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MY grandma's in a nursing home...more like a home for people who are aged or sick and don't have any one to help see them and stuff. Today wen I went to see her she was crying a bit and I'm really worried. She got a stroke and it's really difficult to understand if she really likes it or not because wen we ask if she's comfy she always says yes and we can't go ask the nurses cause of course they will say yes or something. Also as I said before I think my uncle just wants her to get out of the house so he can do what he wants since the money is on his name! I don't want him spend out the money and make us poor and I don't want my grandma to die or be unhappy. I've told my aunt away and she said she'll come soon and so I'm waitin until she comes....what should i do for the while? How do I let her feel more comfortable since my uncle won't allow me to move her...n how can i get my uncle to have a heart for his own mother!?
ur uncle is a cool guy he is waiten for that old bitch to die so he can by a boat and as you wait for your aunt you can give ur uncle head now i hope that old ass bitch dies so you can stop written these stupid ass things
my friend's boyfriend has been harassing me since last year. He keeps doing things to my locker such as smashing a banana on it, putting tape all over, writing all over it, leaving long notes, putting signs with names such as boob girl or b***h etc. He would also spread all these rumors about me and call me all of these names. when my friend tells him to stop he refuses and he said that he wants to hurt me. she wants to protect her boyfriend from being suspended and she is trying to stop me from telling the GLC. He has been doing the same things to other people but they are too afraid of him to speak up. I really want to tell the GLC and take action but would I be doing the right thing by doing that even if I probably won't be friends with her anymore? also, I know that the GLC won't believe me since I don't have enough evidence to prove what he is doing to me. what should I do in this situation?
ok your friend shouldnt go out with him if he does these things to you liek that i would tell the glc and get action if your friend will be mad at you tell her you shouldve done that if you were really my friend you know taht i ahted what he did so what ever
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send me a feed back ok i wanna see if i cange what you didnt like somthing ok thankx
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katie
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ok my friend just a car and for her birthday i want to get her like cool seat covers and stering wheel cover . . where would i go to get that . .would like wal-mart or k-mart carry it??
Thanks!
anywhere well not like a salon but you know yes wal-mart k-mart sears
so people say not to eat after 7pm
what about if its healthy foods such as grapefruits, applesauce or yogurt?
maybe just a lil
I had these gigantic zits on my nose and cheeks about 4 weeks ago..Well, the bump has gotten down..but the red mark is still there..You can still see where the zit came from..How do I get rid of it?
maybe you have acnene and clearisel
13/f
is this werid?
i take off my clothes and look at myself in the mirror and want to do stuff but i dont kno what? it feels good being naked what should i do. i like my boobs and others ppl's boobs. i want to have sex or something what is hapening
maybe this is a sigh of being gay i donno i just thinik that maybe sence you like seeing other peoples boobs i guess im sorry
hope i helped
.::katie::.
this is going to sound really stupid, but please try to answer as best you can? im 15/f
im used to being on the bottom when kissing, and when it's flipped around so im on top.. sometimes i feel like i might be too "forceful" just because im not good with the "control position." im used to the guys having control over it.. (and yes, i like it that way, if that makes any difference.)
my question is, how do you know how much to "control" when you're on top? how do you know if you're too much, or not enough? without actually asking the person?
any help would be great, thank you!
what im sorry but i dont kno w what your talking about i shouldnt be answering this but i want to can you explan more and i will feel free to answer your question
.::katie::.
ok well ive liked this gurl ever since iv known her, 4th grade, and i used to try an make her laugh to like me, well now were older, im 13 adn so is she, so yah i mean at this age we have alot of emotions and dk about things, but we went out over the summer adn had our first kiss.. but she left me the next week for a guy she supposably 'loved' but now thinks is a fag, and well then after a while we both saw other people, my g/f broke up with me a few months ago, for total confusin, and the gurl ive known since 4th grade , just broke up wiht her b/f lets say a wekk or so ago i dk soon lol, wel before she broke up wiht her b/f she said she had feelings for me, and she couldnt choose who, and then she told me she had ben lying baout her b/f to me for months, and it was rele a kid from my class, but any way so i had thot i liked this other gurl, but then like i went over to hmm lets call her sarah(gurl since 4th grade)s house last night, we watched movies in her basment , and soon enough we wer makin out on her couch, like for what seemed like hours, and i truely love her so much, i rele care about her, shes my life(im not a stalker just care about her ok) and well today i talked to her, adn well she sais she just wants to be freinds wit benifets.... and i mean im ok wiht htat kissin her and stuff, but i rele rele want her, i want to go out wiht her , i want to be with her, but she sais that shes scared to go out with me, because shes scared she'l hurt me like she did in the summer , so i just said, oh ok yah thats cool, so now the gurl who i had a crush on before might ask me out , or somthn i dont know, but i dk what to do, 'sarah' sais if an opportunity comes for a g/f that i had to promise to go for it, because she thinks that i need somone better for me, but i cant, i wont , no1 is better for me, i mean we have so much chemistry, and were closer than anyone ive ever ben wiht , no lie, we are like so close we know we care about eachother even as freinds, but i know what i want, and i think that she might be scared , scared of hurting me, scared of gettin close, to close to fal in love wit somone, so yah, i mean, idk im just gonna wait, theres nothin i can do, so thats y i came here
-waht can i do to show her not to be affraid but to take a chance, shes different than she was in the summer, and to take a chance and be able to be happy, because i know shes not, she knows shes not, but i thinnk she was happy last night , ..so was i... wel i rele love her, adn i wanna know some tips on what to do to go overboard for her and i need somthin to get her, to make her need me like i need her, ill rate huge for even an answer at all!
ok i ddint read all of it but if she really loved you she would of never of dumped you for another guy something like this has hapend to me and eevryone said that i was too good for this guy so you too good for her dont sell yoursef sort .go out wiht other people not her shes had her cance and played with your heart shes gana keep doing somethink like that .to me i think shes a bitch im sorry if you still have feelings for her but i would not go out wiht her
HOPE I HELPED
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my bf and i started going out on dec 31. i went to my bestfriend's house later on that day to have a sleepover, but my bestfriend got mad cause he called my cellphone and she started asking me why i gave him my number. then she started calling me a whore and slut because i went out with "19652" guys (i only went out with 4 including my current bf). then, she asked me why i didn't tell her that i liked him and she started to accuse me of pretending to like him when i liked him months ago (i never tell her who i like because she would always give me an attitude). then i had to hang up on him. the next day, i didn't get to talk to my bf cause i knew my bestfriend would get mad. i finally talked to him online when i got home, but he didn't sound as happy or close as he used to. he used to joke around, but he barely even talks now.
why does my best friend get so angry whenever i like a guy?
is my bf just being shy, uncomfortable, or is he mad or something?
maybe she likes him too or she hasnt had alot of boyfriends and is jelouse i really am not sure i sorry
hpe this help any thing
I'm a 27 year old female.For the first time in a long while I'm actually happy to be single. I have my own appartment and a part time job, and was thinking that if I was dating someone I probably couldnt affort to have all the nice things like movies, cd's, and nice furniture, because I would be spending it on my bf. I was also thinking how nice it is not to have the responsiblility of looking after children. A lot of the ladies I work with at the store have kids and they are always so stressed out. I have it made- I only answer to myself and can come and go as I please. The money I make is spent on myself and doesnt go to pay for anyone else.
I am selfish for feeling like this? And is it just I phase? I want to have a family SOMEDAY, just not now. I'm having too much fun!!
no your not being elface have some time of your own and i would love that too someday will come soon enofe so live it up as you can and if you really wanna stop feeling this way sponser one of those kids on tv i know that those kids would need it and you future boyfriend can wiat
hope fully i helped !!
13/m. I'm sorry if this is kind of long. you see, I have this sort-of friend: she's in all of my classes except for one, so we talk a lot. She makes fun of me sometimes, but I really don't think she means it, because things are regular again by next period. I kind of like her, but not really. And the acts as though she likes me sometimes. But, I really don't want anything to happen between us, since I've already made my New Year's resolution to get this one particular girl to like me.
So anyway, that girl, let's call her Jane, her mom died two weeks ago. I've never had to sit through a death before---I'm lucky enough that nobody in my family has ever died. And the only time anyone's parent has died other than Jane's is in 2nd grade, when I couldn't really grasp the meaning of death.
In all our classes two weeks ago, we were just talking about death and stuff. It was really depressing. In one class, things got so deep that half the class was crying. I myself was in tears, as I nearly am recalling this. But not because I knew and missed Jane's mother. Not because it reminded me of a dead relative that I had. Because I could finally grasp the meaning of death.
So, everyone's really depressed now, and she got to miss school two weeks ago the whole week---I would want to, if my parents had died. She's coming back on Tuesday, when vacation ends. One Thursday and Friday, all her teachers---which meant all my teachers except for one---received e-mails from her dad saying that we shouldn't talk about this "event" unless Jane brings it up first. But me, I'm a really shy person, and not having experience with anything like this, I'm probably gonna feel really awkward talking to her. I won't know what to say. I'm sure of it, it happens to me all the time. Whenever something goes wrong with anybody, I never know what to say. I don't really want to say anything like "we're right behind you" or "we got your back", because however true it may be, it may or may not give the impression that I like her.
So, I guess the whole point I'm trying to make here is that I'd feel awkward talking to her. I could've just said "i have a sort of frend whos mom died what to i do" but I feel that I can get a more personal answer if you have some background information. I will probably rate you. Smartasses get reported. Thank you, school starts again on Tuesday!!!
ok dont say that i kno what your going threw cause you dont people dont really lke to talk about something so dont say anything that would remind her dont say alot but say how was your vacation and smile !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!dont frown dont show a weak side because it maybe that see needs you to be the stroung one cause at the moment she cnat be so be the stroung it mabe hard but yo have to cause if you cry shes ganna be weak AND if shes acting like nothing happend somthings wroung so talk to her about her mother but f shes ll depressed remind of good times NOT WIHT HER MOM and its totally ok that its long idontmind atal
i so sorry
15/f
heyy! i have a question okay so i met this girl and we hung out one time and we ended up going to the movies ((oh and my cousin came along too shes 15 also) and my friend is like ohh yeah jake and kevin were wondering if they could come too and ive heard of them but just never hung out with them before so im like yeahH! and so yeah they're the ones like like to do stuff with girls haha..yeaaaa..and my friend is very outgoing and not shy around anyone! and im the total opposite sometimes..mostly around boys and so this kid jake put his arm around my friend and they cuddled and held hands and i was on the other side of her and my cousin was next to me..and kevin was on the other side of jake..haha yeah sorry confusing! but i guess when me and my cuzin left kevin is like gosh why didnt u friend cuddle with me haha? but i think im scared to get close to a guy and then im also not outgoing like my friend but i dont want them to think im shy!! i feel like such a loser thoo i wanna go out and meet new people but im soo shy when i first meet them..and i have like no guy friends :( pathetic i know! and everyone says 'flirting' but im not outgoing enough to do that...what do you think i should do?
SORRY SO LONG!!
i dont see why your so shy but try t get over your fears maybe thast would help i really dont kno what to say cause im nt shy at all but maybe gradually get yourself to talk to a boy then flirt and them more amore
hopefully i helped
Hi
I really want my belly peirced, my mum said she'll see is there any way I can perswade my dad???? (Im 13 by the way)
1.dont tell him may get you in big trouble but youll stil have it done.(bad side he may tel you to take it out so maybe not the best wya to get it done )
2.beg him if hes a father a good at giving in youll have the belly peiced so fast your head will spin .(bad side if hes not and hes as hard as rock to get threw to him hell say no )
3.let your mom talk to him see if she can talk to him .(maybe your mom may not be able to get threw to him)
4.if ALL if my takteks dont work do what i do
1.rap your arms around hes arm .
2.say"daddy do you love me "
3.doggie look and nail him but if hes a hard rock maybe cry a lil that'll get him it always does .lol
hope i helped
.::katie::.
what are sum programs to download any type of music?
lim wire go to www.limewire.com
my mom beats me up all the time...she has problems with my dad and takes them out on me!!..when im sleeping sometimesi see her put her hands round my throat and try to choce me ..i love her so i dont want her to go to jail...what do i do??
omg can i report this
what goes best with a black tube top..
- dark blue jeans
- denim mini skirt
- or white white
thanks. i rate 5's
everyhting everything goes good with black but i donthinkyou said it but a white mini mini skirt or that denim
The other day I fried my hair. I was in a hurry so while my hair was still slightly damp I straightened it. Now it feels like straw, its breaking off very easily, and I cannot style it. I've used several products and conditioned it several times but it will not go back to being soft and healthy. Is there anything I can do?
theres this shamppo special oh whats it called ..hold on ill look it up on the internet
ok this came from the web site if your hair is curly http://www.frizzoff.com/products/selector.php?CP=PSP>se=goog>kw=hair%20dry
Pure Silk Protein was originally developed as an additive to further the penetration of hair colour into the hair. The result is a protein enriched conditioner that actually reduces colour fading. Pure Silk Protein delivers the healthiest and softest hair possible.
Directions Distribute treatment liberally on clean, wet hair and allow to penetrate for 10 minutes or longer, then rinse out (no heat required).
Ingredients DI Water, Isopropyl Myristate, Cetrimonium Chloride, Silk Amino Acid, Mineral Oil, Ceteareth 20, Cetearyl Alcohol, Panthenol, DMDM Hydantoin, Fragrance, Lecithin, Citric Acid, Polyacrylamide.
ok well hopefully i helped
Ok, so I've known this guy about 4-5 years; we met through a friend. We've always had a flirtaious kind of relationship, but never really anything more until recently when I've approached the idea. We both went to different schools and hes 2 1/2 years older soo group of friends were different. He always seemed to have a girlfriend back in the day or I always seemed to be friends with the girl he wanted. Until recently he had this evil bitch girlfriend who cheated on him and abused him emotionally, but because he was so in love he couldnt see it. He eventually woke up and realized what he was doing to himself and got out of it, promising me and himself not to go back to her. We started getting closer, but then hes been getting shady lately. Picking fights, getting extremely moody over little things I say, just isnt acting himself. Ive asked him plenty of times if he wants more than friends or just benefits, he says more but wont go farther than that. He tells me he loves me and says he thinks about me and cares for me, but he wont take the next step. I don't think I should have to, because I've layed myself out several times telling him how I feel yet he tells ppl I'm the one who is confused... What should I do?? Is he getting moody maybe b/c of the ex is back in the view?? I'm not a guy, I can't read their signals so help me please!!!!
ok i got you feed back and thanks but i dont see why hes not going for you and not everything your doing is wroung stil punch the old bitch but if he likes you he most kno about your feelings about him and wait for him to make the first move if it doesnt come right away have pations but if like a month goes by go over there and be like "i like you ok there why are you scared ive tryed to show you easyily but no your ignoring me hello what do i ahve to do to show i like you im not your x girlfriend im not ganna do taht to you and i thought that you would know that"very nicly not like screaming at him nice and frown when your done saying it that will show him hopefully this helps and if it doesnt im very sorry
Ok. I recently bought my first pair of Converse. They are Chuck Taylor Premiere All Star, Low, and I was wondering if I am supposed to wear socks with them. If it helps, I'm a girl.
i would wear socks but make them be like furry or something or knee high sockes with like a peepy look wioth them tahst what i do
[16/f] so here's the deal. i have a guy friend turned best friend. we've been friends for just less than a year and we've had our share of ups and downs. in the past 2 months, we've become really close. we used to go to the same school but not anymore but despite th distance we've managed to get closer. i go see him at least once a week now and he calls me everyday to tell me "i love you." he writes me letters, draws me pictures, takes me out to movies, and cuddles with me. lately he's been jokingly saying that he's my boyfriend and whatnot and i guess it got me thinking that there might be a possibility that he might like me. i used to like him LONG time ago but not anymore. all my friends, my family and EVEN his family says he likes me but i just can't bring myself to believe them. and just yesterday he asked me if he could spend new years with me instead of being with his family. i guess i'm just looking for a second and non biased opinion from someone else to tell me if it seems like this guy seems to like me. and if you think he does, should i confront him and ask him if he does? how do i avoid having him fall for me? should bestfriends ever turn into something more? i'm not ready for a relationship and i'm not looking to be with anyone for a long time coming. thanks for any help =)
ok i dont think you should because after yord if you get dumped or dump them you dont act the same way around each other because there not your best friend anymore tehre your x and you say everythings ok but you grow apart so its really up to you but i wouldnt sorry
.::katie::.