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having sex
Im really afraid to have sex. But my boyfriend of a year and a half is really into it. He always pressures me in to doing it but i havnt yet(by choice). But one night my boyfriend got drunk and i was home alone.He was acting really scary and i didnt know what to do.Then he pushed me on my bed and raped me. I love him so much and i dont want to leave him even after what he did to me. I also dont want to tell anyone because i dont want him to go to jail or get in trouble. Should I tell anyone and what should i do about this?
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If he had the will to rape you, then I can tell you that he doesn't love you the way you love him. What he did is terrible and wrong. Since he raped you, deep inside you probably know that he's not the right one for you because if he was, he wouldn't have done that. And yes you should tell someone and even though you don't want to, you should break up with him. If you tell someone, he won't necessarily go to jail... he'll only go to jail (possibly) if you decide to press charges. You should tell your mom (or dad if you dont have a mom) and ask her(/him) to take you to the gynochologist to check for std's and pregnancy...even IF he did use a condom.
good luck, hope i helped, & i am so sorry for what happened to you.
XOXO~*~*Nicole Lynn*~*~XOXO
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