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okay..im a wee bit embarrased to ask about this...butt...i have never had a period before,and today when i went to wipe, there was a LOT of blood on the TP. so then i put on a pad, thinking i knew what was going on. then about an hour later, i went potty and there was no blood in the pad. then, i wiped again, and blood on the tp. so then i decided to put in a tampon, and about 1.5 hours later, i took it out, and there was brown stuff and blood all over it, then i put in a pad again. and i waited, and there still was no blood.
is anything wrong with me..
btw..13/f
911.
I am always paranoid that people are lying to me. My boyfriend will say something nice like: I think you are beautiful and I just can't accept it. I am always convinced that my boyfriend doesn't really like me and wants to break up with me. What should I do?
paranoiid freak.
Okay.. i have had a secret that only my really good friends know but im not going to tell what it is. Well, in skool one day this kid chase shouted it out loud and everyone looked at me. I asked him who said it and he said it was my bestfriend! Well she promised she didnt do it so i forgave her and she told me my other friend jade said it.. but now i heard that this girl that i really dont like her name is shelby she told 2 of my friends that didnt know and i didnt even tell shelby about it my other friend shannon did. Today we were in s/s and my other friend amanda told me she said it! Im just so confused! should i be mad at all these people or should i just let it go?? please help!
no they r not.
Does anyone know any really good books about like teenage situations but is like a fictional story. (like the Gossip Girl series). I love that series and would love to read other books just like that! I'll rate. Thanks for your help.
gossip is bad 4 yu.
Hey! I might sound stupid for asking this, but I really want to know. I was talking to this really cute kid about my birthday. He's kind of a minor pothead. Anyways he likes me. I was asking him what he was going to get me for my birthday, and he said he was gunna get me a G, and a platinum necklace. Yeah, so I was just wondering, what is a G? does it have to do something with weed (he knows i dont smoke) or does it have to do with jewelry? Or something else? I'd appreciate anyone whos answers this question and I'll rate high! Thankins in advance!
get him more pot.
ok well this guy and i have been friends for awhile now and i started liking him as more than a friend..im like crazy about him..i think about him alot..and he adds axtra happiness to my life ..but any ways..he told me that he had to see me before he left for a trip to state..because i was good luck for him..and he said that i was the prettiest girl..and that not getting to see me was the worst part of his day...last night i told him in person that i liked him..but..i dont know how to take it i dont know if he likes me or not.. any ideas..b/c i like him ALOT and i really want it to work out
i dont care.
ps, learn to speak english when yu give me feeback! u used you and rude a zillion times u lil fag!
These past 2 years i've been feeling really depressed and its reflecting the way i act towards people now. I feel as if i can't trust anyone, and unpleasant things have been going on. Since 6th grade i've been cutting (im in 8th now). And now, It's like i always want to,and i cant stop, but its gotten to the point to where i dont even know it. I cant concentrate because i've lost most of my friends, and the 2 friends i have now act like they dont even want to be around me. All this anger is built inside of me, and i have no one to talk to about it and so i take it out on myself because i feel like its my fault even though it may not be. Im losing almost everything, and i always feel like my friends talk about me behind my back. I want help, but i want help from people who understand me, and who actually want to listen and care about me, but it seems none of my friends can really fill those needs.
knock urself out.
i've been getting my period since april 04 and i got it on the 24th for april may june july and august. i didnt get it september but octor 2nd. now its november 5th and i still didnt get it. this is really messed up! what do i do because i dont know when to expect it and i'm sick of wearing dark jeans all the time. thx-very self conscious
wear a white skirt so every1 can c ur prob!
i love my boyfriend VERY much, but hes always So down on himself. he calls himself stupid, ugly, and says he doesnt deserve me ALL THE TIME. when i talk to him about it, he says his mom is always putting him down and he feels like hes nothing and he has no future and he feels like hes just going to bring me down if i stay with him. i want to be with him forever.... but its hard to deal with him always putting himself down. he tries not to but sometimes it slips. i really wish i could make him love himself. What can i do? Im almost 16, female....
tell him he is weird.
hey yall, me and my X just broke up about a month ago.. i already have a new boyfriend, but i dont know if i really like him or just trying to get over my X. me and my X only went out for about 4 months, but the love we had for each other was amazing. but now me and my X arent on good terms and he blocked all my screen names and is talkin shit about me to all my friends. i just wanna let him know that i care but he takes it as being obsessive...but i know im not obsessed..i just miss him..how can he go to lovign me so much to hating me so much?? i mean, he knew my AIM password and deleted my whole list and it was the same as my email password..i guess he just guessed it was...and he changed it! why is he doing this??
he apparently doesnt like yu, period.
ok i like this kid who is on the same sports team as me and its an all yr sports team n i wnat 2 tell him that i like so taht we could hopefully take our firnedship 2 the next level but im afraid taht if i tell him i liek him n taht he doesnt liek me back than things would b awkward n since its a whole yr team idk wut 2 do i need ur guys'z help wut should i do?!?
in english pleasee.
Ok hi my name is ashlee and im 13 years old. Anyways I really would like to wear makeup and stuff like that but i have a little acne. Its going away now because I just started using my acne medication right. Bad on my part I know. Wouldnt it look bad if there was like little bumps in the makeup though? What is the best foundation or powder that wont cause you to break out? Also, I've noticed alot of people having Coach bags and Gucci bags and dont they cost alot of money? Is there like some place where they dont cost alot that I dont know about? Thanks. Also I would like an honest opinion. I will rate high if I feel that you have tried.
then wear makeup 2 cover the volcanoes growing on ur puny face.
well, theres this girl lets just call her leslie and her initials spell out lez, but that has nothing to do with this. anyways, we're friends and stuff, but everytime im talking to her she starts getting all touchy feely with me and touches me so much i think shes a lez...and she gets really defensive about her initials being l.e.z so maybe she IS a les? how can i find out?
ask her, duh!
I've been getting depressed lately...like people make me feel stupid. Sometimes, they roll their eyes at things I say, especially when we're around guys. I wanna ask them to stop, but IDK how, and you see, I CANT, becus they would just deny it and not understand. What should I do?
mayb yu are stupid?
I feel that I need a boyfriend. All of my friends have one. But no, it's not because of that. You see, I think I need someone to talk to, someone that will make me feel better, someone who is sweet and there for me. I want a boyfriend, and it's NOT because I wanna impress people that I have a hot boyfriend. I just feel lonely. But IDK how to get a bf. I wana ask guys out, but I am SOO sure that they'll say no, because they don't like me. They like the popular, hot girls. Not fat, ugly, stupid, weird, girls.
what you need is a grammer lesson.
ok, umm...i just turned 13 and im in seventh grade(this might help 4 my question) and sometimes i think i mihgt be les or bi...i love looking at girls bodies, but i dont care about their faces or the personalities on the other hand, i love guys because of their faces, bodies, and personalities...am i les or bi or just curious? if i AM les or bi, how do i tell my best friend?(shes a girl, and might think that im coming on to her) since im in 7th grade, she might be too immature to handle it...and weve talked about gay ppl and lesbians before and all she says is: it would be weird to have a les friend....WHAT DO I DO?????????
hhahaha lezbo!
im 13-f i have a bf and i luv him its just we've been going out since summer and i know i shouldn't have done this but i've gone really far with him but my friend likes me soooooooooooo much and i sorta like him to. the thing is he has a gf but he said he'll break up with her for me! but i dont want him to because i dont want to break up with my bf. i cant decide who i like better but i've known my bf for 2 years now and i went out with him in 6th grade and in 7th but now since im in 8th grade i sort of want a knew bf because i've known him so long........im really confused about what to do....help please! thnx
ur 13, so who cares. it never goin 2 last.
ok, for my acting class i am going to do a newscast on like 'breaking news'. i am goin 2 shoot it in my front yard where there are a lot of bare trees and a lil' shed. i was planning to have my brother come out of the bushes and walk like the girl in 'the grudge' when she comes into the hall and down the stairs, like during my report. it will cut my report short and then he'll like chase me or summin. i just dont kno WHAT to report on! plz help! thx 143 :)
keewlness.
im friends with all these guys and when im around them they always tickle me but sometimes it isnt in the right spot like either right under my breasts or where my hips are...i told them 2 stop and they listened and all but when i was with this one guy lets call him bob. well i was talking to bob and we were talking about sex and i felt really comfortable with him but then next thing i know we're at his house and we start making out.... i dont have a bf so it dosnt matter but at first we were in his car and then we went to the family room and sat on the couch i told him that i like him and he said u only like me and im like yea and he said well i love you i stoped talking and i was sorta scared but then i kissed him and said i love you too. i took his hand and asked him where his room was but when we were walking we were kissing and all but when we made it too his room my pants were already off and his shirt was off but right when he was gonna turn the doorknob we found his friends and i ran in the family room bob came back out and he said he really didnt know they were there and i said ok but now all my guy friends look at me different because they have seen my ass and shit bc i was wearing a thong and when im around them they always ask me dosnt it hurt and sometimes they mean with the thong or sex
i need to know how to make them shut up!!!
HELP!
THANX
wat friends? thats a surprize yu have some!
okay...all my friends tell me that i'm turning punk little by little...and most of my friends are punk. i listen to punk and am starting to dress punk too. if i totally change my style over christmas break do u think that the people in my school will call me a poser? i'm 13/f in 8th grade. thx...*changing*
i hate punkz.