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hey,i'm Nicole. I'm 23 years young. I'm from New York...i do the best i can on giving advice on this site.drop one in my inbox n i'll get to it as soon as i can.i like spending time with friends, shopping,and playing soccer. my interests are music, singing and dancing.

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I'm going to be a freshman this year when highschool starts and I was wondering if I could get help with a "new look", and I mean everything! I dress kind of preppy, but also sporty at the same time. I would like a more rocker//bohemian//preppy look all mixed in one. Is this possible? Everything from what(if) I should put something in my hair, all the way down to the shoes! ((no spandex or cowboy boots please!)) I'd also like a new look, I wear eyeliner and mascara everyday, any updates? Any good brand of eyeliner that doesnt smudge, wonderful foundation for beige skin, a "flirty" pink blush, and waterproof mascara would be awesome! If anyone could give me advice on a good first day of school outfit, that would be fantastic! Any websites, and stores that arent majorly exspensive. (I shop at AE, Hollister, & PacSun, so anything around that price range or cheaper!) Thanks so much to anyone who could give me good advice! I'll rate fives for anyone who can give me great advice. Thank you soo much!!

Bonnebell eyeliner in ink black is great. i use it every day. Maybelline New York powder foundation works really good.as for the clothes... JcPenny usually has some good stuff. if you want a kind of bohemian look, go for some of the classy beaded tops->they go well with a cute studded belt and some hoop earrings. for mascara, go for maybelline waterproof turbo boost. (all the things i just mentioned i have, so they're proven to look good together :-p)
hope i helped!

XOXO~*~*Nicole Lynn*~*~XOXO

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i am 13 and i am gay i dont know how to tell my parents that i am i dont kno if i should just drop it on them one day or if i should let them down gently...see my parents and the rest of my fam think i am little mr. perfecto cuz they cant see anything wrong with me i make straight a's and i have lots of good christian friends (that by the way kno that i am gay) everyone in the entire world knos about me cept my family.................. i have to turn into i different person when i go hope like puting on a mask temperarily for every day for the last 3 years i dont kno how else to explain it!!! hope u understand and can help me and give me tips and things to let them kno i am serious and i dont want to get any mean stuff from people soo please help dont make fun thanx love sethers

tell your parents. talk to your mom first...it should be easier to talk to her. she may cry and everything. then ask her to talk to your dad...it will bring some of the pressure off your shoulders. i really hope it goes well!

XOXO~*~*Nicole Lynn*~*~XOXO

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i need help going on a diet and losing weight.
ive tried everything! lol
i excersize, go to gyms..dance..swim..a bunch of stuff..n it hasnt seem to work.
does anyone know a good diets/excersize plans that can help?

eating 3 or more servings of dairy a day helps you lose weight->try Dannon's Light & Fit Yogurt

cardio workouts (like running) work your whole body->try running around your neighborhood

give up soda->people who drink soda are heavier than people who don't drink soda

try to do lots of cardio workouts->instead of just running, do lots of dancing (just to music on the radio or cd's) and swimming

try the south beach diet->look for the foods made by Kraft in your local grocier...they will say South Beach Diet on them and they have healthy and good tasting foods

try not to eat too much junkfood

good luck & hope i helped!!

XOXO~*~*Nicole Lynn*~*~XOXO

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I have acne on my back and i was wondering is there any kind of product i can use to get rid of it? Thanks

there is a thing called natures cure. it said that it should help cure acne anywhere on your body. i heard that proactiv works on your back too. you should probably try natures cure because it costs less though. hope i helped!

XOXO~*~*Nicole Lynn*~*~XOXO

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ok...about how old do girls normally stop growing....im 13 and im 5 feet 1 inch and my boobs are really small!

girls normally stop growing around 17/18. don't worry...you'll fill out eventually. it just takes a bit of time. hope i helped.

XOXO~*~*Nicole Lynn*~*~XOXO

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i recently went on vacation with my family and a few cousins whom i hadnt talked to in a long time to california. me and one of my cousins started getting somewhat close, and i am ashamed to say i like him. eh. any help?

well...thats technically not illegal unless you get married to him... i would say try to stop talking to him for a bit and get out, hit some fun places like the mall,the park, or a club and try to meet another guy. and dont be ashamed, but you might not want to tell any of your friends that even though they'll probably just laugh about it. just get out and meet new people.
hope i helped!

XOXO~*~*Nicole Lynn*~*~XOXO

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Im really afraid to have sex. But my boyfriend of a year and a half is really into it. He always pressures me in to doing it but i havnt yet(by choice). But one night my boyfriend got drunk and i was home alone.He was acting really scary and i didnt know what to do.Then he pushed me on my bed and raped me. I love him so much and i dont want to leave him even after what he did to me. I also dont want to tell anyone because i dont want him to go to jail or get in trouble. Should I tell anyone and what should i do about this?

If he had the will to rape you, then I can tell you that he doesn't love you the way you love him. What he did is terrible and wrong. Since he raped you, deep inside you probably know that he's not the right one for you because if he was, he wouldn't have done that. And yes you should tell someone and even though you don't want to, you should break up with him. If you tell someone, he won't necessarily go to jail... he'll only go to jail (possibly) if you decide to press charges. You should tell your mom (or dad if you dont have a mom) and ask her(/him) to take you to the gynochologist to check for std's and pregnancy...even IF he did use a condom.
good luck, hope i helped, & i am so sorry for what happened to you.

XOXO~*~*Nicole Lynn*~*~XOXO

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I've been searching everywhere to find the bathing suit that I want. I cannot find it anywhere. I'm looking for a plain black string bikini and absolutely no stores have it! If you guys know of any stores where I could find one I'd appreciate it. I rate 5's! Thanks so much in advance.

they have black string bikinis at JC Pennies. I was there over the weekend and i saw them and they're totally cute! you can probably go to JCPennies.com or something and look at them...i think it would be under womens swimwear. hope i hleped!

XOXO~*~*Nicole Lynn*~*~XOXO

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ok there is this really good and i dont know how it is by or what it is called because i usually dont listen to that kinda music but the words go:

you wanna know more more more about me
im the girl whos kicking the coke machiane
im the ones thats honking at you 'cause i left late agian
hey hey hey
could you see i want you by the way i push you away
yea
dont judge me tomorrow sumthing sumthing really fast

hey hey get tangled up in me


if you need more of the song just tell me!!

that would be "tangled up in me" by Skye Sweetnam...and i love that song! hope i helped!

XOXO~*~*Nicole Lynn*~*~XOXO

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(13/f)Okay well I'm in love with my best friend thats a guy. I've liked him since the first time I met him. But he has a girlfriend and I HATE HER! He knows it and so does she, were trying to be nice to each other now but its kinda hard. I really want him to dump her, but I mean I can't tell him that and honestly Jesse and I are a lot closer than him and Kelsey. They've been going out for a long time now too and I really don't think there going to break up anytime soon. But I can't tell him I like him because of what happened last time when I told him....he said lets just be friends. I really want to tell him and then he dumps her and we go out but I know it won't happen I'm more like his #3 on his top 10 List. Even Jesse's family knows me more than they know Kelsey. Should I tell Jesse how I feel? And also does anyone know how I might be able to break them up without Jesse hating me? Like nothing to be like lyingish but I really need him to dump her.

you should tell Jesse how you feel...go for it, the worst thing he can say is 'let's just be friends'. now, about the part where you want them to break up...it's not a good idea because it might get you into alot of deep crap, but if you know of any of his friends that don't like Kelsey, talk to him and ask him to tell Jesse that Kelsey said bad stuff about him and to tell Kelsey that Jesse said bad stuff about her. hope i helped & good luck with your guy!

XOXO~*~*Nicole Lynn*~*~XOXO

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I'm best friends with my friend's boyfriend. My friends name is Haley, and Her boyfriend/my best friend is Ryan. (Btw, im 13 female) Well Haley is out of town, and me, Ryan, and a few other people went Cosmic bowling the other night and me & and Ryan totally flirted. I've liked him for a while, but I felt terrible for doing this to Haley so I stopped, but he kept tryin to hold my hand and everything. I really like him, but Haley's practicly my best friend too, what should I do?

all i can say is chicks over dicks. you really don't want to lose one of your really good friends over a guy. he may be one of your good friends and you may have liked him for a while, but if you want to go out with him, at least wait for a little while after they've broken up.
good luck & hope i helped!

XOXO~*~*Nicole Lynn*~*~XOXO

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what does masturbate mean?
i know it is a stupid question, but i rele don't know
-i rate high for nice peoeple

masturbating is feeling up or fingering yourself or another person. hope i hleped!

XOXO~*~*Nicole Lynn*~*~XOXO

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I am so in love with this guy named Ryen.We have been dating for a while now.And he still has not poped the questtion.How do I Him to?plz help.

you should try to hint to him that you want to get married. if you're in a restaurant and you see an old couple, be like "wow, they're so lucky to have been married for such a long time". or you could just always propose to him?
good luck & hope i helped!

XOXO~*~*Nicole Lynn*~*~XOXO

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Does any one know if it is possible to see your bill and past bills online for VerizonWireless cellphone bills?

yes, you can check your verizon bills on line. i think thats the only place their detailed and where they show what calls you've made and who they were to and at what time...but the bill that comes in the mail is just an amount of money owed and it doesnt show all that other information. hope i helped!

XOXO~*~*Nicole Lynn*~*~XOXO

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ok i have a kitten and i sound really stupid when i say this but i don't know if it is a boy or girl.Some people say its a girl some say its a boy and i need to find a name for it. I tried to look at the thing but i can't tell it looks like it could be both atm.I thought maybe i could tell from the tits it has 8 tits! Does anyone know if a male cat has the same number of tits please could someone help.Thank Youxx

i would suggest to take the kitten to a vet and ask. i mean..of all people, a vet would know, right?

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Well i been with my boyfriend a lil over a year and yes we have had sex.. things arent boring but i love to be a tease i mean ill give it to him after i tease him real bad.. but i want some ideas of teasing him.. i think its so *Cute*.. if you can help thanks bunches i will rate high..and i kno im weird..

you're not wierd...i like to do the same thing
:-p! have him come over or whatever when you're alone at home, start making out in the hallway and pull away and make him chase you into the bedroom..it's always kinda fun...and guys like that...at least from my experience. have *fun*!

XOXO~*~*Nicole Lynn*~*~XOXO

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how do i get into acting at a young age if you live in a non-important town in Ny. I know I major in acting at college, but I want to start acting on tv before that.
any ideas or tips!?

I would suggest looking online or in newspapers for casting calls. they will describe the type of person they are looking for, and even if they're looking for extras, you should do it anyways. good luck!

XOXO~*~*Nicole Lynn*~*~XOXO

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my mom is gay and now im startign to tell my friends and they like me for who i am not what my mom is or isnt but now there is a nasty girl across the street and i guess she saw my mom and her girlfriend kissing and now shes telling everyone and its not sucha great way to start off my summer.should i really care what other people are going to say do you think its gonna ruin my years coming in school if i admit to everyoner that my mother is a lesbian?

this will be a life experience...you will find out who's your real friends because your real friends won't care if you're mom's a lesbian. and I highly doubt that the fact of your mom being a lesbian will ruin the rest of your school years and summers. don't worry about it, it's no big deal. hope i helped!

XOXO~*~*Nicole Lynn*~*~XOXO

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i want to become a doctor that delivers babies when im older but at age 16 i need a starting out job to make money. i want to work at jambe juice or cold stone or someting to earn a little cash. but i dont think those are the bestjobs for me if i want to be that kind of doctor. what should my starting out job be? i rate really high

well, my brother's 17 and wants to be a doctor, so he's working in the pharmacy department of a drugstore. you learn about different types of medicine and i hear it pays pretty good money. that's the closest thing i can give you to a doctor. hope i helped!

XOXO~*~*Nicole Lynn*~*~XOXO

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How do you start a conversation with a boy? Say if you were at a Arby's and it was just you and this boy you liked, how would you start a good conversation with him. Now keep in mind, he doesn't know I like him. That would be some other nice advice, how to tell him that I do like him!!! Thank You Very Much!

talk to him like you're just friends for now. talk about something that both he and you like. don't act stupid and whiny because guys totally don't like that. just be yourself and talk about yourself and him. that way you'll get to know more about him and you'll get to be closer with him. good luck & hope i helped!

XOXO~*~*Nicole Lynn*~*~XOXO

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