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hi im lauren. im 15 & ive had experience with lots of stuff.. so i can answer pretty much any kind of question =]

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My boyfriend and i have recently had sex, and yes i know ur first time is supposed to hurt, but after my cherry popped it was fine. But i'm just wondering, how does sex ever feel good for the girl? especially when the clit isn't in or really near the hole where the penis is supposed to be inserted? is it always going to feel that way .. HELP!

yeah it wont always hurt. it feels good for the girl if the guy hits a certain spot like inside (g-spot)

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If a guy cums on your clitoris and you are a virgin, What are the chances of you being pregnant?

yes there is a pretty big chance of you being pregnant. the sperm came in contact w/ you and some of it could have gotten in you. it is possible to get pregnant if the hymen isnt broken.. sperm can still get in you. the hymen doesnt stop anything. it isnt blocking anything from coming in.

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I like breasts being a guy and all and well my friend whom im talking to moving towards a relationship with lets me suck hers. And shes like a D cup i was wondering if her breasts have holes in them because i usually suck the breasts but not exactly on the nipple or do they form when you are preganant and if she does have holes will liquid come out in my mouth? if so what is it? and if not is it just air im sucking and is it pleasureable? and also what are ways to make the sucking more pleasureable or some techniques?

whatever dont listen to the person 2 below me. its ok to ask questions like this on here.. thats why theres a sex category. and this is a good place to ask because you can do it like anonymously. ok anyways..

-yes they do have holes in them
-no liquid wont come out in your mouth.. that only happens when girls are pregnant. and hopefully she isnt.
-youre not sucking air.. youre sucking her boobs right?
-from my experience its pleasureable..not all girls like it though so maybe you should ask her?
-maybe lick and suck.. and you said you only like suck her boobs but not her nipple.. you could like suck her nipple too.. and you could also like lick down towards her stomach or up and kiss her neck or something

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Can a virgin become pregnant? i am virgin ( still have the hymen intact) but have had done a bit of foreplay with my boyfriend which includes slight insertion ( placing "it" on the lips). My question is can i get pregnant even though i am still a virgin.

yes you can. if cum or pre-cum gets in you any way.. whether its from having sex, or what you did, or if you give him a hj and it gets on you somehow you can get pregnant.

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15/f

the coach at my skool wants me to be a personal trainer for the football team he said id get to ride with them to the football games and that id only have to work on the night of the game. it sounds awesome but i have no idea what a persoonal trainer does. the coach said id only have to record the game and put up laundry is there anything else that a personal trainer does for their first year?

yeah it sounds kind of like you just help with whatever they need. and you get to be around hot football players.. thats always good ;) haha

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I'm really confused as to why all of these teenagers on here keep saying that they like this guy, but they want to get to know him. I don't understand how you can like a guy that you don't know. Maybe I'm just not shallow, but I'm 14 and that's the age that most people who post those questions are and I've never liked someone without knowing them first. I mean aren't you suppose to get to know someone and then decide you like them. Every hot guy that you see isn't someone you like, right? I mean I only like guys that I know and I like them based on their personality. Sure, I think guys are hot, but I don't like them. I don't even know them. lol I guess what I'm asking is if I'm weird or what?

no i COMPLETELY agree. theres tons of girls on here that are like i like this guy but he doesnt even know i exist.. that doesnt make any sense to me. how can you like someone without knowing their personality and how they act towards you? i like guys that like flirt w/ me and have cute personalities and stuff. i mean they have to be like somewhat hot but like if they have NO PERSONALITY WHATSOEVER then theres no way i can like them. sure, i think some guys ive never met are really hot.. but i dont like them like that. that just doesnt make any sense to me.

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15/f

ive never exercised a day in my life cauz im naturally skinny but im starting to get a little pudge below the belly button, is ther any way i can get ride of that with out using exercise equipment?

do lots and lots of crunches
and do different types
do like 25 regular
then lean your legs to one side and do 25 more
then lean your legs to the other side and do 25
then lay on your back and lift your legs up 25 times slowly.. not really high up though just like halfway up

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i know i should have a condom whenever i have sex to prevent STD's and other things, but is it okay to have sex in the shower?

well.. i wouldnt. in the shower its more likely to slip off and then you can get stds or you can get pregnant. i mean if you arent gonna listen and still do it then be really really careful that it doesnt slip off.

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16/f

HEPL! im a plan looking girl with naturally dark red hair, glasses no butt what so ever, DD's, im about 5ft 5", and i only weigh 120lbs, i sound like a pretty chic dont i? all my friends say im pretty, heck even my guy friends say im pretty. but even when i meet some guy for the first tim e he wont do any thing i mean he'll talk to me and stare at my boobs but he'll say he'd rather be my friend instead of my boyfriend. i dont want to be the girl guys only want to be friends with i want to be the girl everyon wants. is there any way
for me to make myself more desireable in the guys
eyes ?

you sound like a pretty girl and the right guy for you will come in time.. i know thats probably not what you want to hear though. you shouldnt change yourself for anyone but if you REALLY feel the need to become more attractive to guys then heres a few ideas:

-maybe get contacts instead of glasses because most guys find it like 'nerdy' when girls wear glasses
-if you wear really modest clothes maybe wear clothes that show off your body more
-not that many guys like completely flat butts.. maybe do some exercises to get more muscle on your butt so you will have SOMETHING there

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I'm in the 10th grade and I'm having my A.P Euro exam on wednesday...the first one...and I'm really scared. does anyone have any clue at all how to study for these tests? Are they hard? :|

and also...do you think its stupid..if I can't do well in that class...for me to drop out and get an elective or something? >.<

I'm so so so scared.. Help? :| much appreciated ;_;

i would use notecards. im in an AP history class and im the same age as you. notecards usually help me the most. just go over the information a lot and study with your friends or something too. i dont think you should drop out. if you work hard you should be fine.

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is it wierd to like a guy thats 3 years older than u
for ex
if ur 13 and hese 16 ??

thanks

no its not weird at all. my parents are 13 years apart. that means that when my dad was 13.. my mom was a baby. yeah its kinda gross to think of it that way but its not that big of a deal when you get older.

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Coming from a guys penis, is pre-cum and lube the same thing?

nope. pre-cum is like what comes out before he cums. and lube is something that like makes sex easier.

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i heard people say that you can't wear white after labor day or is it veterans day
-which holiday is it, labor day or veteran's day
-why can't you wear white after
-what happens if you wear white

people say that you cant wear white after LABOR DAY. its just because white is more of a summer color so most people dont wear very much white after labor day. nothing happens if you wear white.. you can still wear it.

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I have used just about every product there is out there and it seems it does not help my acne out at all. Should I try proavtiv? Does it really work?

use duac topical gel. look it up online or something. it works really well.

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on the episode of degrassi when craig leaves for his music stuff.. at the end he sings this song.. what is it called and do they have it on itunes?

help is appreciated

im not sure which song youre talking about.. i dont remember which song he sung then. but it might have been "im in love" or "what i know" and i dont think you can get them on itunes. you can only get them on programs like limewire.

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ok so im 5' 15 1/2 years old & almost 90 lb.s my doctor says im still rly under weight for my age & height but when i gain weight its all going to my stomach. i tried situps everyday but nothings happening. any other way to lose weight in your stomach?? =/

90 lbs. isnt underweight for someone whos 5 feet
but try doing situps in different ways like turn your legs to the left side and do 25 and then turn them to the right side and do 25 then do 25 in the middle and then lay on your back and lift your legs in the air 25 times. that should help

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me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a year now his name is jared. Hes great our personalities go really good together and im 100% comfterable around him the one thing is im so bored with our relationship but i dont wanna end it cause i love him and i dont think i can act more myself around anyone else. i have this good friend Luke who ive been friends with for a while he has the best personality ever and hes tons of fun i kinda have a crush weve alwayse been kinda close the thing is that hes not as good looking as jared and hes big like a teddy bear lol. i think that if i dumped jared id regret it but if i stay i might be wasting time? idk what to do should i stay even though im bored or should i try new things?
help??

no no no no dont break up with him. i was in the same exact situation. you will regret it. he will probably get mad at you and you might lose him completely. i would just wait it out for a little while. every relationship goes through rough patches. try to talk to him less/ see him less for a little while and then the next time you see him you will be more excited. try new things in your relationship. take it to the next step is what i guess im trying to say.

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Hi I'm 27 weeks pregnant with a girl. Her first name is going to be Riley but I need help coming up with a middle name. There are so many names that go good with it but me and my boyfriend can't seem to agree on any. Any suggestions? Please no stupid answers.

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is there any way of telling a guys penis by his height n wieght?

cus i might be having sex with my boyfriend, n hes tall n skinny n i wanted to know if there is anyway i would be able to know how big?

(if it helps hes caucasion)

okay usually taller guys have bigger dicks..

but anyways.

find out his shoe size, divide it by 2 and add 1.
that is usually pretty acurate.. its worked for all of the guys ive talked to within like 1/2 inch.

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how do you kiss with braces,

like i herd if you have them you can cut peoples lips and stuff like that, but how do you prevent that


and does haveing braces effect making out?
if so what can i do to avoid it

it doesnt matter if you have braces. it honestly doesnt affect kissing AT ALL. dont even worry about it. they wont cut peoples lips.. even if they did touch their lips (which they probably wont).

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