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hey guys! my name is cait♥ and i adore giving people advice. my obsession is 8th&ocean. i even have the theme song as my ringtone ; ] hehe. anyways im a cheerleader and i love every minute of it. well dont be afraid to ask me certain questions because im always here for you = ]. thanks for coming here and reading this. so you like my advice? add me!! = ]]. cait♥

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Last monday my ex and I broke up and now he's telling everyone what we did in our relationship.He calms he " hit it and quit it" which means he was just with me for sex. So it all back fires on me.But instead of just sitting here and letting him say that.I started to tell people that I "hit it and quit it". Does that make me a slut or does it make me look stupid?i really dont have a choice.

hey, it makes you look bad when you say that. yeah its going to make you look slutty. instead say something like " i didnt really like him that much anyways". you shouldnt have been giving him sex anyways. but you did and now you ahve to pay the price. cait♥

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what does analyze actually mean?? how would you analyze a topic?? you can't use "I".

thanks

hey, analyze means to take a very close look at something. example detectives analyze dna. cait♥

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How do I know if I really really like this guy.
I REALLY NEED TO KNOW IT'S AN EMERGENCY.

I don't really know him though, but I feel like my heart sinks eveytime I see him. I feel stupid

(I rate)

hey, i think you may be starting to like him, but your not there yet. get to know him first. then if you really like him, your body adn heart will know. cait♥

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how can I lose as much weights as possible in a little time, and how do I stick to a diet, cause it's hard for me, and also if you puke, and there's nothing more coming out of your throat does that mean that it's all out?
(I know I am not bulimic, BUT I WAS WONDERING)
and who knows some good exercises you can do at home?

I RATE, thanks so much

hey, you coudl do sit-ups or walk on a treadmill. in order to stick to diet you have to stay true to yourself. let yourself know that you are going to do this. i dnt know about puking cause im not bulimic. cait♥

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can anyone tell me, how many calories a body burns with 100 sit-ups?

hey, its different with everyone. because some people have more body fat than others, 100 sit-ups takes differently on everyone. 100 sit-ups in a month will burn alot of calories for msot people tho. cait♥

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Sorry if this was under the wrong catagory, I wasn't sure where to put it =( Anyway, my question is why is it that whenever I wake up in the morning my arms and back and neck hurts? Like it feels sore and achey? It's been hapening alot lately, and my softball throwing arm is being affected by this ... and I would like to know three things:

1) Does anyone know what is causing this?
2) How can I prevent it?
3) How can I help it? like should I use a heat pack to make them stop hurting and being so sore?

I don't know is it helps any, but I am 14 years old and a girl, thanks!

hey, it could be your bed. if your bed is very old then its time for a new one. it could also be your pillows. or the way you sleep. start off with buying new pillows and then if you see no results buy a new matress. cait♥

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I'm not sure what my condition is, or if I even have one, but it's like this:

Everytime I go to walk around my block, or if I'm in the house alone (and I babysit!), I freak out. I look around frantically, even running from room to room! Is this normal? I don't get it as a severity (sp), but it's not exactly too light either. What can I do to prevent this sort of thing happening to me? Thanks.

hey, go see a doctor. im not sure the condition. but smethings def. wrong there. cait♥

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14 almost 15/f. my talent is music, and i hope to become a professional musician one day. i play a number of instruments, and i love blues/jazz. i'm going to major in music in college. at some point in time i'd like to start getting in touch with recording studios and whatnot. have any of you ever had any experience with this, and how should i go about recording a demo and such?

hey, you would send a demo to a music company. to search for companies go to google. cait♥

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I've looked forever on here and I've been Googling for an hour and a half to see if anyone has posted a similar question, and I can't find anybody in my particular situation.

I got my hair cut really short (think boy-length) and I love it to death, but I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions for how to make it look a little more feminine, or for how to have some fun with it. Currently, I just spike up the back a little bit with styling paste, and leave my bangs straight.

hey, wear this style with a strechty headband. cait♥

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Okay so i was wandering...
what do you think about extensions?
do extensions come in only one color, i mean do they have extensions for people with highlights? how much is it around?
can you really tell a person has them?
are there different kinds of extensions, if so what do you suggest??

Thanks!! =0)

hey, the price depends on how long you want them to be. yes extensions come in many colors. highlighted colors and plain colors. they dont look fake if you choose the correct color. cait♥

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I am very pale and I get very self concious when Im wearing shorts or skirts. The problem is I want to wear skirts and stuff because I think they are cute.

I guess my question is, is there any way to take peoples eyes off how pale I am or to make me look darker without tanning?

hey, being pale is natural. i am pale and i still wear all those skirts and stuff. you might think people are staring at your skin color but there really not! you could use sunless tanner. jergens natural glow is best. cait♥

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0K so i hav long, below da shoulder, straight hair. I tried scrunching it. Yes i showered, towel dried, applied gel, flip my head over, and scrunch from the bottom to the top. I put gel and hair spray once in a while and i scrunch and srunch and scrunch .. eventually my hair dried. Any advice?

hey, use pantenne pro v products to scrunch your hair. any of there gels, mouses, and hairsprays work great. also use a defuser. cait♥

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My firewire won't let me get on msn .. how can I prevent this?

hey, you could un-install firewall and then re-install it again. yeah, try that see if it helps. cait♥

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if a girl asks a guy to prom, does she pay for both tickets? does the boy traditionally pay, or does each person pay for their own?

hey, it depends on the guy and the girl going. if your asking the question because your in this situation then talk it over with the guy. cait♥

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What is discharge and what does it do? Etc.
Thanks!

hey, discharge is something that every girl gets. it doesnt do anything! discharge is completly normal unless it smells funny. also its white. it looks sorta like conditioner. lol. cait♥

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i want to shave down ther but everytime i do i get red bumps and i start bleeding and i want to get shave every hair and i want it smooth how can i make that happen?

hey, maybe you should use nair. also electric razors work wonders. if you really want to shave use skinmate baby soft (blue bottle). cait♥

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Alright so i'm in 8th grader at a pretty small school .. we have like 180 kids in the whole middle school, so of course our school dances are kind of .. not fun. And like NONE of the guys dance what so ever.. so i dont really dance either. Some of the girls dance during like the fast songs and then like get called sluts & stuff when really .. they do nothing not normal. my school's just gay like that. And they open up the other gym too .. so the boys usually go in there & play basketball, i usually just float inbetween the too, and talk to the guys & sometimes hang out w/ the girls, but never really dance. And obviously, its not fun at all. The only time the guys dance are slow dances & like i always get asked, but half the girls dont. And lemme just tell you ITS REALLY LAME. But some of the girls think its like the best, they keep one main light on, off to the side b/c the teachers are annoying. I mean i know were in middle school, but you have to admit thats SUPER GAY. And i really hate it. Is there ANY way to make it fun? or like so the guys would maybe dance during the fast songs? I dont know that sounds gay, but i'm desperateee.:] thanks in advance.

hey, just tell people to dance. start a dance competiton between your friends and you. cait♥

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Well my Boyfriend I Have Been Going Out For 6th Months now. ABout 3 Weeks Ago I Wasn't At School On Monday And We Had A Pep Rally... You Know With All The Cheerleaders and Ya! Well ME And My BF Were Walking ANd He Said That He Sat In The Back And He Said That The Cheerleaders Had Nice Butts! I WAS LIKE OMG! I Dont Think You Should Be Telling Me This! But What Do You Think?! I Need Some Opions! I Will Rate Good! Thanks!
[♥] Staci

hey, its not too serious. hes jsut being a guy. if you want to comment then say something like "hows my butt" hehe lol. if not jsut let it be. cait♥

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ok...me and my x-boyfriend's relationship was going great...but 3 months into it he started to slip into depression...i ask people what i should do and somone gave me the brilent idea to complament him and try to get him to feel good about his self...so i did just that...than...2 weeks later after i was complamenting him he dumped me and went out with my best friend!! and now he thanks me everyday for helping him "meet the love of his life" ...he said he would have never walked up to my best friend if he didnt have confedice... and it makes me feel like he was just using me!!.. should i be upset? or am i over reacting?...

hey, yes you should be upset!! THATS HORRIBLE. you need to talk to him about it NOW. and ask him why he would do that to you. cait♥

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Ok, im a virgin, but im a total porn addict. I get horny and really wet easily....and usually watching lesbian porn, does this mean im a lesbian? Im attracted to guys, but i love lesbian porn. Im scared that this mean i am a lesbian.

And one more question, i love watching peeing stuff, like girls gettin peed on and stuff, is that odd?

~Kaci

hey, no its not odd that you enjoy girls getting peed on. its what you like. everyone likes something different. just ebcause you like lesbian porn doesnt mean your a lesbian, because you said you liked guys. however you could be bi-sexual. chances are very slim tho. you might prefer lesbian porn because its more exciting. cait♥

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