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hey,
i love this 1 girl i mean i cant get my mind offa her ive been tryin 2 forget about her for 6 months because all signs say she doesnt like me any more but im hopin she still does ya know???? i mean you got any ideas on how i could try and get her back or possibly forget about her ill try anything SOME! HELP!!!

Signed,
Crushed Heart (aka Jax)

Why Dont you just tell hr how you feel and tellher you Love her, and you can understand mayb she might not love you back the same way but your own special lil way you will always love her and you will miss not havin her. Then mayb she will change her mind and that would just make her feel like aww..and she would wanna take you back. That would be like so sweet, and then if you like tryed to kiss her after. But yeah let me know how it goes!

-Stephanie

*Hope I Helped..E-mail me at SoccerStar@cs.com
or Instant message me at JamesBaybiGurl!!!Holla!

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Hey
I'm 16 years and a female.
My boyfriend and I had been together for 3 months, then last wk we broke up b/c he thought it was to much drama and we were fighting to much (which we were) but anyways the nite after that he told me he still wanted to be really close friends and always hang out and I told him I understand that but i need some time away from him so i can get over him, but i made him cry. Then a couple days ago he came over wit some of his friends and we made out (and i dont know what i was thinking )and he asked me what I wanted and i told him i wanted to b with him. Then he says well i think i wanna be with you to i just need come time to think about it. Then before he left he kissed me again and said the same thing. I dont know weather I should wait for him to make up his mind b/c i like him a lot but hes also messing wit my head and i've gotten to a point where i dont know what to do anymore. If you could give me some advice that would b great!!

Oh my goodness thats like so sweet...lol...Definetly wait he seems sweet...

-STEPHANIE

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Okay .. my boyfriend and I just broke up .. but we still say I love you to eachother and stuff. As I was on the phone with one of my guy friends(he likes me) .. my cell phone rang. When me n my ex got off the phone, we said I love you to eachother and the guy friend overheard .. now he's mad at me .. what should I do?

You should tell him how you feel. Tell him straight up that was my x boyfriend and he told me he loved me and I guess it just came out in the wrong way. And be like well, tell him how you feel then ask him if he wants to you go out and do something!

-Stephanie

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Hiya.. first of all.. you're adorable.. and it's awesome how you're helpin people out.. anywhos.. alright.. here's how it goes.. My mom and my real good guy friend dylan's mom work together.. we've always kinda had a thing for eachother.. but never did anything about it.. a few months ago.. he started to like my friend katie.. but she decided she didn't like him or whatever.. and so me and him started talkin again.. and we flirt like crazy.. seriously.. it's out of control.. but we're such good friends.. and I'm not 100% positive I want something to happen.. it's just kinda like he's always been there.. and I do like him.. infact.. I like him a lot.. but we're such good friends.. I just don't know.. what do you think about this?

You should definetly go out wit him. But just make sure this wont like mess up your relationship with him as a friend cuz that would be horrible. Go For It!!

-Stephanie

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My boyfriend and i have been together i miswell say a year and 5 months and we are some what getting tired of each other and we fight and argue and at some points its so hard to hang on to the relationship. he was my first love but after so long everything gets so old and you want new things, new people - we are in high school we shouldnt settle down.. ya know? so whats ur advice... itd b very hard getting used to ont having *him* call constantly and stuff.. it'd be a dramatic change =( =)

Well, its crazy that happened to me to. But like when we broke up it was like a part of me was missing. And it was like so emotional. Like never knowing how much you love someone until they are gone. Its crazy but you should just like stay with him. Just make it fun. But if you feel your not gettin anything out of the relationship then..do what you do. But follow your mind not your heart! Because your mind will always tell you what to do and if you let your heart do that then it eventually gets broken!

-Stephanie

*Hope I Helped*

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Sorry if asked this question alot..but i didnt see it posted..but anyways i notice that you have ur tounge and belly button prieced..and i really want my belly button done..but my mom wont go for it..how did you get your mom to let you..and is there anything i can do to let my mom let me get it done??

Oh and what grade are you in you look really pretty major props on this site your really helpful!! i/m me sumtime foxyblonde011 if ya wanna chat!

HmMm I dont know who you are talking to but, if you want your tongue pierced I hear it doesnt really hurt! They like numb your mouth with Scope mouthwash, then stick the needle in. But belly button it doesnt hurt I saw my mom get hers done, it doesnt even look like it hurts its just like a lil pinch my mom said! But you should tell your mom your readdy and you think you can take care of it! And mayb she can see how ready you are and tell her you will keep it clean and your responsible enough for one. Hope I Helped!

-Stephanie

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Back in January like January 10th, I met this really cute guy name dominique. We went out for a month and he broke up with me over the telephone. Then he im`s me one day in march saying sorry for everything I have done. He says he would like to be friends. So I agreed with him, thinking this was my moment If we stayed friends for a while, maybe him and me could get back together. See the thing is I really nva gave up on him. I cry for him every night. I still love him to death. He was my first real true love. Words cant even begin to express how I feel about him. I would love to tell him, but I am not to sure what he would say.PLZ help me!

Yeah go be friendz with him. I have the same problem then he like wanted to be friends now he is like can we go out pleaz. And its hard but if you Love him go for it, dont let nothing stop you! He must still have feelings for you if he still IMs you to!!

-Stephanie

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Ok, my boyfriend and i just broke up .. and the thing is, I still love him to death but i have this "thing" for this other guy that i've been talking to.. I'm a freshman and the other guy is a senior .. He likes me or so he says and he's not that type of guy that wants "action" .. he's stilla virgin.. but .. what should I do? I can I handle this?

Well, Hun any boy will do anything to get into your pants. But if you feel you can trust him. Then go for it! Just be smart!

-Stephanie

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I'm a female, sexually active in about 2 days.
Ok, are you like supposed to shave it ALL off down there? Or leave a tiny bit?
I'm a bit too squeamish for a brazilian wax, so any help?

MoW yOuR lAwN gUrL!!!

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ok well i have this friend and shes awesome i love her soooooooo much and like one day i was gonna IM this guy that screwed her over and mess with him and i ended up calling him and i bitched him out for a while then like somehow i started to really like talking to him and i knew if she knew she would be soooo pissed and well i told her that i had talked to him and that i wanted to keep talking to him and she got really mad and said she hated me and wouldnt talk to me for a few days then i told her id never talk to him again but i have, i talk to him on the phone every once in a while and he wants me to meet him in person but i no i shouldnt but i still like to talk to him on the phone, only if she knew i still talk to him shed prolly never talk to me again and i dunno what to do, I REALLY LIKE HIM, i know its sick, and i know i shouldnt like him cuz he really hurt my best friend but i still do and i cant help it :( what should i do?????

Well if they arent going out then you should go for it. But if you know that your friend is like to best thing like you Love her then just tell her how you feel. But if it were me, I would just choose to be friends with that guy, because I wouldnt want to risk my friendship over a boy. Boys should never get in between you and your friend. Because your friends and specially that friend will always be there but Boys wont. See how you see he already screwed her. Now they arent together. Just keep your friend, dont let a boy get inbewteen your friendship! Hope I Helped!
-Stephanie

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OK. Well I'm not really like low self esteem or anything cause I know I'm just as good as all the other idiots out there but I guess I'm just tired of being treated like dirt. There are some really nice guys at school who make me feel good but there are also the not so good people who make me feel like crap. This guy who I barely even know and I accidently tripped during a basketball scrimage hates me and keeps calling me ugly and stuff. I mean I know that I don't need them or anything but I just want to know when some guy will come along and make me feel really god. But basically I hate everyone at my school...OK maybe thats not true I actually like almost all of them but you think it would kill them to be nice for once? Im not really asking for advice but some encouragement that the world isnt as crappy as it seems would be nice.

Just be like laugh, it would just kill them and make them soo mad. They would be like gettn tired of pickin on you because they see it only makes you laugh so theres no point of wastin there time trying to pick on you! Good lucks!

-Stephanie

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why is everyone so obsessed with giving hand jobs or all this other sexual stuff. I don't get it...to me it just seems so disgusting.

Yea tru that, people always runnin round tell people bout who they just gave a hand job to. Noone needz to know that thats like there buisness, But I guess they came to the right place to get advice but still thats messed up, when they could just ask like a friend or something. They really shouldnt be broadcasting that! Well if thats what they do so b it. Just let em' keep pimpn..


-Stephanie

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ok im going out wit this super sweet guy right now and we just got off school he went out of town wit a friend so he miss a persons bonfire but me and but friend sally went thenn she started hanging bob so i had no one to talk to then i started talkin to mark and jake and there really cool id been talkin to mark for a while but its like the first time ive really talked to jake and then i was warin his hat and ridin his bike wit everyone then i started walkin around and he like kinda followed me and i was walkin up to these kids and he was actin like he was my b/f and the guys were really cool so i just igonored him and then sally told me jake liked me and thats wierd cause i never liked him what should i do? do you think he likes me? what should i tell him

You should go wit the super sweet guy! lol..best bet is to be with someone you care about and you think cares about you the same way! Good lucks!

-Stephanie

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im 15... i have noticed that there is cloudy substance on my thong constantly.. it is embrassing and sometimes smells... what is it what can i do am i normal?
*sCaReDdDdD*

Hun, its a discharge. A discharge is like when you are cleaning yourself out. Thats your bodys way of telling you thats its cleaning out your system. Its not bad but if it smells consult a doctor!

-Stephanie

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Ok so My sister is totally alaways ranking on me because I've never had a b/f!I am a female 13 year old ! I get all depressed too. My friends alaways brag about there boyfriends and either I'M GETTING TIRED OF IT OR IM JEALOUSE!!! I dont know what to do! Boys just think of me as a friend and nothing more! My mom says its embrassing to ask them out but I am soooo confused! Tell me your oppinion!!!

*Double_B*

I think you should just I guess be more of a social person to boyz. Mayb it will work. And your mom is definetly right about asking boyz out, it makes the girls feel like they would do anything for a boyfriend and its just not really cool. Just find the right person you like and go for it!Best of luck!

-Stephanie

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my cat snores....is that normal??!?! lol
(btw she has asthma)

Its probably Normal if they do. I wouldnt know but my puppies do..So mayb its just the comfort level!

-Stephanie

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Lately I've been getting on my parents nerves. I can tell cause they're always mad at me. They say it's because I have a really bad attitude. Even though I really don't think I do. I usually have a great attitude about things. I've also been really into acting and every time I talk about it they just ignore me so I get mad. Just the other day he told me I did something when I knew I didn't so I calmly told him I didn't and he told me I was lying so I got mad. He told me to get rid of my attitude so I said no because he called me a liar. Then He got up in my face and just started screaming at me. I'm really confused right now and don't know what to do. Could any one give me some advive.
I'm 14

I dont really talk to my parents like that because in order to receive respect you have to give it. My parents would like be soo mad and like yell at me to if I were to talk back. Just say ok. And get it over with because you shouldnt be doin that to your parents, its like mean. Just be straight up be like Dad, Ok im sorry I didnt mean to and leave it like that because if you argue back and forth it only makes matters become worse! Hope I Helped!

-Stephanie

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ok there is this guy that really likes me i kinda like him to but he lives in oregon... but than the other day i met this kid who likes me and who i like alot and he lives here by me... i dont know what ro do i will feel bad if i get rid of either


*P~*I~M*P~N, lol..naw you should like the one that lives by you. Because long distance relationships are really hard. I mean whatch the stuff on tv. Like Real World on mtv..They are crazy having boyfriends back home. Best thing to do is go wit the one that lives near you!

-Stephanie

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I am a fourteen year old girl and I've been writing fiction, particularly fantasy, ever since I can remember. I'm suffering a minor case of writers block, and I'm looking for a challenge or a contest, preferably online with no entrance fee.

Does anyone know of any online contests going on right now? Any challenges?

I am involved in Poetry. I got published and everything in this book. You should go to www.poetry.com its a good site and totally free!

-Stephanie

*Best of Luck in your writing*

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There is this person that I really like, and I am preety sure they like me too. But we both are to afraid to say anything to go out because we don't want to ruin our friendship. What should I do.

I had that same problem. I guess its up to you. You have to think to yourself though do you want this to ruin yallz relationship as friends if something happens with you and his relationship. If yall think its both the right thing to do then go for it!

-Stephanie

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