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there really isn't much you can say to shock me. i've seen and heard a lot, so if you need help, don't be afraid to ask anything. i'm amazing at answering anything to do with sex.. so ask away =)oh and yes.. that is ME in the picture. it's my halloween costume: a mile high captain!
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Okay, so i think i asked this question wrong last time, so im guna re ask it.
-- Theres this boy whom i meet thru a friend at the movies a week ago. And we really hit it off, so he came over the next night. That night we played the "question game" and now i feel like i've known him forever. So when he was over he was like a family guy, and this made me really happy! Because most of the time when i have guys over to meet my family, they just get annoyed and want to be alone. And coming from a family of 5 kids, i need a boy who will enjoy being around my siblings. Well anyways, the next night he came over.. and we were chillin on my couch and like cuddling and watching movies. I have a messed up knee && just had surgery so i couldnt do nething else. Well he kissed me and that was that. I was happy because for once i felt like i found a guy who cared more about being with me && getting to me then "getting with me" Because in the past i've had shitty relationships && ended up gettin really hurt, so i've kinda been scared of relationships since. But neways, the next day he came over and we watched movies again and just madeout. Then the next day (4th day) he came over.. and we were all alone in the basement. And watching movies.. and he was like playing with my pants line..tickling me cuz he knows i like it. Well he was messing around and like stuck his hand in my pants like an inch.. and i laffed and said.. YOUUU TEASEEE. and he was laffing && slowly went down farther. And then before he fingered me he was like, is this okay? ANd im like yeah. Cuz like really felt like i knew him, && i completely trust him. So i let him. And at the time it was cool or wateva. But then, i was thinking about it. And i was like wow, this is exactly what i shouldnt have let happen. I dont want another relationship where its all bout getting some. or being used. Then i was really upset about it.. so i talked to him. And he felt bad so he promised he wouldnt do it again until we were BOTH ready for it. And so far its going good. We've just been kissing .. and we've hugn out the past few days. So i know that he dont really care that we dont do nething. But i still feel guilty. What do you think i should do? And what i did, was that wrong? HELP PLEASEEE
--guilty.
what you did was not wrong! i've had a similair situation happen.. and we've been dating ever since. if he doesn't care about getting physical with you, then i say he's a great catch! if you come from a large family, and he's a family guy, that's a major plus in your relationship. your siblings and parents will grow to trust him and like him more each time he's over. if he actually talked to you about it and felt a little bit guilty, that's awesome because that's a rare quality in boys. it shows that he can handle the situation, and you guys will wait until the time comes and you think it's right. what you guys did was not wrong, so you shouldn't feel bad about it.
well lately i've been hangin out with my boyfriend from the time my mom gets home untill like 1130-12ish becuz we cant during the day even tho he lives across the street but his mom wont let him hang out with me unless my moms home and shes home. but anyways so we hang out liek all night like that but sometimes during the day. well lately i just dont eat becuz im hanging with him and stuff, i liek just dont really think about coming in to eat dinner. i think im fat but that has nuthing to do with it, it's the fact that i just forget to come eat dinner or whatever. well last night my mom was makin dinner and shes liek tonite you are eating and no question about it, then my boyfriend added in and said i had to too. well later we were on the trampoline and he said he'd go home if i didnt eat, and i said i wasnt hungry, he called me anarexic. so i ate a chicken patty and he made me eat it all or he'd go home. is something wrong with me?..could i have an eating disorder or sumthing??..i dont know what to think but please help me
if you don't try to skip meals and lie about eating; then you don't have an eating disorder. your metabolism and things like that play a major role in this. if you're not hungry, you're not hungry. your boyfriend shouldn't pressure you to eat by saying he'll go home. you are not anorexic if you aren't purposely trying to not eat.
I have another question, earlier i asked one about breaking up with my boyfriend and still likeing him and we became friends with benefits. well we were both were virgins and lost are virginities together. It was my first time so it didnt really feel to good. after he asked me if i felt good an i told him no. we did it a couple more times after that time and it still didnt really feel the best. i guess it got him angry bc he told my sister and his friends that i hate sex. is it normal to feel like that after your first time? is something wrong, what should i do?
yes; it is normal to not enjoy sex at first. nothing is wrong with you - your body is still stretching and it'll hurt the first few times. if he's a virgin and not so experienced; he may not exactly know what he's doing. if you want to have sex with him.. then try some different positions that will have you reach your potential.
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I'm going to my first concert in December for my favourite band (Oasis) and I'm just wondering. Is it possible to get autographs of bands? Can you like leave an autograph book at the door or something, or does it never happen? It's just I'd do anything to get their signatures, but I'm not sure whether it's possible. So has anyone ever done it and had any luck?
Thanks.
i've gotten bands signatures- and usually after the concert; they have a designated place where you can go and the band is at a table and you wait in line to have your stuff signed. some bands only allow like; one signature per person though. be prepared to wait in line if you have to. hope i helped! have fun at the concert!!
I talk to this other boy now hes 14 and we talk mostly on the computer. like the beginning of this month he iMed me and was like come over an said he likes me and he was gonna ask me out but he thought i was still in love with the boy i mentioned last time, so he waited. im not sure if he is for real tho bc hes got that reputation of being a player. so ive been to his house a couple times but whenever i go over there he wants me to give him head, or have sex. he says he loves me, and im his girl. i dont know wether to belive him or not. should i?
i think that if he's got a reputation of being a player, is only 14 and wants sex from you, you should be cautious during this relationship. if you're questioning it; then it's best to not do something you'll get hurt for or regret later. follow your heart; but use your head.