hey. im really skinny so its hard to find tight fitting jeans like i want. i shop everywhere and i cant really find jeans that arent a lil baggy. i shop at hollister, abercrombie, pacsun, nordstrom, marshall fields, some designer stores u havent heard of and more.. and i cant find any good tight fitting jeans. even the slim sizes arent tighter, they just fit better around the waste. where should i shop? thanxx
I'm the same way!Try Rave,Old Navy and Lazarous!I really like the brands Mudd and Paris Blues.Also,L.E.I. brand.Check out www.alloy.com for those! Also check out the Victoria's Secret catalog and check out Delia's,they have some good jeans for different sizes!Hope this helps!! ;)
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ok consider this situation
your rubbing your b/fs "thing" (not in the pants) and you knew he was wet and you really didnt feel it that much and you masterbated in front of him to turn him on am i being stupid or can i get pregnaunt and even if i did have his stuff on my fingers it wouldnt even be hardly any i duno and i also have a problem where im always parinoid........? can some one help me with my parinoid prob and dont say "see a doctor" because i cant im only 15 and i dont want to tell my parents....help?
There is a slight chance you could get pregnant,but it's highly unlikely because sperm can not live outside of the body for a long period of time!!!I'm going to say the dreaded words "See a doctor",lol,BUT go to a place like Planned Parenthood (www.plannedparenthood.com for locations) and they can give you the info you need,they can give examinations and they can get you on the pill or the depo shot.But they don't tell your parents!It's all strictly confidential.While I'm one who's all for having an open and honest relationship with your parents,there are places like this to help you if you don't want them to know.Typically,at your age,services are free or very very cheap at Planned Parenthood.Everything is confidential there and it's much better to be safe by using condoms and another form of birth control such as the pill or shot,then to be sorry later!Hope I helped!!
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okay well im 13 years old and all of my firends have made out with a boy.. I never have... its really weird... my best friend since forever and I WERE the only ones who hadnt made out with a guy untill she went out with this kid joe... so now im the only one who hasnt... and everytime im going out with someone and the subject comes up i get really nervous... idk im just really scared to show affection... like I will hug my boyfriend without a problem but when it comes to holding hands and kissing im scared... i have been kissed but never made out... i know what to do but at the same time i dont please help me!
Kati
Well,first of all,you're not abnormal or weird!!Shoot I was 16 before I had my first kiss!!LoL I'm a firm believer in,kissing and making out,and even having sex,anything intimate with another person,is not something you should rush.Just let it happen naturally!When the time and the place and everything is right,it will happen!But don't be afraid of showing affection to your boyfriend!!Let him know that you're a little nervous and scared,there's nothing wrong with that!Now as far as HOW to kiss,there is no magic way I can tell you to hold your head or move your lips or your tongue.It's a very natural thing.The key thing is to learn to relax and let yourself enjoy the kiss!Hope I could help you some!! :)
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when i tt my boyfriend my stomack flips like when your going down a rollarcoaster it feels really weird is it love?
Hehehe!It's a great feeling isn't it?? It certainly sounds like love to me!!!Enjoy it,it's a wonderful and amazing feeling!! :)
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do most girls shave on the pussy lol?
Hehehe,well I'm not sure about all girls!I don't make it a habit of asking!LoL But a lot do,and it's totally normal and is really a good thing to do!Keep it trimmed up down there!!Hehehe! ;)
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is it possable to get pregnant before you get your first period?
No it's not!!Your period means that your body has begun the fertilization process,which I'm sure you learned all about at school.It is what allows you to get pregnant.So,no,you can't become pregnant if you've never had a period before!!
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i am 14 years old and i am pregnate. my mom wants me to give the baby up for adoption but the father of my baby doesn't want me to give it up. i am 7 months pregnate and i don't know what to do. it is a girl and i am afriad that if something goes wrong and i can't have children again and i give this one up i am never going to have a baby again. what should i do?
Well,at your age,unfortunately the father's don't always stick around!!!But this guy may be an exception,I don't know him!!But because of that risk,it's important to keep a close and open relationship with your mom.Sit down with her and let her know how you're feeling.Raising this baby is going to be very hard,you know that going into it,but if you've already developed an emotional attachment to the baby,and you really feel that you want to keep this baby,express your concern to your mom.Do your homework on teen pregnancy,and all of your options.By finding out as much info as you can you can show your mom that you're responsible.I looked up some sites for you,that I think will be of some help!
http://www.gravityteen.com/pregnancy/pregnancy.cfm
http://www.etters.net/teen.pregnancy.htm
A good one to look at with your mom is:
http://kidshealth.org/parent/positive/talk/teen_pregnancy.html
And always check out www.plannedparenthood.com because they have lots of good info!Talk to your OBGYN about some options and resources like WIC(Women Infants & Children),they make sure that both you and your baby are stocked in food and necessities!I wish you all the best!!!Please keep in touch with me,and let me know how you are!!
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OMG! the creepiest thing happened to me today. i was on aim when someone i.m.s me saying that they are my g/f. from the start i knew it wasnt them. (my girlfreind lives on long island and i live in niagara falls). so i was confused. then all of a sudden this person started naming parts of my life from like 3 years ago. IT WASNT ANYONE FROM MY FAMILY (I JUST KNOW). SO...now im freaking out. i dont know who it could be and how they know all of this info! i never told anyone half the things this person said! what do i do to calm myself down and relax..and can someone explain this?!?! I RATE!!
Well,there are lots of ways this person could have gotten info on you.From any online profiles,someone they know who knows you,etc.Just because they know some info that you really don't want them to know,doesn't mean they're out to kill you or something!Hehe!Block their sn from your AIM,and if you really feel uneasy about it,let your parents know.That way they can put your mind at ease and be aware of the problem.If you block this person,and you keep getting messages from weird screen names,you can continue to not accept those messages,or you can always change screen names and use all of your privacy options to keep them from getting your SN or being able to get thru!!I'm sure it's nothing to be overly worried about.If it continues or gets worse,your parents can also help you to track the person's ISP # and get ahold of the police or the Internet company this person is using!!!Hope I helped some!!! :)
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15 female..been dateing for bout 3 months
me and my boyfriend fight almost every nite! n sometimes they get pretty damn bad! mean we love each other more then anything in the world...and almost all the fights are started by me...and we hate fighting i mean we hate it more then anything in the wrold! and i'm so scared that were going to get into one fight and that will be it! i mean me and him have been trough so damn much! and i'm jst terrified that i'm going to lose him...but he tells me that no matter wat he want leave me...but sometimes the way he gets mad at me makes me think his bout to break up w/ me...but he tells me that he has never got that mad at me....wat can i do to stop us from fighting so much...cuz we hate fighting
Well,since you said most of the fights are started by you,take a look at what it is you're starting fights over.If it's really petty,trivial stuff just try and bite your tongue.We've all got our qualities and habits that get on other peoples nerves,no matter how much they love us! ;) It sounds like he really loves you a lot,and vice versa.Just remember that nothing small or petty is worth losing such a great love and relationship over,think of that each time you feel yourself start to pick a fight.And if you start to get "heated" where one of you is about to start an argument just get up and say "I love you and I really don't wanna argue",and then walk away!!!!Hope I was able to help you out some!!
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Okay well I really need some help. I have been cutting for about a year and the cuts are getting really deep. They have riped my vein and I'm afraid i mite go to far next time. I've been tryihng so hard not to cut but i get these really baddddd urges to do it..is there any help for me out there?
Well,it's always good to keep a good support system around you of friends & family.In the meantime,since I'm not a doctor or a pro,I do know that you can call 1-800-DONT-CUT for information on your options for help,and support,and answers to any questions you may be wondering about it.It's important to know you're not alone!I wish you all the best!! :)
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Omg listen, the other nite at this party we all decided to play truth or dare. Me & my bestfriend were dared to make out(yes, he is a guy!). And we did it. It kinda seemed like it might have ment somethin more because he was really gettin into it...i mean we did it a long time and he seemed really sexual about it! so i dunno things just seem weird now when im around him...what should i do?
Well,that would all depend on how you feel about him.If you know for sure that you don't have any feelings romantically for him,make that very clear from the get-go.You don't wanna give him any false hopes or anything.If you maybe felt a little something too,sit down and talk to him about it.Even if you're kinda,not sure,talk to him.Maybe say something like "You know things have been kinda different between us since we kissed at that party.".Watch his reaction to that,then if you think it looks like he really was into you say something like "What's up with that?" "How do you feel about that?" or somethin like that!!Then take things from there!!!Let me know how it goes!!I wanna hear al about it! Hope I helped! ;)
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Hey Girls!!
I Was Just Wondering If Anyone Had Any Tips On How To Make Your Make-Up Stay On All Day?
Thanks For Any Help!
*.x-Tee-x.*
Well,when you're makeup shopping,look for long-lasting formulas.I like Revlon's lipglosses,and L'Oreal too.A good way to make your lipstick or gloss stay put is to lightly brush your lips w/a soft-bristled toothbrush to get all the dead skin off,and then apply some lip balm before putting on your gloss or lipstick(whichever you use for color).As for things like foundation & concealer,powder is always good.Apply a dusting of loose powder with a big fluffy powder brush.And keep some of those oil-blotting sheets on you for any shine you may get thru out the day!For eyeshadows,look for smudgeproof and creaseproof formulas.Revlon makes some great eyeshadow sticks,and CoverGirl makes great powder shadows.A good idea is to apply a little cream or stick shadow on your lids before applying powder on top.That way the powder has something to stick to.Mascara you wanna use waterproof formulas,and some good smudgeproof eyeliner.Check out Wet N' Wild,and NYC for some good eyeliner.And as always,carry with you some products you might need for touch-ups,like a compact,your lipstick,the powder eyeshadow,and those oil-blotting sheets!!Hope I was able to help some!! :)
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HEY I KNOW YOU ARE 20 AND ALL ANDPORB. DONT LIKE ANSWERN 13 YEAR OLD PROBLEMS!! BUT I REALLY LIKE THIS GUY AND ALL WE HELD HANDS AND EVERYTHING BUT HE DONT LIKE ME!! WHAT SHOULD I DO?
THANKS,
PLEASE HELP
Well,first of all hunnie,it doesn't matter how old you are!!I'm happy to answer anyone's questions if I can help them in any way!! As for this boy,how are sure that he doesn't like you?? Write me back and let me know and then I'll be able to help you a little better!!! ;)
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someone said that condomns dont stop u from getting stds, but i always thought that they did, do they?
Yes,condoms are definitely for preventing STD's.Condoms are approx. 97-99% effective in preventing diseases.They are actually the most effective method of protection from diseases!Definitely make sure you use a condom every time!!Better safe than sorry!!
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theres this song that i know and it goes "it was 1980 somthin in a town that i grew up in.........." do you kno who it's by!!! i rate good plezz help!!
That's "19 Somethin" by Mark Wills.I know for SURE because I have the CD.The album's his Greatest Hits CD.
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Hey..
Everyone says I would make a great model and they say I have all of the perfect features for it..where can I get some info. on this? Thanks! Oh, and by the way..I am a 14 year-old gurl..if this helps at all=)
I am registered with a great site called One Model Place. You can find them @ www.onemodelplace.com!You make a profile with pictures and all your information and it outs you in touch with photographers,and even makeup artists in your area! Photographers that see your profile and are interested in working with you can e-mail you and you can discuss maybe getting together for a shoot to build your profile.Just a tip:if they ask for money up front,RUN!!You want to work on what is called a TFP basis at first.That means Time For Prints.You give them your time,and they give you all of your pictures! Hope I helped some! ;) Good luck!!!
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hey, if you have cut yourself on the arm really deep 3 times and your parents found out so you cant do it again, you do on your chest a couple of times because you really need to but it was only a couple of times and you feel like your gonna die if you feel relieved after does it mean ill end up killing myself? is it a major thing? like do i have serious problem here? ive only done it a couple of times but i cant control myself not when i feel like i really need to. help? please? anyone?
It's never good to cut yourself!!!It does sound to me like you need some help when it comes to cutting.Call this number~~> 1-800-DONT-CUT.They can give you more info on cutting and your options for help!Best of luck!!!
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Alrite I need some help. Basically here's how it goes. My bestguy friend and me are very very close. We hang out like everyday cause we are practically neighbors. And I've known him 4ever. Alrite so lately I notice that he has been like touching me & my bestfriend alot. Not really sexually just putting his hands on us(if you know what i mean)He has touched me before though on my leg and touched my boob on 'accident'. So whenever he goes to touch me, even if its somethin small I tell him not to put a finger on me. He will always go why, why, how come other guys can touch you? So I just needa know if the problem is like me getting older and beingm more 'touchy' about this kinda thing, him going threw puberty, or he might kinna like me! pLeAsE hElp if yOo caN! thanks ;)
First of all,NO ONE has a right to touch you when you don't want to be touched!!If he continues to try and be all touchy-feely,and can't respect the fact that you don't want him touching you,then he's just not worth worrying about.But before you jump to any conclusions that you have to stop being friends,sit down with him and have a talk.Let him know that what he's doing is making you very uncomfrotable,and that you love and care for him as a friend and you would never do anything to him that he didn't like or felt uncomfrotable about.Your best friend should do the same(talk to him I mean).If he just blows you off or says you're over-reacting,it's time to tell him get goin!!You don't deserve to be treated badly,and to be touched inappropriately!!!He may like you and think that that's the way to go about letting you know,but it's not at all!!Or he may just be a jerk!!Haha!That's why it's all the more important to talk to him!!!Let me know what happens!!!
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ok . .well i met 2 amazing guys . .one is 16 and one is 14 . .the 16 yr old guy calls me everynight and we talk till like for 6 hours . .and hes always telling me he loves me and stff . . the 14 yr old is realli nice only he lives in new jersey . . only he comes here every week . the 16 yr old guy buys me stuf . . takes me shoppin he even has a job and a car!~
would it b realli bad if i go out with both of them secretly? or would that b sluty? im just so confused cause i realli like them both and there both so nice! i need help . . lol
No it certainly wouldn't be slutty to date both of them,so long as you make it clear that you are dating another guy!If you really like and care for both of them,you don't wanna lead anyone on or hurt anyone's feelings! Long distance relationships are tough,and it will be especially once school starts again!!So if you don't think you can handle that,it's probably best to just remain friends with him,and speak on the phone or online.From the way you talk,it sounds to me like you really like the 16-yr-old a lot!!!!But remember it doesn't matter about the gifts and the car only,it's about how he treats you and makes you feel!I know you know that,but I'm just remindin you!!Hehe! Sounds to me like you're really into the 16-yr-old!Maybe your best to date him,but not make it official for a while.That would give you a chance to really get to know each other good and see how compatible you are,how much you like being together.Then,if you really think it's going great and you feel like you may love him,make it official!!!!BUT,if you think that you have more feelings for the 14-yr-old,then take a chance on it!!Who knows what could happen!But for now,there's nothing wrong with dating around,so long as you're open and honest w/the guys about your feelings and intensions!We can talk more about this on AIM later!! Love Ya Linz!!!XoXo
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Ok i was the gurl about the 6 days relationship and 3 days into it he wanted to..u kno.But i took ur advice and i told him that it was moving too fast.And he excepted it.But here is what i dont get.His friends told me 2 days ago that he liked me and they keep saying he likes u ,Then they say that he doesnt care if i brake up with him!!! What does that sound like to you??I mean he is 2 years older then me.And i dont really know what to think.Do you think i should brake up with him? Or just keep trying to figure out whats going on? I dont know im so confused!And thank you for helping me !! Ur advice is great!
Well,his friends need to stay out of it.This is a relationship between you and John,not between you and his friends!!!!Since we talked on AIM about this,there's no need for me to go into detail here,hehehe!!!But you write me back and/or IM me ANYTIME darlin'!!I'm always here for you!!And I wanna thank YOU for all your sweet comments and compliments!They really mean a lot to me,and sure made my day!!!:) I'll talk to ya soon!!!Take care!!:)
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