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Last Update: August 12, 2005
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Is there any home treatments I can use to get rid of odor causing bacteria down there =(
I shower every day, and I clean down there, I've had this problem for two years and I have no idea what's going on. I've never done ANYTHING sexual.
I'm 15 (link)
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I agree - a doctor is the person to ask. Specifically, a gynecologist (I'm assuming you're female). AND TALK TO YOUR PARENTS! They're the best resource you have right now.
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I had a huge choclate craving than i started to cry while eating the chocolate ice cream that was in the freazer. was wrong with me? i have been all grumpy latly and i'll say things i don't mean and i'll think about it later and i'll be "why did i say/do that" or "that was stupid"
nothing bad has recently happen to me! i what should i do?/?/?/?
please i'm so confused (link)
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I hate to say it, but it might be PMS. If it is causing debilitating problems, see a doctor. Seriously. If you're able to cope with it without too much trouble, don't take drugs for it - it's not worth the effects most people don't know about. If you want to know more reasons to try to not take drugs for PMS, contact one of the women's programs instructors (phyllis is good) at MPC (www.mpc.edu).
It may not be PMS, especially if this lasts more than a week. If this happens in a cycle that seems to follow the same pattern as your period, it's probably PMS.
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Okay , this girl moved from another part of the town to the part i live in around last year . I was quite popular in school. I became friends with her because i thought she was sweet and friendly. But since last month ( or maybe even before that ,who knows?) she started backstabbing me , but still acted nice and sweet and oh-so-innocent in front of me .I have been busy for some time because of some commitments i have , so i didn't realise this until last week . None of my old friends talk to me as much as before , and now even when i sms my best guy friend , he'll talk about her smsing him at the same time .And it seems as though all of them like her more than they like me , and my best guy friend ( former ? ) he'll say stuff like :" oh , me and her and ___ and ___ and ___ are real close man " Without even including ME ! And if he wants to go somewhere he'll say :"if she goes , i'll go . " It turns out she's been saying stuff behind my back , and now , SHE'S where i used to be , with MY friends , and MY popularity .Even my crush seems to sorta like her , and pay attention to her like how he used to do with me . WHAT SHOULD I DO ? (link)
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Kill her. Oh, wait, no... that's not right.
Seriously, though, don't get angry and do something you'll regret. If you lose your temper and go off on her, you'll only be doing her a favor. You're what?... middle school, I'm guessing. It's about that age when things like this happen, because most people your age fall victim to the popularity manipulaters rather easily.
Alright, so some real advice. And this is important. Talk to your parents about this - they have more experience in life, and they have more power to do things at a higher level than you can, if they feel it's necessary (like talking to this new girl's parents and asking questions... and knowing what questions to ask).
You need to get ahold of your (potentially former) best friend and get them to step aside with you and talk to him. Tell him what you see going on, how you feel about it, and what you do and don't want to happen.
I figure that either she's spoiled, or doesn't get enough attention at home. Usually people like this are like this because they're hurting inside, so don't hate her, pity her - she'll never be satisfied
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Sometimes when I get a handjob it feels really good, and liquid comes out of my body. The only thing is, it looks and smells exactly like urine.What is going on? Oh, I am a girl. THanks. (link)
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Some women urinate when they get off. I've never heard of women trying to stop it from happening, but if you go to the bathroom before hand it may help.
Then again, it may not be urin at all, just look and smell like it. I've heard (and supposedly seen) female ejaculation. I don't claim to understand it, or what it is, or why only some women do and most don't.
There is always going to be /some/ liquid that comes out - that's to lubricate for sex. Maybe it's just that and you get wetter than most. A sex-ed oriented person can give a better answer (if you are high school, sex-ed teacher; college, if your school has a women's program like mine does, there are a lot of great people to ask these kinds of questions to, but ask who to ask about this before just asking someone in the office).
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I have an anger promblem,i mean i get mad at the litte things.And its hard to stop ,all my friend know i lose it fast.But i've been getin to fights more and more with friends.And they say i need to be clam and stop getin mad.I've tryed siting in my room in the cornor with music on.It works for a bit but,after that i go crazy.
Have any ideas ? (link)
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I, too, have had anger problems - I've blacked out with rage like 3 times, 2 in high school, the last the year after.
What I can remember about blacking out is that I made a conscious decision to do so - I knew I was losing it, and I embraced it, because it felt good. After hurting 2 people who I truly loved and cared about, and ruining a relationship, I learned that this is something I don't want to embrace, no matter how good it feels at the moment.
If you don't black out and are just full of rage, in the middle of it, learn to think. Just stop and think. Walk away if you have to in order to do so. Let your friends know ahead of time that's why you'll be walking away. When you get angry, and you are able to stopp and think, focus your thoughts on relaxing and breathing. THEN think about the problem, without losing your focus on staying calm.
Try seeing things from a logical viewpoint, or from a 3rd person viewpoint. "How does this situation/issue/whatever look to someone who isn't either me or the person I'm mad at?" You don't have to understand or even be able to see it from the other person's (the person you're mad at) point of view, just try to see it from the point of view where you are removed from the situation.
Also, talk to people who know, trust, respect, and look up to. If you can talk to your parents about it (regardless of your age), that's a good first step (or second, or third, or...). If you have a pastor or spiritual leader, going to him/her would be a good idea.
And know that anger is not an emotion - it is a manifestation of the inability to cope with an emotion, whether that emotion is fear, sadness, depression, or whatever. And it does not control you unless you let it.
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Hey guys. OK. I play the guitar and I'm still kinda learning and all but I need to know where you can get the notes for the music like for the songs. As in the sheet music. So if you could tell me a website or where I can get it and stuff, that would be great! Thanks in advance! (link)
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Yeh, sheet music isn't online, but you can find tabs. If you don't like tabs, find a music/instrument store for sheet music.
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I'm kinda scared of shots, and tomorrow i have to go to the doctor to get a physical and i have to get a tetnis shot. im freaking out. do u have any tricks to help me relax or to numb the pain? i need some advice asap b/c the appointment's tomorrow morning. thx!
signed, shot-phobia (link)
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Talk to the nurse/docotr, or someone else who is standing somewhere where you can look at them without seeing the shot. Tell them you're really nervous about shots, and that you need a distraction. I had to get an I.V. and it didn't work on the first hand (nervousness causes veins to go limp), so on the second one the nurse and I were in a conversation and she did it without me noticing much. JUST MAKE SURE YOU AREN'T WATCHING OR PAYING ATTENTION TO IT.
Lastly, make absolutely sure that you relax the muscle they give the shot to - if you don't, you'll be sore for sure. Then use that muscle afterwards, like excersize it a little, flex it, swing it around - this will help with the soreness. DO NOT TENSE IT WHILE THE NEEDLE IS IN.
If you succeed in this advice, it won't be bad. They used to be bad, about 10 years ago, but not anymore.
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Me & my guy friend had a fight like 2 weeks ago, then last week I called him to apologize (it was nothing big i swear...just stupid) and i don't think he was happy to hear from me. He went to out of town for a few days and just got back today and now he's leaving again tomorrow for a week and a 1/2. I havent talked to him since I've called him. He told my friend that he's not mad but he just doesn't wanna talk to me bc he's afraid then I might start to like him. I sent him a text asking him if he was still mad and he never texted me back. I need to know if I should try calling him again TONIGHT before he leaves again bc I really miss him sooo much and I don't want our friendship to be over because of this bc we've been friends for 6 yrs & have been thru soooo frikin much together! HELP PLEASE!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO???? And if I call him, what should I say to get him to listen to me? Thanks! (link)
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Whaaaat? He's not talking to you because he's afraid you'll end up liking him? Pardon me, but that's weird.
If that's his reason, I really can't say. It sounds like it really depends on what the argument was about (like it has something to do with him thinking you're going to end up liking him).
Anyway, call him, and just tell him you're sorry, and that you don't want to lose your friendship. If you do like him (and he knows, or he figures), say that you value your friendship more (if that's true). If he won't talk to you, at least just tell him he's free to get in touch with you if/when he decides he wants to talk to you again.
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Tommrow im going with my grandma to her "Bring your kids to work day", and I have no Idea what to wear?
Any Suggestions?
Thanks;) (link)
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gothfreak's right. Dress appropriate to where your grandma works, but still like your own age/comfortable/et cetera.
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Hey Every One i been dateing my boyfriend 1year and 2 mounts i love him so much he mean everyt thing to me i dont know what i will do with out time well i will just asked the question well here i go he is talking about getting marryed 1 day and have kids soon and he talk about have sex to when ever i talk to him an the phone i say i am ready when ever i see him he say are u ready to have sex then i well just not saying anyting i dont want to loser him he say that he well not but what should i do?
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First, take a grammar class.
Second, decide for sure if you are ready, and don't tell him you're ready until you are sure. When you are able to say that you want to AND are willing to AND won't regret it, then, and only then, say that you are ready, because until then, you're not.
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i gave *frank* head and i kinda used my teeth..like i didnt BITE it but wen i was sucking i i kinda pressed my teeth against it..like he didn complain bu bim wondering if that hurts?
thnx (link)
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It can... it depends. If you rub your teeth down hard, it hurts. If you run your teeth over the bump where the head meets the shaft, it hurts. If you only lightly (and I mean very lightly) run your teeth up and down the shaft, it can feel really nice, but it's so difficult to keep from hurting the guy that it's kinda like, for me, I'd rather have no teeth than risk it.
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I am really sorry this ? is odd and what not, really i am...What does it mean for a guy to "pop a girls cherry" and how can this happen? (link)
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It refers to the hymen breaking (causes bleeding, aka "cherry juice" and "popping the cherry"), but also refers to when a woman has sex for the first time. Both definitions are accurate to different people.
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im really thinking about having sex, yes I know I have thought about everything and I want to. I was wondering that what it feels like to a women 5'4 115 lbs. so like what exactly does it feel like? and like what are the best positions for having sex? if there is anything else about sex that you think i should know please tell me
i know this is a stupid question but i wanna know
ill rate high (link)
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it depends more on the guy than your height/weight - how big he is, and how gentle he is. Now if you have a tough hymen, it'll hurt more, but that's not very common at all.
I've had one woman tell me that her first time was on top and she was glad because she had control of the situation. Then again, a lot of people say that missionary is best for the girl, with her legs raised up to open the hole easier.
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Hi I'm almost 17 and me and my boyfriend he's 17.have been having sex for a while and we've done different positions like him on top me on top him from behind him on top with my legs on his shoulders..But those things are kinda getting old so i was wondering if anyone could give me different kinds of positions..I'll rate high (link)
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Try where you're on you're laying on your side, but he's on top like the regular missionary.
Spooning, if you two can manage to make it work (some people can't).
There's the position where the guys lifts the girl up, she holds on with her legs and arms and rides, or he puts her up against a wall and he controls the movement.
Or (I've only ever seen this one), lean over the edge of the bed, with the bed close to the wall, and he lays on his stomache, but with everything above his waist not above the bed, and his thighs on your butt. He angles his dick down to get inside you and uses his arms to press onto the wall (more preferrably a heavy piece of furnature at the right height so he can grab the surface) and both hold himself up and move his whole body.
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i have so many bug bites...what are some ways to make them not itch other than the medicens at stores?
i'll rate high
thx (link)
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This is what I do:
If you have rubbing alcohol, use that. If you have something that is just alcohol (ie, not a mixed drink) that is a really high proof, that might work as well. Put it on them, and it's ok if they sting - that's good.
I've never compared this to any other methods, but I hope it'll help you. Bug bites suck.
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Okay me and my boyfriend had sex i would say two weeks ago this happened. and while we were having sex and he cum. and after we got done he noticed the condum was not on him anymore. Later when i got into the shower i noticed that i was kinda sore down there and thats when i relaized that the condum was stuck in me. My friends mom said that there is a 99% chance that I could get pregnant is this true.. Lately i have been feeling sick to my stomach but it could always be from the hot wheater.. is it too soon to get a test .. What do i do? do you think i might be pregnant. (link)
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Alright, the chances for getting pregnant are like 40% w/o any protection, decreased just because there was something in there, decreased more if he came /in/ the condom and it fell off, and even more than that if it had spermicide (it would have said on the wrapping or box if it did). So the chances are fairly low. However, it only takes a single sperm cell making contact to the egg, so there's still a chance, no matter what.
It's definately not too early for a preg test. Just make sure you get a good one.
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i saw some of your answers and was wondering how you give a good blow job, ive never done it before but ive had sex. :o)thanks (link)
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Alright, this is a bit of a tough one - everybody's different. But I'll try to answer for what I like, but I haven't had a really good one in a couple years, and then even only from 1 person. So, here goes...
Your personal style is your own, so don't worry about there not being enough detail.
First of all, being deep throated feels WAY better than not. On the other hand, getting puked on because the woman gagged is worse than either, so don't do more than you can handle. There are lots of ways to work on decreasing your gag reflex. But I'll not go into that here.
Next, NO TEETH. I had one from a woman once who used her teeth, and it hurts if you don't know how to do it /just/ right.
Your jaw will get sore, keeping you from giving long ones, which will suck for a while (haha... I made a funny). You'll get used to it after many bj's given. Until then, it's ok - finish him with your hand (and some lube), but do try to push yourself a little so you improve.
Experiment with different amounts of suction.
Don't /just/ bob your head, there has to be other activity. Like play with his balls, lick up the length of his penis, and stroke with your hand if you have to take your mouth off.
Use your toungue. You can flick it just barely against the tip for a nice effect, and when it's in your mouth, keep your toungue against it. The spot right below the head and the front is often very sensitive.
Decide before hand whether you are going to let him cum in your mouth or not, and if so, if you are going to swallow. If not, decide if you are ok with him cumming on you/your face/your breasts. A lot of guys like that. I don't. Whatever you decide, if he's laying down, you need to decide whether you need him to let you know when he's about to cum or not.
As you're moving in and out, rotate your head a little. Not like your shaking your head yes or no, but around his penis. When you think he's starting to build up towards cumming, start moving your head faster (or hand, if you're finishing that way).
If this is your first time giving one, and you've never tasted a guy's cum before (and I'm told different guys taste different, and if they've had alcohol, it makes it kinda sweet), you'll probably wanna not have him cum in your mouth. After he gets off, I'd suggest tasting it just so you know and can decide, though. Most guys like a girl that will swallow, so you might want to keep that in mind.
I personally like it when I don't have to say anything or give any warning, and she swallows. But that's just me. All guys are different.
Oh, and have fun. If you're not comfortable with the guy or the situation, don't do it. Don't try to pretend you have more experience than you do, just be honest if it's your first time. If you want tips, ask if he's ok with you asking for tips in the middle of it or wait until after. If the guy goes not so hard during it, it's ok. It happens to me, and it's not because I don't like it - I get a little close to getting off, and then don't, and it just goes a little soft. Hope that helped at least a little. >^.^
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ok i have a kitten and i sound really stupid when i say this but i don't know if it is a boy or girl.Some people say its a girl some say its a boy and i need to find a name for it. I tried to look at the thing but i can't tell it looks like it could be both atm.I thought maybe i could tell from the tits it has 8 tits! Does anyone know if a male cat has the same number of tits please could someone help.Thank Youxx (link)
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The method I use for my pets is to pick a word or something that I think describes some aspect of it, and find a language that word sounds like an appropriate name in. Like a small dog named 'Chibi', which is 'small' in Japanese.
This can be used to find a name that doesn't depend on gender.
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Well i been with my boyfriend a lil over a year and yes we have had sex.. things arent boring but i love to be a tease i mean ill give it to him after i tease him real bad.. but i want some ideas of teasing him.. i think its so *Cute*.. if you can help thanks bunches i will rate high..and i kno im weird.. (link)
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*is jealous* Uhh, yeh... suggestions... right...
Actually, I love to tease to. It's what I'm good at. >^.~<
So there's always the suggestion touches to start things out, the rubbing your body up against him, kissing him slowly and passionately. I don't know what kind of attention his nipples like, but light touching, licking, and nibbling are always nice. Try biting his neck a little and see if he likes that. And nibbling on his ear. Strip slowly, don't let him "tear" your clothes off in a hurry. And make sure you are the one to remove his clothes. Before you do, do a hardness test - reach down and grab him, make sure he gets plenty hard. If you're sitting on him, grind into him before stripping him.
Once he's exposed, hot breath on his penis will have a good effect. But don't start a blowjob yet. Kiss a trail up his chest and make out with him some more, and let him have some fun with his hands. When you feel like he's had enough of that, move down his body again, and let your breasts rub up against his penis, maybe move your torso around in circles with them just barely touching. Then, to finnish that off, press against him with his penis right between your breast and move down (not too hard, tho, so it doesn't hurt). Do your bj teasing wonders and either finish him off that way, or move from there to more teasing and sex.
Either way, if he likes dirty talk, before you do whatever you're going to do to finish him, tell him things like "I want you to cum in/on me/my mouth/my __(wherever)__"
Another good way for this to climax, I think, is for you to continue until you're so horny /you/ can't take it anymore.
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Ok i got a new dvd palyer and a gift card for a mvoie site.
Will oyu guys give me some ideas of osme movies i sohuld buy
i liek all kinds
THnaks (link)
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If you haven't already checked it out, find some anime. Some good suggestions for non-freaky stuff are:
Trigun (series - comedy, drama)
Appleseed (movie - action, drama)
Outlaw Star (series - action, sci fi, comedy, drama)
Vampire Hunter D/Bloodlust (movie - action, drama, sci fi)
Scrapped Princess (series - fantasy, drama, action, comedy)
For freaky ones:
Perfect Blue (movie - psych thriller, suspence)
Evangelion (series, followed by movies - haven't seen it)
FLCL (series - haven't seen, and some people think it's freaky, some people don't)
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