing thats wrong with yu is that YOUR 12 OR 13! Yu whore.
I am in love with this guy i used to be dating. him and my best friend are really tight. sumtimes i think too tight. I got dumped for her, but they never went out again. when they first were together Marie cheated on Logan. but Marie (my friend) and Logan (my X) are still very tight. I love marie to death but all she does is talk about Logan. she got dumped 3 weeks ago by her boyfriend she was with for 9 months. i know she loves him and only loves logan as a friend. but sumtimez i cant help but be jealous. Im not positive if Logan still like marie. But when i think of how hurt i was when i got dumped i cant help but blame marie too!! i feel like a bad friend that and i really want Logan back... please help me!!
beg like a puppy
Okay so like my boyfriend was at my house and he like wrote me a note saying he thought we should break up because of my ex. ((well call him Leo)) Well Leo kept calling me while my boyfriend was here.. He also said that he wanted to cuz of the pressure his friends were giving him. ((his friends didnt like me they think im a bitch)) and so like we have like been talking and figuring stuff out and it did work for the better cuz now we are going back out. He might not tell his friends that knew we broke up that we are going back out cuz they will bother him again, but he wants to let them find out on their own. Okay so heres what I need, this advice is more of something for me to tell my boyfriend. How could he get his friends to shove it? and to leave us alone and stop trying to break us up.
eat a pie and throw up on his shoes.
ok here is the thing...im in 9th grade and so are my 2 friends..i know one of my friends since 7th grade and one since last year (8th) and well they went out from like 01/06/04 to yesterday (11/04/04)...she broke up w/ him bc he wasnt a boyfriend type person who didnt do much..they basically acted like friends who kissed (pecked) nothing else...anyways she broke up w/ him in front of me, my friend kevin and becky outside @ dismal...and after this happened becky was trying to get them back together..and it didnt work and he walked off w/ our other friend matt and she started crying as the 4 of us (me, her..becky and kevin) were walking to the busses..and we took turns holding her and all..then i was talking to her on-line and all last night and she said how she was still crying and i said well you made a good point and all about dumping him..dont keep saying to your self "why did i do that" ...and all..today she came into english crying, and my friend and i were just holding her and all....and we stood there for like 5 minutes and all..she showed me a note he wrote to her and inside was a poem of goodbye and all..and the teacher sent her and my friend to the time out room *basically guidence but all they do is listen to ur problems and thats basically all* and they came back after like 5 mins and she was all calm and etc..then 6th period lunch i was talking to my friend about what was gonna happen 9th period bc we all have study hall etc...it came to 9th period..we didnt even sit at the table...we sat on the floor in the corner of the caf..and after the others decided to ask to get a table open they sat at the table and i remained on the floor w/ her..and at one point i got up and went over to him and asked if he was mad at her bc she wanted to know..so i asked and he said "yeahh bc there was no good reason for why we broke up" and i came back and i told her and she says "yeah there is he didnt act like a bf!" and i said "yeah i knoww i agreeee" then i went back and i asked him why he didnt want to be friends w/ her anymore and he said " i didnt say that! im just steamed i need time to cool off" and i said "then?" he said "then we may become friends again" and i asked "like a month?" and he said " i just need time to cool off" and i went back to her and told her..and she told me to tell him something i dont remember what and that she stilled loves him and i went and told him..and he like "i dont caree" and i went back and i told her..and she was holding a braclet in her hand that she always wears and i know she wasnt trying to cry and i could see it her eyes that she wanted to but she didnt want to do it in front of him..and im not quite sureee...
any advice anyways ways of helpin her??? thx
tell them that itz not ur problem.
ok well, theres this guy that likes me, but my friend says she likes him (she doesnt kno that he likes me) but i kinda like him too...so if he gets to asking me out, should i? what if she gets mad at me? but if i say no, then I wont be happy???????????? what should i do??????
talk 2 him duh.
i just got 4 new puppies and theyre gonna be a month old next week. so i was wondering, what are some activities i can do with them at this age?
aww! tag! chew toy! have fun!
ok this is a much longer story then im writing it as but i wanted to sum it up. theres this guy i liked about a month ago that i didnt know personally all that well but he was cute and real funny. so i told some of my friends about it and they knew him so they were going to talk to him for me. well i was telling my other friend "sally" about this and i was all excited and then she drops the bomb and says "ummm im madly in love with him" and i didnt know what to say so i was just like um ok well i g2g or w/e n i signed off. i told her that i was kinda over him but now he MIGHT want to go out with me and idk if sally would be ok with it or not.
what should i do? :\
cough.
for american history, my class had to write an essay. we had to be either john kerry or george bush and discuss what issues we are going to change. today we got our papers back. i got 19/18, but i had a see me on my paper. it said the teacher thought i had not written it because it was far better than anything id written this year. we had to get our information from 3 internet articles, so i gave the teacher my articles. i did not plaigerise, and i told the teacher that. i dont know if tomorrow she will say she believes me or not. i feel so insulted and ashamed even though ive done nothing wrong. what do i do?
cheater!
my bf broke up with me about 4 months ago. actually, my bf's friend-lets call him joey broke up with me for my bf-lets call him mike. when joey broke up with me for mike, mike was at joeys house. my 3 best friends told me that mike said he didnt want to break up with me and that joey just said that mike was breaking up with me. they talked to mike after the breakup and he said joey told me that him and me were over so he was afraid to call me. so i called him tonight because i just found out about the whole thing and he said that wasnt how it happened. but i know that my friends would never lie to me, especially about that. then i told him i couldnt stop thinking about him and i think i gave him a bit of a shock because after i told him he couldnt say anything. i could tell he was trying to say something and i know he doesnt have a gf but then i said he should come hang out with me and all my friends he's friends with and he said ok and he promised me he would come. do you think he still likes me? cuz we havent had relationships after we got broken up...do you think he still likes me and should i give him some time to think? thanx, blind and confused
another girl has taken over.
Well there's this guy,Ben and I used to like him and I dont anymore but I still get jealous when he talks about his girl or when he hangs all over my sister Joanna who he totally likes and its so easy to tell that. But my sister never liked him,plus she is two years older then him so I thought she would never go for him. Also Ban is Jerrys best friend and Jerry is Joannas ex-fiance, they still like each other and still talk as friends and I dont know why they arent together but thats not what this is about. Joanna told me she would never go for Ben because she knew it would hurt Jerry. But last night I went to the fair with Joanna, Ben, Tephy(who is really good friends with both Ben and Joanna and is Jerrys sister) and her boyfriend Ashton. And Joanna and Ben went off alone A LOT and they were acting wierd around each other and were holding hands which wasnt too wierd because Ben does that all the time with her and Tephy, but it was different this time. I talked to Tephy about it and she thinks something is going on too so I know its not just me. What I need help with is how to talk to Joanna about this bothering me and how I think its wrong. Plz somebody help me. By the Way,I am a 16 year old girl,my sister is 17, and Ben is 15.
this is not serious.
ok im a freshman @ this really big high school i liek it and all but i miss teh fact that all my friends go 2 another skool..i feel like i dont fit in bcus there is no1 who i really click with i mean (not 2 sound cocky) i was kinda really popular last yr @ my middle school but now that they all go 2 another skool i feel like a loser and taht i dont belong i just dont no how 2 click with all these ppl i try but there juss very different and i dotn want my 4 yrs 2 suck @ high skool..so wut shoudl i do? PLZ HELP ME!
change ur ID
relationships never seem to work out...
the guys that like me are the ones i would rather avoid...
but the guys i like see me only as a good female friends.
what should i do?
it started when yu were younger... another gurl took yu over.
I have these dark circles under my eyes. They're huge though, and I can't cover it with makeup! They go from my nose (by my eyes), and go down in a round motion (which lines up with the end of my nose). They fade as they go down. How do I get rid of it??
mud.
hey i have little freckles on my face n they r lyke really light so it looks like the skin on my face is dirty or something but i usually wear powder cover up by cover gurl on it and it works really well but it never lasts for a very long time...ive tryed liquid and i hate it it makes me break out..i wanna stick to powder but do any of u know any good brands that stay on long??
dirt.
me and my dad...dont get along...at all..he takes the simplest things i say..so serious..and all wrong...for instance..the other day we were trying to decide wut to do for lunch...we all decided on something but then he jus had to change his mind. when they asked me i said 'i dont care can we jus go some place cuz im really hungry' his response 'well i dont like your attitude!!' my mom tries to calm him down but his final desicion is 'well i just wont eat then!!' he gets so mad at me for the stupidest things like that..and my mom steps in and tries to resolve it but he ends up mad at the both of us..and when he gets mad..he cusses...last year i went to a school..on the bad side of town(it was a magnet skool..for higher students..but all the peeple hoo lived around there went ther too) so i heard so much language i got sick of it....so one day when he was mad..i asked him not to cuz i hear enough of it everyday..well now..he still cusses..acts like that talk never happened..and he's my sunday skool teacher! and everyone thinks i live the perfect life when its horrible..my dad keeps telling me over and over how we may not have enough money for christmas this year...ive told my mom that i hate when he talks about stuff like that..i guess he thinks im to 'mature'..last sunday..we talked about 'controlling our anger' and he wuz like 'u decide to get angry' well he decides that a whole bunch! i just want to stop the fighting..and my mom and i have sat and cried after some fights..and i want to stop bringing my mom into these fights..i want to stop the fighting..but im not sure how..oh any by the way..im only 12
then dont give him attitudes.