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I use to be on this site all the time. Got sick of reading the same exact questions and basically copying and pasting my answers because no one cared to read questions asked before them. So I left and haven't really been on here.Ps. I'm not perfect and my advice isn't always right. & sometimes I choose to make it sound like you will get hurt more than you actually will to prevent people from doing stupid things. Like if I get drunk what can happen? Well i might just say you can die.....stretching the truth but I think its better than having people go out and get drunk. Plus you can die but you would have to have alcohol poisoning.
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ok i like this guy and i asked him out but he was like i like u alot but i rather jus be friends. but then like a week l8er he asked 1 of my friends where i was cause he needed to talk to me and it was a good thing, but i had left school, so he coundnt talk to me. what was he gonna say, it killing me and i cant wait till tuesday.
*comfused*
I am a mind reader and know exactly why "your friend" wanted to talk to you. He’s your friend who knows what it could have been. Just call him or talk to him on line. No one will ever know except for him what he wanted to talk to you about.
Okay here is the problem my friend just turned 12 last week but her room looks a little kiddish with like pink wallpaper,horse models and so on but she wants her room to look like a 12 year old kid's room but her mom will not let her get new furniture or paint her walls.So does anyone have any ideas on how she could make her room look good without getting new furniture and stuff?I will rate fives to anyone who helps with this room emergency no matter if your advice is not very good!!!
How about some posters. Cute picture frames and little things that just make the room her own. She can make stuff as well. She just has to make it unique and her own.
what are some good fonts for aim?? i have book antiqua now, but its getting boring
you should download some fonts. Then put them into your fonts folder. If you have no clue what i'm talking about when i say fonts folder you can ask. here are some sites with awesome fonts
http://www.1000fonts.com/top.php?by=last&lang=en
http://www.fontfreak.com/
this one guy (my ex) got really annoying after we broke up and he broke up with me but he wont leave me alone. he is so annoying he tells me that he hates me all the time, he has even punched me many times and he doesnt get in trouble for it. my parents know that he is bothering me, but they dont know how much. there are so many problems in my life right now i just wanna cry some plz help me
If he harasses you in school you need to tell people there. You really need to tell the police and file a report so it stays on his record if nothing more. People usually start out with small things but work there way up so if you don't want to get hurt even worse report it. Silence never helps just like in rap cases you can never keep it to your self. It just means he won.
I know this isn't a question relating to "advice", but I'm going to ask it anyways. I was wondering, does anyone know any sites that you can go on to listen to music without downloading? (You just look up your song and your able to listen to it!)
You can always just do a search but here are some that no one said so far
http://www.purevolume.com
http://music.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=music
Hi guys,
I am NEVER motivated to do my homework...if it is a big essay then I will plan and plan, but that's actually a bad thing because planning makes me feel like I've achieved more than I actually have. I end up rushing all my work the night before it's due. I'm alright once I've started doing it but I can never get round it!!
I've tried getting everything else I want/need to do out of the way first, but even when I do that I still just dawdle around hoping someone will sign into MSN or something. I've tried loads of things and nothing works. Anyone have any tips on how to get myself motivated and do my work on time?
xx
Ban your self from the computer if you know you have a lot to do. That's what I have to do because I am exactly like that I procrastinate a lot...haha
what are the major symptoms, and is there any physical appearance with a yeist infection?
Try doing a search for information. A lot of people have said most of the things and even though I know a lot I rather just give you links http://www.engenderhealth.org/wh/inf/dyeast.html
http://www.coolnurse.com/yeast.htm
http://scc.uchicago.edu/yeast.htm
http://rxinsider.com/monographs/yeast_infection.htm
The safest way to know if you have one or not is really just by seeing your doctor and having them take a look. No matter how gross that sounds that’s the only way you will know for sure if you have one or not.
I couldn't find a catagory that this fit into specifically, but I guess it loosely fits into this one.
I get a good idea for the beginning of a story... and what happens? I get impatient and can't move-on with it.
Because of this patience problem I tend to not work-out the story in my head far in advance but to set creativity goals as I go- my farthest goal is usually just the next sentence... meaning, while a person may be walking down the street, I have no idea where they are going until I have to write that down. And that used to work so well for me. But now I can't even do that.
Back in school when I started writing, I was actually forced to do the work and if I didn't I'd fail... so to avoid the irritated tones from my teachers I could easily push-on and the creativity would flow out. I miss writing fiction as school-work.
Maybe it would be good if I join a fiction writing or creative writing class/course/work-shop. I could try. But the thing is, I was motivated in school because the work had an impact on the rest of my life. I had to get on to the next grade and eventually graduate or I'd be screwed. But workshops/clubs/courses. They're all more casual in that they won't effect the rest of my life. I won't lose anything; I won't be in the gutter. There are college courses but I'm sure they expect me to have more skill than I actually HAVE so I'm sure I'd flunk that anyway. Dropping out of high school and now having to do a distance education course set me back in my writing.
There are several aspects of this post I need advice on feel free to comment on whatever.
Thanks!
I guess you just have to push your self tell your self that if you don't do it you will regret it for the rest of your life. Make your self have an impact on those stories give your self deadlines and so on.
ok one of my best friends has really strict parents. theyre making her go to military school cuz she got one D on her report card! shes leaving next year and i dont know if i can take it. shell be at school all week except for the weekends. i dont know what to do shes the only person that makes school a little more fun. im really sad. how can i get over this?
Talk to her as much as you can. Write her letters and what ever else you can to keep in touch. You can't exactly just get over a friend if their a good friend and all.
Alright, these past two nights I've been crying myself to sleep because of my boyfriend.
I RARELY get to see him because we go to different schools, maybe once or twice every TWO/THREE months. :/ But we talk on the phone like every 2-3 days, and on the computer a lot.
So, a few days ago..Thursday, I was expecting him to get on the computer, but he never did..and I didn't call, because, I dunno. i just hate calling when he doesn't tell me to right at the moment..even though he told me I can call anytime. So, I don't know..I just started crying because I was so upset and stressed out from not seeing him anf stuff. Tonight, he hasn't gotten on, and I started crying again. I think a lot of you won't understand really, because you don't know how much I miss him, you have to know the situation better.
But..what do I do? Because, he hurts me a lot. I mean, this has happened multiple times. But like..a couple days after this goes on he finally comes online and says 'hi', and I CAN'T be mean to him..or tell him that he just made me cry. I don't know why, I just can't do it. It's like emotional abuse, and i just don't think I can take it anymore.
Don’t get mad but the truth hurts.
Long distance never works. You don't even know if he is cheating on you. My question is what's the big deal in calling him? Would you rather call him and be happy or not call him and fall asleep crying? Try to hang out with him more and talking yea with out talking and trust a relationship is a waste so I would do that more.
Ok me and my boyfriend have bene dating 3 weeks and we hug intimately and stuff and I lvoe him..adn I get urges to kiss him..I really want to..but the teachers cant see...cause my parents will know..and only my mom knows about the guy and my dad is not clued in at all...and i really love him and i want to kiss him..but im also afraid..i mean im a very pessimistic, paranoid, frightened, depressed type person...i know he wants to kiss me..so what should we do
Teachers don't tell parents if they see you kissing. They may say its public indecency and blah blah blah but yea. Also why do you have to do it in school? If your parents won't let you go out with him make it a group thing then once you get there everyone goes there separate ways and have a time to meat back up or something.
I got My best friend Nicole a job at the same place i worked. I introduced her to Danny (my crush). She called me the first day of work and told me that she told Danny that i liked hiim. I was so embarrased but i let it go. Some weeks went by and Nicole stoped speaking to me. I expressed my feelings about the situation to another co-worker. And word got around that I thought Nicole was being wierd. Later on that day. I got a Message on my cell phone. It was Nicole calling me all types of nasty names. She told me that i should stop spreading rumors about her. So I *69 her right away. You would never guess who picked up the phone. It was Danny. It was his home telephone #. When i confronted her about the situation she acts like it is all my fault. And i'm making up things. Is my so called best friend playing me for a fool?
Most likely but you shouldn't jump to conclusions. Ask him and her what happened and see if there stories match. Remember there are three sides to every storey. Person A person B and the truth.
Ok, My brother is a senior in High School, and I'm a freshman. He has a lot of hott friends. One of his best friends name is *Steve*(name changed) I didn't have a locker partner, and my brothers locker is right down my hallway. Well, Steves locker was on the other side of the school, and I told him he could move into my locker. I thought wow, this could be awesome. I didn't think I could feel like this. I am crazy for this guy but I don't know if he likes me. If I say something to him, It could mess up my brothers relationship with him. There is another thing, I think he likes me too. Whenever I say I'm not going somewhere he says Me neither. And if he's going he always tries to talk me into going. If someone could help me that would be awesome. -Confused
It doesn't have to mess up your brothers’ friendship with him. If you both have feeling for each other go for it. The next time he tried to get you to go somewhere go with him and see what happens and if you feel anything.
sorry its long, i'll rate 5's
hey you guys, i have a friend that doesnt like any of my other friends. After she meets them she just judges them and tell me all the negative things that she assumes of them. I am very picky about friends so of course none of the crap she says is true cause their all carefree FUN people. Shes the only one of my friends that is boring and dull. When i try to hang out with someone else she tags along and its really bothering me. I have other people to hang out with besides her, and obviously she doesnt cause she doesnt like anyone. I try to avoid her a lot but she still finds me. I can tell she is annoyed by me but still tried to hang out with me cause she has noone else. What can i do about that? i mean i cant talk to her about it cause im too nice.
She’s to judge mental and if you are a good friend you will tell her this. Try to make her see other people for what they really are. Show her that she doesn't have to judge people and there is nothing wrong with your other friends. If she doesn't see it then she isn't worth being friends with.
well i like this girl and she said she likes me to but she said she also likes 3 other guys at the same time but she wants 2 go out with me. should i wait until she just likes me or ask her out now?
she has to make up her mind, don't rush into anything. You don't want to be hurt.
Okay umm..I'm gonna feel dumb for asking a qustions like this but o=well... Okay I've noticed that I kinda have a femine odor thing and somtimes there is slimy umm.. stuff left in my panties.. Why and how can I get rid of that odor? It isn't that bad but it still bugs me.. please help and thanks bunches
If it’s a little it can be perfectly normal but if it’s a lot and it smells and it is yellowish it could be a yeast infection, just tell your mom, and see what she says if anything just go to the doctor.
I fell in love with my best friend but its impossible for anything to happen between us because he's gay. I can't stop thinking about him and i really need help.
Well if he is gay then just keep telling you self that and find someone who isn't gay but has the same qualities that he has but is straight.
today there was this party at one of my friends house i was all ready to go and i looked really cute but then i got this call from my mom and she said it wasnt ok to go to the party because there were drugs in my friends house (because his mother is a drugattic)and also his stepdad got into a fight with the gand group called hells angels so that means that the gang may come to my friends house and try to hurt him or one of his family members at anytime and i have three problems with this 1. is most of my friends didnt go to the party but four of them did and i want to make sure they are ok how would i go about that because i am not sure if they know about all the mad stuff in our friends house and i dont want to tell them because my friend who had the party doesnt kno any of this and i dont want to embarris him 2. i think my friend who had the party might be mad at me for not going (and the otehr people that ddint go) because he doesnt know why we didnt so we had to make these realyl dumb excusses up and i feel bad for him is there any way to tell if he is upset with us? 3. im really worried about my friend who had the party because it is a very unsafe place to be i mean there is drugs in there and his mother could get arrested in front of him at any time (and that might damange him for life if he sees that)and the gang might rob or come into there house at anytime and try to kill them is there anyway to keep my friend safe?
thanks for reading this all i am very greatful because i really want to help my friend out
1. Ask your friends that did go how the party went and what happened and how mad you are that you couldn't make it.
2. Ask your friend if he is mad at you and tell him that you’re really sorry that you had to cancel that it was really important and wondering if he’s mad.
3. There isn't much you can do, you can tell him what is happening in his own house and then try to keep him out of it. Also if you tell him, tell him you won't tell anyone and that you want to help him and are worried about him. Don't make it seem like he has bad parents though.
theres this boy and he just broke up with my BEST friend but before he did he tryed to finger her and now after a few days he goes out with my 2nd BEST friend and she thinks he likes her but he doesnt he never likes anyone and he is just gunna try to take advantadge of her just like my other friend then dump her he is jsut in it for the sexual stuff not the relayshonship and he already hurt one of my friends and im not ready to see another one get hurt is there anyway to fix this problem
please help!
umm that’s hard because if you tell her she may think you are just jealous. You can try telling her what happened to your other friend and that you just want her to watch out and not get hurt.
ok heres my problemo. im really skinny -5'4 91- and i like it but for the most part i DON'T. its just fast matabolism and im pretty active and healthy but i look anorexic and everyone thinks that. i try to eat more to gain weight but ofcourse, i don't! what can i do?
thanks
If you look fine don't listen to what everyone else is saying people tell me stupid stuff like that to. Don’t let it bother you.