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my friend that doesnt like ANY of my other friends
sorry its long, i'll rate 5's
hey you guys, i have a friend that doesnt like any of my other friends. After she meets them she just judges them and tell me all the negative things that she assumes of them. I am very picky about friends so of course none of the crap she says is true cause their all carefree FUN people. Shes the only one of my friends that is boring and dull. When i try to hang out with someone else she tags along and its really bothering me. I have other people to hang out with besides her, and obviously she doesnt cause she doesnt like anyone. I try to avoid her a lot but she still finds me. I can tell she is annoyed by me but still tried to hang out with me cause she has noone else. What can i do about that? i mean i cant talk to her about it cause im too nice.
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you should ask what she has against your other friends. Than if she starts assuming again you can bring up how she tags along and how u dont like it. If that doesn't shut her up than just say "no one is perfect"
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i think you should talk to her you dont have to be nice all the time it`s good to express how you feel...if you dont want to talk to her about it in person you could send her an email or write her a note and give it to her...hope i helped
xoO Carly Oox
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If you don't want to be her friend anymore than the obvious thing would be to start generally ignoring her when you go places, or not bringing her along. You could get another one of your friends to talk to her maybe.
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You can still talk to her but just say things nicely to her so she won't get the wrong idea of what you're saying. Tell her that she can't just judge your friends and that she needs to get to know them instead of judging them. Also tell her that there is nothing wrong with your friends because you chose them and that your friend shouldn't judge them. If your friend doesn't understand, then you should stop hanging out with her because you don't need a friend who judges everyone. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Come to her as a nice and caring friend (if ofcourse that accurately describes you in this situation) and ask her to tell you honestly how she feels. Make her feel like she can trust you and you really care about her feelings.
If you can't work it out and she still does things that annoy you, then you may have to end the friendship unless you want to go through the annoyance forever.
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She’s to judge mental and if you are a good friend you will tell her this. Try to make her see other people for what they really are. Show her that she doesn't have to judge people and there is nothing wrong with your other friends. If she doesn't see it then she isn't worth being friends with.
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