My parents are in a very strict religon.
I dont want to be in this religon and I've told them so, and I don't go to their church.
But everytime I do something against the church rules, (even though I dont go)
they still go, "Your going to hell" "Your a sinner" bla and so forth.
I dont like this and it hurts my feelings. They even say I'm full of the devil and qoute scriptures at me. What do I do? its totally getting on my nerves and just because I dont go to their church doesnt mean I'm a rebellious brat like they think I am.
HELP!
You need to talk to your parents and tell them that what they say to you hurts your feelings and that they should tell you that you are "full of the Devil" and so on. You need to tell them that even though you don't go to their church, they shouldn't treat you like this and if this is getting on your nerves, talk to them and explain that you want them to stop hurting your feelings.
-Karen
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Is there any way that you can have a pretty background on a xanga site without having to pay? I know there is a way, but i just don't know how to do it! Thanks!
Yup, there is a way to get a background on your Xanga. If you go to your Private Xanga page, click on Look and Feel. Once you get to your Look and Feel page, scroll all the way down until you reach the part where it says "Add a Background Image and Music to your site!" You can then put the URL of your background or picture into the "Background Image:" section. Check the fixed background box and then you are done. Don't forget to save your changes. Here's a link that has a lot of Xangas that have backgrounds that you can use: www.xanga.com/search.aspx?type=groups&term=backgrounds.
-Karen
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ok well i wouldnt say i was loose "down there" but the skin-like stuff inside the lips is really lose and nobody elses i know is liek that...i havent had sex...ive been fingered by the same guy about 4 times over a year n a half ago and jus about a half year ago i was eaten out and fingered for like 2 minuted by a guy..could this be why its so lose...im still a virgin so it cant be because i had sex i need help..i dunno if this is normal or not
Yes, this may be the reason your the skin near your vagina is loose. Being fingered a few times will stretch out the skin and this is the reason why your skin is loose. Don't worry, this is normal and you don't need to see a gynecologist (gyno) if you don't want to but if this is a problem for you, then you should see one.
-Karen
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if you masturbate does it mean your not a virgin anymore??
If you masturbate, you are still a virgin. The only way for you not to be considered a virgin is to have sex.
-Karen
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This may sound odd but I would really like to know: after a pregnancy (after the baby is born) how long does it take for the woman's periods to come back? Is it instant, or in (roughly) a month, or depending on when her last period before the pregnancy was, or what? And also, will her periods be irregular like when they first started or go back to her normal cycle?
Thank you!
For my mom, it took a while for her to get her period again, right after she had my sister but it's different for every women after a pregnancy. A women's period will be regular again, like before she had a baby, but that also takes a while. Every female is different but their period will take a while to come back and to be regular again.
-Karen
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My ex-boyfriend and I both told each other we loved each other. He doesn't want to get back together because he has issues that doesn't seem to go away. It's along the same reasons we broke up. Should I wait until he gets over them or just get over him? I really love him, and he seems to care about me.
If you truely love this guy, then definitely wait for him to get over his issues and such. You should never get over him because once he is over his issues, you two probably will get back together. Since your ex-boyfriend seems to care about you, why don't you show him that you care for him by helping him out with his issues. If some of them are about why you two broke, then you can fix that.
-Karen
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What are the affects of taking the Morning after pill too late?
The affects of taking the morning after pill too late are that there is now a greater chance of you being pregnant, since this pill won't be effective because you took it too late.
-Karen
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okay, question. when a girl gets "wet" is it normal the next day for it to hurt down there?
thanks
No, it's not normal for you to be in pain when you get wet and it shouldn't hurt. This happens to some other girls but normally, you shouldn't be in pain. If you still feel pain after a few days, definitely go to a doctor.
-Karen
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I love 2 give advises but some people dont like it. day rate me a 3!lol. so a lot of people dont ask me questions. what should i do? please dont reget dis letter or note or what ever you call dis. I came 2 u cause people rate u a 5! please help!!!!!!!!!!!
If people don't like your advice, then you need to start giving out the best advice as you can so people will notice that you do and they will then come to you for it. I would never reject a question like this, don't worry. Start answering as many questions as you can with your best advice and people will eventually rate you good and will ask you questions. If you are new to Advicenators, it takes a while for people to notice you.
-Karen
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How do i get my clumn to say the number of rates i got and the average?
You need to be rated at least 5 times, in order for your average and the number of times you were rated to show up on your column. Once you have been rated 5 times, both of these things will show up on your column.
-Karen
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me and my bf just broke up.. he doesnt wnt to ruin the friendship we had before.. is there anything i can do in the future if ever we do want to get back together that will make him want to stay with me even though it could mess up our friendship?
You need to find out why you two broke up and once you do, try not doing that in the future and that will make this guy want to stay with you. If you two broke up, then it means that your relationship with this guy couldn't work out but if you ever do get a chance to start a relationship with him, don't say or do anything that caused you to break up the first time.
-Karen
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hey does anyone know any good sites to play games on i am soo bored Febuary Vacation sucks so boring
To play games online, you can go to: http://www.pogo.com/home/home.jsp?sls=2&site=pogo (http://www.pogo.com) or http://games.yahoo.com. To find more online game websites, type in "Online games" in a Google or Yahoo search.
-Karen
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wut does cherrypoped mean.. im confused
"Cherry popped" means that a girl's hymen (a thin layer of skin in a girl's vagina) was torn, just like a cherry is popped, and you start to bleed. Sometimes, it means that you lost your virginity, only if you have sex when your hymen is torn. Other times, it just means that it was torn by doing physical means by riding a bike, sitting wrong, inserting a tampon in wrong, masturbating, and so on.
-Karen
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I dont know if this is the right cateorgory but w/e. Ok well let me put it this way my classmates most of them are jerks. Well see the thin is i am smart like really smart and my classmates make fun of me for it because i get all 100% on my tests and quizzes. and they also hate the fact that when we have a huge test and we have to write stuff down i dont take notes because i rember it all and then i get higher grades then the people that wrote it all down. so i guess what i am asking is how can i get my class to stop annoying and makin fun of me because i am so smart.
Do not let these people get to you and bring you down, just because you are smarter than them. It's great that you are smart because you can get a good job and go to a good college in the future, while these kids are being stuck, working at a fast food joint. Ignore these people when they annoy you about your smartness. Let these people know that they shouldn't waste both your and their time, annoying you about how smart you are.
-Karen
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Hi,
Sorry if this is gross.
I have really heavy periods and I know that they might settle down (I've only had four so far, but they have been really bad - I can't walk more than 10 steps without having to rush to the toilet) eventually, but is there anything (other than going to the doctors, something I will only do as a last resort) I can do to make them even a little bit lighter? I dunno, natural remedies, food to avoid, drink less...anything?!
I also seem to have like a really weak bladder or something when I'm on my period and I always need the toilet (like always, and I do 'go' when I go to the toilet). Is there something wrong there? If so (or not) what can I do to make it so it isn't so bad? I've tried drinking less and even drank nothing on one day but it makes no difference.
Thanks!
There is no natural remedy to make your period flow lighter; the only thing that will help is to go on birth control. Birth control also regulates your period too, and not just preventing your from getting pregnant. This doesn't sound gross at all, it's normal, and I feel so bad, since you have a heavy period. It is normal but you should really talk to a doctor about the whole going to the bathroom thing because that's pretty strange and you could lose blood, since your period is heavy. If you get cramps that really hurt, try taking a nice, warm bath or use a heating pad. I really don't know what foods to avoid and such because that has nothing to do with your period. If you stress to much, this may be the reason. Sweetie, talk to a doctor about this because you shouldn't have to deal with this.
-Karen
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Ok im 14 and i have this friend. We have been friends sence before kindergarden. Now im in 8th Grade and we talk and hang out but we are friends with totally different groups of people. All the people she's hanging out with are real popular and preppy and totally not her. I normmal dont like thoses type of people. They are nice but probably would not care for me. She is now started to act like them and i dont really like it. I want to tell her and seee what she would say or if she would change, but i dont want her to get mad at me. I dont kno what to do please help!!
If you need to tell someone about how you feel about the way they change or who they hang out with, you should definitely tell them. Talk to your friend and tell her how you feel. If she has been your friend for a long time, then she should understand and she shouldn't get mad. It's alright for her to hang out with people that she normally wouldn't and it's alright for her to change but you should still talk to her.
-Karen
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I'm Bored OUt Of My Mind!! Does Anyone Know Any Sites or Anything I can Do So I won't Be Bored?!
Thanks!
You can go to http://www.ebaumsworld.com or http://www.finnyjunk.com. You can also watch TV or a movie, bake something, clean your room, go outside, hang out with friends, call someone, read, write, play a game, go on the internet, help your parents around the house, listen to music, do a school project that isn't due until a few months, and you cand do so many other things.
-Karen
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OK, this might sound stupid on my part but i just want to know for sure and not question it
I've never had sex, but my cherry popped while being fingered. does that mean im not a virgin anymore.
thanks in advance
No, this doesn't mean that you aren't a virgin anymore. In order to not be considered a virgin anymore, a penis has to enter your vagina. Your hymen can be torn (cherry can be popped) by doing other things too and that doesn't mean that you aren't a virgin anymore.
-Karen
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Heyy, i have a prblm i thnk im in love w. ths kid again, see i ated him and rele rele liked him. THe problem was my absolute BFF liked him ttoo. She cried for hours and hours wenn she found out, so i couldnt put her anymore in ttht pain. It hurt me and the kid so bad to break his and my heart. It took months for us to talk again, we go to the movies w. frends, but not alone. I learned tht once you stop loving some1 ou have a spark in you tht remains, now i thnk tht spark started going on fire {meanign Im in love w. him} and now i hav to call him today bc of this thng and i dont thnk he liked me and im scared.
help x0o please
If you like this guy and if he likes you, then go out with him. It's not your fault that you and your friend like this guy. You shouldn't let go of your feelings, just because your friend likes him and that she started to cry. If you have this "spark", this is telling you that you like this guy and that you should go out with him. Your friend is going to be mad at you at first but she will eventually get over it.
-Karen
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ok i'm 17/f (almost 18) and i tend to fall for younger guys. the past 3 guys that i've liked (i went out with one) have been 15 and young 16. i'm a senior and they're all sophomores (one should be a junior). to make it better, my brother is a sophomore as well, and is older than one of them (the one i went out with). my friend says that going out with sophomores would make me look like i'm easy (which i'm definitely not...i'm waiting until marriage). is there any way that i could get myself to stop liking younger guys or is there nothing wrong with it? thanks so much :)
There is nothing wrong with liking guys and then going out with him them that are a few years younger than you. It's not your fault that you have feelings for them. If you like a guy and if he likes you, then that is what matters and not what your friend thinks. If you feel that you want to stop liking guys that are younger than you, convince yourself that they are really young and that you shouldn't go out with them. Trust me, you won't seem easy when you go out with guys that are younger than you. There are other people in this world that like people that are about 5 years younger than them.
-Karen
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