I can't really say anything too negative about my life. I just don't want to be here honestly. Don't see a point. Please, i don't need anyone advising me that pushing through life is worth it. it's not. and no relgious comments either. thanks.
You've come to the wrong place anyway. First of all, no one is going to give u advice on how to kill yourself. And literally no "social group" would. This is a site to help people in a positive way. So if you're looking for advice from people who don't care about others, then you've come to the wrong place. If you're looking for people to go behind their morals and say something that will probably haunt them forever, then once again, wrong place. :)
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This boy is sleeping at my house and I really like him and he likes me I want to tease him and give him a boner but not have sex, to just keep him begging for more the next time. How do I do it? -plus I'm kinda shy :'(
Stay in his room really late and talk to him. And wear some nice clothing so that it'll make you look sexy. That way he can make the moves, even though you started it, technically. ;)
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Alright, so my best friend from high school and I attend different colleges, about an hour away from each other. We occasionally make the trip to each other's school to hangout but it only happens once in a while due to lack of money and busy schedules. Anyways, I've just moved into a new apartment and my friend has been saying how she really wants to come see my new place and I've been wanting to go down there to see her and hangout. Well I found out tonight that she's in town (where I go to school/live) and didn't get ahold of me. I found out through a mutual friend of ours who she's been having a "thing" with for a year or so now (he's a guy, by the way). But they're all just hanging out and whatnot, so it's not like a date or something. He mentioned it to me and when I asked her she said she was "literally just going to ask if I had to work tomorrow" even though we had been talking all night. I suppose I don't really need advice, just clarification as to if it's a valid reason to be upset with her. Thanks! :)
I think you guys are slowly growing apart unfortunately. College is a time where you meet a complete different set of people and your whole lives change.
Or maybe she's at you for something you probably didn't tell her.
If not, just ask her then, if she's your best friend but yeah it is a valid reason to be mad.
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I have major commitment issues when it comes to a relationship. I like him I do but I always try and find something wrong with him. HELP!
I wouldn't say that you had a bad past but I think it's because you want the perfect guy. And lacking in something can lead to potential emotional damage somewhere down the line. I am like that too. Some of the most weirdest things can turn me off from a guy I like that I wouldn't mind in someone else. Whatever you do, don't ever make it a big deal infront of him.
Remember, no guy can be ideally perfect. Relationships are consisted of people with flaws but it's not something you hear about often because people don't talk about it because they've learned to overcome it.
Just try to keep a positive mind about it. And make sure you're keeping positive for the right reasons. :)
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How can I tell my mother I want to go to the gynecologist by myself without telling her that I'm not a virgin?
I have been to the doctor before when I had some menstrual problems earlier this year, but she didn't perform a full check-up and I lied to her about being a virgin.
The reason I ask this question is because when I went to the doctor before, my mother refused to allow me in alone. She forced me to sign the form that allowed her to accompany me.
You should probably just tell your mom. Even if the law states that you can legally not have your mom there, when you get back home, it could be a different story for you.
If you don't want to tell your mom and still go then how about a good friend take you there, or another family member you trust and will take care of you if anything goes wrong. :)
Hope you feel better!
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this is really weird but I feel like I"m addicted to my mom. I usually miss her when I'm not with her. I'll text her or call her. It's like something is missing when she's not around. We have always been close. But now, it's more than that. Before, it was like I could talk to her about anything. Now, it's more like I'm scared or worried when she's not around. It's not that open and free relationship. It's more like trapping because I feel the need to be with her all the time. I don't understand why this would happen to me. I mean, I do go places without her. And when I'm with friends or something, I'm fine. It's more when I'm alone that I want to be with her, specifically.
the problem is that she has this really big attitude. When she gets mad at my grandmother or something, she takes it out on everyone. Even me. She's also very controlling. She likes to control people, especially me, including my hair color, nail color, the clothes I wear. But she claims it's because "she knows what's best." I know what's best for me too, I'm 20 years old. She also gets angry when there isn't enough money for things. But, she doesn't REALLY go job hunting. Then she tells me I better go calling my interviewers to follow up. And I understand... but I'm in college and doing the best I can. Trying to get good grades, so I can go to grad school.
I don't know what to do. most of the times I'm upset it's because I'm fighting with her or unhappy about something she did. Yet, I can't stay away. It's like I need her all the time.I want to move out and maybe get my own apt and start my life and I'm excited for it. But, will I really be able to live there without my mom?
Well part of growing up is to learn to live without your parents. Currently, I'm making the same transition too. My parents did almost everything for me. I'll be 20 soon and already, I'm kinda on my own. I guess the thought of being alone scares you. Trust me, it scares me too. But being alone teaches you how to fend for yourself. Your mom won't be around forever so it's best to start. You don't have to completely move out of the house but you could start to be a little more independent with your life, such as doing your own chores, without almost any help from your mother. Try to take care of yourself and consider your mother's only duty to you is to provide a place to sleep and whatnot. If you can handle that, then you wouldn't be as scared. Hope you feel better about it! :)
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Hello, I am 32 yrs. old mom and have a kid of 4yr old. Soon after I delivered I started taking 'Meliane' contraceptive pills, meaning that I have been taking these pills for around 4 years. Now, I want to conceive again, I consulted my gynecologist and he said everything was ok with me and I could go ahead. He put me on Folic Acid. I have stopped taking the pills since 3 months, but nothing has happened up till now. My cycle has become longer since I stopped the pills, it has become around 40 days, and I am quite unsure as to when I am actually ovulating. So I started to use ‘Ovatel’ ovulation Test soon after my last period which started on last 14th July 2011. Surprisingly, 25 days after my periods I don’t seem to be ovulating (according to the test). Could it be that the test is wrong or have I stopped ovulating? The fact that I took ‘Meliane’ for 4 years, could this be the reason why I am not conceiving again? I am really desperate and stressed about this situation, please advise me.
Thanking you in advance,
Razia
I wouldn't say you stopped ovulating but you probably diminished your chances of actually conceiving. You might have to see your gynecologist again and ask. The best thing to do is to keep trying.
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ok, well about 3 weeks ago me and friend thought that it would be cool if we bleached the bottom half of my hair to make it very blonde, so i have dyed black hair with bleach blonde underneath, well because my hair is so dark, we had to bleach it a few times to make it blonde. but now it looks like my hair is ruined on the bottom, it is no longer soft and it just looks horrible. i straighten the rest of my hair but the blonde just barely straightens and the ends looks just horrible and i dont know if i should just dye it back to black and if it would fix what the bleach has done or if there is some product that i can buy that will make it look a whole lot better. please help me i am freaking out because i am very afraid that i ruined my hair!!
You definitely damaged your hair. See a hair specialist for immediate help. Don't dye it back black yet until you speak to someone. You have killed all the chemicals that hold your hair up to make it strong. Cutting it off is the way to go. You should have just dyed it blond. But, go to a specialist to get treatment asap.
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I have been having bad acne for 9 yrs, Im 17 yrs old and its really bad. The bumps on my face get really big and they are very painful. I have tried everything you can think of in the stores for acne. Some of the medications only work for a while and then my acne just comes back and gets worse. I get really big bumps around my nose and my chin. I have some right now and they are big and painful. These bumps burn when I try to put acne medication on them. The bleed and sometimes they are really red and embarrassing. I wash my face and use everything. Ive tried proactive, witch hazel nitrogen and everything you name it and it doesn't work. Ive been to the dermatologist and she gave me medicine but it worked for a while and the acne just got worse, she told me that my face got used to the medicine and that's why the medicine stopped working. She gave me some new medicine and it doesn't work its pill and lotion. I can only go to the dermatologist 2 times a year and I cant pay for high priced medicine. I have been getting teased since elementary school and now school is about to start back and Im a senior and I don't want to be made fun of this year. People call me zit face and pimple face, Ive cried sometimes because of that, some people treat me like I have a disease.
My acne kind of looks like this: http://www.myskincure.net/acne111.jpg
It gets like this sometimes: http://dermimages.med.jhmi.edu/images/cystic_acne_conglobata_1_050322.jpg
I used the 3 step system that clinique has. My acne wasn't THAT bad but I had it since I was around 12. I have very oily skin and the 3 step system worked pretty well. I hear that estrogen flow in your body is really good for acne. I have a theory that it will help clear your skin. One doctor recommended taking birth control pills for acne to help the skin, but that's an alernative treatmeant if you want to look into it. For now, speak to a represenatative at clinique to help you. They're affordable and they really know their stuff!
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I'm a fourteen year old girl and he's fourteen guy. We've been really close friends for almost a year now, and he trusts me with ANYTHING. We even have little pet names for each other, and we aren't going out.
But he recently said that he tried pot, and he likes it. I know what it can do to you, and I'm not trying to oppose it, because it's ultimately his choice. I told him to be smart about the situation, and I'm so scared for him. I'm scared that he won't be the same guy I love as a brother and he'll slip away from me if he does it. But I'm scared the same thing will happen if I tell him not to do it...what should I do?
I can understand that you're scared but the best thing really is to tell him how you feel. Being so that you guys are 14 doesn't necessarily mean you'll be friends for life considering you guys will go through lots of changes in the future to come. Just always remind him that you're going to always be there for him whenever he needs it. That's probably as much as you can do right now.
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do girls squirt when they come
Not all of them do.
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if u Like A Boy And he Has A Girlfriend But His Girlfriend is One Of Your Friends i Really Like This Guy And We Have Been Talking And he Make Me Feel Special But Now i Feel Like Im quility And I Love Him But .... i Strat Choosen Like I Dont Want Him Than I Do . What Should i Do ??
Well if your friend is your friend, then you should respect your friend's relationship. You should continue to act like you don't want him because it'll just cause problems. Do you want to lose your friend over a guy? You probably wouldn't have a happy relationship anyway if your friend found out and its best to not be known as "the other girl."
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So theres this boy and i like HIM but recently, he grabbed my butt. I was excited but i want him to like me for Me and not my butt. What should i do?????
Yeah, I suggest you find a guy with some more respect for women because that's a big no-no.
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How do I get a guy to like me. The thing is he recently broke up with his girlfriend and is on vacation in another state. I want to wait to flirt and talk to him when he comes back since he's busy but I have no idea when he's coming back. I texted him ad he texted back but stopped texting(I'm guessing he was busy). We had this "thing" I guess last year but it never went as far as a relationship. Do you think if he liked me once he'll like me again? We've both dated since we last had our "thing" haha. Last time we saw each other in person he was very touchy and flirty but was with someone else. It's kinda hard to tell how someone feels through text. Should I wait until school starts or until he comes back or not wait since someone else might steal my chance(again)
Chances are if he's very flirty with you while with someone else, then he might do the same with you, if you guys actually get together. I think it's probably best to wait it out to see if he really wants you, rather than rushing it.
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i live in a country but it doesnt seems to be my homeland though i am born here...i dont know but i have a strong feeling that i am an american and i want to die for usa...and i feel uncomfortable in this country...plz help me..am i really an american.?.and my parents are black and i am completely an white..
I don't really understand what you're trying to ask me. But if you wan't to feel more "American" then you can surround yourself with lots of American-items, like flags and ornaments. Also, to be part of something means to act like it too. Act "American". Be a good citizen to everyone you know.
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Why do my breast hurt and ver tender.
You're probably going to get your period very soon. It usually happens.
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I am a 16 year old female. I am going to be a senior in high school. When I was back in jr high, I had a favorite teacher and it was quite evident that I was his favorite student. We were so close, he was like a second dad to me, how I saw it anyway. Other students were jealous that they didn't get the treatment from him that I did, so badly that the only thing they could come up with is that we were "together". Honestly, from an outsider looking it, it would look as if we were dating. But he would have no intention of dating a 7/8/9 th grader which was what I was in jr high. I am now in sr high and we still stay in contact.
-He comes to my school to watch over some teachers and we'll steal quick glances at each other
-He'll tell me he likes when I visit him during the school year on my walks home
-I'm the only student that during my years of having him and now not having him that is able to call him by his first name
-He asks me for my opinions on his teaching lessons (about what would interest the kids because I had him and he knows that I would be honest if his lessons were boring)
-He asks me about my personal life and he talks to me about his which is something he never does with other students
-One time when I visited him it was during a practice with the kids so I sat there at his desk and saw how the kids were doing and then I went back again with my friend the following week and he didn't let us sit in but he let me sit in alone the week before
-The first time I visited him was after Christmas break with a friend of mine and she asked if he liked his late Christmas present and he said "I love my fantastic Christmas present" and she said after we left that he hadn't looked that happy in a long time.
-The following week, I went alone so he would let me sit in and listen and after every kid had left, he exited his office and was walking out the door to drive home when he saw me standing at the door, he acknowledged that I was still there and asked if I had a ride, if I didn't, he could drive me home. He never offers kids rides home, ever.
He's the only teacher that I still make an effort to see because he was a very important person in my life.
--what do you think about us? more than just student teacher?
I really need to know if you think we are "wrong" because I am going on an 11 day school field trip out of the country and he is the head of the arts, which is what I am going for, so I will be with him everyday. So, are you like everyone else and think we're together or something?
I don't think you're together, but clearly he does have a special liking for you. All I can tell you is to be careful and I know you don't want to ruin your relationship with him, as a father figure, but realize, the moment he crosses the line, he can no longer be that person to you. It's weird how he gives you special treatment. Does he have kids of his own? Because if he does, then I find what he's doing a bit disturbing. Realize that things like these do happen and it turns out to be pretty nasty when everything seems all good and dandy. Sometimes, you might feel that you're that one special case where it isn't so. From the information that you've given me, I'm 60% convinced that what he's doing is a little inappropriate because of how he treated you as a student over the rest of the class and he took extra time to get to know you. I know there is a teacher code of conduct where they are told not to do the things your teacher did. For now, I would still be nice to him, but I wouldn't encourage lots of personal conversation. And I would surround myself with a lot of friends on that field trip. Just keep an eye on him because I do not want you getting hurt. Realize that if his intentions are bad, it all started from the moment you started responding back to him because all of this is a slow process. I hope he's not waiting until you're 18 to make any moves. (Get a boyfriend while you're at it). Please take care of yourself and have fun on your trip. (:
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somedays ago i found a woman aged 43 on facebook who was ready to adopt me..since no one loves me..she was ready to love me..she was single and divorced..she wanted a son and i wanted a mom..everything was going ok..but then i contacted her friend..and asked some question about her,.her friend told her about it..and she got mad at me and now she wants me to stop contacting her..she means my family and my world..i cant live without her..i can do any thing to get her..i love her a lot..plz help me ..i need a mom to love me iam 17 now and my name is brock
Hi Brock.
I don't understand why she is being like this. This all depends on the type of questions you asked her friend. You have to try your best and show her you did it out of love. Then again, you are 17 years old, and a young man and you don't NEED her love. Clealy, she's mad over something small. If she doesn't come back to you, realize that you are capable of making a life in your own. I know it is going to be tough and I do not know your financial situation, but I'm sure there is a way you could work things out somehow. For now, try talking to her even if she doesn't want to listen, because she'll still hear you.
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I had sex on the eighteenth of June, and we used protection. My period has been weird lately, the last time I had it was on the sixth of June, and I expected it to come today or yesterday. Is it normal for it to be irregular after sex or am I just paranoid about getting pregnant?
It's too early to tell. Wait one week more before you take a test.
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I want to babysit because I looove kids but I can't find anyone who needs a babysitter! Do you know how to find someone if so I'd like to know. Thnx. Oh ya and I'm 11.
Well, I see that you like kids but you have to realize that most adults won't want a kid taking care of another kid. Maybe someone who really knows you in your family could use some help. Ask your parents to ask around and see if they know anyone. But remember to take into consideration your age. Most people would see that and already think, she's too young. :/ Im sorry
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