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First off, I'm a 15-year-old girl
I'm tired of falling on love with guys who are too old for me (the oldest being 21 and a friend of mine).
How do I avoid this happening?
Thank you. (link)
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edit even so you like him in a romantic context
first of all its illegal and if someone finds out he could get in serious trouble second of he could use you and take advantage of it.im not doubting your maturity but why would a guy whos 21 want someone around 15. why is he hanging around minors that young its not like your on the verge of turning 18,think about it. if you want someone older 17 is the limit until your 18 just be careful. just start talking to people who are in your age group.
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this guy i like or i think i like, likes another girl name stacy. i know he like her becasue he draws her name on his notebook and on this stickers that say HELLO MY NAME IS...and they all say STACY.i know beacuse i saw them. it just gets me mad because this guy has kissed me more then 2 timmes and i know he wants more then just a kiss he wants to have sex and i am not ganna give him that beacuse i am not a bitch. also ths guy told me that he likes me and wants to go around with me but when he told me that he was all HIGH. plz help me tell me what to do. (link)
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forget about this guy he is not worth it. what do you see in him hes obviously trying to use you so why dont you just forget him a let him be stacys problem i dont think he deserves anyone. there are better guys.
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I know what "taking a break" means, but what is the point? (link)
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either the person who wants to take a break wants to break up with you for good and doesnt want to be harsh and hurt you or they think they want to be serious with you but wan to make sure by seeing how strong their feelings for you are by going with others to see if they experience the same type of feelings with them or theyve spotted some one else and want to have fun with that person while still keeping their foot on you.
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how do i pirce my ear lobbs by my self whithout no pain (link)
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your best bet would be to numb them with ice but you cant epect to have zero pain any time your gougeing something through your skin. but numbing your lobbs will decrease it tremendously.
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i really really like this guy, he gives me just the right amount of attention, but then takes it away by not texting me back or saying he'll message me and then not doing it. he seemed interested in me but then i can't tell anymore. he talks to other girls, too but he talks to me at school in between classes. is there anyway to tell if he likes me? i don't want to ask him cuz i don't want to weird him out. he is kind of lazy and doesn't really make an effort, but i don't know if that's just how he is. if he doesn't like me though, then i don't wanna just be wasting my time. i noticed that he touched my arm when we talked sometimes but i haven't noticed it lately. soemtimes he is quiet and i can't hear him which makes me think maybe he's nervous. but i donno.. help me! (link)
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maybe he doesnt think you like him. he probably has friends who are girls. as for being lazy thats why he does text you back either that or he gets sidetracked dont focus on that.its up to you to be assertive and confront him.tell him that you like him. it would be a waste just waiting around for him. by confronting him you get to the punch that lets you know to embrace him or move on. its better to find out now. maybe he figured youd make the first move and felt you werent interested.so ask him.it better that way whether it turns out that he does or doesnt.
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13f ok so theres this guys at school that i kinda like and one day in my choir class one of his friends asked me if i would go out with his friend (the guy i like) and i said no cause i thought he might be joking and i didnt want to make a fool out of myself so neither of them were laughing and the guy i like seemed kinda nervous cause he was sitting right behind me when his friends asked me and after i said no he seemed upset so i very confused right now i dont know if he actualy likes me or if it was just a joke i mean i cant really see why he would like me cause i'm fat and ugly but whatever please help i'm so confused and i really like this guy (link)
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edit_____________ i was like that to you can look at my picture do i look weird fat or ugly..i used to think i was but the truth is im an individual and i love it and guess what so do alot of other people.i dont care how popular he is hes not above you. maybe he likes that your diffrent. individuality is a beautiful thing
your at that age wher you think your fat and ugly you need to change your attitude because beauty is objective. maybe this guy does like you. thats happened to me before stop second guessing your self. the guy probably likes you confront him before he goes on defense.if it turns out im wrong then atleast you know hes a jerk and can move on but i think he likes you.
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i can not tell if i like this guy (matt). like last night i saw his dad and for some reason how he looked really turned me off and i felt like i started to like my crush (matt) less and less. and then i think of him and i get this weird feeling like i am liking him less and less and less! i know this is so weird but like the smallest thing can turn me off in a guy. i dont know if i like him or not but i want to. what should i do? (link)
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its probably not that you dont like him you ve just seen someone you like better. its not unheard of to have more then one crush by the way.if somethings turning you off theres probably for a reason maybe this guy isnt right for you. you should never have to talk your self into or force your self in to liking someone thats usually a sign that its not meant to be or not going to work out. so maybe you should keep your options open.
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im scared to get my ear lobs pierced should i be (link)
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edit- yeah alot of guys do it i think its attractive. you should go with what you want to be happy and who you are. you caan still where hoops and studs etc. i think you should do it unless your just trying to live up to an image or feel you have to.
no i have my ear lobs pieced for about 10 years and know plenty of other people who have as well.its safe. it just might hurt when you get them pierced but it will go away. when i got it done i cried but it went away immediatly and i love wearing beautiful earrings.dont worry.
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I am pretty popular, and all.
But it seems like no one even likes me.
I have maybe a few really good/best friends but other than that I just have little friendships with girls.
And guys, they all hate me.
I dont understand, I used to be really really good friends with 80% of the guys who hate me.
They all just are mean and I dont know what I did.
Some guys would be my friend and be nice to me, and then just randomly start saying how they dont like me and tell me to shut up when I talk.
I dont understand, they dont do this to any other girl.
Maybe Im not as pretty as everyone else, but does that mean they have to hate me?
This makes me really sad
and on top of that, the boy I like , hates me probably the most.
long story on that one (link)
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its better to have a few good friends who you know like you then a bunch of people who are just pretending. im not saying your like this but sometimes people who are really popular arent very nice to other people who they feel or less then them think about things your saying and how your treating others are you sayng things that come off rude? if not then look at the people around you who are saying nasty things to you maybe they think of you as beneath them if so then theyre not good friends to begin with i think your wasting your time with these people.or maybe someone who thought you was a friend started a rumor to bring you down..it happens. i think you should reevaluate who your friends are and break away from these negativite ones... these people who you arent as close to you but you still call them "friends" wont be there for you in the long run and you probably wont even hear from them after you graduate. theres a whole horizon of diffrent people to make friends with maybe you should consider going out side of your circle. start looking for people who you can actually value and will value you they might be diffrent from or simiilar to you but you never know. sometimes you can find a gem where you least expect it. if these other people were really your friends then they wouldnt abuse you theyre fake. your better off without them.
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i have a best friend who when i tell her i love her all she says is you to.She says she dosent like bing touch when i give her a hug but she hugs other people.If i let her go what should i do to not suffer so much? (link)
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some people do that because there not comfortable with their sexuality. they dont want to be mistaken for gay maybe she gets that vibe from you or has misinterpreted you for something your not. some people are like that. i personally dont think that huging anothers girl or saying i love you is lesbian like me and my friends ay i love you and hug all the time but i have known people who do get that kind of vibe and think that way. it also might depend on how long youve known her she might feel your rushing her friendship or that your being clingy. im not saying you are. but there are people who can willingly embrace anyone immediately and there are people who need more time. maybe she feels like she has to hug these people because she doesnt want to be rude if she doesnt know them or maybe shes known them longer. be for yoyu let her go take in those factors. maybe you should talk to her about it if your comfortable enough to say i love you you should be comfortable enough to confront her about it in a calm manner. if you decide to let her go then that means shes turned out to be a not so good friend and you wont suffer because you wont miss the abuse if thats not the case then maybe you should try to work it out communication is key.
normally when people are using you they try to be sweeter then average so i dont think thats the case unless you really think you have something she wants.i think if she was using you you she would be more inclined to be overly nice and hug you and so on to butter you up.
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15/F
My dad is a coach for a basketball team. Well my dad and my ex's dad coach together. Well I think he likes me but I dont know. Today at lunch he came up to me and said something and i replied well you don't love me. He then said yes i do thats why i come to basketball practice and the games. Does that mean he likes me or is that just a response? Please help, anything and everything is appreciated!!! (link)
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He could of just been being friendly he might be at the games because his dad coaches.it might be more helpful if i knew what he said when he first approached you.maybe hefigures since your dads coach togeather you guys can be friends. you should say something likeyou dont think im attractive any more. if he says something like i feel the same way i did about you befor then he probably likes you.
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My boyfriend was over today, and he fingered me. It hurt, but felt good at the same time. He dropped me off at my house at like 1 because he had a thing to go to with his family. I went to the bathroom, and I was bleeding. I knew he broke my hymen, so I just went about my day. Well, it's well over 10 hours later, and I'm still bleeding. I know it's not my period because my period shouldn't be here for another 10-14 days, and I don't have any cramps. So, how long am I gonna bleed for? Because I'm sick of going to the bathroom & finding blood. Ugh. (link)
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i think he popped your cherry. the bleeding depends on the person. it shouldn't be that long you probably just did wipe the blood good enough the first time.its not abnormal.
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okay some of my friends say that actually "starving" yourself helps lose weight. is this true? I know its extremly unhealthy & I personally wouldnt do that to myslef. Im just curious =) thanks! (link)
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yes its true but its very unhealthy and alot of times fatal. it also causes you to lose nutrients in your body.i,m glad you wouldn't consider it.kudos to you!
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if a boy bothers you a lot but in a fun way does that mean he likes you as a gf or just a friend (link)
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he could be flirting. ask yourself if hes the same way with everyone else then hes just goofing off and being friendly.if he is just singling you out or giving you alittle more attention then he probably likes you.
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20/f
i was talking to this really sweet guy and hes like
"im glad i could make you laugh"
"it makes my day"
and i said
"how does that make your day"
and hes like
"because i enjoy makin ppl laugh....and you :-D ;-)"
what did he mean by that, "and you" ? (link)
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he was making it clear that he enjoyed making a positive impression on you. he said and you so you wouldnt begrouped in with everyone else.if he would of said just people with out the and you then it would of sounded like he just likes making people laugh and nothing more. he singled you out to give you special meaning.
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I get made fun of a lot because I have red hair so people call me firecrotch AND Im not very pretty. I look like a fish. Anyway, guys on my bus are always making fun of me..and I want to know what I say to them. Swearing isnt working - they just mock me and it just gives them a reaction. (link)
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i looked at your picture and i actually double checked because i didnt see and ugly hair. your cute..in the picture your hair doesnt look that red but it could be the lighting. i think maybe you need to learn to love your self i think its the atmosphere youve been put in. there is always going to be a negative person or group to put you down. but ask yourself whats so great about them.ignore them wear head phones. theres nothing that i could see wrong with yu. im suprised of your attitude because the girl in the photo looks so confident.i think these boys need to grow a brain. just shrug them off ive learned that there comes a point in your life when you just got think screw it and move on and be happy.there hatefulness is ugly and if met them i wouldnt give them the time of day. hate is for pussies.
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Do guys hate kissing girls who have on lip gloss?
cause thats what my one friend said, but i was just wondering..thanks! (link)
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every guy is diffrent and some guys enjoy it especially if its flavored. i have alot of guy friends and heard they dont care either way because if they really like the girl they want to kiss her no matter what
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is it possible to get pregnant if u get raped? (link)
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yes because when your raped your having sex.you cant out think it . unless that person is using protection or has their tubes tied or vice versa but theres still a chance and you would still be vulnerable to stds.and excuse me but there i would swear on the chance that your baby would turn out to be a rapist because each person is diffrent.so dont let that scare you if you did get raped or somebodyelse you know did.
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13/f last night i think i interuppted my parents having sex. my mom yelled at me through the door because it was locked and i knocked on it. it was like 10:45 pm. my parents never go to bed that early and they never shut the door and lock it. is this a sighn of ur parents having sex?? im just curious and i didnt think my parents still did that stuff. should i ask my mom or should i just let it go?? its really bugging me!!! (link)
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i think you should let it go. its not a secret that your parents still have sex because theyre still human and love eachother. its there personal business and there sex life doesnt need to be a family affair. they might have been its not an abnormal thing but its nothing you need to confront them about either. their sex life isnt your business.
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hey people, what is the legal age to move out of your parents house? (link)
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eighteen but you can get emacipated.
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