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I have a cuz that is so press. Every time i spend a night over her house she get all press all about her computer. Like one time she was playing runescape i took the mouse and change the web site on myspace to check my mail then she get her big brother and make me get off of myspace.i am not selfish!!!
plz tell me what i should do about my cuz
What is press?
Add some additional info to let us know, and I'm sure you will get more answers =)
I'm wanting to get a monroe piercing. I was wondering how much it hurts from people who have gotten them. Thanks.
I have heard they are not that bad. I have never gotten one, but I suggest you go to youtube.com and look for monroe piercings. I have seen videos on there of people getting it done, that way you know what to expect.
You know when some girl's skirt is too short they wear this like thin but pretty pant material that seems like its for dancing but goes like to the knees under the skirt?
What's the name of it?
I heard the word legging a couple of times but i'm not sure because I want to find some.
They are leggings, like the other colomnists said, however, sometimes I see them called footless tights (usually longer ones). Usually, they are leggings, but don't be confused if you see the other term =)
ive heard something about antonella barba's naked pictures or something being post up on the internet.. is this true? did she get kicked off the show?
There are pictures of "her" partying, topless, even one of her on the toilet. They don't know if the pictures are real, because they say the ears in the pictures are different (something that can't easily be altered by plastic surgery) so she's still on the show. But if they prove it is her, she will probably be kicked off.
I am a freshman in highschool and i received papers from my school and the superintendant Stating that i could have the option of graduating a year early. which would mean i would be in the class of '09 instead of 2010. I already have my career planned out and what i want to do with my life and so i should accept it and graduate early right?? Well im not so sure that i want to. i mean, i dont want to leave my friends, and i know you guys will probably say " Put your life infront of your friends ". But im not to sure on what i want to do. Any suggestions?
I also have the option of graduating early. I went through your same situation and came up with my conclusion. Here is how I look at it:
You have the rest of your life to start your career. You only have four years to go to high school. Those four years, adults say, are the best years of your life. It's time to learn how to be an adult, while still enjoying your youth. Dances, pep rallies, college excitement, assemblies, prom, and graduation are all part of the high school experience. Those are memories that you will look back on when you are older. I wouldn't want to take a year of that away. Plus, if you don't go to school with your friends, you will be out of the loop forever, or at the very least, for a year. No matter how much you say you will hang out on the weekends (if possible), it will never be the same.
So I think there is more to it than just staying with your friends. There will be tons of memories missed, that will never be possible again. If you wait for college (or a career), however, you aren't skipping a year, you are just postponing it.
A lot of the other colomnists say to think about your future. I don't think that waiting is putting your friends in front of your future. You can still take college classes if you wait, that way you will be more prepared when you do go. More classes is more practice for college.
And if you don't graduate early, it's not like you are jeopardizing your future at all. You are just going about it at the normal rate. So waiting really won't do any harm.
Personally, I don't want to graduate early at all. I have worked extremely hard all through high school, and next year (my senior year) is my time to go out with a bang. To make as many memories as I can with the friends I may never see again.
So I say enjoy your youth while you can. You have the rest of your life to be an adult.
Good luck with everything. I hope it all works out for you =)
does anyone know of a place were i can get cute sundresses from? offline would be great! thank you :)
Urban Outfitters has really cute ones
I don't like it when one of my friends likes a guy who i flirt with. Because then I can't flirt with him anymore. My problem is, I still do. I know I need to stop but I do it anyways. I like to flirt I have to admit. I don't want to hurt my friend. I already did once before by flirting with a guy my friend liked then hooking up with him. Is it weird I don't like it when my friend likes a guy I flirt with? Should I stop flirting with him? *even though I know my friend doesn't have a chance and the guy doesn't like her??
It depends.
You should keep flirting if:
She likes a new guy every week. Then, it's not fair for her to have 'dibs'. If its not serious, it shouldn't affect you. And you can't be expected to keep up. So keep it up, it shouldn't be a big deal.
Or, if you really like the guy.
You should stop if:
She really likes the guy, and it's more serious that a weekly fling.
Because honestly, I'm in your friends position right now. I like a guy, and one of my closest friends keeps flirting with him, so I don't consider her a friend anymore.
Or if you don't really like him at all in that way. Then it shouldn't matter.
Good luck =)
I'm in a desperate need of spending money but I can't decide what to spend it on!
I have THEE worst hair ever! and want to spend it on hair prodcuts or a hair PRODUCT if it give you many things in one.
But I want to shop at a brand store because my clothes are ok I guess but I've been wearing them for three years (I haven't grown and there was no money to buy new clothes) and it would be a great upgrade.
But I want to buy some body prodcuts to help me look more naterally beautiful.
I guess hair would stand out more so it'd be great. My clothes are ok so I don't even know why I want to spend my money on clothes ($25) but I just want to buy a sweater but I dunno why. But I want to buy all of these body butter and stuff.. And I can't buy one hair product, body product, and sweater cuz it will definitely add up over $25.
What should I spend it on and give me a good reason!
Go for the hair product. If your hair looks great, you look great. I think hair is more important than clothes (personally).
With 25 dollars, you can buy a lot of okay products, or one or two good products. I'd say go for what your stylist suggests (if you have one)
Good luck =)
ok well when i was 13 i started my period i am 15 now and well i am a 34A in bra size and i really want to grow and i just have a feeling that maybe i am done growing but i don't want my breasts to stop growing until i am like a bcup but ok do you think they can still grow and well when i wake up everymorning my boobs hurt and they itch alot do my breasts still have time too grow?
Yes, plenty of time.
Mine grew 2 cup sizes from the time 2 years after my period started to now.
Don't worry =)
Does anyone know any of the "I want a guy who.." quotes? I saw one yesterday somewhere but i forgot where & I'm trying to find it. It's not the one with the running mascara, it's a different one.
Thanks.
i want a boy.
A nice and bad boy.
A boy who has shaggy hair and lets me play with it.
He'll tell me we're like Corey and Topanga.
He'll give me his favorite sweatshirt.
He'll stay home with me and watch Disney Movies.
And he'll tell me he loves it even though he doesn't,
and the only person he would ever watch it with would be me.
.He'll call me at 3am and ask me what i'm doing.
He'll tell me he couldn't fall asleep because he was thinking about me, and he needed to hear my voice.
He'll text me every morning before school saying "Have a great day babe I love you!”
And he always whispers something sweet in my ear.
He'll take me to a concert to see his favorite band.
And he wont get embarrassed to tell me he loves me in front of his friends.
When I cry he'll tell me I'm too beautiful to and he'll kiss every tear.
He'll always make me feel better because he knows the perfect things to say to me.
All of his friends will know we're in love because he'll talk about me to them.
He'll stay up with me all night when im sick.
When we're walking together he'll stop and pick up a flower and put it behind my ear.
He'll love everything about me and tell me that I'm perfect.
We always end up laughing about silly fights.
We wont get mad for making fun of each other because we crack up at every bit of it.
Even if we’re a million years old butterflies will still go crazy. Everytime he kisses me.
He'll tell me he'd die without me.
He'll surprise me by bringing me over my favorite food when I'm having a bad day.
He would think I was beautiful if I dressed so crappy it was classy.
When we go out for ice cream, he'll put some on my nose …
then I'll put some all over his face.
And we just never stop laughing.
he wouldnt be scared to cry in front of me--
--and would hold me when i cry ..
he'll introduce me to his friends as the coolest girl he’s ever met.
He'll buy me jewelry and bouncy balls from vending machines.
We would have contests of how far we could spit our gum, or how far we could jump off a swing.
He'll take walks with me in the snow, and we'll catch
TsnowflakesT on our tongues
He doesn't even like snow, but I love it.
He would grab my waist and kiss my neck.
And we'd always take pictures in photo booths.
He'll let me go places with his mom.
We would play tag and not care whos watching.
We'd kiss in the rain.
And when I hear him speak, I'll fall in love all over again.
I want a boy who can argue over stupid things with me,
and than go totally soft when I got sad and apologize.
I want someone who would lay with me outside under the stars.
Someone who will squirt me with water guns in the house
When we kissed our hips would be pressed together.
I want someone to be there no matter what ... always and forever *
Perfect.
I'll be his everything.
And he'll be even more to me .
He will love me for always
Hope that's what you're looking for =)
is it bad if im about 5 foot 4 and 118.5 pounds?
No. You are fine.
well im in 8th grade and every year the 8th grade goes to washington dc.
i wanna go but im scared ill get upset and im getting upset now already [its in april] because like we need to room with 4 people and we only have 3 and the people im rooming with like dnt really care about the 4th person but like theyre really good friends, like the other two im rooming with and im good friends with them too but not as good as they are.
anyways i wanna know how i can not get upset about it like you barely spend anytime in your room but i need ways to not get upset.
pls help, thanks in advanced.
I went to DC for my eighth grade trip too!
My experience: My best friend and I had the rooming situation all figured out, and my principal (who honestly did not like me) purposly put me in the worst room possibe with people I did not want to be with. I talked to her about it, and although she had switched others around, she wouldn't do anything about it. I was so upset, I didn't know what to do. I thought I would be miserable. BUT, when I actually went on the trip, we really just slept in our rooms, and spent no extra time in there.
It will not ruit your trip at all. You are so tired from a day jampacked with things to do, you really won't be in your room other than to sleep and shower.
Seriously, don't get upset about it. Hang out in your other friends rooms until lights out. Make friends with the girls in your room. Be really positive, and things will work out. I promise. DC was the time of my life, and I'm sure it will be yours too. Keep focused on how much fun you are going to have. Your room assignment will not change that.
Good luck and have tons of fun!
I've seen people have forums on their advice columns, and I can't figure out how to find the link to my own column.
Is there a quick, easy way to figure out where mine is so I can post the link?
Thanks in advance!
This is the link for everyone's forum. You just need to input your ID
http://www.advicenators.com/talkaboutme.php?userboard_id=xxxxx
Go to your column, then click on 'ask question'. The URL to that will have an address something like this:
http://www.advicenators.com/question.php?u=23595
(that's mine)
See the 23595? That's my id. You have one too. Copy that, and put it where the X's are in the first link.
If you can't figure it out, tell me your column and I'll try to help you =)
does anyone know of any bands that are alternative/rock, but still kind of soul? Like Augustana, This Providence, or Goo Goo dolls?
Acceptance
Amber Pacific
Anberlin
And Then I Turned Seven
Angels and Airwaves
Boys Like Girls
Brand New
Breaking Benjamin
Corey Crowder
Counting Crows
Daphne Loves Derby
Daughtry
Everclear
The Format
Fuel
Gavin DeGraw
Howie Day
The Hush Sound
Incubus
Jem
John Mayer
Kids In The Way
Mae
Matt Wertz
Pink Spiders
Plain White Ts
Postal Service
Regina Spektor
Rookie of the Year
Say Anything
Secondhand Serenade
Shinedown
The Shins
Spill Canvas
Stone Sour
Unwritten Law
Vertical Horizon
The Wallflowers
okay. so if any of you are good out there with myspace. and possibly have a myspace layout site. i have a question. ok so i have the layouts made. i jsut need help putting them on my site.
< a href=CODE OF THE LAYOUT PAGE HERE> NAME OF LAYOUT HERE < /a>
would htat code help me?
im so confused with how to put it on and no one will tell me how. ugh
That is the code to put a link on your profile or blog or whatever. Perhaps for a preview.
< a href="Layout URL here"> Layout Name here < /a>
you take out the space before the first 'a' and before the last /a.
Put in the URL and name, and just copy and paste it in wherever you are trying to put it.
If you want to put in a code, I would suggest a scroll box
If you need more help, just ask =)
ok so where can i get those shirts that are sorta liek dresses?
example:
ok so liek if anyoen watched american idol last night the girl that voted off. that kinda shirt
Urban Outfitters and Forever 21 both have a lot.
www.urbanoutfitters.com
www.forever21.com
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is it wierd that i like porn? like i know a lot of guys that look at porn, but watching other people turns me on. is that natural?
It's very natural. Porn appeals to both genders, it's just the men that are more vocal about it =)
I've been looking for really good songs/bands. I know about most of the popular bands though, so if you could suggest some not as well known bands, that'd be awesome. I'm in to alternative/rock music, but i can't stand screamo. I really like bands like Augustana, Train, and Goo goo dolls as well. So anything like them would be awesome. thanks!!
Acceptance
Amber Pacific
Anberlin
And Then I Turned Seven
Angels and Airwaves
Arctic Monkeys
Boys Like Girls
Brand New
Breaking Benjamin
Cartel
Coheed and Cambria
Crossfade
Cute is what we aim for
Daphne Loves Derby
Dashboard Confessional
Everclear
Fall Out Boy
Family Force 5
Fuel
Hellogoodbye
Hinder
Howie Day
Jacks Mannequin
Kids In The Way
Mae
Pink Spiders
Plain White Ts
Postal Service
Red Jumpsuit Apparatus
Rock Kills Kid
Say Anything
Secondhand Serenade
Shinedown
The Shins
Shiny Toy Guns
Showbread
Snow Patrol
Spill Canvas
Stone Sour
Unwritten Law
Vertical Horizon
The Wallflowers
I don't know if you have ever heard of it, but there is this website, www.purevolume.com, and it is all music based. You can search for whatever genres you like. It's a really cool website, and they have thousands and thousands of bands. That's where I discover a lot of the bands I like.
OKay my friend wants advice. But i don't know here's her question:
Okay well The girl has a Half Aunty that has a STEP brother that she likes is it okay for them to date? Even though there related by law but not by blood? Trust me this girl ain't me lol!
-Ashliiee
Technically it's okay, but it would be kind of socially awkward if they dated.
For future reference, no one except high moderators can see who you are, so there's no need to tell if it's you or not =)
What's a detox diet?
Detox, short for detoxification, is the removal of potentially toxic substances from the body. Although detox is primarily thought of as a treatment for alcohol or drug dependence, the term is also used to refer to diets, herbs, and other methods of removing environmental and dietary toxins from the body for general health.
One that supports detoxification by increasing elimination from the body, cleansing the colon, enhancing circulation to clear toxic substances, eliminating foods from the diet that require detoxification or are allergenic, and providing nutrients to support and protect the liver, the main organ involved in detoxification.
Here is the website:
http://altmedicine.about.com/cs/dietarytherapy/a/Detox_Diet_Plan.htm