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I'm a nineteen year old girl whos dreams are to help the world. But for now, I'll start on Advicenators :)I can't say I can relate to every question that comes my way (probably most though!), but I guarantee I'll understand. And sometimes that's all you need...a little understanding :)
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i was wondering if girls like it when you shave your balls or not cause i am debateing if i want to shave them
Don't let it grow like a forest but don't turn it bald either. TURN OFF.
Just keep it trim :]
IS it odd that whenever I orgasm I don't tremble or shake or anything? I just tense up a lot while the feeling spreads throughout my body.
Whenever I read sex stories it always is so elaborate about how the girl shakes a lot when she comes.
Am I just weird or something?
Nope. Your normal :]
Those sex stories are mostly just perverted mens fantasies. Every guys dream is to make a woman shake and tremble during an orgasm. Most womans fake it haha
is it bad or wrong that i still sleep with a stuffed animal? Its a white tiger named Snowball. even though i share a bed with my boyfriend, if i dont have snowball i have a hard time falling asleep. is there something wrong with me? btw im 19/f if that makes any difference
Nope that's normal. We all have weird little corks about us. That just happens to be yours :] haha
My boyfriend is going to parties since school has ended. You know? Those high school parties and then he talks about going to those college parties. It really bothers me a lot :[ He's quite handsome and I'm sure he wouldn't do anything with other girls.. but girls have always flirted with him and tried to do stuff. I don't want something to happen. I know.. he's going to get high, drunk and whatever. It bothers me a lot and I don't know what to do... I'm afraid something might happen.
But I know that I can't tell him.. he can't go.
Is there anyway that I can distract myself?
Don't try to hide the fact that it bothers you. The most important things in a relationship are trust and communication. If you don't want him to go, then you have to tell him. If he doesn't understand your point of view then I would kick him to the curb.
I love my dogs alot, but i want more. My best friend is selling a couple and i asked for her to save one for me. Well, my mom says no, we need money. I'm trying to raise money, but it's too hard with summer school. My dad says the only way we're getting another dog is if we kill our current dogs. I got scared and said no. All I want is just one mroe tiny puppy. One of my current dogs is 7 half way through his life. My other one is only 4. She's not too nice, but anyway, I really want this puppy, but don't know how to get my mom to say yes! HELP!
Keep it in your room. Don't let them see it. Make sure you name it that way they'll know your already attached to it and they'll feel to bad to make you give it up. Atleast try going 1 week w/ out them knowing your hiding a puppy in your room. Try feeding it and taking it outside when their not home or sleeping.
hi,
i have anorexia and haven't gotten my period for about 4 months now, maybe 5 give or take. first, i was wondering if it's even possible for me to get pregnant anymore because of my loss of periods. also, i just had sex with my boyfriend. we DID use a condom correctly and he pulled out before coming. is there any way i could possibly get pregnant? i'm not freaking out it's just like my lack of periods to begin with prevents me from knowing if i can get pregnant or not. PLEASE ONLY ANSWER IF YOU UNDERSTAND WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT!!
Yes you can still be pregnant.
The real issue you should be worrying about it your anorexia problem :[
My bestfriends baby shower is this afternoon. I've known about this event for about 2 1/2 months now. the problem is i dont have any money to get the baby anything im young and i've been trying to find a job but i hven't gotten 1one yet. i feel really bad about it. she will be very dissapointed in me if i didn't show up. i dont know what to do.
Borrow money. Then when you get the job you can pay the person back. You can't not go to your bestfriends baby shower. You have to go. If you don't have any money then ask your mom or another friend. Don't let your pride get in the way. You gotta do what ya gotta do.
so my stomach's been getting bigger and bigger. not rapidly, but it's getting bigger. why is it that it's getting bigger? like, all the other parts of my body aren't big or anything. just my stomach. what can i do to stop making it bigger and how can i keep it from doing so?
thanks.
I'm guessing your a girl.
Maybe your pregnant.
Maybe your about to start your period and your just bloated.
If it's not either of those ^^^
Then heres the solution:
SIT UPS. WALKING. HEALTHY EATING CHOICES.
That's all :]
im f/13
how many sit ups should i be doing a day?
Not fat or anything, just a healthy excercise.
Do some in the morning then some at night.
Everday increase the number of how many you do at each setting.
Start off w/ 200 at morning and night.
Keeping doing 200 for 5 days then move it up to 275 or w/e your comfortable w/
Then gradually increase the number you do :]
i just got my belly button pierced!
it is summer time and i got the cutest bathing suit.
i want to go swimming but my mom doesn't know about the piercing.
what do i do?
i would like to wear the bathing suit but my mom will see it. if i wear a tank top in the pool, the belly ring will show when i get wet.
what do i do?
Honestly the best thing to do is to tell your mom. The worst she'll do is tell you to take it out, but make up some excuse why you can't.
ex:
That would be a waste of money [even if you really didn't pay for it]
Tell her all the girls have it done and it's no big deal. [even I have mine done]
When your older your going to get it done anyway and if you take it out it will close up and when you go and get it done in a few years it will hurt like hell because your mother was mean for making you take it out :]
I personally like the 3rd one :]
How bad is it to cheat? I mean we always hear about it being the lowest of low, but I have friends who've had sex with other people and their boyfriends forgave them. Is it really all that big of a deal? My boyfriend is in Europe with some attractive girls that are always crushing on him, I've pretty much accepted the fact that he might cheat because I know how flirty he can get without realizing it. How bad would it be if I cheated, just kissing or so? I would like to know, so I'll be prepared to react in the right manner if anything happens by either of us.
Thanks.
Well, it all depends on the persons morals. If you have to ask if it's really that bad to cheat, then you must not think it's that bad. In my opinion, at a younger age like 14-16 there really isn't a thing called "cheating". I think of it as "shopping around" ya know? Your just exploring your options. Your young. That's what you should be doing UNTIL you find the "right" one of course. But if your 18 or older, I think that's pretty low because at that age people are more mature w/ relationships and cheating and hurting the other person just isn't acceptable.
This will sound horrible but here goes the story. I was and am not really close to my dad's side of the family. I'm in total love with my mom's side but I basically loath my dad's side of the family--not my dad, though. It's mainly b/c his family hates us b/c of my mom--long story short: they hate us and they're total bitches to us. Anyways, well, my grandpa on my dad's side died today.
With the exception of our family, the rest of our whole entire fmaily lives in S. Korea [We live in US] So my dad is going to fly out there tomorrow or on Monday so he can attend the ceremony thingers. Well, the problem is that I feel really bad b/c I don't feel anything about my grandpa's death. I mean I was never close to him, I talked to him a couple of times--most of which being getting him a glass of water or something. Anyways, I guess what my question is:
What am I suppose to do? I don't feel a thing about my grandpa's death and I don't know how to comfort my dad. I'm just a useless person sitting there not really caring about the fact that my granpa died 3 hrs ago. Or am I in denial. GAH I don't know what I'm in. Help?
It's perfectly normal that you don't feel anything towards the death of your grandpa. When it comes to ways to help your dad through your grandpa's death there's honestly nothing you can do except show him how much you care that he's hurting right now. A death is something only the person can get through and the only way others can help is for them to show the person that they DO care.
can a really white pale skin person get tanned?
how will it turn out?
im really white..
* i dont like wearing shorts, even though i really want to..
but if i do, people will go like. " you are so white" or " you shuold get tanned" & etc...
it just pisses me off, i need some advice on how to get tanned other than a tannin machine my mom wont let me. & Also how will pale skin look like when they get tanned thanks so much!
Why yes they can.
It just takes a while.
Just lay out in the sun and put on tanning oil. If you can't get tanning oil due to it's so expensive, then just buy/use baby oil.
Don't lay out for like 4 hours your first day.
Do it a little bit of a time.
After I go swimming my hair is just a mess. Its past my shoulders and naturally wavy. After I go swimming, my friends and I usually meet up with people and go out so I'm always going out and my hair looks terrible. I have side bangs, so they curl up and look funny as well, so just putting my hair up in a ponytail never works.
Does anyone know any products or tricks I can use to somehow make my hair look presentable after swimming in a pool without washing my hair first? Thank you [:
Use Aussie products. Gel/moose and hairspray.
It works wonders.
SO yeh. Just scrunch it.
Ok here's the deal.I'm 15 f.My sis is a lasbian.FOR REAL!!!!But see I watch movies with my guy friend, and if i see someone kissing or messing around in bed (not sex) I get REALLY horny.Then I look over at my friend and I start thinkin' about "it." Then I just get more horny when we have a friendly hug good bye.What should I do about this?
Like I told someone else who asked the same question. Theres a pill for people like you.
Ask your doctor about it. It works wonders :]
Ok I am 15/f.I KNO I'm not bi, But when I see 2 naked girls kissing AND ONLY KISSING it really turns me on.On the internat.Is this normal?
~Athena
Theres a pill for something like this.
Tell your doctor about it and he'll prescribe it to you.
I had this disorder too.
Hi!
So is there a weightwatchers program for men? I mean guys need help too when it comes to losing weight.
It seems like men are completely left out of everything to do with diets, dieting and weight loss. Why is that?
THANKS!
Weight watchers is for both men and woman. I guess they just aim it towards woman more because usually their the ones always looking for new diets.
so the other night our whole grade had a dance and we were all having soo much fun
i danced alot with other people..but after it was over [it was soo hot in the room] my face was really red [from the heat]. is there any things that i can doo to not make my face get red.orr is it just a phase.b/c sometimes its embaressing..=/
Waterproof make-up doesn't work. Don't listen to her. Try to find a fan around. Usually there is one. If there is no fan, improvise. ;] Make your own.
Ex(s):
Maybe you'll have a REALLY good friend there who will be nice enough to blow on your face [if you feel comfortable]
Ask the consession people for a paper plate then go in the bathroom and fan your self :]
You can bring your own little fan and just keep it in your purse or have someone keep it in their purse for you if your a dude or if your just a girl who doesn't carry a purse
And of course go in the bathroom and wipe off with paper towel
13/f
I have a friend(B) and she has a friend(C). The problem, (B)'s friend, is my worst enemy. (B) and I are really good friends. Well, I kinda started hanging out with other people. I found out later, (B) hated the people I was hanging with. So I started to hang out with (B) more. Come to find out, (B) is friends with (C). (C) acts really nice to me. I got nervous because (C) is like really smart and i don't trust her. When (B) leaves (C) attacks me with all kinds of insults. She named them all to me. I told (B), but she doesn't believe me because every time (C) and (B) are both around I snap at (C) before she can snap at me. Well, (C) started insulting everybody. Even (B) behind her back. (B) won't believe me that (C) is starting fights and stuff. One day, I lost it and almost tore (C)'s face off. I didn't get in trouble because I made her swear not to tell. (B) doesn't know about this fight. What should I do? Stop hanging out with (B)?
Yeap. Stop hanging out with B. She doesn't sound like a trustworthy friend towards you.
ok. so yesterday we were at our school picnic and i was walking around with a group of all girls then we decided to meet up with a group of guys to walk around with. and my ex was in the group and i knew that he still liked me and he was the only on i was interested in in that group. so everytime we had to pick who we wanted to ride with i picked him. and then he asked me out and i couldnt just say no to him. i completely led him on and didnt mean it. now idk what to do because i dont like him but idk if i want to break up with him or not..
Well, if you don't like him then the logical explination would be to tell him how you really feel and that you don't think it's going to work out. He'll understand. And if he doesn't, then the boy has issues and you wouldn't want to be with someone like that anyway :] You have to think about your self too, so do what you have to do.