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Q: I hear all these 13 and 14 year olds asking about sex and i am 13/f (almost 14) and i think they are too young but i kinda feel weird cause i am still prude. i dont understand y they wanna do it with all them std's and stuff out there arent they worried? cause i know that condoms dont protect you from std's and sometimes not pregnancy. well i was just wondering... does anyone feel the same way i do?
i am 15 and i haven't had sex yet and i probably won't til i am married and i have found the right guy to have it with. But i have these friends of mine that are already having sex and they are 14 and 15 and i do think they are to young! I do feel the same way as you do. You shouldn't have sex til your older you don't want to get preganate at the age of 15 your still a kid and you would be known as the kid that has a kid.

Q: about 50 responded to my last question about sex. My b/f was trying to to get me to have sex with him. When I told him I wasn't ready he accused me of cheating on him with my my older brothers friends lets call him tim(whom is also my frined) I do like tim but I would never cheast on ne b/f-he then sed he didnt care be cuz he cheated on my with sum1 i have known like my whole life-altho we were never very close-now i think tim might ask me out and i really want to say yes but i think it would hurt my ex and make him spread rumors saying a whore and a slut and stuff. I really didn't cheat on him but he won't listen to me and has his 9 yr old brother answer the phone when i call and tell me he can't talk-he evn had him call me a whore- i have no one to talk to becuz my bro and sis in law live a state away-my other sister moved there about 2 days ago and my other brother went to visit them becuz i have stuff to do this week. I'm so alone and NEED HELP FAST PLZ HELP!!0ill rate well!
Okay hun do what you think is right if you like this Tim guy then go out with him. Your ex boyfriend sounds like a real loser and he probably heard from his friends that you cheated on him and the real reason they said that is because he had you and they didn't! They were jealous of him and you and the only way they would be happy if is their friend didn't have you! I say follow what you think is right, if you like this Tim guy then go out with him and don't worry about you ex he probably still likes you!

Q: im 14 i weigh 124 pounds and i have a slight tummy and muscular thighs.. but i need to know how to lose about 10 pounds.. can anyone help me!!
Sweety your 14 and you weigh 124 pounds that is good! but if you really need to know how to lose 10 pounds here is how, eat the right foods like apples and bananas and stuff like that! NO chocolate and junk food! Exercise often and try to do it every morning and right before you go to bed and i love to walk around with my friends every nite around 7:00 around town so walking is a great facter! just eat right and exercise often and hun you will lose 10 pounds in a few weeks! Oh and one more thing do NOT starve yourself because as soon as you do and then eat food after starving you will GAIN pounds!

Q: hey my name is kate and i have a problem ...okay well i ride horses and this gives me alot of muscle in my legs and my stomach and arms and muscle is heavier then fat ..so ne ways i was at my friends house well call her "Jenna" and she saw the scale and it was kinda high for our age so she started calling me fat and stuff and i told her "jenna" look its all muscle frum riding my horse ! but she wont listen ! wut shud i do ?please help
Okay kate i am 15 and i weigh 140 pounds because i am a cheerleader and alot of my weight is muscle. You probably don't even look fat like my friends say i look like i weigh 120 but i weigh actually 140. Kate it is only numbers and who cares what your friend "jenna" says? she is probably jealous because you have more muscle then she does!

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I am here to help teens like myself deal with pressure of relationships and parents and sex! Things i go through as a teenager are normal but i can't talk to my parents about them like sex with my boyfriend if i think it is right and if i am ready for it right now. That is why i am here because i know there are other girls and boys out there that have the same problem and i can help.





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