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I'm Jaz. I'm 17. I love photography and writing. and I've gone through a lot with self-injury, depression, and guys. I hope I can help you ask much as possible. I will give the most honest answer.

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my friend is having a party where you dress as your favorite movie character....i have blonde hair so i was thinking elle woods....but do u guys have any other ideas? thanx i rate hiiighhh

Evan Rachel Wood as Tracy in the movie Thirteen.

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does anyone know a website that has chain letters like those kinds that have you write numbers 1 - 11 and out your crushes name blah blah blah ... and then haves you make a wish & send to like 10 people in the next 15minutes?

write your own. even though they are annoying as hell.

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we all know that the more you shave, the darker and thicker the hair comes in. well every time I shave my bikini area, it comes in darker and thicker and appears in more areas the more I shave. I was wondering if I could wax it, also to prevent the red little bumps I get every time. you know how you can go out to a beauty supply store to buy home eyebrow wax kits? can you use those for the pubic area? also, those who have tried waxing down there, does it keep the hair off way longer? thanks.

It doesn't come in darker or thicker. That's a myth.


*edit: you gave me a one..why? god. i was telling you the truth. guess you want lies.

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my boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months and we're both religious and waiting for marriage before we have sex. recently we've been really open and getting comfortable with eachother. we've been talking about sex a lot on the phone, not us doing it, just positions and what feels good. last weekend I jerked him off, and afterwards I got really upset. then yesterday we had dry sex. it was just like the real thing just with our pants on. After every time we do that stuff we promise eachother we won't do that again, but everytime we're in a bedroom it happens. Please help I'm so upset & disappointed in myself and it's so hard to not do these things with him cause I trust him so much. But we're only teenagers and I dont want to do it, plus its against my religion. He never forces me to do anything, I just do it... help =[

Don't go in bedrooms. That's the best you can do. Maybe realize when you're in the middle of doing whatever, think about your religion, and stop what you're doing no matter how good it feels.

that's the best advice I can give you because I'm never been in that situation.

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Does anyone here know about Wet 'n' Wild Kohl Kajal eyeliner? I was considering getting some but I wanted some info first. Does it smudge? Is it good? Some info on it would be really great

i never liked the wet'n'wild brand. but I've tried so many eyeliners I can't even remember why I didn't like that brand.

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Well This Is Goin To Be Long. I'm 15 a Female...and me and my ex just recently broke up we dated for a 1 yr and half..i did 1 thing wrong. i was drunk and selfish didnt no wat i was doin and we broke up..i swear up and down that i love him..he said were history were through he never wants to talk to me again...well i got a msg on icq last night..sayin him and his sister is after me..so i msged him back..and he threatened me and *ALL MY FRIENDS* which is pretty much the hole county. and he said for us to show up at his house and if we didnt we was pussys..well we didnt show up..cause we didnt have a way..and because half of my friends is on vacation. so now his sister said that she gets her liscence monday..and that i have it coming. and shes gonna stomp my ass..and she said for me to watch my back..well she said that i threatened her when i didnt..the only thing i said is if u come up to my house and try to fight me youre gonna get it..she goes thats gonna look great in the police records..well shes 18. and shes already been in jail once..and her brother (my ex) beated me and everything..what should i do???..bout the hole thing...the fight and gettin threatened..should i take a compliant thingy out on her and her family for threatening me..

PLEASE HELP

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Go to the police about it. If you have proof (the conversation), show it to the police. And just because she gets her lisence, doesn't really mean a thing. Just go to the police, if you have the proof.
and if he abused you, he can go to jail for that too. take some legal action.

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My friend weighs like 70lbs and she can't gain weight and she just turned 12!!! Is this normal? ( oh yea and she eats like a PIG)

completely normal. I weighed the same thing at 12...except that's when I started gaining weight..haha yeah. she just has a fast metabolism.

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y do guys like sex so much?

hormones and they are just more open about it, i'm guessing.

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my bf && i have pretty much made if a habit to talk everynight past midnight. i have my cell on vibrate (i have free min) & he calls from his house. we hadnt gotten caught after 3 nights of that but today when my dad woke me up, he saw the phone on my bed & asked why so i said it vibrates at night b/c i was still half asleep. i dont know what else to tell him if he asks! ok so we are on a plan that we share and he pays...will the time & number of the call show up on the bill? please help! any info is important!!

Use your home phone. nothing shows up then unless it lond distance.

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is it wrong if you are 15 yrs old and have a 25 year old boyfriend??everyone tells me that its wrong..

it's wrong and illegal.
well, just don't have sex and I don't think it will be totally illegal.

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i have a boyfriend that ive been on and off again all summer long and i think that i finally realize that he is using me and he doesnt really care about me, and yesterday he kept getting in my pants and i kept telling him not to and he seemed mad at me and kept doing it,i think its time for us break up,wat do u think??

he's a jerk and horny. break up with him. and STAY broken up.

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Do you think that it is wrong to talk to an ex while dating someone else? I am with this guy right now and he doesnt trust me so he went into my cell and checked my text messages and found that an ex had been text messaging me. We are in a big arguement now about weather or not its ok to talk to an ex. Please help

yeah it's ok to talk to your ex as long as you aren't flirting with him or anything. I have always stayed friends with my exs (except one) and my b/f doesn't care.
you need to explain to your boyfriend that he can trust you. if he doesn't trust you, it's not worth it. you need someone that can trust you without doubts.

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WHat do you do if your boyfriend wants to do something sexual with you but you dont feel ready at the moment??

tell him: no.

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hey! i'm on a healthier diet because i know i have been eating too much crap! i had a good dinner around 8 oclock and haven't ate anything since, since i know it's bad for you! and it's now around midnight, and my stomach hurts really bad! why does it hurt?

maybe you're....tired!!

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ok i have this b/f and we've been together for a year and it was just my b-day and he got me this really cute bracelet and i love him so much and he loves me.... i think. and my ? is well for the past couple monthes we havnt seen eachother at all except for 2 times and i jsut wanted to know if i should dump him because i never see or talk to him. altho i know school is coming up but i still dont see him that much in school and i wanted to know if somone could please tell me like what to say to him and should i give my bracelet back? please help i'll rate high

Just call him. It's not that hard to pick up a phone and dial his number. If you love him, talk to him.

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ok i turning 13 this year and i am really tall(5'5) I weigh about 20lbs over what i am so puppose to weigh...i have tried almost every diet (weight watchers jenny craig south beach ect.) and this year i want to look good. So what are some eating habbits or deits can i use to lose weight???

thanx

If a doctor said you're overweight, ask them what you can do about it. And guess what!? Your 13! You're growing still. Settle down, you're fine. Just eat correctly and exercise, but DON'T over do it!

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I'm 14/f
I think im fat and I wanna lose weight. I don't eat breakfast or lunch and barely dinner. All my friends are worried about me and try to get me to eat but I just say i'm not hungry. My question is, is this that serious and that unhealthy? Thanks!

If you don't eat, your body starts collecting fat. And if you don't eat breakfast, your metabolism will slow down, then you'll be fat.
You're 14. Don't worry about being fat. Really. I'm 14 also, and I think I could lose a bit of fat on my body, but that's how every girl thinks. I just try eating as healthy and correctly as possible and exercise.
So yes, it's serious AND unhealthy.

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My boyfriend & I haven't really talked about the subject of "love". We've known eachother a while & we were friends prior to dating & I think I love him. I know 13 is young so I'm not sure. Is there anyway to bring it up to him? Will it just come up in a conversation one day? There have been certain things he's said that leads to me thinking that. For example, we got into this big fight (just a few weeks ago ... yes, we were dating) & I said "Do you hate me?" and he said "no, the exact opposite... do you feel the same way?" and I said "ya." Does that sound like he was talking about love or just the common liking we have for eachother?

I'd have to say that you're never too young to love, but to find True Love, possibly. It all depends...age to me means nothing.
He probably meant love. Why don't you ask if he loves you? Tell him to tell the truth and ask him, but assure him you have no doubts and you just wanted to know.
Either that, or wait for it to come up.

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Does everyone find someone that they love and that loves them?

Not always. But there is always flaws in Love. and that's what makes it Love.

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i think this weekend my boyfriend and i will start having oral sex..i've never done it before but he has and he's had sex before....i don't wear thongs.. but yet i don't wear big grandma underwear..they're exactlylike thongs.. like with the strings around the hips and all.. but instead of the string up my ass, it's just all covered..i'm scared that his other girlfriends wore thongs and stuff and that when he sees i don't he'll think i'm like a looser or something...do you think it matters.....or do guys REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY prefer thongs and totally hate like thekinda underwear i wear

I don't think he'll care...

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