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Q: I truly want to learn Latin and i heard it was a lot of fun though i have been taking Spanish for a year and i know how useful it wuold be...i could take both languages but i am afraid it might be too much...WHAT SHOULD I DO?

Latin is a good language...esp as most ppl don't consider to learn it..I mean you'll b e soo unique. However doind both is quite a pain in the butt! Lol I do french and spanish and it's tough to keep up unless you think you could. At end of terms I mix up soo much that I've decided on jus french...but in the end it's your choice

Q: I had a perfectly flat and toned stomach, but now that I've had a baby I have stretch marks and some saggy skin in the lower belly. What can
i do?

Pilates and some yoga will do you good. Also use cocoa butter about 2-3 times daily and while you're working out. Also eat healthy and DON'T go on a diet because enuff iron will be needed to get breastmilk for the baby.

BEST LUCK WITH THE BABY!!

Q: i got raped 7 weeks ago and i am upset now an then but i got pregnate from it and i'm keeping but i don't know if it died i am not sure i tried a test but my mom walked in her room wich is right next to the bathroom what do i do

You need to tell your mother ASAP!!!!

If it has died...or has not u still have to go to the hospital. Make sure you also make a police report but more imporatantly visit a hospital or doctor's office. When a baby's fetus dies in you it has harmful substances that WILL kill you in time. MAke sure you tell your mom and have all the family support you need...

........................BEST OF LUCK AND SAFE HEALTH OFF BOTH U N BABY

Q: that chatroom on here works at any time of the day, correct? if so, can ppl please go in it? im insanley bored. THANKS

YEah you can!!!

Q: im 13/f and i am confused. every guy likes me n i like them... * i mean the ones below not every one*

*not rl names*

colten- nice skater a couple inches shorter then me kinda bossy gets into fighs easily goes to a school nearby cute
ashton- lives states away from me, best friend nice sweet romaantic cute kind of into himself prep & model
connor- best friends with colten, a foot taller then me skater goes to nearby school.. not cute in looks but in personality
rylan- has a gf for the past 1 1/2 yrs nice cute my height & school preppy
kevin- my grade my school nice athletic preppy sometimes weird

i just dont know which one to focus on... i know.. wow a lot of guys.. but they all mean a lot to me in different ways.. no i m not a whore.. i promise.. .well i know you girls can all relate to me sometimes..

thanks in advance

From what u said Kevin, Ashton and Connor sound relly nice. PS. Don't always go for looks alone

Q: what can i get to keep my discharge from getting sll over my underware

i know its a stupid ? but oh well

Panty liners are safe and easy. I don't recomend using pads because they are soo bulky. Use the scented ones to keep u ffresh....best of luck

Q: i was wondering if anyone knew of any good over-the-counter skin cleansers that work really well? i have lots of blackheads on my nose (blahblah, gross, i know) and i get a lot of break outs on my nose. nose the skin right where my nose attaches is dry and itchy, but the rest is greasy and gross. suggestions?

thanks.

and by the way, i wasn't sure which category to put this in... and i know it's the wrong one. but i was thinking that if somebody was lookign for people asking questions based on people's skin because of their eating habits they might stumble across this one? i'm sorry though.

You should try to use pore strips to clean then out and use a good moisturiser.
There are biore pore strips for the nose and then i use the 2nd and 3rd steps of loreal pure zone together with neutrogena invigorating scrub.

Hope I helped

Q: I have a friend that is 14 years old. She is beautiful kinda embarresing to say but. She says she doesn't like me then when we are playing halo 2 she pauses it then gives me a look like ya. Then when later on she when we got some dr.pib we set it on the table next to us and then she pulled me ontop of her and started making out and i am not to sure of what to do because we have been through a lot but she just doesn't trust me what so ever. idk i am a depressed person and iam very emotional.

I am 14 years of age and a freshman in high school. name Solomon

i personally think she likes u. Maybe she's tryin to be hard to get and girls think guys like it wen actually it confuses them. You should try to figure out if and how she likes u. I think it's more than jus a friend but you never know what these girls think. Lol I'm a girl so I can tell u from experience we don't know what we want. Invite her on a casual date and ask her what ya'll status are...n how she sees u

Q: In June, I have my 8th grade dance. It is practically like a prom. It's a huge deal and it's really fancy. I just don't know where to find a good dress. I want a short one, above my knees. I don't have very big boobs and I'm skinny and about 5 foot. I have looked at many stores and just can't fine one. The most I can spend is like $150. Thanks! I will rate 5s!

I would check in like magazines and call up the store. Normally in like cosmo and stuf they have the "dress ffor less" section.

Q: what are good foods to eat when you're on your period?, cus im not too sure..and i wanted to know.thanks.. ill rate..

Eat healthy....and drink alot of water. Eat healthy iron foods and take vitamins so ull hve a good blood count n also eat good pressure foods. U don't want yah blood pressure to go down (if u hve)

Q: I want to buy birth control, but the thing is im kind of young and my parents can't know. If i buy it alone at like the CVS or Walmart, is it possible thatthe sales clerk will stop me from buying it?

Unless you know her/him they cannot by any means stop you because you are a customer and payin your money. I often don't buy things in places I know people because of that. If that occcurs however maybe you should try to go to a drugstore outsdie your district.

Q: I've been in love with this guy for about a year now since the first time i layed eyes on him. He has a gf and I told him how much I liked him. He said he liked me too but I am too young. I can't seem to get over him and it rly hurts when i see him. But yet, I still want to and I still enjoy spending time with him. However, I need to get over him, should I get over him? Do you think there is any hope in the world for me to become his gf? Please help! 15f. hes 18m

Thanks in Advance,
Drowning in love

there is a posibility but don't count of it too much!! I mean his gf mite beat u up n then if he never gets wid u...u'll become depressed

Q: Okay so last night at this dance party I was dancing(more like grinding) with a whole bunch of different guys. Then i noticed that this one guy had a hard on so i really rode into it. Later on that night I danced with my crush and he didnt get a boner, should I feel wierd because I wasnt doing a good job or what? Any Input?

Some guys don't get hot easily and some do. So don't feel bad at all!

Q: i wanna know how can i slow down the speed of windows media player. when i burn cd it does it so fast that not all the songs download or even download properly.

I am not sure if there is any possible way to slow it down but I do recomend you try to get another cd burning software esp. if WMP misses songs and stuff

Q: Ok I kinda have a strange question, but I'm going to ask anyway. If you did butt excercises every day, would that make your butt get any bigger? Like, would it build up the muscles in your butt, so that it would appear bigger? And if that's true, what kind of excercises could I do to do that? Thank you soooo much!

Well I think it makes the butt firmer and yeah I guess it'll build up the butt muscles.
In the gym I go to there is this butt blaster : I duno what it does but you work out the legs and butt so I guess if u firm your butt by doin like stoops and stufff and then lessen the fat in ur legs it'll appear and be bigger

Q: when yur nippls burn and hurt does this mean their growing or their just too cold? lol just wondering thanks!!!!

Yeah if they ffeel horribly sore they're growing.

Q: What are some things a girl could do for a guy to give their relationship a push?

This is what to do to get my ex bak to being himself n make him love me......it's a 5 letter word::

FLIRT!!!!!!!!

Q: everytime i want to burn a cd i have to go to windows media player then click and add the song then i have to on check the songs i wanna burn. i used to just be able to open my limewire and click explore and add to burn list but now i cant. is there a way i can change this? thanks

Um...u can install a cd burnin program if u wish eg. roxio or sonic.. A comp place mite hve a cd to put it on

Q: does anyone know if sidekicks work all over the world? like if you bought one in the US would it work in europe, asia, etc. etc.

thanks

It depends on the phone company....
Most companies havin roaming but with some you may have to pay extra fees for calls

Q: Okay so i am nearly 200 pounds overweight...i know i need to lose weight but i have no motivation...does anyone know of anything that could really motivate at 15 year old girl? Thanks