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ok . .well i met 2 amazing guys . .one is 16 and one is 14 . .the 16 yr old guy calls me everynight and we talk till like for 6 hours . .and hes always telling me he loves me and stff . . the 14 yr old is realli nice only he lives in new jersey . . only he comes here every week . the 16 yr old guy buys me stuf . . takes me shoppin he even has a job and a car!~
would it b realli bad if i go out with both of them secretly? or would that b sluty? im just so confused cause i realli like them both and there both so nice! i need help . . lol
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No it certainly wouldn't be slutty to date both of them,so long as you make it clear that you are dating another guy!If you really like and care for both of them,you don't wanna lead anyone on or hurt anyone's feelings! Long distance relationships are tough,and it will be especially once school starts again!!So if you don't think you can handle that,it's probably best to just remain friends with him,and speak on the phone or online.From the way you talk,it sounds to me like you really like the 16-yr-old a lot!!!!But remember it doesn't matter about the gifts and the car only,it's about how he treats you and makes you feel!I know you know that,but I'm just remindin you!!Hehe! Sounds to me like you're really into the 16-yr-old!Maybe your best to date him,but not make it official for a while.That would give you a chance to really get to know each other good and see how compatible you are,how much you like being together.Then,if you really think it's going great and you feel like you may love him,make it official!!!!BUT,if you think that you have more feelings for the 14-yr-old,then take a chance on it!!Who knows what could happen!But for now,there's nothing wrong with dating around,so long as you're open and honest w/the guys about your feelings and intensions!We can talk more about this on AIM later!! Love Ya Linz!!!XoXo
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