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Hey my names ali i'm 17 from new jersey. i'm usually really fast with advice so ask whatever you want and i'll answer as soon as possible!!
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What would you do if you found out when you and your boyfriend broke up that one of your good friends went over to his house and they ended having sex and when you asked both of them about it they said no...then the next time you asked they tell you that they did and how sorry they are and they wish they could take it back... Please help me im really hurt about this because it happend just 2weeks ago and i found when i was back together with him..?..

That was REALLY shallow of them both to do. I would definately dump the guy, but if the girl was one of your good friends i think you should talk to her about it, and if shes really sorry try and forgive her. Good luck with whatever you do!
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So tonight I got my first hickey. I always told my boyfriend not to give them to me cause I'll get in trouble but NO! What do I do to get rid of it, I can do makeup but it just wont work covering it up. Any ideas? Thanks!

i heard this works: put a spoon in the freezer for about 30 minutes. then put the spoon onto your hickey for a couple of minutes. then it should be gone. also, if that doesnt work, use major coverup and stuff.
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ok im just curious...if your pregnant...will you bleed at all? and if so how long after do you bleed?

nope, you will not bleed at all! when u are pregant, you do not get your period for 9 months. basically, your period is the lining of your uterus that protects a baby coming out. obviously, wen you are pregnant the lining is being used to protect the baby. if you do bleed while you are 'pregnant', that means that you probably lost the baby.
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There is this guy that i had met online. We have been talking for quite a while now and we both like each other a lot. One day we want to meet each other, but I'm not quite sure if it's safe to do so. But like I said we like each other a lot and we love talking to each other.

You should never meet anyone you talk to online! They probably are not who they say they are. There are so many cases of rape eTc` when people met each other through chatrooms or online. It's very dangerous and could be life threatening. Just continue talking to him online if you want to keep in contact. But don't meet him in person! Be careful!
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ok.... i was planing on dieing my hair this thursday. what i was going to do was die it brown underneath and on top put some sandy blonde highlights with some platinum blonde highlights.. do those two hair colors go together(the platinum and sandy blonde)? i tried looking up stuff to see what it would look like but nothing seems to come up on google or yahoo so if anyone has any ideas on where i can find these two colors put together that would help me a lot... or if anyone knows if these twos colors go together that would be great.. thank you!

ok, well, these colors will look good together. any two types of blondes look good together. if you are worried about the underneath or how it will look on you, ask your hairdresser. they know what is best for you (at least, they'd better!) and how it will look. if your hairdresser says 'you wont look good with sandy and platinum, just use platinum' listen to her! you hair is a major thing 2 fuck up b/c u have 2 deal with it and everyone sees it. makes sure you get some advice from your hairdresser before majorly dying it.
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im trying to find a song for/about my boyfriend, and im having no such luck.. any ideas? thanks =) ..im 14

i love the song KCi & JoJo, all my life and their other song crazy is really good. you can try this song from she's all that its called 'kiss me' but i dont know who its by. this is my favorite love song ever "honey and the moon" by joseph arthur! i love that song!try looking up some dashboard confessional i dunno if much of their music is 'love' music. try this site www.hotlyrics.net and you can see some popular songs of now and u can search for lyrical content. sorry i cant be much of a help, since i dont know very many love songs.
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Hey! does anybody have any good activites to do with kids..ages..4 and 6??? im babysitting n lil n i want to do something fun!!!XOXO

coloring, drawing, play outside, swim, play imaginative games like 'house', simple games like hide and seek, tag, a board game similar to candy land, anything! ask the kids what they want to do, and they will tell you. thats the good thing about kids, they always tell you what they want or is on their mind
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can u get pregnant if u hav sex on your period??

yes you can! most people do not think this is true, but it is. even if u have sex on your period there is still a chance you could get pregant. there is no time that you can have sex where theres a guarntee you will not get pregant. if you were worried about getting pregant, use a condom or go on the pill
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i have a ? for anyone who is willing to help me out! i was with this kid eric for a month n i really likeed him alot but he thoguth i cheatedd on him but i didnt n i broek up wit him to sort out my family n guy problems n then i went out wit this kid ian n now me n ian arent goin out n now i like eric again actually i never stopped liken him n i want him back but i dont think he trust me b/c wen we broek up people siad i cheated on him but i didnt and now he doesnt trust me n this girl aktie likes him n he likes her n i told her that if they hooked up id be happy bc i cant do nething bout it n i said goodluck but she better not hurt him . im reaslly upset tho and i want him abck but i dunno if he likes me! plz help tell me wat i should do ill rate you! ill give u a 5 n comment plz help!

Hmmm...this is a hard one. I think the only thing you could do is to tell eric basically what you wrote up there...tell him that you've always had feelings for him&you still do.. and you never cheated on him. You should ask him if he still has feelings for you. Good luck and tell me what happens!
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wat can u do to make ur penis bigger?(and plz dont say just wait)

This kid i know took some penis enlarging pills lol and it worked for him it didn't make it a lot bigger (maybe like an inch?) or maybe he just thought it got bigger, but try that if you want. Don't worry about it though.
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Theres this guy and he likes me and I like him..he's coming over to hang out two days from now and hes gonna ask me out...I just wanted to hang out first..but anyways whenever we talk online we have all these pauses...are there any solid topics that could keep a conversation going for more then 2 minutes? I'm scared we'll have nothing to talk about and stuff when he comes over!!!!

My friend had a guy over she liked once, and she was afraid there was going to be akward silence, but there wasn't! They hang out all the time now too. I'm sure when he gets there you'll know what to talk about and stuff! Don't stress about it though!
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do gurls care bout the size of a boys penis?

Most girls do care!
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i met this totally amazing guy on a mission trip, & hes everything ive ever wanted in a boyfriend. the only problem is that he lives 2 and a half hours away. we both have our lisences & well be able to see each other a little bit. we want to be with each other, but it doesnt seem like it will happen soon. were planning on attending the same college (coincidentally). he asked me if i wanted to be more than friends, and i really want to be with him. do we just try to make it work and see where it goes or tell him that its too hard and we should just be friends?

Well, how long until you go to college? I DEFINATELY think you should go for it!! If hes everything you've ever wanted in a boyfriend then yes! Long-distanced relationships are hard, but since you both can drive you can take turns driving down to see eachother and stuff. I hope it works out for you!
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Okay, I was wondering how to make your boobs bigger?
ºAnd please dont just tell me to wait a little bit longer, or that I should be happy with them.
So PLEASE HELP ME!
Thanks a bunch!!

Get a water bra! Or a padded push up bra! I don't think those pills or anything work so theres really nothing else you can do :-/
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hey chickz so ive been so-called "dating" a guy for like 3 weeks, and iv liked him for about 10 months... i used to think he was soooo hott and i was dying 2 get with him, but he had a girl.. so they broke up like 4 months ago, and then he asked me out 2 months later.. after 2 weeks he broke up w/me cuz he still wasnt "completely over his ex, and not ready for a relationship yet" he sed he still wanted 2 be with me later tho.. then i told him 2 make sure hes completely over her.. he asked me out again just 2 weeks later, and told me he'd liked me since september when we met.. well he had a g/f from july thru like march, so he liked me while he had his last serious g/f... so that makes me wonder.. is he gonna like other ppl while we*re goin out? that really bugz me.. should i keep goin out with him? i know 2 follow my heart, but my heart is confused right now

Hmm..i think you should stay with him, but talk to him about that! I doubt he'll like other people though while you're going out, he must have just liked you a lot while he was with the other girls. But definately talk to him about it!
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my boyfriend never calls anymore he used to call all the time but now he never calls.....do you think there is another girl because he did flirt a lot in school...with me and other people....is he cheating on me...should I break up with him?

If you really like him, don't break up with him! He could just be too shy to call you, so why don't you call him? I doubt hes cheating on you, (all boys flirt lol) but i think you should call him! And then maybe when you're hanging up tell him to call you later or soemthing!
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shuld i shave my arms

I guess if they're REALLY hairy you should, but it looks a little weird :-/
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i'm going into high school and im really scared and nervous..what if i dont know anyone during lunch and i have to sit by myself?! i dont know what to do..how can i be more brave and not be so scared?

All you have to do is be nice and open minded! If you're like standing there by yourself with a frown on, no ones going to want to talk to you. But if you're friendly and warm, everyone will like you! From classes, you should know someone, so for lunch go up to them and ask them if you can sit with them! Make sure you smile a lot.
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i love running! but i hear its bad on your joints in your knees...what else can i do isntead of running?

What I do is (on the tredmill) is i walk for 1 minute or 2 minutes (depending on how tired i am) and then run for 1 minute and then just keep alternating! I read that in a magazine and its something Jessica Simpson did too loose weight. but that still includes running. running is bad for your knees, so maybe try walking. or pilates tapes. if u are a member at a gym, take a body step/body pump/spin/yoga class. or even try biking.
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do you think girls like me need to get sexy underwear like thongs to impress her boyfriend, or do u think there are more important things to worry about in a relationship, like having fun together or their personalities? should i get some to make him the slightest bit happier, or should i just not get anymore? does it turn guys on to see girls in their sexy underwear or anything? where is the best place to get cute, but inexpensive thongs?

guys are guys. they enjoy things like sexy underwear etc. if you and your boyfriend have already established the emotional part of your relationship and want to establish mor of the phsycial, you should buy some sexy underwear. you can get cute lacy boyshorts at a store like marshalls or kohls. target and walmart also may sell them but they also sell packs of like 5-6 thongs. if you want something very sexy, but slightly pricy, try victora's secret. they have awesome like bra and panties sets and its all sexy. charlotte russe also has very cute thongs.
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