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Hey everyone, my name is Kristin, there's a picture of me on my advice column.. I'm a senior in high school and im 18 years olds.. I know I'm pretty young, but I've been through more than anyone would imagine and I've been through things most teenage girls haven't experienced yet in life. Here's a few things about myself, I've gone through a very serious one year relationship that ended a long long time ago, my parents have been divored for about 6 years, I cheerlead for my high school, I do ballet and have been playing the piano since I was seven, I work at a nearby UPS Store, and I am a dedicated Greek-Orthodox Christian. I hope to get accepted into Cal Poly San Louis Obispo and major in Nutrition..I love to hear about other peoples issues and problems so I could help them deal with it by relating them to my own experiences. So if you wanna talk, I'm here =]
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Location: I live in California, I'm half arab half italian
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I talk to this guy all the time and he wants to date me. I kinda like him to...The problem: everytime we talk he only seems to be interested in what im wearing. Im not sure if he really likes me or just wants to get with me. Could he just be making conversation? What do I do? (link)
he ISNT for real..trust me, tha first things u needa look for in a guy that ur talking to, is tha things he wants to talk bout. What ur wearing, kinky shit like that needs ta wait until u 2 are actually boyfriend n girlfriend. if he onlii wantsta talk dirty, then thats all he wants, is to gEt sum..TRUST ME!!! put his ass in cheCk giRl!! dont sEem slutty, be respectful and even play hard to get, guys want what they cant have.
good luck
KrisTin
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im 15 and my bf's 18 n my parents are cool with it...Well weve had sex alot and i actually live with him because of certain issues that happened while living with my dad...Well i know that he loves me and weve been together for almost 2 years. But we had this one conversation not too long ago about a friend whos bf wont dump her cus they have sex all the time..Well thats sort of my issue..I have sex like everyday and he told me he would dump me if we stopped having sex (over a long period of time)the thing is is that i want to have sex and that isnt a problem but its like at first when we went out it was like all about love and building our relationship now that thats established its about our love and then sex then building a life together..Im confused because i live with him and depend on him so its not like im gonna leave him but im worried that If i stop having sex he wont be with me ne more-so far after a year and a half of having sex (he devirginized me) Im still into it totally But sometimes i feel like im on his schedule like its all about when hes horny and then sometimes when i actually am hes asleep or something...But anyways he is the only person who has ever loved me for me..and he treats me like a queen but sometimes i just get confused..if anyone could give me advice it would be great..also if anyone has ne sex tips for me it would b gr8tly appreciated( i rate ) thanks alot!! (link)
okay, first I wanna say that Ive gone thru a one year relationship and at the time I was 15 and he was 17. We had sex on a regular basis just like u and ur bf. I always "knew" that he was totally inlove with me and he would do anything for me,etcetc, but i only "knew" that because I loved him and I was blinded by that love to not see the other side. Look, he probably REALLY does love you, thats not a question, and its not like he is using you for sex, but you said yourself that he said that he would DUMP u if u too stopped having sex. If u 2 were older, like in ur 20's or 30's and if u 2 were living together and loved eachother, its much more understandable about having sex on a regular basis and its basically a given for adults who are dating to have sex, but 2 ppl who are 15 and 18 to be living together and having sex on a regular basis is a totally different story. I know how it is when ur with some1 for that long and u wont believe some1 when they say that ur bf is using u for sex, but all i can say is DONT be BLINDED by "love"..u needa stop having sex with this guy, no joke, because the way I see it, he knows he can get it from u netime he wants, u want it to be like that? youre the only person who can change that. STOP having sex with him,TRUST ME!!! if i knew what i knew now about relationships,and if i could change nething about my one yr relationship with my ex, it would be no sex. dont make the same mistakes i did, stop now be4 its too late.
if u need more help, IM me on my sn PuReLuVeR143
-kristin




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