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Ok hi im a female,who is 13, my neighbor,a male,who is 15,who i happen to like is two years older then me.i told him i liked him and then he didnt talk to me for a day.him and i are good friends though so i dont know whats up.his best friend who happens to be my friend,and his brothers girlfriend,talked to him for me the other day.she asked him why he wasnt talking to me alot.all he said is that he likes me alot as a friend and doesnt know yet if he likes me more then that.he flirts with me all the time though.do you think i'll ever get him?....what does all this mean?....
Well, it could be that he's just shy. It could also be that you are quite young and he is afraid of someone [his peers, his parents, your parents] having objections to you two dating.
There is also the posibility of you misenterpreting his 'flirting'.
I think you should just give him a little time and space to sort himself out, say a couple of weeks, then maybe you should say something to him again, if he hasn't said anything and your feelings are still the same.
good luck :)
Im 14 years old and i hate my fucking pimples. how can i get rid of them? i have this acne pad face wash stuff and it still isnt working after about 2 weeks. Help me please...
There are loads of different types of creams and potions you can try. You can try consulting a makeup person/ beauty theripist, as they can usually work out what skin type you are and suggest remidies that would work for you.
You could also try adding more fresh fruit and vegies to your diet.
If you think you have tried everything and they still arn't gone then its time to see your doctor. I had really bad spots and then I was diagnosed with acne, which are spots caused my severe hormonal problems. He gave me oxytetracyleone, an antibiotic, to make them go away.
I'm sure none of you can help me, but I felt it rarely hurts to ask. I am an art major, and becoming an art teacher is my last resort. Becoming a teacher would be moderate money-wise, but it won't make it easy for me to pay my mother's 25,000 dollar debt, and I know I will have to eventually, she's been unemployed for several months now (Since November) and has no intentions on find a job. I think the best answer for me would be working under a small comic book company, comic strips, or other things along these lines. I'm full of ideas, and I've got no way of using them. What should I do? Do any of you know of a location I can submit ideas to. And even if I did submit something, what would I include in my submission? Does anyone have any ideas as to how on earth I can make a living on art to the point where I can pay off my mom's debt?
Umm, I don't know how you could get that much money, but its always a good idea to look for magazines that are asking for comic strips and send a sample off to them.
I would say that you include the picture and a covering letter.
You could also try childrens publishers and see if they need any book illustrations.
The third option is to get an agent, as they can also suggest realistic prices.
Good luck :)
how old were u when ur got ur belly button pierced..?
Well, I haven't but I know that most places [UK] won't unles you are either 18, or 16 if accompanied by your parent/ gardian.
I am a fourteen year old girl and I've been writing fiction, particularly fantasy, ever since I can remember. I'm suffering a minor case of writers block, and I'm looking for a challenge or a contest, preferably online with no entrance fee.
Does anyone know of any online contests going on right now? Any challenges?
I would be pretty wary of online competions, so why don't you have a look around in your local newspaper or book stores. Alternetivly, you could offer your serivices to your mates, for a story about them.
we r about 2 move and i have 2 get my moms furniture...but i wanna make it 2 where its not so adult like...if that makes sence....im 15 and i want 2 paint my room pink and make it really girly...hehe...so if anyone knows anything i can make adult furniture not so that way and also i need some ideas for like wall hangings and kinds of selves and really anything i can put in there that has 2 go with the theme...if this question makes any sence...thanks 2 anyone who answers!!!!!
I guess it depends on what you define as girly; just pinks, or pastles, or cutesy unicorns and princesses with. It also depends on what sort of furniture you have; if its pine you should be able to paint it, but if its mahogany or somthing then don't mess with it.
Also you could try investing in some doillies [they are usually cloth, but have lace around the outside].
Maybe you could paint your walls two tone pink, pink/purple, and have stensiles of somthing girly around the deviding line.
That jjust a few ideas for starters. Go to your local DYI shop and just use your imagination.
Oh, don't forget to ask your parents if you can do this....
Good luck :)
Hi there,
I am trying to get hold of a CD Duplicator but make up my mind on which to buy since there are so many. The final question is:
Should I choose the 1-7 duplicator (www.esystor.com)?
But I would have to replace CD-Rs every 3 minutes.
Or choose the Automatic CD Duplicator from Telex (www.telex.com). You place 100 blanks CD-Rs and it automatically loads each blank when finished. Burns around 30 in half of an hour. However, I am scared about the durability of the loading arm but Telex is a popular brand.
Well, I don't know why you want this stuff, but I'm going to assume its for somthing nice and legal ;)
If it were me, first I would ask myself which one is the cheaper, then which one is the more durable. You say you have concerns about the Telex' durability, so if the other is cheper, I would go with that one, as manualy replacing the CDRs maybe a hassle, but might also be worth it.
how can i get out of my life?
Okay, you haven't really provided much info, but I'm going make a wild guess and say your husband is abusive or a dunk or somthing simmilar. You don't even say where you are, but here:
http://spacefem.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=10181
there are alot of useful telephone numbers and website links that you can call on for help. There are also womens abuse shelters, where you can go to get away from him, but I don't know much about those.
I'm sorry I couldn't give more help, but good luck :)
how to i sign out 4 gd? i want to close my account permatmently how do i do it?
I would ask a question [or send an e-mail] to the advicenators admin, specifying your username, and ask that your account be closed. However I would think very hard about this as once its closed I doubt it can be re-opened, and I expect you coloum would go as well.
how can i get full responsibility for my son so if me and my husband part he cannot take him away?
Well, you could arrange it out of court, and let the father see the son every weekend or somthing, but if things go sour or you want drastic action [like a restraining order] you would have to talk to your lawyer and go to court.
good luck :)
wow! this friday i lost my cell phone..and i went a lil crazi..i was at a teennight place (which is a place where u met ppl and dance and shyt like that) and i was askin every1 if they saw my phone and i asked this one realli hot guy and i was like heyyy do u have my phone..and he was like no and i was like are u sure???...and he was like u can check me and i was like ok so i lifted up his shirt..OMG He has a 6pac..
I wouldn't call you a slut, since the defintion of one is someone who sleeps around a great deal. However, I would go easy on getting it together with someone you just met, as it makes you come accros as very easy and you could get a reputaion. Always remember to use protection if you go any furthur then kissing ;)
Have fun, but don't be a total floosy :)
I am having a big problem on my job. I am a licensed nurse working in Home Care in Florida. What is commonly called Agency work. There are several nurses working this particular Case. We all are experienced nurses, and adore our little patient, which is a handicapped child. We all have been on this particular job for several years,and everyone does a good job. One nurse who I will call N, causes a lot of unneccessary friction on this home case. The father of this child is alone, and is a divorced, retired older man. And he is the primary care giver for this child. N has been intimately involved with this gentleman, off and on for a couple of years. She works the night shift and sleeps. She manipulates this man, and the shedule changes according to her wishes.When he leaves town on business trips, she comes and goes in the home, and causes problems for whichever nurse is working at that time. The agency is aware that she sleeps and that she is imtimately involved with this pts father. But has done nothing to rectify this situation. I learned ethics and conflict of interest when I studied nursing, but obviously some people do not follow this guidelines. Besides this , the nurses brags about being able to work 2 jobs. If everyone working in nursing could sleep, then everyone could work two jobs. She is married and has children. Besides this nurse being liable, and the agency. Should medicare also be advised of this situration? Nurses are threatening to leave this home case, if nothing changes and soon. What about the licensure agency, here in Florida? Thanks in advance for reply
I'm afraid I don't know much about homecare in Florida, so I'm not sure what medcare is, but if they are the governing body of care agencys, then I would tell them. If all this means the patient is reciving or would recive worse care then you definatly have to tell someone in authority.
It makes one wonder how this woman became a carer in the frist place!
good luck :)
i need to how long it takes a abcess to brake threw the top of the hoof.my mare has been lame for 8 days now.she was dign. whit it by a vet.
I would go back to said vet and ask her/im. They should have told you when they diagnosed the problem how long it would take to heal, and how to treat it.
Hey everyone I asked a Q about this poem a litle while back and I think I'm done but to those that answered before I would like to know what they think. and to all advicenators too but is it good at all now? just let me know please. Thanks.
No More
You laugh at me, You point.
You say "how weird!"
You say "how ugly!"
You say "how stupid!"
I turn the other cheek so you can just laugh and point some more.
I have cried my tears. I have hated myself for you.
There were times when I couldn't see through my tears and somehow I found the strengh to turn the other cheek but still you laughed and pointed more.
So in this poem I want to tell you that the days of your laughing and pointing are no more.
When I see you I laugh and say ""How Pathetic!"".
You have put me through this torment for you own satisfaction but no more.
I have cryed my tears. I have hated myself for you but No More.
Its gotten better, but I think its turned into more of a song now than a poem [although the two can be synonymous].
Good work :)
dude i really like this kid but he like is a player n he wants me to go to his house tom n have sex i dont want to n i m like in love with him but he messes with my mind it sux wuta i do?
Get as far away from him as possible. You should never feel thretened or pressured into sex. I know you say you love him, but have you considered that might just be cause he is manipulating you? Also I suggest telling some one, a good mate or an adult.
Please be very careful around this guy, and good luck :S
I only started my periods abouit a year ago, but recently they've been really heavy (like MASSES of blood), and I feel faint sometimes. Is it normal to be like this or is there something wrong with me? by the way, I'm 14. Please answer asap because I'm really worried
I wouldn't have said it was normal to loose so much blood you feel faint. Have you told your doctor? as this could be making you animic, which isn't good. If you haven't already spoken to her/im then I really think you need to talk to your doctor, ASAP.
Good luck :)
Who should I cosplay at next year's Animazement? Animazement 2004 just ended, and I know I'm going again next year, but who should I cosplay as? (I'm female, by the way, but that doesn't really make much of a difference, does it?) Please help.
Just pick your fave character from your fave anime and go as that. Or if you know a particuler director/ animator is going to be there maybe you could cosplay one of their characters.
At the very least make a big list of all ther ones you think are feasible and randomly pick one.
my younger friend (she is in 5th Grade) keep's telling me about this boy who tells her things that are sick. And he won't leave her alone. Like, she'll go to the front of the bus and do it again. She's to afraid to tell her mom, so she asked me. I told her that she should tell the bus driver, her teacer, etc. But she's too afraid to do that. I asked her if she wnted me to talk to them and she didn't want that eather. She know's I'm a memeber of this site, so she asked me to post it. (she's not alowed on thease sights) Please help!
I know your mate is scared, but you can't help her if she insists on you keeping this in the dark. You have to tell someone! The boy sounds like a bully, and bullies need to be confronted and punished for the emotion and physical pain they cause. Please, *please* tell someone, even if it is just your own parents!
Good luck :)
How do you write an advice column for a magazine?
Exactly like you write one for here, except in the real world, you need to have qualifications etc and be employed by a magazine. If you are still at school, and your school runs a newspaper/ magazine you could try applying for the position in that.
If you are thinking of this as a carrea path, I would suggest doing a jornalism or english lit course.
i recently got a small bamboo plant that is barley a foot tall... what are some goo ways to care for it .. and how tall will it grow? thanks for ur help
I'vce heard bamboo grows very fast [unless you have a resident panda :P] and can get HUGE [over 10ft]! Not sure how you care for it though, but I would say its a good idea not to let it get too out of control.
Also try this website: http://www.bbc.co.uk/gardening/plants/plant_finder/
Good luck :)