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ok so my hair is like really straight but since i have layers its a little bit wavy. its also thick and a couple inches below my shoulders. i dont know if that makes a difference haha but i just thought it might. ok so the only thing i can do with it is straighten!! it wont hold a curl or scrunch any time i try! do you know any tricks for curling hair (hopefully with a curling iron because curlers taker forever)?? and also how do you scrunch hair? every time i try its looks awful and it just looks like i never brush my hair.. thanks so much for your help!!! (link)
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with a curling iron .. hm. you can always make the ringlets. hair spray them. then pull them apart. but i wouldnt recomend using an iron.
how to scrunch.
after your out of the shower put a little gel in your hair then blow dry your hair 1/2 way. while you are blow drying. take different parts of your hair in your hand and squeeze it in your hand then pull up ward. and blow dry for a couple of sec. and repeat until your head is half way dry.
then put more gel in your hands a scrunch it a little more. and blow dry all the way, using the same scrunching pattern.
when you are all done, you can put some more gel to add a finishing touch.
when you straighten your hair ..to give it a different touch you can part it differently some times. or flip the ends out or under.
it might look cute if you let it dry normally then spray some gel in it and pull your hands down your hair in a zig-zag motion.
well i hope i helped some . good luck
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i like this guy, i dont want to but i do. i say im over him to my friends and i act like i dont care, but underneath it all, i still have feelings for him. we have a history, i guess you can say we liked eachother, but then things got screwed up and he kissed some random girl when he was drunk. that really hurt me but of course i forgived him and i guess we were just friends since that point.. but now he met another girl, a really pretty nice girl, and of course im jealus i want him to stil like me again but i know that will never happen. recently we havent been talking as much, over this stupid hurricane it sorta put a damper in our friendship, i already lost him as a romantic figure, now i guess i just want him as a friend if thats all i can have, but i want to get over him. i dont know what i should do. (link)
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do you guys go to the same school. .maybe you can just start off with a smile in the hallway. then aim? possibly. just talk on there. and really get your friendship up again.
i know what your going through.. im there too. but me and the guy dating for about 7 months.
guys really dont make the first move to be friends.. but they want to.
so you talk to him next time you see him. then move that conversation up to more convos. then maybe hang out some time.
you said you guys would never date. but you can always be best friends.
good luck with this .
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ok,
well i havent warn a tampon yet and i want 2 try but im afarid that it may hurt or i may get it stuck. so what should and shouldnt i be afarid of??
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you really shouldnt be afraid of anything thing. its just a tampon. you just need to make sure you put it in the right place, and you change it atleast every 3 hours.
good luck.
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ok the love of my life (but he doesn't like me more than a friend) told me last nite that his dad was beating the sh*t out of him by a text message. so i then talked to a mutual friend and she said he said the same thing to her but that he pushed him down a flight of stairs and it really hurt him!! we dont kno weather or not to believe him. like he tells everyone this but none of his guy friends believe him really, just the 3 of his closest "girl friends" (me, and 2 mutual friends). they have different stories (ex: "we were on the phone and he started screaming and crying because he was in the shower hiding from his dad when he heard him coming and had to hang up"). we dont know whether to believe him or not..
once, one of his guy friends told us that he saw his dad smack him REALLY hard once..i dont know where.
please help..what should i do? its serious..also, no one knows what happened to his mom (link)
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yeah..i would believe him. i dont think guys woudl tell the guy friends because it sort of shows that they cant take care of themselfs. and get pushed around by other people. stupid i know.
but believe him . most deff. because if he's joking, or not. he needs to get help. maybe you can talk to a trusted teacher. or school guidence. and tell them (you 3) what he's said. and whats going on. also mention something that there is no mother. just the boy, his father, and any brothers and sisters.
but tell some one.. before its to late.
good luck.
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Okay, as childish as this might sound, I needed to ask it anyways. I'm 15 female, and this other girl named; Rachael is 14. Rachael rides my bus & she was my first friend at school. I just recently moved here, she was/still is a loner too! After about a month she really started to annoy me, & I guess you could say I really don't like her AT ALL. But, she still follows me around, talks to me, etc. I'm not mean to her though - Seen as; I'm nothing like that. I'm seriously one of the nicest people alive. I really don't like to yell at people but if it becomes necessary, then I do. Today on the bus she took my purse because stupid me left it in the seat while I went back to my locker to get a book. When I got back she said, "I threw your purse out the window! Your love took the purse I don't have it!" Which really pissed me off. I asked her nicely for about 5 minutes, then I just lost it and totally flipped out, I really wanted my purse back & I knew she had it. She gave it back 10 mins after that and I ignored her the rest of the way home. When she asked if I was mad at her I said no, because I think it might seem childish if I were to say yes because she stole my purse & I defintiely didn't want to be the immature one in the situation. I was wondering, if I did right? Did it seem childish of me not to talk to her, or do you think that I did right? Thanks!!
Sorry this is so long, but I really needed to know. (link)
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duh. dont talk to her.
When you move, you never find your true friend right away. so maybe you can hold a grudge against her for a little, because what she did was bad. i mean . my friends and i joke around like that some times. but when some one gets mad. you give it back.
so maybe while you are mad at her, you can find some new friends.
but i think your handleing the problem well, trying to be mature. its working.
you had a right to explode on her, and to be mad at her
good luck.
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so i got my hair cut today and i wanted it to my shoulders, she cut it to the bottom of my ears instead and i hate it, i think it looks so bad. is there anything i can do to make it look better?
and please dont tell me to grow it out, thats common sense (link)
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you could do SO much with it. ilove short hair. i have shoulder length on me.. but i want shorter.. but i dont think im going to go shorter.
you can straighten it. but like flip the ends out.. and then put some wax/jel on your hands and run them through your hair flipping the ends out.
you can also make it a little wavey. you can do that by 'scrunching' it.(putting jel/wax in your hands , then pushing your hair from bottom to top. making it curly) while it is 1/2 way wet. then let it dry. it will dry more wavey.. no curly.
you can also just straighten it.. thats always cute
then you can do stuff to the top rim of your hair. like pulling back little pieces and twisting them, then clipping them. and then wear the rest of it down . or up.
i got my hair cut short on accident. and now i love short hair.. maybe you'll start to love it too good luck. and have fun!
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my boyfriend wants me to things (not sex) that i dont really wanna do but i want him to be happy. what should i do? (link)
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talk to him.
dont do anything you dont want to do.
you'll get to that point in some later time of your life
just tell him that you dont want to do it. and if he gets mad. he isnt worth it. because he's only with you to get something out of it.
good luck.
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me and this guy like eachother and we meet at a camp this summer. but we live 2 far away. I am going 2 see him soon. and some people think that hes going 2 ask me out. but i dont know if i would want 2 because of the distance. like i would but the distance is a big thing.
what should i do?
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well these days we have AIM e-mail. pictures online. phone. mail. fax.. anything you could imagin. so it might not be that big of a deal. but if you guys cant SEE eachother atleast 2 times in a 6 month period maybe it just isnt ment to work out.
what i would do is try it. i mean if he asks you out. and you do like him. say yes. and try. and if it doesnt work out, or to stressful. break things off and say you want to be friends. truth is if your not feeling the relitionship.. neither is he.
but if you do date. make sure you talk - almost ever night. on the phone. and talk online. and it will be great . good luck.
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theres a guy that I really like. We havent slept together yet but I was hoping that one day we could be more than friends. Anyways I just found out from one of his friends that he spent a year in jail when he was 18, but wouldnt tell me what for. Anyways, that was a long time ago, he is in his 40's now.
He is a really nice guy and I know he would never hurt me. But I'm really curious as to why he was in jail.
Should I ask him or wait for him to tell me? (link)
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people do change.. and he's probably not who he was when he did whatever.
if he's 40. how old are you?
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how do you know if a guy likes you? (link)
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there are probably over a million ways to know
some are :
he'll flirt with you.
wont look you straight in the eye
gives you TONS of compliments.
play fights with you
smiles a lot
wont tell you who he likes
always wants to be around you
stands by you - instead of his friends
talks about you alot.
and so on and so forth.
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hey is it true that when you sleep you're supposed to take your bra off? (link)
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yeah .. i mean. it doesnt make you get smaller - as some people say. but you should.
i dont tho. i feel extremly unconfy with it off!
but do what you please =]
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What do you say when a guy asks you out. I'm only thirteen, so things don't come naturally. Do you just say "yes"? But that sounds like when someone asks you to marry them!! I think too much about simple things. CAn someone help mee?!?! Don't call me dumb please because you're just stating the obvious!
I'll rate honestly. (link)
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you can say .
sure
yeah!
yes.
i'd love to
duh
.. anything really =]
you'll get better as the years move on.
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I'm 15/f.
Usually a couple days before I start my period, I get this feeling like I really want to beat someone up that I hate. Lol, it's really weird. I'm not psycho or anything. I'm a really really happy person usually, and I'm super nice. It's just like 5 days or so before I start my period I just want to beat someone up. Is this normal? Does anyone else feel like this? (link)
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yeah ... is normal. its called PMS.
its fine. we all have. it just gets worse as you get older
so be ware =]
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i like this guy and he likes other girls and its really pissing me off b/c we flirt and stuff and sometimes we like get mad at each other but i want him to like just me and i have no idea if i should just stop liking him b/c he wants too many girls or give him time and like what makes a guy go crazy for a girl like not obvious things but things that only a girl might know or like use! (link)
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so what is your question .. what should you do?
well i would keep flirting .. and show him why he should like you out of all the other girls.
how to do that ..
flirt, like no other .. but dont act desprate
put everything out there .. but be secretive
do crazy things around him .. but dont be a nut.
haha . hard .. iknow. you just want to flirt, a lot .. and make your self seem avalible .. but then make you self seem bussy. ask him to do something on a day that he might have something, so he'll say maybe on this day - but then you be bussy . then you find a date that you both can do it.. but dont go over board, and be over busy.
tell him a lot about your self .. but leave stuff for him to try to guess. you can talk about your ex boyfriends . or how far you've gone .. but thats it. let him guess all the details. tell him that people think your a good kisser, but make him want to find out him self.
im sorry if none of this makes sence. give me some feedback . i'll try to help more!
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i have a little problem...i am currently dating this guy and i care about him a lot...i think i might even love him. and i know that he loves me. but there is this other girl. it is his ex and i dont think that this girl likes me very much and my b/f is always saying like..."i hate her", "i want her out of my life"...ect...and i feel really bad b/c ik she still likes him. i dont want her to hate me b/c she seems so nice. but i think that she hates me and talks behind my back about me and him...should i confront her?or just let if go? should i tell her all the things he says about her? anything to help please...:-) (link)
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well you've got to remember.. he might just tell you that stuff so you know he's over her. or he wants to appear over her.
so i guess you should confront her, if you feel that would be the best thing to do.
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ok so i am in 8th grade and i currently have like one GIANT binder that i put everything in, and its not working... i lose all my papers and yeah, its not wroking. do yuo have any ideas for what i could use instead of a binder?? i was thinkins maybe a bunch of portfolios, like one for each class?? well anyways what works best for you because i really dont want to fail my classes... thanks soo much! (link)
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well i use a different binder for every class, only because i have to
maybe you can try a 21/2'' binder for every 2 classes. if you dont want to carry around all of the binders.
what also helps is a hole puncher that you can put inside your binder, and a pencil case in each of your binders.
also tab dividers are a good thing to use to keep organized.
hope i helped you. and hope you get your stuff all organized.
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hey i was readin some other questions and i think i read that your sister has a Chic straightener?? ive been lookin all over for it but i cant find it! do you know where your sister got hers? thanks so muchh! (link)
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my sister talked to her hair dresser, and then she got it for her.
so next time you get your hair cut/done ask them.
all the web sites that come up are in a different lag. so i would recomend asking your hair dresser
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My friend heard these really mean girls talking about my other friend and they said things that were really mean. I was wondering if i should tell my friend or not b/c im affraid to hurt her feeling!?
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yeah .. you should.
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heyy! i was just wonderin, hwo do you put on eyeliner??? i wear it alot but i only wear it on the bottom because im not sure how i put it on my upper eye lid... can you tell me how?? also please explain how ya put it on the bottom too, just incase im doin that wrong hahaha so yeah ill make it a question ((how do you put eyeliner on your upper and lower eyelids, especially upper??)) thanks so much!!! (link)
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for the top:
you start right at your lash like, and you draw in a very thin line of liner. then you can make it as thick as you please.
for the bottom:
you can either -
place the liner on the lip of your bottom on, close your eye, and run it along there.
or
apply it right on your bottom lash line
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Any cute ideas for a Halloween costume? Thanks.
13/f (link)
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do you want to be sexy?
because you could be something like a french maid. or in halloween stores, they usually have a section w/ the French maid costumes in it, and alot of other cute, sexy stuff.
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