13f ok so theres this guys at school that i kinda like and one day in my choir class one of his friends asked me if i would go out with his friend (the guy i like) and i said no cause i thought he might be joking and i didnt want to make a fool out of myself so neither of them were laughing and the guy i like seemed kinda nervous cause he was sitting right behind me when his friends asked me and after i said no he seemed upset so i very confused right now i dont know if he actualy likes me or if it was just a joke i mean i cant really see why he would like me cause i'm fat and ugly but whatever please help i'm so confused and i really like this guy
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? Eddi13E answered Monday March 12 2007, 5:53 pm: You are not fat or ugly. I've never seen you so you're probably not on the track of believing what I say now, but take it into thought. There is always someone bigger and uglier than you, so I would quit feeling bad about yourself and start looking towards the quality things in you. Like personality. For guys, as much as they say they like big boobs and butts, that's just their dicks talking. What they really want is someone they can have fun with, relate to, and laugh with. Mainly having a good time.
I don't think you should have said you didn't like him if you do. In that situation, I would have laughed and said, "Um..Of COURSE I would!" and if they give you a what-the-heck look...Be like, "What, I'm serious." They'll most likely back off and take it as a confident statement. Guys like confidence, remember that. [ Eddi13E's advice column | Ask Eddi13E A Question ]
xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx answered Saturday January 13 2007, 10:35 pm: Everyones beautiful in their own unique way so dont call yourself fat and ugly. This guy obviously likes you and if you like him maybe you should ask him if his friends were joking wen they asked you out for him. Do this as soon as possible! if you realli like this guy maybe you should explain that you thought they were joking and that you actually like him to. i hope it all works out =] Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx [ xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx's advice column | Ask xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx A Question ]
Elle19 answered Saturday January 13 2007, 8:40 pm: hey sweetie,
No-one in this world is fat and ugly, everyone is an individual, size and looks shouldn't matter, personality is hwat should matter!!!
You probably got caught off guard!! I think you should tlak to this guy and see whats going on... obviously you like him and i am guessing he likes you... I think you should confront him, if not by talking face to face, text him, or talk over the internet or right him a letter. You could be missing your chance!!
stay positive!!
hoping you all the best
Elle [ Elle19's advice column | Ask Elle19 A Question ]
illdomybest answered Saturday January 13 2007, 7:40 pm: edit_____________ i was like that to you can look at my picture do i look weird fat or ugly..i used to think i was but the truth is im an individual and i love it and guess what so do alot of other people.i dont care how popular he is hes not above you. maybe he likes that your diffrent. individuality is a beautiful thing
your at that age wher you think your fat and ugly you need to change your attitude because beauty is objective. maybe this guy does like you. thats happened to me before stop second guessing your self. the guy probably likes you confront him before he goes on defense.if it turns out im wrong then atleast you know hes a jerk and can move on but i think he likes you. [ illdomybest's advice column | Ask illdomybest A Question ]
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