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hey there
i saw some of your answers and was wondering how you give a good blow job, ive never done it before but ive had sex. :o)thanks
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Alright, this is a bit of a tough one - everybody's different. But I'll try to answer for what I like, but I haven't had a really good one in a couple years, and then even only from 1 person. So, here goes...
Your personal style is your own, so don't worry about there not being enough detail.
First of all, being deep throated feels WAY better than not. On the other hand, getting puked on because the woman gagged is worse than either, so don't do more than you can handle. There are lots of ways to work on decreasing your gag reflex. But I'll not go into that here.
Next, NO TEETH. I had one from a woman once who used her teeth, and it hurts if you don't know how to do it /just/ right.
Your jaw will get sore, keeping you from giving long ones, which will suck for a while (haha... I made a funny). You'll get used to it after many bj's given. Until then, it's ok - finish him with your hand (and some lube), but do try to push yourself a little so you improve.
Experiment with different amounts of suction.
Don't /just/ bob your head, there has to be other activity. Like play with his balls, lick up the length of his penis, and stroke with your hand if you have to take your mouth off.
Use your toungue. You can flick it just barely against the tip for a nice effect, and when it's in your mouth, keep your toungue against it. The spot right below the head and the front is often very sensitive.
Decide before hand whether you are going to let him cum in your mouth or not, and if so, if you are going to swallow. If not, decide if you are ok with him cumming on you/your face/your breasts. A lot of guys like that. I don't. Whatever you decide, if he's laying down, you need to decide whether you need him to let you know when he's about to cum or not.
As you're moving in and out, rotate your head a little. Not like your shaking your head yes or no, but around his penis. When you think he's starting to build up towards cumming, start moving your head faster (or hand, if you're finishing that way).
If this is your first time giving one, and you've never tasted a guy's cum before (and I'm told different guys taste different, and if they've had alcohol, it makes it kinda sweet), you'll probably wanna not have him cum in your mouth. After he gets off, I'd suggest tasting it just so you know and can decide, though. Most guys like a girl that will swallow, so you might want to keep that in mind.
I personally like it when I don't have to say anything or give any warning, and she swallows. But that's just me. All guys are different.
Oh, and have fun. If you're not comfortable with the guy or the situation, don't do it. Don't try to pretend you have more experience than you do, just be honest if it's your first time. If you want tips, ask if he's ok with you asking for tips in the middle of it or wait until after. If the guy goes not so hard during it, it's ok. It happens to me, and it's not because I don't like it - I get a little close to getting off, and then don't, and it just goes a little soft. Hope that helped at least a little. >^.^<
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