about

♥ My name is Kelly. I`m 17 years old. I live in a small town in Arizona. I`m a born and raised Christian. I love God, my family, and my friends. I have been through alot throughout my teenage years like from boyfriends, girl drama, loosing mediate family members, moving all the way across the country, starting new schools - making new friends! You can ask me ANYTHING and I will try my hardest to answer your questions. Please, don`t ask stupid questions because i will give you a stupid answer back. You can also email me at xstarbrightbabix@yahoo.com, IM me at xostarbrightbaby, Or my quote site. link is on the right module. =]

advice

my dad watches porn late at night when me ans my sis are suppposed to be a sleep...i hate it..does he not love my mom...i don't know wat to do...i told my mom and she was really disapionted...i wish i could help i don't know wat to do...i'm scared they're going to get a divorce...

Sounds like your dads not getting "any" from your mom. He wouldn`t be looking at it unless his sex life was good. Sorry to say that but i think that he is only look at it because of that. Maybe try to get you and your sister out for a couple nights and let him have alone time. ♥

[view]

okay, ive been thinking about what i am...straight, bi, lesbian. and i dont know.like i think i am bi but im not sure. i found out the other day that my ex is bi and that made me think alot about myself. like if i did anything wrong or something. but i dont know. i think i am bi. but i dont want to be, cuz if i am, then my friends and family would hate me. im only 13 an usually when kids are younge and say the arent straight, people usually dont take them seriously and say "oh your straight, your just saying that to get attention" well im not trying to get attention. im just confused.

I honestly don`t think you are. Just because your exboyfriend is doesn`t mean you are. If you have thought emotionaly or physically about being with the same sex, or both sexes then you are bi. Kids around your age say that because they think it is cool. Before people find out they are really bi - they are bi-curious. Hope this helps. ♥

[view]

me and my boyfriend talk all the time but after awhile there's nothinf left to say. and i try to keep the convos going but he doesnt no how to hold a conversation. its just hard to talk to him wat should i do?

I really don`t know what to say. Suggest you do something else, watch some tv or something or if your on the phone or internet tell him your gonna go. lol sorry. ♥

[view]

I was at my friend lillys house for her 15th birthday with a few other people. Everything was great we were doing manicures and making prank calls. But then it got really late and everyone got a sugar rush and were bouncing off the walls it was crazy! Well I was sitting on top of Lillys dresser next to her cousin Jenna and all of the sudden Jenna started rubbing my feet and telling me how soft my skin was....it really weirded me out. Everyone laughed like it was a joke...but it didnt seem like a joke to her. She looked kinda like my boyfriend does right after we make out. Should I be weirded out by this? I'm going to her house again on tuesday and her cousin will be there, and I'm kinda scared...should I be? Hellllp!

Sounds like she was kidding but not making it that obvious. Everyone was just being crazy and were having fun. When you go to your friends house act the usual if she tries to touch you or anything like that tell her to stop because you feel uncomfortable. Don`t be that scared, she was most likely kiddin around. ♥

[view]

How do you know if someone is a true friend?

To me: A true friend is someone who is always there for you, completely honest with you, makes you smile and laugh when you need it the most, always has a shoulder to cry on, has a ton of memories with you, and never talk about you behind you back or backstab. =] ♥

[view]

im 16 and ive been going out with a guy for about about 2 months. i really like him but hes scared to make a move and we havent made out yet. his friends keep telling me that i need to make the first move, but thats not really my thing. and i dont feel very comfortable confronting him about this. wat should i do?

He may not be ready yet, give him alittle more time. Comfronting him about might embarrase him or make him feel weird about it. If nothing happens for awhile, then just make the first move yourself. =] ♥

[view]

okay so if anyone knows if i should do this or not..

well i have been thinking about it but i got this scar when i was about 4 & im not 13. its going away so what but its so noticeable & i dont like it. my mom tells me i can go into surgery for it & they will make it gone. does anyone know if that will be painfull. should i just let it stay there. cause its not like really really noticeable only a little.. plesae help me thanks.

I think you should just let it stay there for awhile, you`re only 13 and your body is still growing and scars do fade away after time. In a couple years you & don`t like it still then get surgery, it might make a different scar tho. =/ Depending on what the surgery is then it might be painful too for a couple days after. ♥

[view]

okay so it seems as if im loosing one of my bestfriends because her other bestfriend & me dont get along very well but then again we never talk. it never used to ruin our friendship but ever since my bestfriend found out that her bestfriend was about to be heart broken she has been just taking care of her. she barely talks to me anymore unless i talk to her first. and im not sure if i should tell her how i feel stop talking to her for a while or just let it go.
:[
help me please!!

Sometimes friendships get like that, another person comes in the pictures and your then the third wheel. Your friend is just being there for her other friend right now cause she is going through a hard time, eventually it will get go away and get better for her. You should tell your friend how you feel - she is your best friend. If she doesn`t understand stop talking to her for awhile. Try talking to her bestfriend too because maybe if you get along, things will get better with you and your bestfriend. Good luck. ♥

[view]

hey there!

uhm ive heard people snoop dogg and paul wall say "what it do" or "what it do baby boo" and im bewildered what does it mean exactly?

I`m not sure what your really asking, but I have no clue what "what it do or what it do baby boo" mean. If it`s from a song and you know what the songs called, just leave another message in my inbox and i can try to find what it means. ♥

[view]

Okay, last year i had a lot of break outs and lots of black heads on my nose. I would wash and even pop them, but they never actually went away. My mom says they are just large pores because they were clogged. If this is true, is there anything i can do to make them smaller? Iwash my face every morning and night.

Yes i think it can because your pores are clogged. You can go to a dermatologist. Or maybe go to walmart or some store and see what kind of soap wash helps minimize your pores. ♥

[view]

ok my parents r desperately waiting for me to get a girlfriend and always push me to do so. at this momment i just want to be single yet on the other hand i would like someone by my side and would like to be going out. im not sure what to do or how to do it. what should i do?

Don`t start dating until your ready. With school starting soon(?) there will be more opportunities meeting new people & girls. If you already like someone then start showing you do. When you meet girls, be really flirty. It may take time, but eventually you`ll meet someone. =] ♥

[view]

alright i dont hav a girlfriend yet butam going close to a girl and i feel she like me back. my question is what should i do to keep her happy and not hav her dought about me
-16yrs old

Start showing her you like and care about her. Try to make plans with her more often. Show your romantic side, buy her little gifts (flowers). =] Bring her out too, like to the movies & dinner. When you feel she likes you alot, ask her out. Good luck =] ♥

[view]

short story. i dated this guy in 7th grade (i am now a senior)...

well this boy has started calling me up. we have been hanging out a lot and when he is on the phone he tells all his friends he is with hir girl. but when we are around people he acts diff. well tonight we were together. we had sex then went to his house ( acted a lil shady ) well me and him smoke. we meet up with one of his friends. they where taken me home but meet up with this guy and bought some stuff..well he dude started snorten and then his girl did and then my boyfriend made hold the steering wheel while he snorted. now earlyer tonight he told me he doesn't mess with that stuff. then i asked him before he snorted that if he still does it and said sometimes.

after he snorted it he told me he was sorry that he loved me. he started comforting me cuz he cuz knew i was scared and upset.

((even though he said he loved me. we have been sayin that for years. but i am not the one to tell someone to chose this over me. so it would be hard for me to make him pick between me or coke.))

i need to know what i should say to him or if i should stay with him. i'm just confused outta hell. i'm hurt the he did that infront of me. i just don't know what to do...

You really need to tell him that he wasn`t being responsible the one night when he did coke. Tell him you don`t want to be around him when he does that because it really bothers you. If he said he didn`t do coke before he did it, ask him why he lied. If he loves you enough than he will stop and start showing respect. If things don`t get better then don`t stay with him. ♥

[view]

Ok, I am 15 (female) and i have a bf, we like each other alot. But he seems to be very lazy (he is also 15) It seems like he dosn't ever want to spend time w/ me. Is there anything that i can do to make him feel more comfertable around me. Im not really sure what it is, but it seems like all he ever wants to do is eat, and sleep. I see my friends and thier bf's and they all get along really well. I just kinda wanna get stuck out of this rut. Is there anything that i can do?

Get to know him better, find out something both of you have in common. Go out to dinner and a movie or other fun places. Try to have as much fun as you can. If he still continues to do it, tell him how you feel. ♥

[view]

yeah so this is it from the begining the names are changed tho! okay i started to go out with this boy josh ithought everything was great.i would call just to here his voice.he also went out with my close friend jessi. jessi like the thought of us together.almost a week later she had told me that he was going out with a girl name sara i told her no he just forgets my name sometimes thats all. then a week later i brought it up and he said ooh i didnt think we were to serious and hes the one who ask me out!! one of my other friends introduced us on aim.i felt hurt about it but i ignored it.then he broke up with sara and a day later dumped me he said i wanna date you some other time i was shocked.He would talk about us being sexual i liked it but i didnt want to get hurt.2 weeks later he went out with sara again. again the relationship ended.now i still have feelings for him what should i do?

Seriously he`s just a jerk. He is probally just using sara and wanted to use you if he talked about sexual things. I can`t believe he did that to you. Just forget about him && find someone better than him! ♥

[view]

16/f
ok so there is this guy! and well i hungout with him today with my two cousins because thats their neighbor. and so we FLIRTED SO MUCH. im not even kidding listen..we would always punch each other then we wrestled and hes like allright here i'll give you a head start..you can sit on top of my so i was like straddling him and then he like grabbed me and put my over his shoulders and like pinned me down and got really close =) and then he kept taking my phone and i would have to chase him and jump on him and then he would grab me and just all that kind of stuff! we were boxing and like he would throw me down and "body slam" me on the couch haha. and i sat on top of him! just that flirty/touchy/sexual stuff like that! and like everytime my cousin would go and punch him or something hed be like noooo dont do that! but i could? haha. i kinda feel like he is attracted to me or something or just really likes flirting with me? but guess what...HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND and he was doing all this with me? she is at her cabin right now and sometimes tonight i felt like he was kinda my boyfriend or something. =) the whole girlfriend thing throws me off though..what do you guys think? what should i do? keep flirting or what. i know he isnt a player or anything or a "PIMP" but i dont know why he would do this with me when he has a girlfriend. hmmmm...and like he kept putting my phone down his pants and rubbing it down there lol and then he put it in my mouth and my cousin is like ahhh you pratically should just give him a blow job and we just laughed about it.

but id like to get your guys' advice on this whole deal. thank you so much

It sounds like he is really into you. Maybe him and his girlfriend don`t have a good relationship, and he just wants to move on. Tomorrow night play it as it goes. See if your cousin can get more info on his relationship with his girlfriend, and if he is into you. Just be careful tho. ♥

[view]

right after when you take a shower or whenever, is it best to brush your hair with a comb or brush? and which one causes more splitends because i want to get rid of mine? and other tips would be helpful

The only way to get rid of split ends is going to a hair salon and having them trim your hair. It is probally better to comb your hair because your not tugging hard and can get your knots out too. Use a wider comb tho. ♥

[view]

I believe I have OCD. I was reading online to look up some symptoms and I seem to meet them all. I am 14/ f and I was wondering how I should bring it up with my mom. I am going to the doctors on Monday for a physical so I can play sports so how should I ask my mom to bring it up?

Usually around your age, doctors give you a survey to fill out. It`s suposse to be confidential but anyways it ask you multiple question and questions or concerns you have. You can tell them that way. If they don`t ask your mom if you can ask about personal questions with just the doctor. Or just plain out ask her if you can mention OCD to the doctors. Hope this helps. ♥

[view]

why do i have like crusty stuff on my nipple.
sorry i no its weird.
but just asking!!

It just means your dried out, put some lotion on them and it should go away. ♥

[view]

what happens to your body if you masterbate and come a lot?
do you get ill or weak?
and do you get white spots on your face?

If you masterbate alot you will probally become weak and tired. And you don`t get white spots on your face i don`t know where you heard that but you don`t lol. ♥

[view]

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
eXTReMe Tracker