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hahahaha was i on crack as a kid or what?Anywayzzz -- Hey loveys. My name's Martha and I'm here to help you on pretty much anything. Ask and I'll do my very best to answer. I love giving advice and a lot of people say I am a beastly advice giver...so, ask away!
p.s. my screen name is x0mrm0x if you don't want to have your question open to everyone. Also, if you need advice from a guy my friend mark gives good advice...his link is under my favorite columnists.
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i cut and my friend are asking alot of questions about my cut and i feel really bad about lying to them but i dont no what to do
i think you just have to be open about it so that they understand and don't judge you and stuff...because trust me, if they see a cut and it looks non-accidential and you try to lie about it...it won't work. like, if you say your cat cut your wrist, its not gonna fly. so, you just have to talk to them and not lie or anything because all they want to do it help you.
hope i helped.
Hi!! I have this friend who i really need to talk to about hwat she does. She cuts. ive asked her why she does it but she just wont say. i think my grade is breaking her down. Now in the begging of the year she was a great friend, but now shes a totally hypocrite. Now i remeber when her and a boy, her friend got into a fight cause he was being a hypocrite. She hangs out with t5he girls who break her down, and i feel really bad. and i have no one to talk to about my problems but it seems like its always her. ik always giving her o any of my friends anvice and treat them with respect but i dont receive it back. she doesnt care. no one fucking cares about me. shit they tried to talkt o me about why i do something and here they start to laugh at me. and u know what everyone goes to the fucking mall and doesnt ask me. its just cause i live in the city and they6 live in the fucking suburbs. They dont fucking know what its like. I WANT TO GO!!! I WANT TO LEAVE HOME, AND NEVER GO BACK!!! I NEED A FRIEND WHO WILL LISTEN LIKE I HAVE ALL THESE YEARS. I WANT RESPECT. i NEED HELP AND YOU KNOW WHAT SOONER OR LATER (MOST LIKELY SOONER) IM LEAVEING FOREVER IF THINS DONT GET WELL. if you can remeber the questions then answer!! should leave, what do i do with the cutting and hypocritical friend, and should i just end my life now.
first off, i know who this is...
second, thanks for calling 'her' a hypocrite...when theres no evdience of that, and no reason to call 'her' one.
also, people care about you...so you're wrong when they say that no one does. there is no reason to end your life. just because things at home aren't particularly well (cuz believe me, i have been there and seen it all) doesn't mean that theres no reason to live. and you know how people (well girls) in adoloescence are...BITCHY AS HELL! and yeah, they might not ask you to go to everything, but its just cuz they're too mean and dense to ask you...don't let it bother you cuz once you're outta elementary school, and into high school, you'll be doing some fun ass shit...don't worry, things ONLY GET BETTER trust me!
plz don't do anything to hurt yourself...just remember someone, anyone...and how special they make you feel...trust me, it works like a charm
hi my names brian , and i think im gay .. help
uh oh...well, do you THINK or KNOW you're gay...you said think, but w/e...ok, umm, i really don't know what to say, cuz i don't really know how to just 'help' the statement "my names brain, i think im gay"....so, umm, write back with any problems or IM meeeee (x0mrm0x) peace
how do i ask a friend if he likes me?...without ask him "do you like me"
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well if you're talking to him online and theres like a silence, i would just be like, s0o0o0 ______ (his name haha) who do you like these days...and hopefully he'll answer
if he gives you a staright answer, like another girl...then it would mean that he trusts you, or that he's really open...if hes like, don't worry about it and when you're like, no cmon tell me, and he still won't...that would mean that its you that he likes, or hes just really private about his business....
hope i helped!
well the last month i have been thinking about cuttin because me and this kid nmed ryan*MY LOVE*
have been fighting. i told one of my friends and they told my school counsler. my school cons. called me down and we talked about everything.. now im seeing a theropist witch im happy about.
but the other day i cut R in my leg..and i cut 4 lines kinda small on my leg.
last night i was talking to ryan on the comptuer and he said he would die for me,he loved me,he hates kelly(his EX)
and today in his profile he put kelly-i love you.
i asked him what was up and he said i dont know.
but i have been down that rode plenty of times..when ever me and him fighting or ingoure eachother he puts that in his profile,to make me jeoulse.(he told me it was to make me jeoulse)
soo i dont no if he is lieing about the kelly thing or serouse because i wanna die i cant live my life with out him i love him so much.
but i dont no if he makes me cut,trys to get me jeoulse
should i be friends/love him?
but if i dont talk to him i see his name on my budydlist and i see him in school and dont say anything i wanna cut.what should i do?
damn. thats rough. i know how you feel though. i think that him doing that, making you 'jealous' is just putting you down and making you feel like shit, and then you cut.
you really need to talk to him about how he does that, even though it might make him feel weird or like a bad person, you just need to let him know because then it could help you do it less, and probably stop.
and you said that he said that he would die for you and stuff...if he really cares about you that much, which is like 99.99999% true cuz guys don't just say stuff like that and not mean it...so yeah, if he really cares about you and loves you, then he would understand.
p.s. this answer is all assuming that he knows that you cut.
Me and my boyfriend have both been really busy lately. (i do track he's on 4 baseball teams.) So we decided to take a break (not dating othe ppl tho) for like a month when were not so busy with stuff and have more time for each other. But now hes dating another girl and im like wtf? uck now i feel really bad and dont kno whats going on.
Mucho Love,
~ ?dumped? ~
wow...he is by far, a dickhead. if you both agreed to take a break, but NOT see other people, and he is now dating another girl, he is NOT worth it. if he is going to let his need to be pleased (like, him not being able to wait a little for you guys to have time for each other, so he goes and gets another sleezy girl) get in the way of his real girlfriend (you, lol) than thats just not right.
you need a new guy who's going to take commitment seriously
hope i didn't seem too harsh, lol, im just telling you the truth! good luck.
hi my name is wannahocalugi i am like so upset cause this boy i like is so jewish and its like scary cause im catholic and i like him so much his name is supahonake so idk what do do help!!!!!!!!!!!
haha nice name, wannahocalugi...
but umm, back to the advice...i say that if you really really like him, his religion shouldn't matter...like, i know this guys who's jewish and hes real cool, and i'm not jewish...im like, known as catholic, but i'm studying wicca...but that's another story...
so yeah, bottom line, DON'T LET RELIGION OR ANYTHING OF THAT MATTER (i.e. race, nationality, religion, political stance, etc...) GET IN THE WAY OF SOMETHING THAT COULD TURN INTO SOMETHING AMAZING!
hi my name is jen. i like a boy and he doesnt like me i have liked him for soooooooooooooooo long like 5 years on and off with guys in between, but u see i need help cause i met another guy at a dance and hes great .. so advice..???
haha omg do i know you? that is what happened to me, kinda, haha.
well this all depends...are you and the guys you've liked forever like, really good friends? or just like acquaintences? cause if you're really good friends then if anything more happens, it could screw up the friendship. but if you think that there might be a possiblity between you and him, then go for it.
now the guy at the dance. if he doesn't go to your school or doesn't live around you (meaning you won't see him often) then i say just talk online and stuff and see what happens. keep your options open, thats what i do. if you need anymore help, ask away
ok the guy who im basicaly going out with and we are inlove well he called me crying from work and he told me he doesnt know whats wrong and he is thinking about suicide and stuff and he just wants the world to die basically but i dont know why i need help to figure out what to do he is going to come over to my house in like three hours and i need to think of something fast and i want to know what is wrong does anyone have any clue or knows what im going throug???
hey i know what he's going through...hard to explain...but i just know...just make sure you listen to everything that hes saying. and most of all, don't judge!!! if you need to really talk, my aim screen name is x0mrm0x. i'll help out with whatever i can. i'll talk to you, or maybe your bf. (which i know makes me sound retarded since he's yours, but i don't know, i could relate and he might need someone who really understands to talk to, you know?) well, i'll ttyl, hope all goes well.
Okay, well i have to do a speech, and im doing it on how girls are just terriably mean to eachother with the backstabbing, and the calling of names such as "whore, slut, skank.. ect" and everything else that has to do with bullying. if anyone has any stories about their lives and being bullying by other girls please comment me. or e-mail me on xobabicakesox@hotmail.com
thanks so much
ashley
hey
ok well if you wanted stories of girls being bitchy to each other, i am your girl.
the main reason that the girls in my class are so bitchy to me, is because i'm friends with like all the guys in my class...so they're like jealous or something, and they want to make my life a living hell because they don't get any of the attention anymore. and it really sucks. but thats only of a portion of the whole story. so, yeah, hope that was enough.
There these two guys I know. one who lives near me and the other is in another state but not to far. Now the guy here in PA is so awesome, he listens and hes just well awesome. I really like him but the guy in the other state is just the same and we really hit it off really good when we see each other but our last one wasn't too good. It's like he stopped showing interest in me and into my cuzin whose a fuckin bitch. im really pretty and shes not, sure she skinny and shit like that but im the smart one i don't lie about my age. this is my question, should I go and ask the guy out in PA or should i just wait around for the other guy.
Thanx for the advice, oh yea i need ASAP (not to be a bitch)
lOVEZ YA!!
~~~A good friend
ok......
My adivce is to see where it goes with both guys. I always do this. I love to have all these different guys to flirt with and stuff and then see which one is the most promising. Have fun with both of them and see which one is better for you. But, if you need an answer like, PA guy or likes your cousin guy, I would have to say...PA guy. Because number one, hes closer, and number two, hes not after your cousin, which gives you a way better chance. You know what I mean?
Well, hope I helped and good luck. Let me know how everything goes!