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I'm going into my freshman year in high school. What are some do's & don'ts for high school?

Do: Be yourself! Make friends
Dont: Be Immature,Talk bad about people, or hang out with the "wrong crowd"

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Hey yall i need a website with WAV or MIDI music codes for my new xanga.If u answer this ill rate u!Plz help

http://www.findmidis.com

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does anyone have any ideas for something to do when your by yourself? i'm bored and i have nothing to do..if you have any ideas please tell me.

Watch Tv, Talk on the phone, Answer questions on here, Listen to the radio, Dance (I do that haha), Read a book, write notes, make a journal or scrapbook..... just something fun like that

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ARE'NT THERE ANY GUYS OUT HERE?But that was'nt my question.But I do have a problem...Well I think my boyfriend is gay!And I think he's just playing up with me but actually he wants to be with my elder bro.How do i find out if he's gay???

Ask him or watch how he acts around other guys.....

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i really like this guy and we r kinda friends and i want him to know that i like him but whenever i talk to him i get really shy and im not myself...wut can i do?

Relax!!!! write him a note or call him on the phone and tell him that you like him if your too shy to do it in person.

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ok well i know that i should just leave him alone but let me tell u the story first..well me and this guy named Jared dated and he told me he loved me but we broke up because there was a misunderstanding and now he had been with this girl for three months and i now see that i am in love with him and he wants me to stay out of there relationship!!!What do i do?!?!?!?

First, you stay outta theyre relationship. Love really does suck. Just wait for him to get single again and then talk to him about it. You have nothing to lose right? Just dont try to break him and his girlfriend up or anything like that...

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Is it ok to eat once a day? That's about the the meals I eat a day.

Eat more! Eat 3 meals a day, or 5 small meals throught the day. You will have lots more energy.

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well out of all my friends i am the only virgin. they all tell me I should lose but I am not confortible with my body and hate people seeing it i mean I am skinny but its like skin and bones. and I don't know if I am ready. I am only 15 I want to find the right guy firts but I do want to lose it everyone talks about it and i have nothing to talk about I get teased and all the stuff should i lose it and get it over with or wait tell I find Mr right please help
Signed,
VIrgin GIrl

Be proud to be a virgin, its special...

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ok. i am 14 and i am a female. I really like this on kid. but there is a different kid that likes me alot. he is funny and everything u would want a boyfriend to be...well maybe. i mean i dont know if i should go out with him bc he isnt exactly the cutest guy in the world. actually he isnt cute at all. and the only thing that is keeping me from going out with him is the fact that he is ugly and that ppl will say stuff to me like"oh ur going out with him? he is so ugly!" i just dont want ppl to say that. i mean he is funny, nice and wont push u to do nethign like most guys would. his 2 best friends r going out with my 2 best friends and we r the ones left out. my question is i guess. should i go out with him even tho he is ugly?

Who cares if hes ugly! He might be the guy that treats you the best. Dont listen to everyone else. If you really like him then you will just learn to ignore everyone elses comments.

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This girl Deanna R. always give me an attitude, but today i got really fed up. she started givin me an attitude because i had a qupte in my profile that she didnt like. So she starts threatining me to take it off. so i did. cuz i kno if u get her pisst off she'll throw a hissy fit and get a whole bunch of her friends to try to make my life shit. and i hate it. what should i do. i try as much as i can to avoid her, and ignore her rude comments but it really bugs me.

-nicole g

Uhhh kick her ass, like majorly..If your not the violence type of person then put your quote back on your profile, tell her to go to hell, and block her. Oh my god I cant stand people like her. Dont let her run your life.

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i'm 13 and all i ever want is to sing and listen to music. I really want to get alot better but besides lessons idk how. i just want to be a good singer that people want to hear.
how do i do that?

Practice!

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me and my bf were talking last night and he kept saying i hate my brother i wish aron was my bro (thats his cousin) and he kept saying it and saying it and like i hate him i wish he wasnt my brother and i said im glad your bro is your bro and he said why do you always stick up for him? and i said cuz.. i have my reasons and he said he hated his bro more and more and kept going on and on i got really mad b-cuz i love my brother and my brother is dead so out of that i said at least your bro didnt fricken die... was saying that totally wrong? i mean he kept going on and on and i wanted my point across and i've never told him it b4 but now he knows

First off, I'm sorry about the loss of your brother.
Second: You were not out of line to say that to him. Its the truth.
Maybe he needs to learn to love his brother while he still has him. Make shure you let him know that. Its just not right to hate your own flesh and blood.

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Is it normal to have to change your pad every 45 min., because lately I've been having to change it about every 45 min., and like my whole pad is covered in blood,(sorry this is really gross!!), am i bleeding a little bit too much?? Is there any way that i can like, slow my flow down because lately, ive been having to wear 3 maxi pads to bed...but anyways...is this normal??

You might wanna get that checked out by your doctor......

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I have a new bf and al he talks about is Wars , scares and other sicking stuff, but i really dont like him that much, how do I tell him that I am going to break up with him??? PLZ HELP JENIPHER

Just tell him that you dont think that yall are gonna work out.

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due to an error in the site code, we are unable to approve questions... in fact, this very comment is probably doomed to the queue.

I dont like this new stuff :'(

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ok people who talk to me on msn for some reason assume im a bitch and then they tell ther friends and they all ask me of i heard u were a bitch and im really not i can be sometimes but all girls are that way. i mean some of them havent even met me in person like they go to my school but i dont talk to them so they cant call me a bitch if they havent met me in person right? it is soo fucked up and im fucking sick of it im fucking not a bitch excuse my language but im so sick and tired of people calling me a bitch and its not even true plus they havent met me so yea what do i do?

Ignore them. They think the same thing of me. They are just immature. I use my block button :)

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hi im 13.f.md... i dont know what is going on with me when i go to pee i have cum in my panties ... and im a virgin and i dont know whats going on whats wrong with me and is it normal? write back asap
thx shania

I think its probably just discharge, Maybe u will be starting your period soon!!

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are you starving yourself if you eat one salad per day?

Yes.....

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im gettin braces in like 2 days, and i was wondering
does it hurt when they put them on?
or does it hurt more a fefw days later?

U will feel a little discomfort when you eat later that day. I ate french fries from Mcdonalds the day I got them on & it didnt bother me too bad. It doesnt hurt when they put them on, but for the next few days u may have to take asprins because it does hurt. Your teeth will be sore and feel a little loose. well mine did anyways.....

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Is 9th grade a good grade and does it go by quickly?

9th goes by pretty fast. Its exciting and new. Only bad thing is some people will try to pick on you and call u a "fish" but just ignore them or something and they will stop

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